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ok so im a 13 year old girl and theres this guy at my school. hes name is kyle. hes sooo cute but he can be a little , lets call it, childish. hes my best freind in the whole world but i like him more than a freind. we'v been freinds for about 2 years or so and we tell each other everything. i realy like kyle but im not sure if he likes me the same way i like him. and im to scared to talk to him about it. so what do i do?
-->mandy (link)
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i know this is hard, but you need to tell him.. you may not have to go up to him and say i like you, but flirt with him, let him know that you want to be more than his friend..wear really cute clothes and make sure he notices you in a different way. i hope i helped* xoxo
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Hey..I need help!- -there is a new years party that i was invited to and i really want to go..i want to go because all my friends are allowed to go..and my b/f is gonna be there..i also want to see my b/f really bad because i invited him out tomorrow night, but hes going to be out of town with his family, so we cant do that! but anyways, my parents wont let me go to the party..becuz its a new years party, and ive offered my mom to talk to her mom..but she says no..and i even asked if i could get a ride with one of my friends there..cause my mom said she doesnt like driving on new years eve..so this sucks..they say no to everything in the first place, so i really wanted to go this for once. and plus they arent gonna have drinking there..my parents were concerned about that..omg..we are 13! were not gonna go get drunk..ughh its so gay..but please give me sum advice on how to ask my mom..and please dont say talk to her about it..because i already have..so yea..thanks for ur help- - (link)
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well ask your mom WHY NOT and then put "holes" in her answers liek you said, i can get a ride there because there are drunks on the road. you could sneak over there. not something you probobly want to do, but it can be done just say your going to one of your friends house who isnt going to the party. and then go over there. or you can suck up lol. do chores anything and prove to her that you are responsible to go to a party even thought its not drinking or anything. are your parents really strict lol? well i hope i helped a lil. - -
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My father died about 3 years ago and now I am going out with this boy that is a lot like him...is that a bad thing? I mean I love him but he is just...a lot like my dad! Am I being stupid going out with him or is it like a bad ideas or something? I have these feelings like he is going to leave me, but I thought that maybe that is just because my dad "left" me...I don't know...I'm confusing...I know! But I would really like any help I can get!thanks! (link)
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um if i were you i wouldnt like to go out with someone who reminded me of my dad for that reason and because if you like kiss him... well and you think about your dad, um eww. anyways it might be a bad idea that you two go out because if he leaves, you might get real depressed and act like your dad is leaving you again. hope i helped - -
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alright.. My boyfriend was saying goodbye over the internet and he said I love you so much and i said i love you more & i'll see you tomorrow & then he said "in that we must agree to disagree." what does that mean?
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um maybe he sent it to the wrong im? or maybe he had to do something that day and you forgot but agree to disagree means like he is nt going to see you tomorrow.. but im confused why he would say that. hope i helped - -
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ok.this is a pretty long story so sorry.
heres the basic information
Theres this guy named daniel,we first met at the mall. and then i found out that he went to my school and stuff. so we started talking more and more on aim. and we became like the best of friends ever. and i could already tell from there that i completely was going to be in love with him. because little things would get us both completely jealous. so we just started hagning out more and more. and every time we got a little but more flirty. and it was fun and all. but then like. i told him how i felt about him and it turned out he felt the same. then from there we were unseperable. but its weird we both knew we were completely in love with each other. but we just remained the greatest friends. he was soo adorable. he would do anything to make me happy. then soon i really dont know what happened. one night he askeed me who i liked. bc in my profile it had said "single, but completely in love with him" so of course i thought he was kidding bc the only person i told i love you to was him. so i just thought he wanted to be like reasured that i liked him. so then i said i tell you everyday who i love..its you. and hes like i love you too. and i would do anything for you. and you treat me really good and i just want to make you happy. so i thought ok maybe hes going to ask me out. and then all of a sudden he just says. but i dont think it will work out. i know. complete shocker. but he was like i love our friendship we have and i dont know what i would do if we broke up. so i think we should remain great friends. of course hearing that. i was hurt. cause as many times as he told me he loved me. i guess he really didnt mean it like i did. but i cryed alot then. cause i knew things werent going to be the same. and i couldnt believe he actually told me i love you but we need to be friends. but heres the point. now we barely talk, and when we do he just teases me. and i use to think it was cute. now its just completely annoying. and he just doesnt get it that i dont like it.and its defintaly not the same anymore. were not as good friends as before. and i want to change that completely. i want him to be able to talk to me about everything again, and be the one he can joke with, and stuff. i love him to death. as friends of course. and i really need his friendship. but he just seems to not give it to me. and i really need help to get him back as being at least a regualr friend again. anything will help.rank 5 for any advice (link)
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well i know this is hard, but you need to tell him that you are over him. even if your not. at least that gets the weirdness out of the way so you guys can be friends again. if he doesnt want to be more than friends you need to move on and find someone else to like. it might take a while but at least you'll have him as a friend. - - hope i helped
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hey im 14 and well my mom doesnt really let me go out shes very picky and i was wondering if maybe anybody knows ways to go out with out making it obvious. (link)
