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I have a boyfriend who i really love and i've been going out with him for alloong time. he says he loves me soo much nd thathe wants to spend the rest of his life with me but im only 15 years old nd i dont want to be mean or anything so i tell him that i want to too but i want to get to no other people and things nd i want to no wuts out there. he constantly tells me over and over again that he loves me to an extent where it kind of gets annoying. wen we talk on the fone its usually abotu how much he loves me we like barley hav any regular conversations nymore... sometimes i dont even want to talk to him but i feel bad. i know i love him but when we first started going out i wanted to talk to him all the time and i missed him all the time... now im starting to get tired of him... i feel like i need space but i dont want to hurt his feelings... nd the way he's acting wen he tells me all of these things kind of makes me feel uncomfortable... what should i do? (link)
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I know what you mean. Sometimes relationships can be shakey You really don't know how you feel. You THINK or ASSUME things like love. It's ok if you don't love someone. Tell them now before things go on further. But if you really love them show/tell them. If your boyfriend is being mushy gushy then talk to him about it. Maybe your not ready or he's not the one. Follow what your heart says. If you like him but you can see no future with him let him down easy. Don't break him hard. But alwayz talk things out because a good relationship is a 2 way street. You BOTH talkand you BOTH listen...good luck.
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I have been seeing a guy for a few weeks, but it's been a bit complicated - a week after we started dating, he found out he had cancer. He's had surgery and is on the road to recovery now, but I am worried that now he will only continue dating me because he feels obliged to as I was there when he needed me, rather than that he has an actual desire to be with me. I really like this guy but how can I figure out what is going on without offending him?? I'd rather have a broken heart sooner than later, so I'm keen to deal with this! (link)
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In times like this he needs you more than ever he wouldn't feel like he has to. Don't break up with him justyet if you feel shaky he really needs you. Even if it turns out to be for the wrong reason, you'll just prove that your the bigger person that you were there when he was ill and that you were there when he needed you most and that its was you who helped him to recover.
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My name is Melissa and there is a guy im totaly in love with his name is Scott he gets along with my perents just fine and they like him and he treats me like a princess and he is a hard worker but they wont let me date him because he is 18 and im only 16 he just turned 18 and we are totaly in love with eachother. They wont even let us hangout hardly together how can i get my perents to let me date him?
signed Boy problems (link)
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Dear Boy Problems,
They might have there reasons. Maybe they think that in society today you guys will go off doing what you want and things they think that goes on.
Wait it out if you really like him. Tell them how much he really means to you. If they still say no ask them why. Try to see their point of view. Maybe they jsut don't want you dating anyone right now or maybe it's just him. Try to bond with your folks first.
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How can you tell if a shy boy likes you? (link)
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You don't just go up to someone and asks if they like you. Wait it out. If he does he'll eventually clue you in or hint it to you. Don't wait around for it just live life and whatever happens happens.
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My ex and I broke up about 2 weeks ago due to what seemed like a loss of interest on his side... but as time has progressed we both have admitted to each other that mutual feelings still exist. Even so, he is, to be blunt, somewhat emotionally inept and has a hard time letting himself go. He would need to mature more in that area before we could really get into anything serious again.
So, my no win situation is, there are a couple of people who want to date me. I don't want to date other people and lead them on if I'm still into my ex and will probably stay that way, but I also don't want to miss out on everything just because I'm waiting on him. Plus, dating people is a nice way to forget about the situation at hand and have some fun. How do I go about this? (link)
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A. Are you through with your boyfriend. Forget about his feelings for a minute think about your do you still love him. Do you still want to be with him this very moment.
B. The other people...do you like any of them.
C. Are YOU yourself ready to move on.
Just some questions to ask yourself befoe you move on.
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r u a crazy bitch? (link)
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yeah...da kraziest bitch u'll eva meet! LMFAO
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I have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 yrs. We moved in together about 4 months ago. And I asked him before I agreed to move in with him if he thought he loved me enough to ever marry. He said yes. But since we have moved in together I am scared he will never ask me. How do I know if he ever will or not? (link)
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If he truely loves you then time will come. HE's probably just waiting for the right time. Look back on you times together...hasn't he shown you that he loved you. Don't doubt...think positive have faith and believe. What's the rush, why are you so anxious...you do love him don't you? Because true love waits for one another.
