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Every time Im on the phone with my boyfriend we always start argueing because he always brings up my old boyfriends that are long gon. I do not want to brake up with him but he's forceing me to. What should I do

well..if he`s always bringing your ex-boyfriends up..he must be insecure about something..just reashure him that your with him now..and you really like him and don`t want this relationship to end..tell him your ex-boyfriends are "ex's" for a reason..and tell him you don`t want to argue about them again..because thats the past..and he's your present..

-christina

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ok, i like this kid named nikk....and he said i mean alot to him but my 2 best friends like him too and one of them denies it but i kno she does because she was cryen when i gave him a hug. i just dont kno what to do because i want to be with him but my 2 best friends do too....HELP!!!!

well honestly..for the sake of your friendship..i believe you and your friends should not try to get with him..because if all of you like him then it`s only going to hurt your friendship between each other if you betray each other..but if you REALLY like him..then maybe you should talk to your friends about it..and ask if they`d mind if you and him got together? and if they do..don`t go behind their backs and do it..because you don`t wantto ruin your friendship with your friends..your friends will ALWAYS be there..but boys come and go..

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There is this boy I have been going with for two months and his mom found a new house and is moving. When they move he will be tranferring to a new school. They keep setting these dates of when it's going to happen. Every time that date comes they don't move. When I found out he was moving I cried for two whole days. I really love him and don't want him to leave. Then he asked me if he actually does leave will we still be together. I really need some advice on if I should stay with him.

well..a long-distane relationhip is really tough..and u need to trust each other 100% in order for this to work out..but i say..if you REALLY love him..and he REALLY loves you..then it`s ment to work out..it may be tought at first because it`s new..but if you guys at least maintain talking on the phone..AIM..and seeing each other once in a while..all should be well..bu it also counts for him..as much as you may love him an care for him..he may want to break up because he cant rely on a long-distance relationship..but you never know..just remember everything happens for a reason..

-christina

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*15 female*
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and like 2 weeks. I care for him a lot, but i'm such a jealous girlfriend and I can't help it.I mean I get jealous even when he says jlo is hot or someone else famous. I don't like when he hangs out with other girl unless i'm there to. I feel this is wrong of me. I trust him with all my heart but sometimes i just can't help it to be jealous. any advice?
Thanks in advance

yeah..been there done that..i was a jealous gurlfriend also..and i still `tend to do this..i just learned that jealously is not pretty..and all guys are going to do it..its natural..us girls just keep it in our had most of the tme when we see a hot guy or somethingso maybe next time when you see a hot guy or sumn say something like (blank..is so hot..) and see how he reacts..otherwise you just needa accept the fact the \"trust\" is the most important thing in a relationship and you should be able to trust your bf that just because he thinks jlo is hot doesnt mean hes going to go cheat on you..hes just complimenting a womans beauty..or (booty) haha..but no matter what..if u`v been together for over a year..obviousy ur doing something right..your his number one

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So I'm pretty much broke.. I can get $150 if I push it for Christmas.. Me and my boyfriend have been goin out for over a year and I have no clue what to buy him.. Any Ideas?
He has a computer.. but has everything for it.. he loves video games but has every single one known to man... The only game he plays on his computer is Everquest so he doesn't need any other games.. please reply ASAP.. plus does anyone know how much one of those yellow gold figaro necklaces cost (( for him )) Thanks.. I rate 5's!!

well i had the SAME thing happen to me all the time..but one gift me boyfriend LOVED and STILL loves..was for our anniversary i got him a sterling silver bracelt thathad both our names on it and the date we got together on the back..he LOVED it..and all his friends were jealous..so if that doesnt help..get back at me and i'll come up with more ideas..

-christina

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Okay, I'm 20, and I think I *MAY* be developing some feelings for a guy I know...I'm going to think on this very carefully, and if it turns out that I do like him...

How do I get his attention???

Thanks!

S

well first off..FLIRT..show him that you like him..so he can "show" if he likes you too..and if that works well then a relationship should head ur way..