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im going to grandma's...im going to the library...im staying after school i wont be home until later, im staying at a friends house- - hope i helped
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okay is it wrong to be so outgoing? i mean when im with my group of friends boys and girls.ill be one of the boys..im always the one making jokes and talk with attitude.but sometime i feel i should slow down be more reserved and sweet.becouse even tough im friendly n outgoing my girlfriends seems to be getting all the boys.why? i need advice badly becouse im in love with one guy he doesnt know about it.so i dont want 2 mess things up this time. i dont want to look like a clown.pls help. (link)
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well sometimes when your very outgoing all the time, you tend to be like " one of the boys" and the guys notice you, but as a friend and to get him to notice you, ask the oppisite, that always attracts attention hope i helped - -
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my boyfriend and i have been together three months,, it was going great untill he started hanging out with this one guy who i'll call Mikey, well i dont really like mikey, he creeps me out, and i told my boyfriend this and he said i was over reating.. well last week i wanted to see my boyfriend and mikey made sure that chris didnt leave him behind.. so he went with us to the mall, well we were with another couple and we decided to go back to my house.. mikey (for unknown reasons) didnt want to go, and makes my boyfriend want to stay with him and not be with me.. (me and chris live and hour away from each other and him and "mikey" live one minute away from each other.. THEY GO TO SCHOOL TOGETHER!!) chris eventually says he'll go and mikey foubnd a ride home.. but all night all chris did was mope because i made his friend mad,, and now when i ask him to do anything with me.. mikey has to go! and i dont like that, and he said that i'll have to deal with it.. i really love chris.. but hes being such a jerk.. i cant leave him because it would hurt me too much. some one please help.. i really really want chris to realize that i'm part of his life stil.. i mean we cant do anything romantic because mikey is always with us.. i dont know what to do.. i hate hate hate mikey for this.. i need help! (link)
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well maybe chris just wants tomake sure mikey doesnt get into trouble or something because he sounds like the type that get in trouble alot. maybe he is just loking out for his friend and maybe the only way you can be happy with chris is to be friends with mikey. but i can understand why you would want some alone time with your boyfriend, so it is somewhat chris's fault and mikey does seem really weird. i would ask chris whats really going on because thats just weird. hope i helped - -
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ok theres this guy we'll call him matt. ok so heres the thing. like when i first met him he pretty much was my world. like i loved him sooo much. we had like almost everything in common. im 15/f and he's 18/m though. ok so he asked me out and i said yes. ok well like 3 days into the relatshionship i felt wierd around him. i dont know if it was the age difference or what..it was just wierd. like he started talking about peverted things which he never use to talk about. and kinda got like really personal. and i dont know i felt uncomfortable about the whole thing. and it was sad cause i just start going out with him. when i was trying to think of a way to break up with him. so i did. then its really weird bc theres this other guy i liked lets call him kyle well he was 15 like me. and i dont know. but he talked about peverted things and i was ok with it. i talked it back and stuff. and i dont know but i didnt feel as uncomfortable with him and talking about it. and now with matt, he is talking to me again and im trying soo hard to like be comfortable with him and all the things he says. but i just dont seem like i can. so i really dont know what my question is. but i just need some advice about the whole situation.anything helps. definate 5's for any advice. (link)
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well i think its the age difference that you're worried about. and "kyle" is your age so your more comfortable talking about personal things around him and you maybe view kyle as more of a friend than you do "matt". i hope i helped - - michelle
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I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks, but it's been a bit complicated - a week after we started dating, he found out he had cancer. He's had surgery and is on the road to recovery now, but I am worried that now he will only continue dating me because he feels obliged to as I was there when he needed me, rather than that he has an actual desire to be with me. I really like this guy but how can I figure out what is going on without offending him?? I'd rather have a broken heart sooner than later, so I'm keen to deal with this! (link)
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you need to talk to him. i know its hard and complicated but you just need to tell him how you feel and ask him how he truely feels in return. hope i helped - -
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15/m my really good friend,probly best friend in the whole world, who i really like is really depressed. her ex made her feal bad and she thinks its her fault and i never really have seen her happy since. Anyway what can i tell her that would help her. ive tried telling her it wasnt her fault and tried to cheer her up and it wont work. p.s. her name is christy and she is 14. no smartassy answers please and i rate high so please give me suggestions. (link)
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give her a "me" day.im also 14 and thats what i like to do when im sad. all day take her to go see her favorite movie/amusment park depending on where you live,take her out to dinner with maybe some of her closest friends to cheer her up. or even just sitting with her at home watching old movies with a tub of rocky road will do the job =) hope i helped - -
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Ok.. heres the deal.. I liked this guy over the entire summer.. and my friends thought he liked me.. they told me that they could totally tell... well, he went off to college and has a girlfriend... We're still friends and all.. we just dont talk as often... and its sort of weird talking to him because i know he knows i liked him. I'm not jealous.. i dont know why... hes such a great guy, but since he is my friend, im happy he found someone. Anyways, how can i show him that i'm not jealous of him and his girlfriend.. how can i make it so that he does not think i like him still!!! Everytime we talk its a little awkward. He looks at me, and I KNOW he thinks i like him.. AHHH its killing me!!! please help..
