No one can really tell another person what love is, or how they may love someone. It is truly undescribable because everyone has different experiences of falling in love. It is true that for someone you love, you will care deeply for them and will be very passionate towards them. It's being there for that person and supporting them through whatever may come their way. It's being happy for them no matter what. There are different kinds of love however. The way you love your parents or best friend is most certainly not the same way you love your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, whatever. I really do believe in soulmates though. I believe in this because a lot of people do not realize that you don't really love with your heart, you love with your soul and mind. You feel connected with this person in a way. When they're not there with you it feels almost unnatural and you feel like you lost a part of you. You accept this person for who they are. Many wonder why they call it "falling" in love. I personally think it is because when you fall like trip, it is unexpected and you don't see it coming and love is the exact same way. You never think you will fall in love with someone, it just happens, and that is the most exiting part of it. I will tell you that love can hurt, deeply. It will not always be a blissful time. There will be lots of different emotions and feelings going on. There comes a time when you may wonder if it is wrong or right and things start to get blurry, confusion is very common. I believe that you will always love someone even if you're not with them anymore, you just learn to live without them. To love someone you have to be somewhat mature because you cannot be selfish, you cater to their needs and desires. When you're with that person or even just thinking of them, it's like the whole world stops, and at that very moment, they're all that matters. I really hope I helped :]

I really dont think it matters. You're both in highschool, so I don't see a problem. The only thing is if she's not very mature since she is a freshman and all but I wish you all the luck! So go for it. Hope I helped :]

Well...it sounds like he likes you! I mean I can't be sure obviously but these are all signs though. Is he dropping hints like doing subtle flirting? Pay closer attention to exactly what he's saying and HOW he's saying it. The teasing sounds like he likes you because guys are known for teasing girls when they like them. However, I would watch out and make sure Kris doesn't become too clingy or attatched. I mean he does sound like he likes you and really sweet but sometimes they take it TOO far. Trust me I've been there, done that, and it's not fun. I say this because of the fact that he calls you multiple times throughout the day, also because you said he laughs at EVERYTHING you say. I encourage you to follow your heart but just be smart. Good luck! Hope I helped :]

Haha yeah I totally get what you're saying. You probably just have a really good all around personality. I'm guessing your're pretty outgoing and maybe even funny, and these are all great traits to have because this is what guys like in a girl. They don't want anyone who's overdramatic or anything. Teasing is a good sign that they like you. And yes boys love making girls laugh! It makes them feel good about themselves knowing that they made a girl laugh. It seems like you're doing great with the guys, keep it up. Hope I helped :]

I completely disagree with the person below me. I don't think it matters how long you've been together or been dating. When you feel that intense pain of not having them there, it feels unnatural not to be with them, you get this breath of fresh air in your body, etc. thats when you know youre in love. To me, you can fall in love at any age. I used to think different but I learned when I myself fell in love at a young age. The thing that most people don't understand is that there is no definition for love. Trying to describe your love for someone is like trying to describe how water tastes. You just can't! Love is different for everyone, and everyone has different experiences. When you fall in love with someone, it is like nothing else matters when you're with them. I do agree that you do have to be very mature about it. You have to be understanding towards their feelings and care for them. I hope I answered your question well enough :]

I personally think that falling in love is like describing water. You just cannot explain it no matter how hard you try. It is just this wonderful feeling and you catch yourself smiling just by thinking of that person. When you're not with that person it feels almost unnatural, like you're missing a part of you (cliche I know) but it really is true. Sometimes you won't be able to sleep because all you can do is think of that person and counting down the time until you see them again. Everything may not be perfect, but love is irrational and it doesn't always make sense. Trust me, you'll know when you've fallen in love :]

That's basically his way of saying "I don't want a girlfriend or any kind of commitment whatsoever" Don't let it bother you though. He may call you or text you in a few weeks though asking to "hang out" but he really just wants a makeout session. Go out and meet other guys! Don't let this guy get in the way of your happiness this summer. Hope I helped :]

This is really sad because you're doing all these things for attention and by you posting this question on here is for even MORE attention. OBVIOUSLY you're a slut. I don't mean to be so blunt but this aggravates me to the max. Just because it's summer doesn't mean you have to do everything. Especially when it's sexual things like these. Seriously think about this...do you have any respect for yourself? By you doing these things it just proves to all the people that know you that you don't deserve any respect whatsoever, and that's exactly how they'll treat you. Get your act together and stop all this b.s.

tease her, in a playful way you know? this will make you two feel more comfortable around each other. hope i helped

a lot of people have different opinions on what the bases are, but here are the most assumed ones.

1.making out
2.hand job/fingered
3.oral(blowjob and getting eaten out)
4.sex

in my own opinion, i say that maybe you should end the friendship as well. because it seems like there is a "friend with benefits" thing going on and thats not such a great type of friendship to have with someone. unless you can talk to him and explain to him specicfily that you only want a friendship, then you could try it. i really i hope i helped :]

its not that hard u just basically press your lips against his nd kinds push ur tongue against his while moving your head. hope i hepled :]

i think you shouldnt pressure him into it, i mean you cant make someone like you or anything. but just talk to him about it as casually as you can. try to be very open and say whatever you feel. its better to do in person too so you can see eachothers reactions, because you can tell alot by someones actions. ask him what makes him think it would just be a summer fling? if he still doesnt want to go into a relationship with you, then you basically have nothing left. nd now you cant go back to your ex, so just try to have fun this summer. i know it'll suck if he says no, but you'll move on. hope i helped :]

first u have to lead him on. once u see he's going along with it, go back to playing it cool sorta thing. now YOU'RE the one playing hard to get

well personally, i would take a break and cool down for awhile. your 17! have fun with your life! just be yourself, go out with your friends, and just hangout with any guys you might be into. dont make it out to be anything serious though. as a girl you need to learn not to get too wrapped up in things because sadly, something always goes wrong in relationships. hope i helpeddd :]

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