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im 18/f hes 19/m
Last night i went out to a club to see one of my favourite bands, i had organised to meet up with a guy thats my best friend, that i also have very very strong feelings for. He says he likes someone but i'm too afraid to ask who...so anyways as i was catching the train on the way there he texted me saying his phones about to die, and to text me where ill be at all times through the night so he could try and see me. I texted him the details, then he said he probably wont be able to get into the club due to the amount of people attending to see the band playing, and that the tickets would run out by the time he got there. He then turned his phone off saying he'll only use it for emergency incase something happens. I then told myself, that if there was such thing as fate, that somehow we'd see each other tonight.
anyways i went to the club with my other friends, enjoying the night. I thought i would text him so next time he turned on his phone he'd know how much i was wishing he was there. just as i was about to press the send button he calls me. He tells me he's outside so of course i race out to go see him, he hugged me, held onto me and ran his fingers back and forth across the skin on my shoulder. He was drunk, and soon enough his friends came over (after finding out he ran ahead of them to get to the club sooner). He introduced me to them, then told me that judging by the line he doubts they will be able to get in... the band i originally went to see, was playing the time i talked to this guy, and as my fave song by them i came all that way to hear, began to play, i gave him one more cuddle before going back in. as i pulled away he said "i owe you this" and kissed me.
that was our first kiss, we've talked about wanting to kiss each other before, but not wanting to mess everything up. I was excited when he used the last of his phone battery to text me to say he managed to get in. so i went and found him, he immediately cuddled me, and everywhere we walked he held my hand. We even just spent ten minutes holding each other, his head resting on top of mine, my head on his chest, and our arms around each other. We looked like a couple, and it felt so natural and perfect. Then he introduced me to his other friends, and we started dancing. I started to get jealous when this one girl was constantly dancing with him. I could tell she was into him as well and i didn't want to compete, thinking it wasn't possible that i would possibly have things work out for me.
Its just he has another best friend thats a girl that i met last night, and they were dancing together, and i got pretty jealous. He saw her again tonight and now im confused as to whether or not he likes me :S (link)
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alittle backround info..
we went out for a year and a half, in the begginning of the relationship he was obbsessed with me and now he doesnt wanna be with me anymore were both 16 and we dont see eachother alot because im not allowed to date so its hard to hangout with him.
problem: we broke up a month ago and he says we fight too much and he doesnt have energy for it anymore and it hurts me so much because i just want things to go back to how they were and i dont want him to talk to anyone and im really deppresed becuase i feel like he doesnt care :'( what do i do?! (link)
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I am in the same boat... I hate guys! Please don't freak out on him or blow up his phone... i did that and it only makes things worse :( If i could have told myself one thing when i was going through this situation is... the less they want you the more you want them... and other way around. I mean don't play hard to get... maybe he is just over it... I mean fate will guide you to whoever ur supposed to be with! You just gotta take what you learned from this guy and not look for the bad in the next! If you have any other questions... ask me!
-Ky
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little while and when we kiss he fingers and stuff but i've never really done anything to him. What can i do to please him the way he does to me without seeming inexperienced (link)
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give him a hand job. It's pretty easy... just unzip his pants He will most likely be hard... and just like your holding a glass of water move your hand up and down at like a nice and easy pace :)
_Kylie
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i really want to give my boyfriend a handjob but i don't know how to go about it. should i just stick my hand down his pants and grab it or wait for him to pull it out? and how do i know when to stop? (link)
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Well... The only time i gave one he pulled it out. Or he'll hint you by guiding your hand to hid pants. You'll know when to stop because he"ll stop doing whatever he's doing to you. Some guys like aggressive girls though. SO maybe if you think your comfortable start unzipping his pants and start stroking :)
-Kylie
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lol okay so im a 17/f and umm i added this guy i went to elementary school with on facebook. he's really cute and umm we go to different schools since i moved. b ut yeah.. what should isay to him on facebook because he's so hot and i really wanna talk to him haha. so how should i start the convo? (link)
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start it like HEYY HAAVENT TALKED TO YOU IIN AWHILE!