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Okay, i'm 13. I like my friends Josh and John.They are both 13 too. John has a girlfriend but Josh doesn't. Sometimes I think Josh likes me because one time when we were on the way home from playing a concert from school it was around 9p.m and I was tired. I sat with Josh and started falling asleep. Josh then started to hold my hand and tell me to lay my head on his shoulder. In school he would give me hugs and sit with me. The only problem is that I don't know if he likes me and I'm the kind of person who is shy to say that kind of stuff to guys. What should I do? Does he like me? (link)
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Well, you won't know unless you ask and hey Im a shy person too. Maybe he's just a really good friend. Alot of guy friends are like that, they're like a good/boy/borther type of person. That might just be how he is. Once you get to highschool that's how most people act. We hug erveryone and are friends with like everybody.
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My boyfriend tells me he likes me and all this stuff and he like actslike it sometimes but other times he acts like he completly just doesnt care and never talks to me and when i ask him he tells me he likes me and gets mad sometimes when i ask him. but idk does he really like me??! (link)
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If he didn't like you he wouldn't have gone out with you. Stop being so worried. Guys don't like to express themselves all the tim so don't worry about it too much.
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hey .. kinda havin guy problems.. i like a guy from mah skool (kyle) and he acts like he likes me but says he doesnt wana gf.. and then mah Ex bf tony came bak into mah life today. i just saw him for the first time since he broke up with me. And he was really sweet and was kinda flirting with me i think. and he made a point to tell me he broke up with the girl who he broke up with me for.. and idk it kinda brought bak feelings i have for him. dunno if i should go out with him if he does ask me bak out or jsut wait around 4 kyle.. can u help PLEASE thanks sorry 2 bother u (link)
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IF you and your x really wanna get back together than tlak it over and try it again. If Kyle doesn't wanna go out now he has his reasons. Just keep being friends cause a realtionship has a friendship at the base.
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omg...i dont know what to do at all...you see my problem isi knew this boy mike for the longest time(his family is a friend of my family). and back when i hated his guts and actually had a crush on his older brother greg....my brothers and sisters would tease me and make fun of me saying haha, you like mike, you like mike. And i really didnt.well the problem starts now...this time around im like in love with him...it didnt start till early october when he got a job at the carnival i worked at....once we were paired together and i was so happy.We were woking together in a huge basketball game caled longrange...he kept calling my name and going wiatch this and a whole bunch of shit like that before he did a shot like trying to impress me. i kept saying "am i suppoesed to be impressed?" and he was like hell yea each time...even if he missed..well everytime i get up the courage and the chance to ask him out or at least tell him how i feel about him and show him my book full of poems all about him(and the sad thing is i dontwrite poems, i suck at them, my friends said they are really good) he is going out with someone.....most of the time its wih one of my friends....on monday we were hanging out in the hallway with my friend raquele because we didnt want to goto class and he was messing with me and i was like micheal if you keep it up im gona murder you...and he told me then Ariele would murder me bcuz hes goin out with her....shes one of my good friendz...anyway i dont know what to do anymore...i cry myself to sleep and then dream of him...a wake up in the middle of the night and wipe the tears off my face after i dream about him then i have trouble going back top sleep...hes always messing with me and im always messing with him...i just dont know what to do....plz help me...i am so desperate....i rate 5's... (link)
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If you really like him you should tell him but not straight out try to hint it towards him. If he already has a girlfriend then maybe you shouldn't get involved. Maybe you will get your chance eventually. Try not to think about it so much. No boy is worth that many tears...especially when your not together. All I can really say is pray.
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Okay, i like this guy and ive liked him ever since i met him. well, i liked him last year and he found out. He was all like i like you as a friend. Okay, well i like him still and hes in the grade above me and like were friends and stuff. I kind of have a deadline before the school play ends (jan. 22) to get him to like me, how do i make him like me more than "just a friend"? (link)
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Youcan't just make someone like you. Just be yourself. Hangout more like at the mall or movies. Hang out in a group. Try to make small talk with him.
