I had an advice page before and i gave out some advice and really helped people but i never got many people and i hope that i can help out many people here..
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ok well this is the girl that has been talkin about Broc. well last nite at like hmm 1030 he came over with 3 of my other guy friends and we hung out til like 1 this morning. well rite before he left he grabbed my hand & started hugging me then we KISSED & for like the next ten minutes thats all we did was make out. lol so im glad that he made a move & stuff but im leavin tomorrow for 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him & he said he doesnt want me to go but i cant just not go..he told me he had to ask me sumthing tonite before i leave tomorrow morning. wut do u think it could be. i hav ean idea but if hes gonna ask me out idk wut im gonna say... cuz im a big flirt & im afraid i mite do sumthing in hawaii. so i dont want to take the chance of cheatin on him. ya know. wut do u think i should do.. plz respond like before tonite cuz hes coomin over tonite!!!!!!!!!thanx a bunch
kristi (link)
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well we never expected a kiss... but thats great.. but if he asks you out. just remeber what i said. just say that you want to wait til after you get back that way you guys can start the relationship off good and able to see each other.. you dont want to start it with 2 weeks apart. but make sure you tell him you like him and everything! well if ya need me more you know where to find me!
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I talked to my x today...its only been a week since we broke up. He said "sometimes I have the urge to call you and tell you I want you back, but I don't"...it hurts. I miss him so much, and I can't get my mind off of him. I know we're not meant to be together b/c we are two totally different people and want 2 different things...but I really love him, and I want to stay friends it just hurts so much when I talk to him...what do i do? (link)
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the pain isnt going to go away any time soon. you love him and its still really early to think about getting over him. just talk to him and tell him how you feel and that you want to be friends because you dont want to lose him. and tell him everything your feeling. dont hold anything in. tell him its hard on you when you talk because of how you feel and that you dont want to stop talking but that it hurts when he says things like wanting you back but realizing he doesnt. there is no easy way of getting away from the pain. the only way i know that really helps is a lot of ice cream, your best friends, and some movies and an all nighter at your house. it helps just knowing you have someone there to help ya and it takes a lot of your mind. plus they are there to help you out! so just talk to him and have an all nighter with your friends and you will feel a bit better!
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ok well broc has a class with my best friend chantell and they were talkin bout me adn stuff and broc told chantell that when he talks to a girl he likes he gets nervous... so that nite he called me and he was all like " ya i get nervous when i talk to u" so i mean hes given hints that he likes me but idk hes confusing. i also have another problem/. im leavin for 2 weeks on saturday. and ill be in hawaii so its not like we can see each other. what if he asks me out before i leave???? id love for him to ask me out but see im the biggest flirt ever and everytime i go to hawaii i also end up makin out with sumone. so i dont want to like cheat on him or nething u know. and my friend kawika( from hawaii) is setting me up with his bro. so wut do u think i should do if he asks me out befor ei leave????
kristi (link)
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thats easy.. when he asks you out be like dont get me wrong i do like you a lot and everything but im going on vacation and i think it would suck to just start going out with you when im leaving for 2 weeks and we wont be able to see each other. so once i get back and we are able to see each other and talk more i would love to. and he should be perfectly ok with that. if he cant wait 2 weeks then hes not worth having. but just tell him hey im goin on vacation and i think we should just wait til i get back that way we can spend time together and everything and i dont have to be worried about you while im down there i can have fun and relax. he should totally understand and have fun in hawaii.. its beautiful down there.. i want to go so bad
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ok well theres this guy broc and i like him alot. broc's best friend cole and me talk all the time and cole always tells me that broc likes me and that he wants to go out with me, but hes just too shy to say nething. im not the shy kinda grl so i dont care if i have to make the first move or nething, but i dont want to ALWAYS make the first move, ya know. do u think after were together or after ive made sum moves hell loosen up and make sum moves??? cuz i dont want to feel like im doin all the work in the relationship.
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i think after you make the first move and everything he will losen up if not just tell him that hey you need someone that is willing to make some first moves and that he shouldnt have to be shy with you! its great that your not that shy of a girl too.. you need one out going person in the relationship!
