I AM A VERY NON-JUDGEMENTAL PERSON. I AM VERY INCITEFUL AND HAVE MANY LIFE EXPERIENCES. I CAN ALMOST RELATE TO ANYTHING, TRUST ME! I ASPIRE TO BE A SINGER AND HAVE MY OWN ALBUM SOMEDAY BUT NOT SURE HOW TO QUITE GET TO THAT POINT. LET'S TALK, IM HERE FOR YOU.
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Hi. 17/M
I want to ask girls out but there's just a voice at the back of my head that's constantly saying "Why would she ever want to go out with you?"
I'm a really funny guy and I can always make girls laugh, and I know that's a sign that they like you, but I still can't get rid of that damn voice. Where did it come from and how do I get rid of it! (link)
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What all you guys dont seem to understand is secretly we girls LOVE confidence. Why do you think that we chase after them. We also do like sweet guys aswell. But be who you are and find security in that. Like you said you get the girls laughing. Girls LOVE that. If funny is what you do then ask a girl out in a funny mannor. Seriously I have major self esteem problems and yet somehow all the guys like me hahaha it still sounds funny saying it. But be yourself babe and good things will happen. Im here for support :) good luck
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15/f
I really like this guy, we met and I managed to get his msn and myspace.
He flirts with me but I get the impression he flirts with a lot of girls. However, I don't think he'd cheat in a relationship - his last relationship ended cause the girl messed him around, not the other way round.
I just want him really bad, but don't know how to go about getting him to like me. Yes, I know you can't force someone to like you, but there are always things you can do that increase your chances.
So, how do I stand out amongst all the other girls he flirts with and get him to see me as actual girlfriend material?
Also, seeing as the only contact I have with him, without suggesting we meet up (and we don't know each other that well), is online, how can I flirt and get him to like me via msn and myspace?
(It's harder this way because I can't do eye contact etc.)
Please don't give any replies telling me to give up on him just because I don't know he likes me, or to stay away from him because he flirts with lots of girls. Because y'know what it's like when you want someone badly, no way are those things going to make you give up.
Thanks in advance, x (link)
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Ok gurli. Heres the thing. Because you do not know him well there is all those risks involved and yadayada. But im not here to preach; im here to give you a straight up answer. One that will help you. I understand that situation. I met this guy one time and then I got his myspace and aim. Total cutie!!! We flirted and talked for hours at a time. I didnt even know him. But i talked over the phone with him. I was myself. I told him my views on life and my favorite kinds of music. Make it like a friendship first. Although you may feel COMPLETLY dif. When guys gain a relationship with a girl just by jumping into an intimate relationship then you truely dont know too much about the other as you should while dating. You also wouldnt trust a stranger with your heart so why would you a cute stranger. You know. So first find some common ground build trust and a friendship then ask if he sees this going any further. Good Luck sweety. Im your age so I get the whole guy thing shhh. lol
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hey im celina.
and i realllyyy need help.
so ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. and mostly things have been great, a few fights here and there but nothing to big, everything usually ends up being fine.
But hes graduating soon, and lately hes been spending time with the kids in his grade, which makes sense i guess bc they arent going to be with eachother anymore, but i feel really wierd about it. Like, i've heard that hes been flirting with some of the girls in his grade when im not there and stuff like that. And hes always so bipolar with me, like one day he will be saying how much he loves me and wouldnt know what hed do without me and the next day he will totally blow me off for his other friends. He normally calls & txts me a few times a day and he hasnt talked to me since saturday, at all! And i really wana talk about how its bothering me with him, but he wont even answer a phone call,even when i know he has his phone!! ugh!! PLEASE help me, and i need someone to tell me more than "everything will be ok". Is this normal for guys to act like this? or do i need to do something about it?
help!
please!
thanks! (link)
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it sounds to me that hes being a total a$$ to you. If you continously call him and email him or w.e. he's gonna get fed up and annoyed. I would wait awhile and if he doesn't call back then I recommend breaking it off!!! You shouldn't be stuck in a relationship if he's not being commited and dedicated. I dont know what is going on with him but he should not be ignoring you or treating you poorly. graduating is no excuse for mistreating your girlfriend.
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Please give me a lot of suggestions for wedding songs! thank you!! (link)
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because you loved me-celine dion
looks like we made it-shania twain
forever and for always-shania twain
forever love- anna nalick
blessed-christina aguilara
you were meant for me-jewel
how do i live-leanne rimes
its gonna be love-mandy moore
you set me free-michelle branch
you get me-michelle branch
this i swear-nick lachey
perfect-alanis morrisette
take me there-rascal flatts
one sweet love-sarah bareilles
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Hey , I was wondering ,
I got a little situation , and don't know what to think of it ,
well see my bf and me started dating not too long ago , and he says he wont cheat on me he wouldn't do anything to hurt me , and all this other stuff , and hes becoming the QuaterBack for football.. and I don't know if I could trust him? Do you think I should trust a guy that says he won't cheat on me and won't do anything to hurt me if hes still the QuaterBack football player? because my friends don't trust him..
THANKS FOR YOUR HELP :)
Betty (link)
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betty,
seriously. the guy seems to not have given you any reason to not trust him. he cares for you and i would imagine you would care for him. If you like him then be happy for him if hes quarterback. just because some guys who get quarterback are man hoes does NOT mean that inocent ones are or will become one aswell.
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13/f.
Okay so, I'm know I'm probably 'too young' to even think about being in love, but whatever.
I have this best guy friend- Andrew. And I have like, the biggest freakin' crush on him. He does use me for money, because I think he knows he has me wrapped around his finger. Now, all my friends tell me he likes me back like; "Omg he so likes you," or "You can tell by the way he acts," or something.
