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HeY eVerYoNe! Im Paris Marie and im from the *Golden State* of California.. I love to surf, lay out in the sun, play softball n volleyball, and cheer..>~Im An AspiRinG AcTrEsS~< I also love to help people and im here for anyone that needs advice! StAts: HaiR* BloNde* EyEs: *bLuE* HeIghT: *5'4* **my scanner is still broke..
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Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him Bob. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i cant say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!
x0x signed confused n depressed
Confused and Depressed,
You obviously felt love for this person, the feeling that cannot be explained through words other than perfect.. No matter what you do or how much you try to forget about him, memories always come back and make you want more..Think of why he broke up with you first.. What happened in your relationship to make it not work? Age difference is not a factor, so you dont have to worry about that.. This is an on again off again kind of situation, And with him going away it doesnt make it any easier on you to feel for him; If you have feelings for this guy, you need to do something about it.. None of this on again off again stuff because it loses touch and time that you two could be spending together! He told you he had feelings for you and you have feelings for him, so you 2 have to make this relationship work and be strong and healthy.. It sounds like you 2 are good friends and thats the best way to make a relationship..No one can ever compare to your first love..(if hes the first person youve felt like that before with) and the feelings wont go away without time.. If you like him and your willing to put your trust in him giving him the power to destroy you but trusting him enough that he wont; then this guy is obviously worth it and you should go through with him..Dont lose touch with him, thats whats ruining the bond between you too.. Good Luck, i hope everything works out well..
Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?!
all friends should kind of have an instinct that your friends ex boyfriends are OFF limits.. it just causes chaos..You need to confront her.. tell her like it is.. You still have feelings for him, and it must kill you to see someone else with him.. Tell her that you still have feelings for him, and you guys really didnt get a chance to be "officially over" your friend is the one who is supposed to be there to critisize your ex when you see him with another girl; Shes not supposed to be the one with your ex.. Dont stop being friends with her necessarily.. If she doesnt respect your opinion.. Then next time she has a guy she likes.. you go for him and see if she likes it.. Hope everything works out..
well ok. this is gunna sound stupid at some parts! but im soo mad at my boyfriend becuz in his AIM info it says..
Jackie- Your Awesome Gurl-Very Sexy
Nina- Your a Great Girl- Very Sexy
Brad- Sexiest Mofo Alive- Very Very VERY sexy!
Rachael- (shes my best friend btw) Your Pretty Kool- Very Sexy
Heather- Your Good To Talk To- Sexy
then at the very very very bottom of his info which is like 9348 spaces down.. says
Amy- I Love You- Very Very Sexy
I told him it makes me mad when he has these chicks in his info.. like callen em sexy n stuff and he responded with a " im allowed " it made me SO mad, as u can tell im a very jealous girlfriend, i jus dunno what ta do.. Please help!! I need it.. (*i rate high*)
AMy*
Hun you are not jealous you are doing what every female in her right mind would do if she saw that in her boyfriends profile.. If i had a b/f and that was in his profile.. i would be VERY upset.. If hes going to treat you like that, you can do much better Amy..Its good that you told him how you felt.. If you want to stay with him, then retaliate; Put guys in your info ( i know it sounds childish) but give him a dose of his own medicine and see if he likes it.. And if he doesnt get the point then obviously hes not worth your time and your feelings.. I dont really know maybe hes just insecure about relationships and he wants to have a backup if yours fails.. Dont give your feelings to someone who wont give them back.. I hope everything works out; and if it doesnt, Like we say here Theres plenty of surfers in the bay;)
It's Kevin1986 here with a problem and a couple of questions. I'm friends with two guys,let's say D and J. J used to go out with a girl that I'm very close with,but not dating,although I'd like to. He's pretty obessive,talking about her all the time. Anyway,D used to like her too and they almost went out,but they had a falling out. About a year ago,a new guy,M,goes out with her. I don't care about M and neither do they. J and D want me to tell M that the girl he's going out with is a headtrip because their relationships with her didn't work. I say,it's his bed and it's job to determine whether his girl is crazy or not. I say D and J want me out of the way so they can get her,because I know she'd hate me forever if I tried to break up her relationship. Since I care about her,I want her to be happy even if it's not with me. Your thoughts on this issue? P.S I never really considered telling M this,but I want your opinions on what the real story is.
I think that if D & J have feelings about it, they should be the ones telling M, not you.. Even though you are their friend, its not worth getting into and having your friend thats a girl and your close to get hurt..I basically think the same way as you do, its for the guy to find out..He can learn his own lesson just as D & J did and maybe it will be different for M.. Most likely not; but you never know.. Just be supportive for the girl, and if i were you i wouldnt say anything.. just let things take happen as fate would... Hope everything works out
Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna
Dont read the wrong signs, best friends are supposed to do that kind of stuff... HE has a g/f and you dont want jump to conclusions and get involved in that.. My best friend has a girlfriend 2, we always talk n hang out he hugs me and hes always there for me.. BUT ITS JUST A FRIEND THING.. i hope everything works out..
me and my boyfriend have been going on out for 9 months now, and we recently broke it off for about 2 weeks and i had the time of my life..but we got back together because i know i love him and dont want to be without him..but the fun i was having was gone..now hes been gone for 2 weeks and once again ive been back to having tons of fun..idk what does this mean? what should i do..
