*NaMe: Kayla* *AgE: 13* *HeIgHt: around 5ft & 4inch* *EyEs: blue/green* *HaIr: blond with red highlights* I've always loved helping my friends out with there problems and as soon as i found out about this website i had to join. So please, if you have a problem come and ask me id be more then happy to try and help. It doesnt matter to meh what the topic is even if its personal.
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Location: Berkley
Occupation: Berkley Middle School
Age: 13
Member Since: July 23, 2004
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My best friend kinda likes the same kid i do n she fools around with him and so do i but i get jelouse when she does it so what should i do?? (link)
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Simply tell her how you feel. I've been in the same possition but once we both knew that each other liked him we both flirted with him and just became his best friend. So let her know. Hope I Helped!
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im 14.. OK this is kinda complicated. i really like this boy and his friend just asked me out. its really hard for me to say no to guys but i dont like him--i like his friend. and i think his friend knos i like him too. how should i tell him i dont want to go out with him but not hurt his feelings cuz i like his friend? please help!! (link)
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say something as simpple as " im sry but i dont like you in that way. I like somebody differnt." PLain and simple and hopefully he'll get that ur tryin to put him down easy.
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Should i shave my pussy ? do you shave ? Will it grow back ? (link)
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If you want to go for it. Yes i do shave down low but its up to you. You can try it and if you dont like it yes it will grow back.
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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him? (link)
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I was kinda wondering teh same thing. Wat i tihnk is that girls should wear any kind of like flavord chap stick. It will taste good and not be to slipery.
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Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please! (link)
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Well tell ur gurl best friend that if she really likes him to aproache him herself. You dont like being in the middle so refuse to be. Be like talk to each other not me.
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well my boyfriend has been different lately..liek hes not as caring or nice anymore..hes mad at me a lot for the tinniest stuff and idk if hes using me. we've been off and on since the 6th grade..i mean i absolutey love him to death, but what if he doesnt feel the same? and today he got off the phone w. me to talk t another girl and he said it was his mom! idk .. i just dont wanna lose him cuz i cant love w.o him ive always known we're meant to be .. what do i do? (link)
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Ok well it kinda does sound like hes using you. But dont just jump to conclusions. Talk to him aboubt it. Be like "Well y did u lie and tell me that it was your mom when it was another gurl. I feel like you dont like me the same way that i like you. If theres something going on let me no." Just simply talk to him. But you have to be prepared for the worst. Maybe he does feel differently. If so try to move on. Youll find someone better who will acually care for you the same way. If he does still like you then talk to him about how hes been treating you and if he could maybe stop cuz he may not even realize that hes getting mad over nething. Maybe theres suttin he wants to get off his chest. Just talk to him. I hope I helped and everything goes ok!
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I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help! (link)
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maybe ur friend doesnt like her back. If he doesnt explain that he doesnt have feelings for her but you do so maybe you guyz could try going out. If she says yes make her have a good time with you every time you guyz get together so she'll like you the best. If he does like her back either explain it to your friend or just let nature take its course with them. hope i helped a little bit!
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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long (link)
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If you really want to let him do it then go for it but first maybe try hangin out more and tehn possibly goin out that way u know if he really likes u or is just a horny guy...hope that hepls
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ok my boyfriens thinks that i am pregant because i have been complaing about my stomach hirting. and i tryed to tell him that its not that because i havent fucked in like 3 mouths. so what should i tell him....?most importantly how am i gonna get a test with out my parents seeing it.....? they still think that i am a virgin!!!!
help me please becasue i cant lose him!!!!! (link)
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Well have you gotten your period in the last 3 months!!! lol..if you havnt then you better start thinkin of some cute names
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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!
-Nerveous (link)
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If I were you I would just tell him that ur finally aloud to kiss so u want to start off slow. Your obveisly not experianced yet (not saying that in a bad way) so youl probly wanna do simple kisses on the lips then gradually get a lil more and more. If hes truly into you and cares bout you hell understand...Hope I helped sweetie! let meh no how things go
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ive always liked older guys and older guys have always liked me, but im not talking like guys two or three years older im talkin that the oldest guy ive been with was 26 and i was 14. im 15 now and im into a guy thats 20 and hes into me, but there is no way we can date with my parents being in the way but i dont want to hide it cause i had to do that with the 26yo and it didnt work out well. but i can't wait till im 18 bc hes moveing next march, i dont' know what i should tell my parents so theyd let me be with him.. any suggestions? (link)
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What I would do is first talk about him as a friend and then as they get used to the fact that your friends with a 20 yr. old get into the fact that you like him and he likes you. Gradually do it tho so its not like a shock to them and they could kinda tell that you liked him in the a lil neways...So basically go from friend to boyfriend in a "month" or so while talkin to ur parents....month is in "" bc i dont know how long it will take for them to get used to him as a friend never mind a boyfriend. Hope I Helped
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ok well ive liked this one guy for awhile. i did tell him i liked him and he said he likes me too. but i dont know if i should go out with him, bcuz everyone says hes a player. should i or shouldnt i? thx (link)
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Even if he is you'll never know unless you try. And if you dont try then someone else will snatch him and ull b upset you dint take your chance. The thing is you have to be willing to take the chance of him cheating. I would take the chance tho cuz ull neva no and ull probly feel bad if you dont...hope i helped sweetie!!! let meh know how it goes!
