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ok im pregnate and im only 13! and i did use a condom.. but my question is: How shoold i tell muh parents and the father? and i dont belive in abortion and i dont want to give the baby up for adoption! -confused p.s the father is 16 (link)
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woahh buddy .. um first of all maybe u shoodnt b doing that kinda shit when ur only 13.. if u look back, u can see u cant even spell pregnant. the only thing u can do is just tell ur parents.. let em no u no that u made a mistake that u oviously cant take back with just a sorry but u need there support all the way cus now ur in such a mess thats not easy to get out of .. well i hope i helped? =/ good luck
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hi, i'm 13/f and this boy who is 16 likes me a lot. idk what to do, i mean i've went out with him twice before, but i think it's enough. i kinda like him but not enough to go back out with him. what do i tell him? (link)
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if you really dont like him enuff ta go out with him.. dont. someone will end up getting hurt, most likely him. just dont
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I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird. (link)
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nope .. theres nothing rong w/ that.. one of my best friends was a senior this year and was going out with a freshman and as far as i know still are .. 15 n 14 isnt bad att all .. im 13 and i reeele reele like a 16 year old [ he'll be 17 in december, late birthday ] theres definitley nothing rong with that. ur friends can think wut they wanna think, it wut u want -_' hope i helped
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okay well this guy is ma best friend and weve been close 4 lyk a few yearz now nd we hung out the otha day n he was hugging nd kissing me a lot and touching me nd we were cuddlin nd i loved it. but he haz a g/f nd im inlove with him nd i mean INLOVE itz not juss a crush. nd he likes me but hes "inlove" wit his g/f, i dono wut to do! he told me the onli reason me nd him arnt together is cuz hes inlove nd he told me he thinks if the grl ever dumps him he wud fall inlove wit me, i reallli lyk him nd i want the grl to break up wit him! im so scared to tell him how i feel what shud i do? (link)
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hmm .. wel it sounds like theres a definite possibility between you t0o ... in the f u t u r e . he has someone right now so theres nothing u can do about that .. just like i cant do nething bout the guy i like going out w/ someone else =/ haha .. but yeh just keep ur options open and wait for him .. im sure this isnt gunna b his ONE for the rest of his life if hes telling you you two have possibilities. haha so just wait .. hes worth it, isnt he? '_-
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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here. (link)
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well.. its ussually okay ta think about someone else even when ur going out with someone, just as long as u dont do nething with that other person. buttt id say it is good u broke up with him just incase people end up getting hurt and all .. and if ur just gunna b thinking of a totally different guy while being with ur bf, i dont think theres reele any point to the relationship hah.. nah i think u did the right thing
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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aw.. wel its reele cute ta do that and for me itd b a turn on.. people are different tho. some people dont like it and some people think its sweet. its just you dont hafta get carried away cus then its not cute anymore. when you act like the girl has no hands and she cant open the door by herself.. cute is one thing, but when your still doing everything for her even after a cuple weeks n all, then its just anoying.. hope i helped?
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Me and my gf broke up and like a week after we broke up she wrote this really sweet note in her journal to my future gf telling them basicly that they should never let me go and that i was this really sweet and awsome guy. was it wrong for me to break up wit her sometimes i get confused. (link)
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well i guess i guess it depends on why u broke up with her.. it seems like she reele likes u tho and she reele misses u so going by the journal, it seems like u shood go back out with her. but again, it kind of depends on wut she did. if its something serious and way outta hand, then u did the right thing. but if u dont reele have a reason ta break up with her.. definitley go back out. it sounds like ur missing out on someone who loves you -_' hope i helped
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hey there is this boy that i really like but he only like me as a friend and i have knowend for like forever! and so what can i do to amke it all better?