If you love something let it free, if it comes back then its meant to be.. That sayings not always true... Maybe its a better idea just to break off for a while just so you know that its good to be with that person..9 months is a long time for a relationship and your probably having lots of fun when hes gone because your used to feeling subjected to one person and with him not being there you feel that you are free and able to be with lots of other people.. It could mean that you just want to experience some other things before you go back to him.. You spent 9 great months with him, and maybe that was enough.. To make sure that it was you should get away for awhile and experience other things.. And if you 2 were really meant to be.. things will work back together.. Good luck, i hope everything works out.. HAve fun in the meantime though!;)
(im 14 by tha way)Okay three years ago i met this guy..i went crazy for him..we went out for 3 months n i found out he had played me when i was on vaca. well i dumped him..then we went out fer another month or so n broke up again..because i had found out he had tried to play me with my friend hannah! well tha year after that i irnored him completly..i couldnt stand him afta everything he put me through..well he went to a different school tha rest of tha year. then just last school u he was back..at first i wouldnt talk to him then i cracked. we went out fer a week n broke up then went out fer 2 months n broke up again. After that we had gotten in fights didnt talk fer a few weeks started to talk again got REALLY close..that just kept happening tha last 4 months of school. Well then my dream came true he asked me to go with him to our 8th grade dance. I was sooo happy n excited! well a day b4 tha dance i asked him if we were still on fer tha dance n he said "sure...but..im guna hang out n dance with other girls!" i got so mad! so i decided last minute to tell him i was going with sum friends..at that dance he came up hugged me n said u look sooo good tonight! i think he was wanting me to say aww thanks dance with me!! but instead i said yeah i know! n just kinda pushed him away...i felt so great!!! him n my bff have been on n off fer tha past year and a half. Right now she is totally crazy for him. and i know he is just going to end up hurting her again but newayz they talk on ths phone all tha time n she was on tha phone with him tha other day when i was over n he was calling me a b*itch (dont know if we can swear on this website?ol) skut hoe n stuff...i got sooo mad..then every so often he would ask my bff "did she say nething bout me yet??!" he is sucha jerk..and i know hes just doing that becausee i dont like him..but he also left me to really nasty msg's on my cell phone. i want to say sumthing but im not sure because this fall he is going to tha same highschool as me and i dont want to have any trouble! what should i do?!!?!? plz help thanx! xo0ox!!
This guy is obviously not over you.. he wants your attention and you did the RIGHT thing by not taking up to his player habbits.. once a player.. ALWAYS a player.. You need to straighten things out with him though, make a truce and if hes gunna be a jerk about it an talk behind your back, then just ignore him.. i know you dont wanna start trouble.. i think it is very low of him to talk to your bff and i hope she stands up for you when he talks about u.. HE WANTS YOUR ATTENTION, do not give him any reason to believe your gunna give it back (thast exactly what he wants!) Talk to him tell him you want to keep things on the same page and if he gets dumb about it, he needs to grow up and move on with his life..Hope i helped.. Highschool is the best time! Good luck
r u tan and wat do u use to get tan if u r tan?!
lol yes im tan.. when i lay out i use the Banana Boats Dark Tanning Oil to get darker.. and if i want to get burned(which eventually turns into tan) i use baby oil and iodine (a mixture) and when i burn i put skim milk on my skin to soothe the burn.. Have Fun in the sun!!!
I love to dance..a lot..i do ballet ..pointe shoe...and i do tap, but i have another passion..i love to act and do commercials. when i was younger i audtionend for an agent and got one, i then was on sesame street..for a couple of years and i did comercials. but when i was 6 or 7... i had to quit. now tht i am at a higher age i want to enroll in that type thing...but i do to much dancing, and my mom is making me choose ..what do i do?
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I know how you feel with acting.. ive been doing it since i was a baby.. A thing with it is though, it is much easier to open the door for acting when you are younger.. dancing will get you verrry far.. it seems like you are into it alot.. choosing seems very hard because you have a passion for both.. (*~performing arts*~) acting and dancing are much alike.. stick with dancing if you do it alot, you have a very good chance, you portray something when you dance so therefore youre basically acting while dancing.. goOd LucK
ok me and this guy..we will call him peter were like best friends until it started being more. well he stopped talking to me and when i asked him about it he said it was because he fell for me and didnt wanna ruin our bro/sis relationship.. so i told him how did he kno that i didnt feel the same way and such. so i guess you could say we were "talking" after that but that just led to him not talking to me aGaIn! its like he just picks these random moments where he stops talking to me and im tired of it! well this is one of those times right now except i know he doesnt feel the same way about me anymore but i cant help it i still like him alot! its like everytime i try to meet someone new i know i will just compare them to him. what should i do! i still want us to be friends but i know once we are i will just want to be more again..