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Hey i am 17 and i have this boyfriend whom i care alot about. he is 19 and last thursday we went through a little problem. his friends tell him he needs to date older women because they are more experience and that they dont make no bull crap. anyways he told me that they make sense but he really cares for me to much and he dont want that to happen. he is going to cancun in 2 weeks and i asked him if we were going to break up when he goes. and he asked me why i asked that. but then thursday he said all thatand he is the kind of person who does not take bull crap and he tells it like it is. but i really care for him alot and dont want us to break up for no reason. well then last night we were on the phone and we were talking about why i asked if ihe wanted to be with me. because saturday i was feeling like he did not want to be with me, and i asked him and then we finally talked. i know i may confuse you but i am confusing myself but what i want to know is how can i get him to talk really serious to me?
Thanks (link)
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A true relationship should have conversations flowing easily. If he truely loves you he'll tell you everything striahgt out mean while be truthful to yourself and him as well.
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so theres this guy that ive known for about 2 years. hes a friend of my friend and i've only talked to him online & have never met him in person. hes such a sweet guy though. well ive shown him pics of me before and he thinks im gorgeous. someone even told me that he liked me last year. and over the summer he told me that he had feelings for me. then at the end of the summer he started to go out with this girl that he's totally in love with. they've been going out for like 3 months. he never showed me a picture of him until recently because he thinks he isn't "hot". he finally decided to show me some of his pics from homecoming and i think hes an attractive/cute guy. so when he showed me the pic i was like "i dont understand how you can call yourself unattractive i just dont get it". he was all like "well i dunno i just dont think im what girls consider hot." and then he said "why cant i stop smiling since you said that?". i think i might like him but i dont think i should tell him because i don't want to make it awkward and i dont want to ruin the relationship he has with the gf he loves. i know i wanna hang out with him soon which will happen cause i wanna see what he is like in person. but what do you think i should do? should i tell him i have feelings for him or should i let it go?
o btw im 15 and female
thanks
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If he's already in a relationship and he's happy then don't tell him wait until they break up but lets say it doesn't look like they're gonna anythime soon. Just talk to him and kinda hint it to him be a little flirty but don't make it obvious...keep it cool play hard to get but be on the easy side but odn't let him know your totally on to him.
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so i know these 2 asian chicks right, and like, theyve got things for black guys....and im all like...whoa dude! no ways!...and theyre like...yeah!...sadly, im not black, tho i am on the inside cuz i graduated from the streets im a real o.g. you know...what should i do?
sincerely,
another-retarded-teen-that-uses-this-crappy-site (link)
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Dear "anonymous person"
Why do you even care who ur friends go out with. If you were a true friend you wouldn't care. Yes we are all black in the inside...graduated from the strrets?! STM isnt in the hood loser! lmfao OG...so what if my bf's black doesn't mean ino all the terminology ov gangsters n ppl in da hood. STOP BEING RETARDED ASHISH! haha
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My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?
What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?
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Kelsssss
(K2204) (link)
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Ofcourse! take some time off and take your mind off him to move on and get over it. Hanging out with ur bestfriend is great.
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I am a shy teen girl in high school and I recently meet a guy and I felt an instant connection, but I'm not sure if he did. It seems like he likes me but I'm not sure. He has asked me about my interests and I've caught him looking my way in the corner of my eye more than a couple of times, it seems like he kind of does that to everyone else though. I just don't want to be shut down. Should I make a move and also how so? (link)
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Don't do anything until ur abosolutely positively sure. Get to know him better. Ask him out not lyk bf/gf thing but to the mall or movies in a group or just the 2 of you.