-christina

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Ok..so me and my boyfriend haven't been in this relationship very long. I really like him, but he doesn't go to my school, we both aren't good phone talkers, and he doesn't have AIM (to my knowledge). I want this relationship to last. How can we spend time together? [BTW..our parents don't know we're dating and they don't exactly allow us to date yet even though were both like 15]

whoah..well one of the most important things in a relationship is 'communication' and if u don't got that you have practically nothing. so maybe try to show him that u really wanna take ur relationship to a deeper level tell him u want to know more about him..and as for spending time together maybe u guys could occassionally have each other over now and ten (but don't introduced ur parents to him as a BF juss yet say hes a friend) then after a while tell ur parents yeah u know that guy..yaddah..yaddah..well we really like each other and hes my BF now..lol okay that sounded cheesy but juss tryin to help

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What do you do with a not so secret admirer that u dont like? And dont tell me to ask him to just be friends.

hmm..well i don't think theres any better way to say it..unless u say like hes not ur type..ur not ready for a relationship right now..or hes TOO sweet for you? just come up wit some lil thing to let him know ur not interested he should get the picture.

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why did i just get really grossed out when my boyfriend told me he had to go take a shit? i mean i love him and we've been together for 15 months, shouldnt i already be over the "omg eww he goes poop" stage? lol

eiww..haha i woulda done the same thing if my boo told me that! theres juss some stuff guys should keep to themselves..haha eiw..juss picture him there..sitting..HAHA how would he like it if u said that? yah i dont think he'd like to visualize that either..

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(I'm 14) I've been going out with my bf for awhile, and I always knew that he USED to smoke pot, and stopped like 6 months ago,and sometimes drinks a lot because of family problems...Well about 3 weeks ago he left a voice message saying he wouldn't be able to call because he got grounded because he "got caught doing something...very bad" and wouldn't tell me what it was, well his parents disconnected his phone and I found out yesterday from his friend justin (i had to practically beat it out of him...because he was afraid i'd go off killing my bf or something...) that his parents caught him smoking (which explains why he cant run 2 miles anymore) and that he used to have a big stash of cigs in his room, but that he quit after his parents caught him...then he asked if i was gonna break up with him, i said "i have no idea" And i haven't talked to him because he's grounded, and as selfish as it is, it pisses me off..

I dunno what to do, should I break up with him or not? I know all my friends will say I should, because I'm in the "good" group of friends, a lot of them go to church and have very strong beliefs and have never done any of that stuff,(we live in a small town in farmersville u.s.a so that stuff is a big deal) I'm in with them...but barely (my family is screwed up) it's like i'm teetering on the edge of good and bad...and i always fall for the messed up guys, and I know my bf is messed up..but i love him, and I don't know...he's never pressured me or ANYTHING, he's not like that, but I know dating someone with that many problems isn't good and will lead to problems, because drugs and alcoholism run in MY family too..but no matter what he does i can't hate him

Any advice would be lovely, and I rate =)

well..first of all if u love him as much as u say..then u'd care about what the drugs and stuff are doing to his body..explain how u feel to him..and how u care about him and u dont wanna lost a boyfriend from alchol poisoning..or something like that..if he's 'willing' to change..then he honestly cares for you..but juss because he says hes gonna change..doesnt mean its all gonna go away like that..you gotta give him some time..and there will probally be some screw ups.

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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line.

hmm..what 2 say..what 2 say..lemme think..

Ideas:
-How bout we put or lips to work already..
-WOW! u have really nice lips..(look at there eyes and then at the lips then KISS)
-Are u gonna kiss me already..or do i have to make the move
-so how well do u work these things? (look at their lips)
-hmm..how bout make a bet..on something..then be like if u lose..u owe me a kiss..not juss a kiss A GOOOOOD kiss..
-SO when do i get to taste ya lips
-I wanna kiss you..but i want you to make the move first..(then they better smile and kiss u)

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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

If you really do love him..race shouldn't matter...purple..pink..yellow..it shouldnt matter..if he makes u feel the way you do..then dont worry bout what everyone else thinks..they just might be jealous..and ur relationship must be so perfect..this is the only thing they can pick at..! GOOD LUCK!