ItS goOd tHat U 2 are friends.. and i understand that either of you didnt wanna ruin the bro/sis relationship.. i think he is basically in denial over this whole thing.. ThIs has to be compleltly frustrating how he never talks to you at random points.. when he does this you need to get ahold of him and talk to him.. get through to him if you are close he will listen.. and by doing this he will see how much you care*TrY nOT to read the wrong signs when your around him it could hurt you.. just play it natural around him any things will eventually work out.. TALK TO HIM.. TELL HIM HOW IT UPSETS you when he doesnt talk to you and leads you on kinda..
HoPe I HeLpEd... GoOd LucK
hey ok i like this guy alot..i have for a while. he lives next door to me. the other day my friend chelse asked for his sn and gav it to her bff sam. sam took it and started talking to him, sent him her pic and now he likes her and she likes him altho she has a bf. he said that if they break up he'll go out with her. sam and him always talk about eachother to me. like he is so nice/hot w.e im so sick of it. i dont no what to do... :( help!
thanks love youu*
yOuR tHe gIrL nExT dOoR LoL! iN moVies ThE guY uSuaLLy eNdS uP goInG 4 yOu! but this isnt a movie... they might just be saying all this stuff to you to make you jealous.. dont let it happen.. act like it doesnt bother you.. he will admire that in you and if this sam girl has a boyfriend she shouldnt be involved with another guy.. you should warn your neighbor that if she does this with you.. think of what shell do to him.. i know your going to be upset for a lil but it seems like your doing good.. and IF IT REALLY BOTHERS YOU when they talk about eachother to you just say ohh thast nice.. act careless.. they will get the hint sooner or later! gOoD LuCk!
I need some help here!!! im 13 years old.. but i really like this boy Frank z!!!.......... he's 18 :( and my brother just passed away, and he has been there all the way for me.. telling me we'll get threw it together and stuff we don't 'do it' lol! were just people who do like to cuddle for hours watchin kim possible or something, we make out too!! but nothing past that, he doesn't want to!! and neither am i!! but i just don't know what to do.. i mean like he is 5 years older than me, mu mom... it doesn't really bother her, cause she trusts the both of us, and she likes frankiie a lot!! he is a really sweet guy! but we all have to like hide it from my dad. cause he would kick frankies ass :/ i really don't know what to doo.. can you pleaseee help me???? thanksss *~>> LIZAAA!!!! :)
You can tell your head one thing, but your heart will do its own...IT seems like this FraNk is very special to you.. EvErYoNe will tell you to be careful and you have too.. hEaRtBrEaK is NO fun and hopefully you know frank enough that he wont try to use you and take advantage of you.. I dont think age is a huge difference...if you have feelings for the person and you feel yourself around them.. (*~pRICeLeSS~*)---yOuR dAd iS bEinG rEaSonAble... he cares for you and doesnt want anythInG to HAPpEN to HiS DauGhTer..yOu HaVe tO uNdErStAnd iF hE gEtS maD!
*Im very sorry about your brother* best of luck
*PaRIs MarIE*
~#rAtE mE#~
ok well theres this girl that i've been inlove with since like 7th grade now im goin into 11th well we r friends now and we've gone through so much 2gether and we almost went out so many times but something always gets in the way she said she liked me a number of times but shes confused and she said she doesnt want to ruin our friendship she has gone out with 2 of my friends n both times i warned her about them and told her she would get hurt but she wouldnt listen and both times she ended up getting hurt i really like her alot and i would do anything 4 her i've tryed everything and im good friends with all of her friends, we always have fun when we hang out and stuff and she invites me over sometimes 4 dinner and stuff and i hang out with her and her family her mom and everyone loves me but still she wont go out with me what can i do i dont uunderstand why she wont go out with me she even said she liked me im so confused
If she said she liked you, then obviously she has feelings for you.. maybe they arent the same kind of feelings that you have for her.. i think she feels that she really likes you but she doesnt wanna loose you if u 2 were 2 get into a relationship.. i think your doing the right thing so keep it up.. dont ever, ever give up on something you love... *good luck*
Ok, there's this guy who I met through my friend. She had a sweet 16th B-day party, and this guy was invited. I think he is her cousin's best friend. Anyway, I haven't seen him since the party, but lately, we started IMing on the computer. I got the screename from my friend. And he sent me all these emails telling me that he likes me. I like him back and we both wanna be in a relationship. The only problem is, my friend likes him to. He's told her that he only likes her as a friend and she knows this. I told her about everything and she says she doesn't mind and she thinks it's cute that we like each other and everything. I just don't know if it's right. Should I go out with him? I'm sooooooooooo confused. Lol. Thanx a bunch.
Btw, I'm a 15 y/o female.
iVe BeEn iN thE saME sitUation before.. my friend got very upset with me and then got over it.. what your friend is seeming to understand is that the guy likes you and not her... i know you might feel like your doing your friend wrong but sometimes you gotta think about yourself sometimes too.. if he likes you and u like him then try it out.. remember to stay close with your friend she will always be there and guys come and go.. but i think you should go for this guy..