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OK, I have a question.
Do people flirt with the opposite sex even when they dont like them..? (link)
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YESSSS they do!!! haha everyone does!! but flirting can be misleading or leading!!!! so it doesnt really maatter you have to go with your instincts!
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So I found out that my boyfriend of 2 months lied to me about smokeing weed. he swore he would never lie again but obviously i dont belive him considering he lied the first time. Now that hes lied, I always think that hes lieing to me about EVERYTHING..I dont want to break up with him but I dont want to be with him if I think hes lieing..I know this is confusing but how can I just find out the truth when I think hes lieing? Should I just trust him until I catch him in the act? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Well... its hard to say. i have really good lying senses! When you tihnk that hes lying confront him and be like "are you lying to me please tell me the truth i wont get mad i just want to know the truth!" i yhave been out with soo many guys that lie to me so i am pretty much used to it by now. Sometimes it can be psychological haha like you can think just cause he lied once he will do it again. but in reality if you really do believe him then just do! And i mean there are worse things hje could be doing than smokking weed...
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do u think 50 dollars is too cheap to gv a bf for christmas weve been together for only 2 and a 1/2 months.....and also any idea wat to rite in d card??? (link)
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that is NOT cheep!!! haha thats a good present! on the card write i love you ONLY if you guys have gotten to that stage! but put like Have a really good merry xmas and stuff like that and then maybe bring up the fisrt time u met or like ur first date and how wpecial it was to you!
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15/f
i've liked this guy for about 7 months. i was like CRAZY for him. and recently i stopped liking him. also, my friend who i have known since i was 7 years old(we've only recently became close, like 2 months ago) now likes him. she is crazy for him. she's told me how much she likes him, and i told her that i don't like him anymore. however, i found out a few days ago that he likes me! and now i like him more than ever. but my friend still likes him. i don't know what to do because i really really like him but i don't want to hurt her. please help! (link)
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ok... ughh that sounds really bad but it has seriously happened to me not too long ago and my friend got him. So the best thing she told me was that there was nothing wrong with me it was just her and him had a better connection than me. So just tell her and be honest i totally understood. Just seriously dont rub it in her face that u guys like each other try to keep it on the DL but also dont keep secrets form ur best friend be honest trust me she will understand.
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15/f i'm inexperienced at dating guys or even getting asked out and 2 days ago, this guy professed his love to me online and said that he wants me to go out with him. and he kept on flattering me and i was like whoahh, you know? too much attention.
i don't like him. he's sweet but just not my type.
i didn't know what to answer him when he asked me out, so I said i'll think about it. and now he's assuming that i meant that its a maybe. that he has every right to hug me or do stuff.
its not a maybe. its a no.
i just dont want to break his heart. he told me the last girl who rejected him broke his heart. and he gave me all this bs about how im the right one, and how he can't live without me.
and i'm like : you're kidding right?
he wasn't.
i'm really confused. how do i go about getting 'rid' of him in a nice way? i'm so new to this..
and i'm beginning to think maybe i led him on :/ (link)
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i ahve had this happen it sucks!!!
ok so to get "rid" of him kind of just ignore him and act uninterested or just say another guy asked you out from another school close by and just like dont get too caught up in the lie it can backfire sometimes but be careful and it won't.
u can ask me a question any time i check my column everyday so just ask if u have any questions!
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so im the only one out of my friends who has actually passed kissing but i've only made it to 2nd base. but they all seem to have boyfriends and guys like them. i mean im popular in school and get along well with guys but i feel like no guy wants me. so my question is, is there any tips to getting guys to like you- i mean besides talking to them or trying to flirt? (link)
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do things that they would notice! Also play hard to get! If he has a myspace or a screen name talk to him on that but dont seem like a stalker haha there is usually always someone that likes you but is just too afraid to ask so be nice to everyone!