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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice? (link)
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It deff. sounds like he likes you if he tells you the bad things about his g/f and asks about ur love life....and if he wanted to dance wit u.
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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something? (link)
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No ur probly just a tom-boy. Just cuz u dress different doesnt mean ur bi.
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hey may name is kate ! i have a huge crush on this guy well call him "bob" and i have for a while hes just soo sweet and a super nice guy and hes hott! but i dont knoe if im in love whwen i see him my stomach like flips and i get sweaty palms and my knees get all week! and i think he feels the same way cuz hes always smiling and stuff and winking and starring but ne ways do i sound like im in love ! by the way im 15 if that helps ! please help me quick im seeing him tontie and i need to knoe wether to tell him how i feel ! plz help !
kate (link)
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I personally think that only you can truly say if your in love or not..its something you just know....but i dont think your too far off aim..and DEFFINITLY tell him how you feel 2nite. If you think he likes you back and he really does maybe suttin really good willl happen between you 2! hope i helped plez rate
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ok..my boyfriend moved to new jersey yesterday..but the day before he was on the computer and on his away message it said i luv jackie sfm...but thats not my name!! my names nicole..what does this mean!? is he cheating on me or like alot of people are telling me is it just an insider? i dont know what to do i really like him!!!! pleasee pleaseee help me!!!i really dont know what to do i like him sooo much! help!!! (link)
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ok..calm down...maybe Jackie is his new friend and shes been really nice since hes moved there so he was just messing around and put thats as a away message. If you feel that bad about it just ask him...say suttin like ohh i saw ur away message and i was just wondering about it. Im sure its just a new friend and i joke. If you talk to him about it maybe he'll think twice about what he puts cuz he'll now know that it kinda hurt you. I hope I helped and if you could please rate meh id be very greatful...o023babygurl230o
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how do u get a boyfriend i dont wanna act like a whore (link)
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im kinda in ur boat. i dont like doin dirty dirty things so just be urself..thers sum1 out there for every1. and u can fool around talkin dirty or suttin just make sure the guyz dont take u seriously. That mite give get u sum1. Lots of guyz like that kind of personality.
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i kind of like my friends ex boyfriend. i would never ever do anything wiht him but i felt that becasue she was my friend i shoudl eb honest wiht ehr and let her know how i feel. She freaked out adn started yelling at me adn even when i tried ot explain that i didnt want to liek him its jsut somehting oyu cant help and that i would even block him off my buddy list if she wanted me to she still was really amd or something. was she right to be mad? and should i have jsut kept it to myself and not told her? also is there anyhtign i cna do? (link)
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Your friend deff. shouldnt have blown up like she did. You can like who ever you want it just happend to be him. You cant just say oh i want to like you and never like you. Its something that just happens. You friend should be able to calmly understand that and if she really dint want yo9u to hook up with him just simple have told you that. But she should let you do what you want. But you even sayd you dint wanna be with him so theres another reason y she shouldnt have gotten mad. If i were you id probly be confused to but u need to relize yu were trying to be nice and let her know how you felt and theres noting wrong with how you feel so if you like him dont block him..get to know him.
I Hope I Helped...if you have nemore ?'s im o023babygurl230o...please rate meh 2!
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Hey i just got back from a vacation and i met this really great guy well anyways he was so cute and i never got his email or anything. i dont kno how to get over him any advice? should i try to find him with the info i kno or give up? (link)
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You shuld never give up on something that feels right. Use all the informaton you have and got to a online phonebook and type in everything you know. Then if it works think about how great things could be. Maybe you'll get a boyfriend. Its better then not doing nethin at all.
I Hope I Helped..if you have nemore ?'s im o023babygurl230o id love to help
P.s please rate meh also!!
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