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I had a boyfriend and we were together for 9 months..we had sex and I don't think I was ready. I was one of those girls who wanted to stay a virgen until I was married...and now its gone....should I regret it? B/c I feel like I do, but I know there isn't anything I can do about it now... (link)
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ok you say you were together and you had a boyfriend so that must mean your not together anymore. since it already happen you cant drive on the regret. you may have a feeling of regret but theres nothing you can do. the next step you can take tho to feel better or feel less guilt is try to not have sex again until marriage. and try to keep that promise to yourself because you know how it feels now it will feel like that again if you dont think your ready..once your married you will know your ready and there wil be no regret! just try waiting and make that promise to yourself. you can do it! just believe in yourself!
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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entering middle school i would stay single at first and make sure you get to know people first. its a big change from elementary school. just wait a little while until you find someone you really like! dont rush into dating...you have your whole life so while your young just have fun!
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Hey y'all, Newayz im going out with this guy named Damion, and we've been dating for about a year and he likes to talk about other gurls in front of me and i dont really trust him. I truley think he is cheating on me, but i also love him to pieces,and i kno he loves me alot to and i jus cant give up on him because we already been through alot. Got any suggestions?? (link)
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its nice to just ask him straight out if he is or not and tell him exactly how you feel. sometimes its the best way to go. and don't let your love for him blind you. make sure you truely think hes cheating on you. and try to gain some trust for him once you know hes NOT cheating on you. trust is really important in a relationship. without it your paronoid and it ruins things. hope i helped!
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what does it mean when you ask someone what's their sign?{{try to be descriptive please}} (link)
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usually it means the astrological (spelling may be wrong) sign like your horoscope sign. people wanna know each other's sign sometimes to check like compatibility charts and everything. it all goes by when your birthday is. if you want to know your sign just type in horoscope on yahoo or google and it will help you!
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i'm a girl and i want this guy to be my boyfriend..what do i do?
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easy.. tell him how you feel.. and hope he feels the same. or there are other ways like asking friends of his and everything but the easiest way is just to tell him and have a nice talk to him about everything your feeling..i wanted a guy to be my boyfriend and i just came right out and told him and everything and i found out he likes me too and now we are basically together.. we are just waiting to get to know each other better.. the straight forward approach is the best way to go!
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i need advice..i'm a guy..and i think girls are weird..what do i do? (link)
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ok girls are weird... yes im a female and i have to admitt girls are totally unexplainable to almost all males!! so if you think girls are weird most guys do its normal.. you will grow up a little bit and mature later on in life and girls will become a part of your every day life!
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OK um so there is this girl i lyk nd she just graduated in mi skool..there is an age difference...lyk a year lol..so i lyk her but i already ahv a girlfrned nd she's a lil more mature than me i guess ...nd so i just had a realy confusing dream that we went out..so wut should i do?? (link)
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well you already have a girlfriend but if your having feelings for other girls you should be honest with your girlfriend. also if your still in high school it would hard having a relationship with someone that already graduated but if you think you really like her i would talk to her and see how she feels. but take into consideration that you already have a girlfriend who i hope you care a lot about if your with her. weigh out who would be better for you and who you like more. you dont want to regret anything in the end.
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yeah well.. i really like this kid an we are sposta play spin the bottle an 7 minz of heven an the problem is i dunno how to make-out/ french an im scurd cuz i dont want him to think imma loser cuz i dunno how to.. can someone help??
14/f/ny-verry confused
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ok here is some help.. kissing comes naturally.. i was nervous my first time majorly nervous you should have seen me.. my boyfriend was starting to think i didnt want to be with him.. but kissing is a natural thing it just happens.. once you start kissing it all just comes to you.. its natural! so dont sweat it! it will be ok!
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Well theres this guy and i have liked him for over 4 years...we dated in jr.high and now were in HS...i thought i would never get another chance with him...but lately things have changed, we both like eachother and want a relationship but theres a prob...he still has a GF, he hasnt seen her in like 4 weeks and the last time they talked was like a week ago (shes having fam probs), he told her about us and she wasnt too happy, he wants to break up with her but hasnt had the chance...shes my friend (well i think so idk now?!)...and i still wana be friends and be with him too....so what should i do?...forget about him & stay cool with her?...or stay with him n not be friends with her? (link)
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i've wrestled with this type of question before and here is what i think.. first i say you should talk to your friend and see how she feels. explain to her exactly how you feel and if she isnt ok with it then i wouldnt go for the guy. a friend last forever but guys just come and go... if that friend is truely a friend then it should always be friends before boyfriends. but if she doesnt mind make sure you take some time before hooking up with the guy that way its not so painful. and if you do get together dont talk constantly about him to her because its gonna hurt her. i hope i helped...
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