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ok...i asked out my sisters boyfriends brother and he said yes. yet, my sister wants to kill me for it but her boyfriend is happy we're going out. why do you think my sister doesnt want us going out? if they get married, i surely wont date him. and i dare not brake up with him because i love him. so why would my sister not like us going out? (link)
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well maybe your sister thinks that you are crowding in on her, or maybe she is jealous for some reason unknown even to her!! but no matter why she is bugged you need to talk to her. she may bug the heck out of you but you guys are sisters and you need to have each others backs, it what sisters do. so as i mentioned b4 hand, talk to her. ask her why she is so bugged. hope i helped!!
lots of love (and luck)
katkrazy
PS: i wish soooooo very badly i had a sister so you need to know you truly are very lucky to have a sister. (contrary to popular belief!!)
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hi- promise u wont laugh? ok here i go:
i am 14, and i went bikeriding w/ a freind. There was a boy there. He was really cute and nice. I gave him my cell, and he asked if we could go out as freinds when my other freind wasn't looking. He called me almost every other night and i had fun talking to him. He gave me a pretty ring and asked me to be his grlfreind... a week later he called me and told me that he knows what he wants for his b-day. a kiss. i really like him, he is nice, cute, and funny. what should i do?(i really want to but i cant say it to his face)how should i tell him yes. and before you ask, he goes to a diff school, and he doesn't have email. (link)
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this isnt funny, so why would i laugh???
anyway i think that you should tell him yes in a way where you wont even have to tell him. First make sure you REALLY like him. second the next time you see him the just say, about what you wanted for your birthday.....then just kiss him. that way you wont have to try to tell him and choke, and he (and you)will get what you want!!
if that doesnt work then just try to tell him!! i really hope i helped, and good luck!!!!
~Katkrazy~
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I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?
I am 13 years old. (link)
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u r are not ugly never get yourself down, for one thing and just because boys ont like doesn make ou ugly either none of the guys are right for you you will find the right guy it takes time and if you still think your are ugly then change your look:
makeup
hair
clothes
try contacts 2
when you do that and come back to school the boys will be lining up but remember if they didnt talk to you b4 and now they are since you changed your look then watch yourself dont fall in too deep they might be shallow i hope i helped and good luck!
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i know its stupid .. but i need help!! i have never been french kissed before and i htink im ready, but i dont know how to do it! do both yo uadn your boyfriend put your tounges in each others mouth or does one just put theirs in the others mouth? and how do you know whos tounge goes on top or bottom? I REALLY NEED HELP!! (link)
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im really sorry to say this but i have the same problem you do!!! ask around, and if you can will you get back to me???
ps: it will happen sometime and when it does you will know exactly what to do!!!! hope i helped!!!!
~katkrazy~
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O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please. (link)
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Well Lacey, you are not doing anything wrong, sometimes it just takes a while for the right guy to come and find you. Don't worry, there is someone for everybody. And if your friends say that you are too ugly or too dumb, then no offence to them but they aren't that good of friends. They shouldn't be negative to you and make you feel bad about youself. A real friend supports you!!!
PS: I hope "Mr. Right" comes for you soon!!!! :-D
~A*m*a*n*d*a~
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I'm writing my boyfriend of 7 months a note, I really want it to have an impact on him. He's amazing and honest and wonderful and I don't know what I'd be without him, and I've expressed that alot through the letter. Last week, I screwed up majorly and that's why i'm writing this note to him.
-- Last week I went snowboarding and I met this guy, before an hour had passed he had asked me to make out with him, since I have a loving and caring boyfriend I didn't make out with him because it's wrong, right? Like always, NO never works on a guy, so naturally he kept on harassing me. Insted of making out, we agreed on hugging. I told my boyfriend this, and to some people this might seem "over protective" or "obsessed", but he got really upset with me.