-Kylie
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So I have a boyfriend whom I've been with for a little over 4 months.I adore and love him with everything I got.He's such a good boyfriend.I don't know what I'm in for though.I know it will be hard going to highschool and him going to college 2nd semester and he will be working more and stuff.I'm not sure if me being in highschool will effect our relationship, Because I've been told I don't realize I flirt.I don't want to hurt him or him hurt me.So far this is my longest relationship.I'm pretty sure this is the best boyfriend I've been with..ever.He actually cares about me.Seems like I don't know what I want sometimes.Anyone have any input or suggestions on what I should do...this is complicated. (link)
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keep on dating him for a little while longer then think about if you feel right with him. if you dont just tell him your still trying to sort out things in your life and that you need time if he loves you he will understand! if he's such a good boyfriend then i think your should stay with him bc it seems like you really like him and that he likes you!
-Kylie
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15/f. Ok simply i got to know my friend's cousin at some of her family get togethers and now i'm like him. she's ok with it but one night we were talkin online and playing a question game and he asked me who i liked. i hesitated and he was going to make me answer but i decided to be brave and take a chance for once in my life so i told him that i kinda like him. he just said "you know u didn't have to answer if u didn't want to". we kept talkin but i felt like after that day he didn't really want to. then my friend called him one time she was over and asked what he thought of me even though i begged her not to and he said "why cause she likes me?" and refused to answer the question. She calls him randomly and it makes me feel like he probably thinks i'm asking her to. i saw him the other day and he brought this guy i really don't like so i wasn't very friendly with him but i'm not sure if that was the only reason. i tried talk to him online after and he totally ignored me. i mean my friend said that before he flirted with me but i don't think i have or had a chance. i can't stop thinking about him. should i even bother with him and what about my friend? She's trying to help but i'm not sure that she is. (link)
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i think he likes you but just doent want your cousin to find out or something.yai really dont think that your friend wants you to be with her cuz. guys are weird sometimes like they either like you one day but not the next. If he flirted with you thats a good sign it means that eh is interested. I think if nothing happens in a few weeks to forget about him ok.
sry all my advice is kinda scattered
if you have anything lse to ask ask me kay
and also if i didnt cover an area ask me
-Kylie
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15/f
me and this guy sean met not too long ago and he is possibly the most amazing guy i have really ever met.
he started holdin mii hand and kissin my forehead and hand and really cute stuff like that.
well eventually i gave him head, and he told all his friends that it was thee best he's ever gotten.
i'm kinda sorta starting to like this kid for his amazing personality.. but i'm afraid he only wants me for the hookup.
his friend matty always texts me sweet stuff but sean will say stuff like "hey beautiful" but also things like "would you ever have sex with me?" "do you want to 69 when we see eachother.." etc.
how do i get him to like me.. and for ME?
ps.. i still wanna hookup with the kid.. just, you know, also be like best friends.. (link)
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well ok this guy sounds pretty into you already though
it sounds like he is in for it for his benefits but it sounds
like you are too kinda but you want to be like bf and gf. you should ask him where this is leading
to. He might like you already though. and ask hi how he feel towards you
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Well ilike this boy and he likes me.
Well 2 weeks ago he said he was gonna ask me out just not at the moment and its been 2 weeks and he still hasn't i mean im patient but we always and that i just want to know what do you think is he over me,dosnt he want a gf or want just curious.