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tell him that or ask him if he would want to double on a date with a guy friend of yours, make him see that you no longer have feelings for him hope i helped-- michelle
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how do you get over a broken heart? (link)
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sorry but...time
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I am 16 and a female. I have gone out with both a girl and a guy but i dont know which way to go. How do you know if its the right path? And how do you meet other girls with the same intersets? (link)
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you just know if you're into guys or girls...you know its like a feeling you get turned on by guys and im straight and sometimes like when a girl is pretty i get a little turned of but that doesnt mean im not straight. and you can find girls with the same interests online to look for local people. and it also depends on how old you are if your in your early teens like from 13-17 its probobly just a phase. but i hope i helped*
michelle
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well ive asked before if andrew liked me, he went to my middle schoola nd now hes in my gym class and hes a geek but i dont care.. well i said how he said hi to me in gym and smiled sometimes in school, well i asked this boy online what andrews screenname was and he didnt have it, so he told andrew i asked for it in school. (he told him monday and andrew was suprised) ever since monday hes been saying hi more and stuff ( hes very shy) but today he walked with me to 5th period after gym ( we go down the same hall) and he was like hey jen i dont have a screenname now because i had one before and never went on and i didnt hook my new comp up and i was like ohh okay, then i had to go a diff way so i said talk to ya lata.. i sen him 2 more times but didnt say anything, does he like mee? shold i just hand him a note with my cell # or say something? thanks xoxo (link)
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yeah i would deff say something because obviously he is interested in you so go get em tiGer'!
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what are some signs that a guy likes you? i mean this guy always tries to talk to me and come near me..and he always stares too, he is very sweet and nice and i just wanna know. o ya and my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me(she did this w/o asking) and he stuttered and said" uh..uh..uh..no..i..i..dont..um..like her..i uh..i.sw..i swear!." then he told me about it. i mean does this mean he likes me?
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yep i would say so...ask him out and take some one the pressure off him
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this boy asked me out and i said yes but his friend told me that my b/f said it was over. i asked my b/f if it was true and he said he wanted his friend to tel me it was over but he changed his mind.. i think he's having his doubts, ahould i break up with him b4 he breaks my heart? (link)
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if you guys are having problems you two should talk...not have your friend do it hes a woose if he asks his friend to break up with u what kind of boufriend is he? if i were you i would get rid of his ass and find a new better one14/f
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Okay my question I had posted was
Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??
and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!! (link)
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like do u mean you're old enough to date? yeah sure you're like the age when it starts
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ok i like this guy and i have liked him for about 7 months. we went out twice. the first time only for a day then the sencond time for a week. the only reason he broke up with me he said was cuz he cheated on me but i didnt care but he didnt believe me. now we are good friends. but i want to be more than friends i want to go out with him.but he has a gf but she is realli ugly and im prettier than her her. and i look batter(body wise) im not making fun of her but i want him. wut should i do
kaitlin /14/ florida (link)
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just et close to him and tell him u wanna be more than friends adn loose the cockyness
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ok im startin to like a gurl and i want to get to kno her more wat r sume good convo starters and things to ask and talk about?
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hi is always a good start lol
you could start to talk about your favortire movies and then say well maybe we could og see one together..something like that and let her pick the movie.
try something like that hope i helped*
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