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i meen i really want a boyfriend but i guess im can be picky about who i like , some of my friends will go out with sum 1 that they have very little feelings for but i want to go out with some i really lik e but i dont liek anyone in my shcool and theres jsut no one thats i liek yet i jsut wish i would find him is this ok should i look harder be less picky or will i find him

whenever your ready there will be that one guy that you will juss fall head over heals for trust me. Its not juss gonna happen but untill that day comes look around and explore you cant expect the BEST cuz no one is perfect. Give someone a chane im sure there is a cute sweet guy somewhere out there who you can give a chance to! good luck i hope i helped =]

x0x fatiima

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ok my bestfriends is always in trouble and i cant go see my boyfriend with out her like i can but shes like i dont want any1 meeting him cz their related..right but i was supposed to go see him friday but now she juss called and said she may be moving bcz she juss screwed up with her mom ONCE AGAIN!!..i rly need to see him tho...should i go without her or juss wait cz i kno shes totally grounded 4 halloween!

well..he is YOUR boyfriend, you should talk to her and say "since you cant go see him with me, im gonna havta go by my self beucase i want to see MY boyfrend". and if she has a problem with it juss say well i cant be waiting around for you to get out of trouble i need to see him! thats what i would do because its not your fault shes always in trouble so why should you be punished for what she did? i hope i helped=]

x0x fatiima

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ok my boyfriend will leave me messages and at the end of them hell tell me he loves me...and then when i call him back or watever or in person he wont say it....like i wrote i love u on his hand one day cuz we wer messin around and he just smiled....im so confused why wont he say it to me in person or on the fone but hell say it in messages?

aww hes prolly really shyy...let him know that he doesnt have to be embarrassed around you and try to make him feel comfortable. He'll get over it soon enuff.

x0x..fatiima

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My last boyfriend and I used to call each other *all* the time. I really like my current boyfriend but I'm way to shy to call him! I'm always scared he'll be busy or something and that I will look stupid.

aww hunn i have had that same problem before. Try calling him with a frend on 3 way so that you dont feel lonely lol. Or tell him to call you like after school go up to him and say "call me after school or something so you dont feel like your doing everything lol.i hope i helped!

x0x fatiima

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hey, well, about a year ago, this random guy IMed me, and he and I have become good friends after that. Well, his name is Will. And when we first started talking, he had a g/f.I started to like him a lot, and his g/f absolutely hated me. She kept thinking that I would take Will away from her.Ever since she started thinking that, I tried to stay away.(getting new s/n and never talking to them again)Well, he ended up finding my new sn, and I just let it go, and we started talking again. His g/f finally asked me my # so we could three way. So, I let in and gave it to her.We started talking all the time after that. And just recently they broke up. While they were going out, I had a b/f. And then he dumped me after about 3 months.(that was the 2 time we went out)Well,Will called me about a week ago, and told me that he was so happy that he and his g/f broke up.and then he told me that he really liked me.Well...i got anothe b/f, let's call him "JC", and he's my friends ex-b/f. now she's all pissed at me. one day i was talking to Will's friend. and now Will's friend keeps saying to dump JC and go out with him.so now, Will and his friend are mad at each other, and i feel like it's my fault. So, Will called me last night and said " what if i figured out your address?" and i got kinda scared. cause, i know how dangerous it could be.What am i supposed to do?! Will and his friend are mad at each other, and my friend is pissed at me,and Will has my address. Please help. And sorry it's so long.
-jena

wow thats pretty scary but i wouldnt worry to much because he didnt actually say he had it. It was sort of a threat or something. I think that you shouldnt talk to him anymore and ignore his calls beucase he could be dangerous. He could have planned this whole thing and he may be dangerous. So please be carefull. What ever you do dont post your adress on ANYTHING on the interenet cuz he could find it that way too. Just stay away from him and make sure your frends know what he said to you so they are aware and they dont give him your adress. All i can say is juss be careful and the next time you make an online frend, dont get too close.

x0x..Fatiima

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OK on Friday I'm going to my boyfriends away game. His mom is driving me there with her and I know im going to be so nervous. I dont want to say anything thats going to make me look stupid, but I know im going to end up doing that.. I always do. I was just wondering if you guys had any adivce on what I should do to be less nervous or not say anything dumb that I'll regret. Thanks SO much!!

Try to sound calm, just be yourself and act like nothing is bothering you. If you say anything dumb try to cover it up but laughing or something and when you talk to her look her straight in the eyes so she knows your not scared.

x0x fatiima

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okay here it goes... my friend is goin out with this guy that she really likes and he just is devoted to her (so she tells me). i've heard from his best friend that he is just goin out with her for the looks and poularity that comes along with her. I dont want to hurt her feelings by asking her but i dont want her to get hurt eaither. I dont like him mutch, i mean hes really mean to me and i think she deserves better. What do i do? HELP!!!!

you really need to talk to her about what you heard. Try to put it in a nice way and if you cant you juss have to remind yourself that your doing it for her and if you dont say anything than she mite find out the hard way. Its best if you juss let her know what you heard. She defineltley deserves someone better.
x0x fatiima

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