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Im 18 years old.I love giving advice to people.I try the best i can. Im going to be having a baby very soon.I love spending time with my friends and chatting online.Also writting in online journals, going to the library and spending time with my boyfriend and family. Also enjoy fishing and going to my lil bros baseball games , and going to the movies
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There`s this boy I know.He says stuff to me like"since you`ve been bad I am going to fuck you hard tonight so where going to be making babeies"or"I am going to smak that big ass of yours".And I don`t realy like it when hedose that.One time I was alone with him and he started rubbing my body.I`ve told him to stop but he dosent listen.And if I tell an adult he might try to rape me.I need help so can you plese help me.
I honestly think you should tell someone he wont leave you alone. When you tell someone to stop and they dont thats going to far and he can get into trouble. i know u dont want to tell but your better off getting help before he does hurt you.
Dont not tell and then he'll keep going and then you'll be even more scared to tell. I had a similar thing happen to be and i never told. And its been 10 yrs . I was just a little kid though . --*>Mdezzy
Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
16 f
Honestly if he does it once, hes probley sure enough to do it agian. Maybe you should suggest anger management classes , because u have to have a serious anger problem.I dont mean to be mean , but im going to tell you from friends experiences.
Just dont do anything you dont feel right doing though , its all up to you.
I'm 14/f. I've had crushes on several guys in the past, but I've never had a boyfriend. I feel like such loser because all of my friends have had at least 1 boyfriend bfore and most of them have had more.I kno I shouldn't go bywhat my friends have had, and I know that you're gonna say "my time will come",but I just really don't know what to do anymore. I did like this one guy ALOT,and actually I still do. I think I might be in love with him, but my friend told him and he said "ok", then he said he was dating someone right now. I'm just so confused I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm really pretty or anything, or skinny, but I have friends who aren't like that either, and they still have had b/fs. Srry so long, I just am so confused, and wanted to see if anyone could help me.
I'l rate a 5 for nice answers.
Thank you.
*heartbroken, and confused*
I know you dont want to hear your time will come.Sometimes it takes longer for somepeople to get boyfriends then others. I never used to date until i was 15 years old. Its hard to to find boyffriends when your young. I'd say maybe if you start to be more open with people you like you may finally get someone. Maybe this guy you like is dating someone. Maybe you should find someone else to like and you should tell them how you feel. Im sure you will have someone soon!! I wish you luck sweet heart.
Does anyone else think that Anikan Skywalker from starwars (episode 3) is hott? I do and so do a couple of other ppl i kno. But some of my friends think im weird i tell them that if they saw him they would think hes hott too.
Im just curious.
I rate high!
Hes a cute guy.Im sure they would think the same way.Im sure they think someone else famous is hott and they dont want to admit it .But im with you on that sweet heart.Hes a cutie pie!!!!
I've been have very vivid dreams about an old flame for the past 6 or 8 months and its starting to drive me insane. The twist to this story is that we we're childhood sweethearts from the age of 8 to 14. I'm now 19(20 next week) and we haven't spoken since 8th grade graduation. I can't shake this feeling lately that I still have feelings for him. As innocent as out relationship was being infatuated with someone for that long isn't something to easily let go of. There are so many reason I can't explain that make me feel as though we are soulmates. I've westled with the decision of whether or not I should contact him but have decided against it. I know that part of my recent obsession with him is my loniness and depression. As much as do feel like he's my soulmate its likely we'll never see eachother again. At this point I'm more concerned with forgeting him and stopping the dreams that make me dread going to sleep at night. What can I do to get over him?
I think you should put your mind on other things. Maybe you need to start looking at other guys and trying to be with someone else. You could be dreaming about him , because maybe u want love in your life right now? You want to be with someone and you want a love like when you were a kid back . Maybe you need to trry and get a hold of this guy and see what hes up to , and where is now. Maybe hes single , maybe you can see him and maybe there might be something there.He could be a soulmate. I believe everyone is ment to be with one person and i believe you can find them at any age. You can leave them for years and then come back to each other , because you know no one will ever take the place of them. Or maybe you need to see him once more to get over him? I gave you the best advice i could think of, i hope i atleast helped you out the least bit.
mDezzy
Okay well I really like this guy, we were supposed to hang out tonight, but he told me at like 8 o’clock tonight he couldnt, even thought weve had it planned for like a week. WE also were supposed to hang out wendsay but he said he couldn’t go because of his mom, like he had to wai tfor her to get home then he said he’d call me, yet he never did. Should i keep trying to get this guy, or should I just let him go? He seemed interested a couple of days ago and he still seems to , we talk on the phone like evry night, but I don’t know what to think, and if you’re a guy please tell me what this means!! thanks
He could be shy? Maybe he doesnt know how to act around you ? thats a possiable reason. Maybe you should tell him hey , listen i thought you wanted to hang out with me. I was looking forward to it. Is everything ookay. There could be a possiablity he likes someone else to and doesnt know what to do . But you should try and find out. Ask some questions hun. Its probley hes shy , and scared. There are some guys out there like that . good luck.
i have been dating my b/f for one month now and i cant stop thinking about him! it's crazy, i'll be watching tv and then for no reason i will think of him. or if i'm listening to the radio, a song will remind me of him. i mean even when i'm shopping or eating. he is constantly on my mind! nd i have been totally crazy about him for a year, and he said he has liked me since he first met me. he tells me all the time about how he cant get me outta his mind either. we'll be on the phone for hours and it will be 2 in the morning nd he's so tired but we never hang up. he says its bcuz he wants so hear my voice and as soon as he hangs up he misses me. i think i love him, i always get this excited crazy feeling when i just think about him and i smile all the time for no reason, i feel like a dork.
do you think i love him?
It could be love or it could be you just really like him . You shouldnt ask us if we think you love him.We dont know how u feel . But i will tell you , when its love you will know its love because its like nothing you've ever felt before. So you have to answer this question your self.I dont mean to sound meean and if i do im sorry . But honestly we cant tell you if u love someone. you know what i mean.
i'm with this guy that i really care about and well, i've never had a serious boyfriend before and well, i'm not exactly sure what to do about people spreading rumours and stuff. i haven't been telling alot of people but alot of people know i'm going out with somebody they just don't know who, and i'm not sure if i should just let everybody know so they'd all shut up and stop bugging me to tell them or not tell them and let them find out for themselves. thanks
Do you want people to know?thats the big question . Dont let people talk about you.IF u dont want them to know then dont tell him , its not there business. If u dont care either way then just say im with "this person" . you dont need to share your personal life.
My love life is so messed up. I have no idea what to do and I'm so sick of trying to meet people. On one hand, I have my ex from about 6 months ago, on the other hand, I have a senior who I'm interested in. I don't know if either of the guys like me, or if I have a chance with either of them, the whole thing sort of irritates me. What the heck should I do.
signed,
nearly given up
Well i'd say before you did anything you need to figure out who you actually do like. Maybe you should ask them if they like you also , or maybe see if they'd be intrested in you. If you still like your ex i'd surley see if you guys can get back together, but another thing is , well you guys broke up and that could lead difficult crap depending on why u broke up. Figure out how your heart feels and what u want. Figure out who you think would be more worth it.More or less its a heart and mind chocie.