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Boyfriend
hey. ok this is a long one.
ive had this on and off thing going on with this guy for all throughout this year, and he liked me but it was all wierd timing and somehow we never really got togehter. hes always been my friend and always seemed liek more than that. i recently had a boyfriend and during that time he confessed his feelings for me, and i did to him too. he said he wanted to work it out before we head off to different schools (hs) and that he didnt want to blow his last chance with me. so, as anyone else would, i broke up with my boyfriend for him, knowing i would go out with this other guy. Its been a little over a week and i was talking to him alst night and he told me he didnt want to go through with it becasue he doesnt just want to have 'a summer fling' with me. I just don't get it... should i talk him into it or forget it ?
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i think you shouldnt pressure him into it, i mean you cant make someone like you or anything. but just talk to him about it as casually as you can. try to be very open and say whatever you feel. its better to do in person too so you can see eachothers reactions, because you can tell alot by someones actions. ask him what makes him think it would just be a summer fling? if he still doesnt want to go into a relationship with you, then you basically have nothing left. nd now you cant go back to your ex, so just try to have fun this summer. i know it'll suck if he says no, but you'll move on. hope i helped :]
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