What he does is:
-Always looks me in the eyes when talking to me or just when we're close.
-Ditches his friends to come and talk to me for a minute.
-He'll always smile at me out of the blue.
-When I call him a fagot [purposely or otherwise(:] he gets the "WHAT!?" face [ sorta like :O!?] and gets all emotional.
-Teases me like making faces.
I'm just wondering if he does like me back.
I'd figure it out myself, but
I'm too stupid to :P
Kthnx (link)
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it sounds like hes got a bit of a crush back. be all playful and flirty and when you two are alone in the halls or something pretend to get up all in his face like obvious joking but stop and kinda look him in the eyes. he may just make his move. but flirt with him.
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13/f
I like my best guyfriend. I think he likes me... What do you think?-- We flirt alot and he always asks my opinions on things. I sit next to him in two classes. He's really nice to me and tells me alot of his secrets. He looks at me often. He has called me hot before. Like all this sounds so great, but for some reason i feel like he doesnt like me. What do you think????? (link)
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ok well it really sounds like hes into you sweetie. i had the same thing happen to me. casually say hey do you think we would ever be more than friends? and you think we would work as a couple. its usually a sure fire way to get the truth out in the open
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I know this is an odd question but it's genuine.. I wonder whether a woman can cum (obviously not with sperm or anything) TY (link)
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yes women can "cum".
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how do i show a guy im interested without being too forward and annoying?? (link)
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well start a casual convo. like say hey whats up? do you know so and so? it doesnt even have to be a real person. lol or you could be like hey im so and so ive seen you around your in my -class right? heres some starters:
hey do you know so and so?
can i copy your notes?
compliment out of the blue. sweetly though and dont wait for a response just continue on what you are doing. but dont be quick about it.
ask him if he got the assignment or a ?
do you have a pencil?
do you have a brother or sister by a fake name like amanda or scott.
ok? good luck sweetie
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ok so. my boyfriend and i have been kind of talking about the possibility of sex for a while? not actually saying "hey, lets have sex on THIS day" or whatever, but just like "yeah i want to," and yeah. well the past few times i went there things had gotten pretty heavy, but his friend was always in his room with us, so i always made him stop. but yesterday his friend wasnt there and we were making out on his bed. eventually i pulled apart from him for a second and pulled out a condom a brought. and i asked "how far are you willing to go with this?" and he kind of looked at me as if i was crazy or high or something.
I HAD NEVER BEEN SO EMBARRASSED IN MY LIFE. he was feeling me up and we were making out for what it seemed like 4-6 minutes! am i getting mixed signals here??? did i do something wrong? i dont even really know why i did that except for the fact that i thought something was about to happen. i talked to him later last night on aim. and he said he didnt want to because he loved me. WTF IS THAT SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!?!??!! i think im kinda ready. and hes not a virgin! so i dont get it! can someone attempt to explain this to me? im avoiding him now and i dont wanna talk to him and i wont for a while but i think im wrecking everything but im just so confused. HELP?? thanks. (link)
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just because a guy is not a virgin doesn't mean he wont pass up a chance on sex. i had the sorta same situation but i asked him if he wanted to and he said he did but he wouldnt because he loved me. i felt like wait is there something wrong with me am i not turning him on or what. but it turns out that he cared and he knew that i might not be ready and what would happen if i wasnt. i broke up with him 2months later. guess it wasnt meant to be. just trust yourself and try to trust your boyfriend. but if things dont turn out exactly as planned then dont be too let down.
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17/f. I really really like a guy at school who is in one of my classes. I've never talked to him before and I don't know him but I really like him :S
It's so bad because I feel really uncomfortable around him and I am really shy and everything. The worst thing is anytime the teacher asks me a question or I have to say something in class I get totally embarrassed and I'm pretty sure I go completely red and I am so embarrassed and I absolutely hate it, this has never happened to me before and I don't know what to do.
Help? (link)
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well its obvious to say you like the guy. but i think that you should try and talk to him any way you can. its normal to feel anxious when in class with the guy you are crushing but if you cant even talk then it may become a problem. if you are afraid of rejection of some sort, think of it this way. Guys are usually stupid about girls but they are most often not rude if you try to talk to them or are sweet and fun. but take it step by step. become friends first but dont overwhelm him or you may chase him away. play the game
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i think a guy might like me, but everyone says show him your interested.
how can i do this that even someone really stupid and oblivious would get the hint but subtly, not being like hey i like you.
thanks (link)
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Ok you smile from over your shoulder that is a sure way to mega flirt.
-when you look at him and he sees you don't look away (even though it's hard) smile and whisper hi
-make small talk
-ask a question like hey do you know so and so.
-be confident!!! every guy loves confidence.
any other questions feel free to ask
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i like 3 guys and with all of them, somethings stoping us. one of us its age, one has a girlfriend and the other says he doesnt like me. (but theres reason to belivie that he does.) well im really sick of being single and i want to be with someone. and theres always some1 i can be with but thats just the point. i want to be with someone who also wants to be with me. and i want to be with them. not because of how i look but i am in the inside. and i think that that at least 2 of theses guys do. (btw if it helps, we are all friends but like none of them know eachother. (link)
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I have been in the same situation before. I was 14 and one of the guys was 16. The other guy was 18 and the last was a few weeks younger than me. If you are close friends with them then first go for the one that you are most compatible with (see yourself with) and then when you two are alone ask them casually, " Hey do you ever see us as more than friends?". That will show you the direction you should move in from there. I truely would not go for the one with a girlfriend! That may cause unwanted and unneeded drama. Good luck and feel free to ask any more questions!!!
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