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long but urgent!!! so please answer!!!


Question Posted Saturday May 17 2008, 10:11 am

i have a problem. Which might explain why im on this site ;]

This might be long...

My 12 year old brother hangs out with this 16 year old named Tyler. Well apparently tyler thinks im the hottest thing since microwave popcorn, which i am perfectly fine with haha :)

heres some problems:

-they live in indiana. Now i live in kentucky but i visit my dad every 6 weeks and during the summer i will be there for 3 weeks. If anything happens it will just be a fling, and im willing to take the chance on getting attatched.

--everyone thinks he is a player because he has a girlfriend and likes me and is interested in me. I dont think he is a player...he could always dump her for me, which dont get me wrong he has a girlfriend im staying away i dont play that game.

---a kid was recently bullying him and he beat him up at a baseball game in self defense and when his brother found out about it he beat the kid so bad they had to take him out in a wheel chair...but that dont make him a bad person...

-----when i heard about the above comment...i began freaking out. I just wanted to reach out to him and hug and comfort him...why??

so if you could just explain all of that for me i would be grateful!! :D

Sorry for the longness once again!!



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prettylol answered Saturday May 17 2008, 11:09 am:
well what i think is if you really like him then go for it.. its your choice!
it cannot mean he's a palyer just because he has a gf already..ppl can be jealous sometimes... maybe he's not happy with the relationship he's having at present????

it sounds like he likes you alot....
but just in case be careful cos if your develope strong feeling for him when you eventally end up going out and he ends up dumping you, you can get hurt...make sure he has genuine feelings and he's not just thinkin u as hot(that is lust).. but if your not looking for a serious commitment this is not going to matter of course....

but i feel the way you've written that you really care about him alot... so yeah, why not show it to him??? i mean why dont you msg him and tell him something like "hey i was really worried about that incident, i hope your doing alright??" or something similar???

you know you sound a bit a like me.. i had a crush with a guy a year ago..and a few months later he got caught a motor cycle accident... when i texted him he told me about it..(he was not seriously hurt) but i ended up crying when i got to know.. and its after that , that i realized i had strong feelings for him.. i think the way i texted back to him made him realize it too.. and he started calling me more and hangin out with me more... and now we're in a successful realtionship and we hope to get married in future


these articles will help you alot if your hoping to get him to fall in love with you...

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GOODLUCK!! :D

TC

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