the gurl (link)
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honestly, theres not much you can do. if he only like u as a friend, well you can look on the bright side are remind u ur atleast friends. maybe over time things will change but for now, theres nothing you can do besides not b urself and u wanna b urself, k? hope i helped
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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old? (link)
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nah .. thats not rong.. its cute hah.. but no its not rong.. i lovee someone four yrs older then me .. i dont have a chance at all but you do, so no theres nothing rong with it.. im interested ta no wut you cood do with a 10 yr old when ur 14 but hey, wutever floats ur boat =D
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hey, i like this boy named kyle at school and ive liked him for a couple monthes now, ive told him that i like him. my friends have talked to him and he says "its possible" that he likes me. hes VERY shy and sooo sweet. ive never liked someone this long before and i really want to be with him. i just dont want to ask him out and give me the answer thats not true because hes too shy. in september his heart was broken by another girl, and id promise to never break his heart. he's one of those boys thats kinda hard to tell what they're thinking so im stuck in the middle. he's not the most popular person, and he trusts me with a lot and we're already really great friends... what's your advice? (link)
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definitley go for it! if hes so shy, u guys wont get newhere if ur not the one ta ask.. i say definitley ask him out .. and u have nothing ta lose soo if u get the anser ur not looking for, shit happens.. =D
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me and this dude has been going on and off for about two years and i love him too death he's my everything. But theres a problem he does stuff that i really dont like, hes not cheating or w/e hes just doing something i think he shouldnt be doing, he says he loves me but right now he has to do what he has to do, since hes been doing that i really dont get to see him as often as i used to, so i feel really bad about this but i cheated on him and i have NEVER done that and i am afraid hes going to find out and then the two years of emotions will be gone, this dude is everything to me and he is the only one that has that special place in my heart and always be the one for me but what if he finds out? :'( (link)
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hes ur everything? wut wus he to you when u were cheating on him.. you oviously werent thinking too much of how he'd feel while u were out doing ur shit and its something u oviously once wanted so its kinda sumthing ur gunna hafta deel with if he finds out.. shit happens
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ok so there is this guy that 15 and im only 13. I really like him alot and he said he liked me also. Thats not the problem. He is really experinced in doing stuff like kissing and he knows how to be sexy and romantic. i have nver kissed a guy and he thinks i have. he wants to do "stuff" with me like get a blow job an make out and stuff like. I want to but i dont know if its right i mean b/c im soo young. Do you think i should just like make out with him and not have sex or anything? what should i do?? (link)
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yeh um.. its kinda like how ever u feel ur comfortable with.. in my eyes, i think making out is fine n all but sex at 13 is taking it too far.. im the same age n like a 16 yr old -_- nd if he wanted ta go that far, i honestly woodnt cus idk im just not like that and woodnt do sumthing like that at my age.. but like i sed making out is one thing and isnt bad at all.. hope i helped? =/
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i've been dating this guy for a little over 2 months now.... i like him so much... and i think i'm begining to fall in love with him... my dad HATES him... he's never done anything for my dad to not like him... my dad always said "i just want to see you happy" but ever since he found out about my boyfriend he's been really mean to him and it hurts me... i don't know how to get him to like him... my boyfriend means alot to me and it hurts me so much when my dad starts saying things about him... my boyfriend is really nice and he would never do anything to hurt me. i don't know why he doesn't like him!!!! HELP ME TO GET MY DAD TO LIKE HIM! (link)
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hmm.. wel idk how ur b/f acts around ur dad.. maybe hes trying too hard to impress ur dad and ur dad can see that.. tell ur b/f ta be himself and maybe thatll help. if not, remind ur dad he's always sed he wants u to be happy and tell him ur boyfriend is someone who makes u reele happy and just explain to ur dad u reele want him to like him and be okay with him being around.. hope it works =/
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OK i need sum advice! Theres this guy on mah street who i use to like n stuff.But at the time he didnt feel the same so i got over it.But now he likes me and he's kinda bugging me b/c now he likes me. I'm 13 and he's 14.And it sux cuz like whenever my older brother who is 15 has a guy friend come over the guy who likes me always starts talking to the guy n asking him who he's there to see! And im getting real pissed i dunno what i should do!! PLEASE help!!
(Alexia) (link)
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aw well tell the guy who likes u to calm urself.. sounds ta me hes a lil obsessed and selfish hah. just tel the guy that ur not his g/f so just becus hes jelus, dusnt mean he has ta make a big deal about it cus ur not the only one who can have guy friends.. just dont overreact no him, just be cool and let him no how pissed off it makes u..
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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
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you really just gotta sit down n talk ta her.. theres reele no other way ta get it through to her.. make her understand how much she means to you and the fact she broke her promise really made you upset and u just want her ta stop wut shes doing before it takes her down the road where she doesnt wanna be.. hope i helped
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K, Well all of my friends and shit tell me that I am pretty and the person I like would like me. But now that I found out he doesn't like me I do not know what to believe. Are they just saying that to be nice? Or are they telling the truth? I can never tell because I get lied to a lot and I do not think I am pretty--AT ALL!
Signed -
confused (link)
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well .. u sed ur FRIENDS sed that ur pretty.. right? if ur friends sed that, i dont think they were lying about it.. you shood b able ta trust ur friends ta tell the truth and u shood no that if ur friends wanna tell u something.. they will and they wont just lie ta make u feel good.. and if the guy u like doesnt like you, well shit happens.. and that specific thing happens ta everyone.. infact same w/ me right now.. but its just sumthing u hafta face .. im sure ur not ugly and if everyone sayss ur pretty, im sure u are .. we all hav bad opinions about ourself and just becus the one guy u like doesnt like u, dont let that bring ur hole self esteem down! '_-
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i'm a big, fat, huge, ugly, hairy, manly, disgusting girl who can't seem to find a boyfriend. how can i make myself more attractive so i can at least get a boy to look at me without throwing up all over me? (link)
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well.. DAWN, how bout um .. losing weight, putting make up on, shaving and waxing and then maybe the guy wont have ta upchuck everytime he sees u .. glad i cood help =D
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