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Ok..i'm a freshman in high school and i never kissed a girl before, but i have the feeling that this is gonna be the year that i get my first kiss. I'm scared that i'll do it wrong or something and i don't know where to put my hands. Any advice?

Well when a guy kisses me..i like it when he puts his hands on my face..not like squeezing..but like just lightly like holding it..kina like when u wanna kiss someone..and pictre them lookin down..and u tilt there face up to kiss em..and u juss restur and there..when the kiss starts..or like hold her hand while ur kissin her..she prolly doesnt know where to put her hand either!

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i love this boy nd see we broke up but it was a big mistake nd yea .. long story but umm hes suposed to mayb comin over onr day nd hes goin to kiss me or make out wit me in other words nd im scared bnot that i haven done it before but i feel real strong for him nd i wana kno wat should i do to help me not be so nervous ..

Help .. i rate

okay..well juss calm down..and like when u KNOW hes bout to kiss you juss calm down and dont make it seem like ur nervous..maybe start slow..dont juss like BAM stick ur tongue in his mouth..start with kute..small 'peek' kisses..like mwa..mwa..mwa..then after like 30 seconds..slowly add some tongue and after u get use to it..ur not gonna wanna stop..well unless hes a bad kisser..he-he

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Alrighty... My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. And we have a wonderful relationship. A wonderful, sex free relationship. Just because I want to wait until I'm married. And I'm pretty stuck on it. But since we're going to be sophmores in high school. Everyone gives him shit about it. When people give me shit I'm just like ahhh lol whatever... I dont care. But see, He doesn't tell me all the time that people give him shit about being a virgin. This all came up when one of my guy friends was all like "dude, you've been in a relationship for 2 years and you're still a virgin? You are wooped... blah blah blah" And he tells me not to worry about it... But I kinda wonder how he's feeling and if there's anyway I could do something about it. I mean yes, we are sexual... But I don't plan on having sex any time soon... Thanks for your time :)

OMG..this is scary..im in the same exact situation no kidding..me and my boo will be a year in october..and the farthest we've gone is making out..and his friends are always like damn..u havent hit that yet..or u still get no booty..and there like u in check..this gurl got u wipped..and i feel bad..cuz they call me prude and shyt..but shoot..i wanna wait till marriage juss like you..so what i keep in my head is this is something very important to me..and if he cares about me as much as he says and hes still with me knowing im not going to give him my virginity then thats all that matters. As long as he respects you and your opinion you got a good boy your with. My boo never complains bout me not doing stuff with him..and i take it he actually cares and respects me..haha..and were gonna b sophmores too..im tellin u this is so freaky..keep up with me i wanna know how things go

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it's my boyfriend's birthday in a couple of weeks and i have no idea what to get him! does anyone have any ideas? it can't be rude or too adult we're only 13. Thanks!

well i came across this problem to..so when my boyfrens birthday came around..i juss tried to get some clues..and like we were talkin on the fone and he was listening to a song on the radio by TuPac..so for his b-day i got him the soundtrack to TuPac cd..and he really liked it. especially cuz i didnt have to ask him what he wanted i juss guessed. or if that didnt help maybe give him a nice shirt, cologne, mmm..a gift card..who knows..be creative..if he likes u enough he'll juss apprecitate recieving something from u..

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Hey I had a bf for about 2 months and he just broke up with me and i really want him back but how do i get him to take me back?

aww..i know this is gonna be hard..but u cant make him come back..he has to want to come back..like the saying goes.."if u love him let him go..if he comes back he loves u too..if he doesnt he never loved u at all" and its the truth..as much as it may hurt to see him with other gurls or even think about it..u have to accept it..becuz thats how lyfe is it has its up and downs. but maybe if u really want him back..show him what hes missin' start dating someone else..and i think things will get better..i hope

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