Thanks muchh ! (link)
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it could be that he really likes you
or that he is really shy and nervous
about asking you out. if he has any
friends that dont like you maybe they
are telling him not too ask you out
but i think he will bc it seems like you
care about him a lot to ask for advice
-Kylie
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Ok my boyfriend and me are in a long distance relationship, he has a myspace and he wont add me, should I be worried about this? My friend said he prolly has girl friends on there and that I would get jealous. He tells me his computer won't let him on it he doesn't get on that much but he leaves comments on his cousins profile..... (link)
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ehh dont be too woried he might be telling the truth but also he might be lying i mean someone else can be on his myspace like a sibling or a best friend and not adding you you should make like a fake myspace or go on a friends myspace and add him and see if he adds you back!
aha it might work and see if he is just avoiding you
-kylie
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SO lately I have not been able to trust my boyfriend and another guy is moving in now don’t get me wrong my man is really hot but I meet this new guy at senior beach week he was with one of my guy friend and omg he models for A&F and his been really sweet and he begged my friend for my number and I really didn’t think that he would think I was hot but he did and he wants to get to know me better well he came over last night and I told my boyfriend and he trusted me so it was ok but at this point I don’t think I can trust myself because what if my boyfriend makes me mad once more I might cheat and I would never do that but this guy makes me feel awesome but I love my boyfriend I really don’t know what to do ! (link)
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i have been in a situation similar to this
you just have to think of who you like better because it wouldn't be fair for the other guy to like you and you not to like him
whoever treats you better and you think will love you better.
if you think you cant trust your boyfriend can you trust the other guy??
your in a really hard situation
i hope it all works out,
Kylie
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There is this guy that I've gone to church with for the past year and since the first time I saw him, I've been crazy about the guy. He inspired me to grow as a Christian and be the person I am today. I wrote him a note telling him how he inspired me a while back. The problem is he has no clue that I like him. The other problem is that I'm really shy. I don't know how to get across. I'm thinking about sending a message over myspace to him. What should I do?
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they all have good answers but a message has no harm.
but the only problem is that it will be harder to talk to him in person. being shy is natural. you should ask him to do something with you.
-kylie
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i'm 17/m
she's 15/f
tomorrow is my first date ever, which is pathetic in itself because i'm 17 and i'm gonna be a senior. i just got off the phone with this girl and set up the date and now i'm getting really nervous and i'm just downright buggin. we're gonna see 1408 at 4:15. i had to pick an early movie time cause my license doesn't let me drive past 9. we both really dig each other but when we're around each other its weird cause we both have the plague, shyness, really badly. i think we're perfect for each other cause we both love heavy metal and we have divorced parents and we both for the mostpart hate life. i just don't know what do do. my friends are no help cause everyone tells me to just bang her, even my dad but i don't wanna bang her. i have no desire to do that with her because i know that if both connect with each other verbally, it will be more fulfilling than any sexual act. to be honest, i just really want to hold her hand. the most i would wanna do is kiss her, not make out though, like a real like cute kinda kiss. i sound gay, i know. i could be bi but thats a question for another day. the movie will end around 6ish and i dont know what we should do after. i'm just completely lost and i'm freakin out man. i need tips, please no jackass tips that tell me to bang her. its times like this when i wish i did drugs cause i need a big fat blunt. (link)
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haha the endings the best! From a girls point of view. you sound like a pretty sweet guy admitting that you are shy.
Just try to bring up the things you have in common. that will start conversation. during the movie it gets scary i mean hello 1408. you could hold her hand maybe just dont expect her to make the first move i hate when guys think that!
end the dat with a kiss or if you arent comfortable a kiss on the cheek. Dont freak out either its ok that this is your first date. dont ask her any really personal questions it will make her uncomfortable. and after the movie lets out go sit somewhere and talk or go for a walk.
YAY 1ST DATE,
Kylie
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theres this boy that i like and have been best friends with for over 4 years and i love everything about him except he always seems to try and get compliments out of me or something. he'll be all like "oh, i'm so ugly" when he knows he isnt and he knows i dont think he is either. he'll also try to say that hes pathetic when he has no reason to and tons of other things. because i like him, i guess i always respond with anything to try and make him feel better. am i feeding his ego? why does he do this? (link)
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you have it down! Guys will do that! Especially if he knows you like him. He will ask you those questions to see what you will say. If he says"i am so ugly", be like "Yeah you are huh?" then say kidding its playful!
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