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I recently broke up with my long term boyfriend, that just recently moved back up here from Florida. He moved to Florida because he was having serious problems with his life, (getting into drugs and things) and I was happy he moved because he broke my heart several times while he was doing these things. while he was in Florida, i didn't feel like waiting around, which is a normal feeling of any girl. I hung out with other guys that he wasnt too thrilled about. But he always forgave me, even when I told him I was going to a prom with another guy, (that he hates)... and I even cheated on him.. twice. And he knows that. Now idk why I did those things because I am completely and totally in love with him. I think it was because to see if I wanted anything else out there. Well, anyways, we got over that part of our lives, and now hes back up here. About a month ago,we got into a very very serious car accident together. I was the driver, and it was very hard on me mentally because it wasnt a fender bender. (We are dealing with that in process.) I felt like he'd always be there, but like any guy, he moved on very quickly and started talking about things i couldnt believe he was talking about. We were good for about a week after that, and then I started getting really paranoid. I am very nervous when he is up here. About what hes doing, who hes hanging around with.. I never trusted him. Then, he started skipping school everyday, simply because "he didnt feel like coming". I started getting pissed because obviously that was the first sign of him changing back into his old ways. So, we broke up.. and then I hung out with another boy. He found out, now hes telling people we broke up because I hung out with the boy, not that hes an immature ass hole who wants to screw up his life. He calls me his mother for wanting for him to come to school, but I just think I'm one of the few who actually cares about him. But now, I don't know what to do... because now hes putting on that act like, ...'I'm never going to be with you again, but I still want you to want me'... Personally I think thats bullshit and no girl EVER deserves that. But, I cant not take bullshit from him because.. I've been with him for so long and I love him so much, even when hes the biggest ass hole. I feel like I need support from this accident and he's the only one I can share it with because he experienced it with me. None of my friends understand what its like to go through a huge tramatic thing in your life and not have many people to talk about it with. I know I should be giving up on my exboyfriend.. but I dont want to. I want to be with him more than anything in the world because when I am, I feel 10 times more happier about myself. I dont know if its a personality disorder or if I'm just pure crazy. I need advise, fast
.. I know its long but please I need help
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Dear stressed out,
True, it is very hard to get over someone especially someone who you've been with for quite some time. But if you two already broke up and cheated and did everything else wrong, then maybe it wasn't meant to be. Everything happens for a reason right? If you guys really loved eachother you would be there for eachother always. I'm not saying it wasn't worht it or you're bad people, all I'm saying is if you it didn't work out from time to time then it wasn't meant to be, move on. It's gonna be hard...real hard you're gonna think about him alot and your gonna want him back. But lets say time pasts by and BOTH of you want to give it another try then you can but don't rush on back to him because you're just experiencing some break-up after math. And let's say that you do want to get back with him, does he? Does he truely care for you and promise to not do any more bad things to you? Just take a whiel to think about, not a couple of days or weeks, this process could take months. But really think.
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My boyfriend & I were on the phone a few nights ago & everything was fine. Then I started talking about a dream I had where we broke up & he seemed to be interested in what happened. I was worried he was going to break up with me so I said "As for breaking up in the near future..." & I realized a few days later that putting 2 and 2 together, it sounds like *I* wanted to break up with him. A little bit after that he called me back & started saying how he talked to his dad & he wanted to slow things down. Then by the end of the night we had no more relationship. I know this is hard to explain but the next day we talked & I said I still had feelings for him & I didn't want him to think I wanted to break up. He told me neither did he but he did it because it got scared & now it sounds like a good idea to him. Needless to say, I want to get back together. I can't believe this has ended, it really affected me & I want things back to normal. What should I do? I've already tried talking it out with him & I admited that I still like him but it feels like he's not gonna bounce back. He wants to be best friends but I'm not sure if I can be JUST his friend... (link)
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If he really doesn't want to give it another shot, don't force maybe somewhere in he near future you could try it again but not now because he's too confuse and there's too much pressure. Keep being friends with him because a relationship has a friendship base. You guys cn still hang out maybe not on a date but you still could go to the mall, see a movie, or watch a game. Just take it easy for now.
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Theres this new kid this year. Hes a sophmore and im a freshmen. Well i kinda really like him .. a lot. Hes on my bus, in 2 study halls, language, science, and 4 outta 6 lunches. Well i liked him. And im like really shy around him but usually im really outgoing. Only today in lunch .. i was like .. Hey yooh, got a pen ? .. he sits at the table next to me =) Like .. next to me ! Hehe .. but anyway. I like him and I really dont know what to say to him. The only things hes said to me was answering something i asked my friend and he asked what my name was . Ya .. so like .. i have study hall with him monday .. and me and my friend might go up to him ( he sits alone in that study hall) and be like .. You look lonely , want us to sit with you ? IS that a good idea ? Well im sorta frieds with this girl who he sits with / i guess theyre friends.. but i go to a lot of sports games like volley ball and so does she. Do you think i should tell her i like him so she can tell him to go to the games? and then we can hang out outside of school. Becasue lots of people go to sports so ya know . Ok well i dont know what else to say so any other tips or advice youve got id love to hear ..
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Yeah sit with him, get to know him better, talk to him about anything even the most randomest and weirdest thing. Ask him for help on your work even if you know how to do it. At lunch sit with him but not next to him but in the same table. Try giving some space but hint your way in.
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