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Hi

I have a question about guys who wink.
When a guy winks at you, does it mean he likes you as more than a friend.?

The reason I ask is because I got winked at by a guy and then I later found out he is married.

I've also been winked at in different ways. Some guys wink really fast and smile in front of others, and other guys wink at me really slow when no one else is looking.

I've been winked at since I was about 13 and now I"m 27. I'm really curious what it means.

sincerely
buzzie
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well...maybe your wearing a white shirt and you have a black bra on..lol..

its a wink...if its not ur black bra take it as a compliment and do something!


mwahss!!!!

x3 asher puff


Well I have some boyfriend but I really want to have one. But I don't want to ask anyone else also I dont want to look like a fool.
So if anyone can Help me please reply (link)
umm explain pweasee :)


Okay. Well I recently got back together with my ex. He asked me back out and said he had missed me and all of this stuff. And that he was happy we were back together. He was all like, "I regret breaking up with you." Lalala.. You get the picture. Well, now that we're back together... he never calls or anything. He has a cell phone, he could call any time he wasn't busy (which he is a lot... he juggles work and school and the crap his parents make him do.) Well what I don't understand is... if she cares about me the way he says he does... wouldn't he at least call sometime??? or I mean, geez... I dunno. I'm just confused. Is he secretly trying to say, "Hey, I don't think this is gonna work?" or do all boys do this? Lol (link)
well its hard to say...
i dated this guy timmy who was like all yeah ima kawl and then broke up with me a week later...but hey he could have gotten back together with you beacuse he felt sorry n awl...but it could just beacuse he is busy...

advice:

talk to him!

*mwah*

x3 asher puff!!


13/f Okay..for the girls you may know what I'm feeling here..

Well do any of you other girls ever really want a boyfriend? Well that's the way I'm feeling..I mean lately I just feel..ugly. I mean no guys at school like me and today a few guys asked me out but I know(at least I think) that they were kidding. And in a few weeks I will be going to Cedar Point with my friend for her birthday and she's bringing two of her guy friends. She's saying that me and her guy friends would make such "cute couples" but I don't know..With my luck, they probably won't like me.

I don't know..I guess I'm just really self-concious about this..When I look at other girls, they are so pretty and it makes me feel like I'm as ugly as dirt.

And all of my friends think I'm pretty but I don't. I think I'm fat and that I'm totally unattractive.

If you need to look, I'm about to go upload a picture of myself onto my advice column

Does anyone know why I'm feeling this way? I understand that it's probably hormones but..

Thanks in advance for any helpful advice. (link)
heyy i know whtchya mean like when i was 13 (around two years ago) i felt like really ugly and w.e but if you have enough confiendce like i did guys will love you! and you know i doubt your ugly...you just need a boost of confiendce..and if you pray to god and beleive with your wholest heart that you will one day find that guy ( soon) you will! just like i did when i was 13...and me and my bf have been datin ever since then...HoPe I HElPEd!!



18/female

Me and this guy have been friends for like over a year now and i have had a huge crush on him. I have told him about and left it at that. We are always hanging out. He tells me more stuff then he has ever told anyone. He is like a best friend to me. He flirts all the time with me and he is always holding my hand and cuddling with me but then he always is saying that he just wants to be friends well he dont act like it at all and he has gone out with my best friend and after she dumped him i started getting closer she tells me its fine and we talk all about it but i just think i need more advice everyone says he likes me but then he does the same exact stuff to other gurls and im just really confused about it if he does like me what should i do? please i need your help (link)
give it time..maybe hes not ready for a commitment..mayb yawl arejuss really good friends..but dont like hav sex with him for that reason..i mean just dont let things get to far


14/f .. would you consider it cheating if someone else kissed you but you weren't the one who kissed them? (link)
no..its not your fault...you should explain to your bf what happend..if he really loves you hell understand

well hope i helped! mwahhsss!



what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle... (link)
you need to trust your girlfriend...geremey i mean isnt it you the one who wanted her to trust you...try talking to ashley she loves you and you know she wouldnt do that to you



My boyfriend is getting back from his 3 week trip to Texas & when he gets back, I want to do something special for him. What can I do to show that I missed him & that I'm really glad he's back? (link)
make him a hand made card..use constuction paper and such and GLITTER...use imagination
and by him a watch or something !!!!



(FOR THE LADIES)
What could a guy do to get your attention and make you feel like the most special girl in the world? (link)
okk this isnt minee but i thouhgt it myte help

28 ways to make a girl smile

1 . Tell her she is beautiful
2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second.
3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5 . Always tell her you love her at any and all times.
6 . When she is upset hold her tight and tell her how much
she means to you.
7 . Recognize the small things . . . they usally mean the most.
8 . Call her sweety and baby.
9 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
10 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
11 . loWrite her notes. {she loves them}
12 . Introduce her to friends as your girlfriend.
13 . Play with her hair.
14 . Pick her up, tickle her and play-wrestle with her.
15 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
16 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes.
17 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just
because you missed her.
18 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
19 . Carve your names into a Tree.
20 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.
21 . Give her piggyback rides.
22 . Bring her Flowers just because.
23 . Treate her the same around your friends as you do when
your alone.
24 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
25 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
26 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
27 . Kiss her in the rain.
28 . If your in love with her . . . Tell her.


my bf got me a promise ring..if your like 15 and upp soo yeahh if you are do that

well mwahsss



Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\
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no...you dont ever actually ever noe what love is..you do eventually but that doesnt come till later..but all you can do is hope to god and pray that it is..,and it maybe and i know he seems freaky and psycho but you just need to let him in...

well love yas
mwahs


sry for the length but i need help!

ok i like this guy we'll call him "joe" we me and joe talked in the past about going out and i screwed it up now i reallly like him but im afraid to tell him b/c im scared to death of rejection b/c i've never really had to deeal with it.. every guy i liked turned out to like me and tell me they liked me b4 i told them i liked them and they lasted for like 2 years all of them...

and Joe is one of my best friends and i like him so much im willing to risk our friendship to try this out but i talked to Joe about everything like boyz and he tells me about girls and well he likes like 4 girlz ... im just so confused...can any1 give me any advice??


again sry for the length
i'll rate high!!! (link)
well i know this is hard, ive been through the same..but in life you cant just stand around and hope something will go along love myte be a mistake..but dont you think its worth it..imagin how bad ur gonna feel if you see him with another girl? at least try girl because in life you may regret what you do, but youll regret what you dont do more...

you cant live it safe.because then youll never live.

hoped i helped..
mwahhss byess


my friends are always getting the guys. ill plainly say that. i am pretty, or at least everyone thinks i am, and i personally think i have a great personality. i flirt, i try to act interested but the guys always seem to go for my freinds, even if it seems they are flirting with me, or like me. i mean, i have so much more to offer than my freinds. im going to a an art school for painting, i play the guitar, the piano and the drums, i am the life of the party, i paint, i write, i compose. but it seems that my freinds, who personaly i think are...i hate to use the word...posers(even though we arnt goth or anything, they just think they know art when they, exuse my french, dont know shit). but sometimes i wonder, am i just to mature, should i wait to find a guy, or for someone to find me? i just feel that people will give me a second look, but not want to waste their time or energy on a third. im really sorry if this question had no point. and im sorry for wasting you tome reading it. but can anyone help me get out of this shadow? (link)
your not in the shadow ur just in the dark, the guy will come you just have to be patient, maybe your trying to hard..play hard to get..dont act so intrested..gys like a challenge..you just have to belive that it ill happen and it will..i mean i felt the same way you did ever since i was like 9 and then last summer i met this guy..cory.AND WE ARE STYLL DATING..just beause ur "friends" have bfs now doesnt mean anything that only means that youll get a better one thats not a jerk..well mwahss byeess

hoped i helped



I just dumped my boyfriend, and I feel really bad about it, but I had to. I never see him because Im so busy with things this summer, and he got his computer and cell phone taken away. I dont have time for him and I knew it was time to let it all go. My problem now is, I think im in love with my ex boyfriend again. Sometimes I can tell that his feelings for me are mutual (my first ex) and I dont know if theres a way I can be with my first ex, without making my new ex entirely too jealous. Part of me dumped my boyfriend because I still have feelings for the other one. Now I dont know how to go about being with him, without the other one being extremely mad at me. (link)
heyy well ur really sweet to be thinking about the boy youve just dumped but you have to move on..ur ex will just relize that it wasnt ment to be, and you need to relize that sumtimes in life your gonna hurt people, but you kant just let people control you, if he really loved you anyways hed just want you to be happy, muchh lovvee,

AsHeR!!!




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