Everything is wrong now, so I told him I didn't hug him, i just dont' want to lose him. I know i should have confessed and stayed that way, but you've got to see it from my point of veiw. What I'm trying to say is, is there anything more to put in the letter to make an impact on him... I also need to have advice on what to say to my boyfriend about the other guy.
Please help, I'm desparate. (link)
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you should tell him you love him and that you were only hugging the guy, and ask him to forgive you. do that and hope for the best!!! hope i helped!!!
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okay, for all you iditos who anwser questions with rude anwsers..go away now..because you arent wanted..
this one i would probaly like a girl to anwser..but hey, i dont care
okay, im 6th grade(girl of course)..corny but hey, and i like this guy..everyone says that we would look really good together, and i know him well. this is my 3rd year of being in the same class as him, we hang out together sometimes, and we basically sit next to eachother. well, his gf just broke up with him, althogh it wasnt a real relashonship..they never really liked eachother..well, i don't know if he likes me or not..we get along great and all..and well, i really want him to ask me out! he is so nice and funny, caring also..i always said that i would never have a bf until like 7th or 8th grade..cuz the relashonships are never real..but how can i clue him to like ask me out? or how can i get clues as to if he likes me or not? i really need help on this one..sorry for the length
signed..
need help!
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i think to find out if he likes you, you might want to have one of your friends ask him, but make sre she doesnt give you away. some (most) boys dont notice sutleness. alse you might want to always flirt and be a great friend to him at the same time, and then at some point, (when your older) if he hasnt made his move, you ask him out. good luck, and i hope i helped!!!
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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help! (link)
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you might not like this, but you just have to wait. the right guy will come at the right time.
i hope i helped.
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my sis just got her first boyfriend & she likes himbut im worried he doesn't like her. He kissed her a few times but he never calls her & i read in a mag that that means he's not really into her!!! can u help.plese do
j (link)
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well you can't always trust magazines. but if this is really what you think, then maybe you should ask your sister about it. she might say something like oh hes having family problems, or he is moody, or etc. and if you are afraid of approaching you sister, try the guy himself and say that you dont want him to crush your sister or hurt her. if that also desnt work try a mom or dad that can talk to you sister. watever you do dont l aguy come between you and your sister.
Lots Of Luck!!!
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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz? (link)
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wow!!!! that is so terrible!! here r some things u should do:
1: pray!! even if you are not religous, pray his life may depend on it.
2: have everyone in your class sign a card for him so that when he wakes up he knows people care that might help the most.
3: relax, let the doctors do their thing it will be hard to relax, but he probably doesnt want you to suffer too much for his sake!!! i truly hope i helped!!!:D
~Katkrazy~
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tomorrow is the talent show at my school and i want to sit next to the kid i like, how can i go about doing this? if it helps, my 2 friends are helping me. ones a girl and ones a guy. (link)
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u have pretty much got it now!! lots of luck!!
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like i am so confused i really want a bf now but like its wired cuz i like guys and i want a bf and everythings like pressure like my bff is my crushes gf and plz give me advice ! (link)
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my advice to you is dont rush it! the right guy will come at the right time!! hope i helped!!
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Well here is my problem ..
I went out with this guy for like 2 months .. We broke up .. It was b/c of me .. :-( I got so nervous around him .. He'd try to hold my hand and i would shake .. I felt so stupid .. That was almost 7 months ago ..Well I still like him SO much .. But he doesn't know that i still like him .. I think that he has a clue but i haven't confirmed it .. Well one of his friends likes me and i kinda like him .. But i don't get nervous around him .. I want to go out with him but i don't want it to look like i am "using" him to get to the other guy that i still like ALOT .. Any advice would be good !!
Thanks so much .. (link)
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I think you should just go out w/ him to see how it is, and if your ex, asks you if you are using the guy you are going out w/, then just say no. lots of luck!!!!
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I am 15 I had my 1st love and after we broke up I was down all the time and i cud never have a boyfriend cause they always reminded me of Joey then after 9 months of being single i got back with my ex CJ and we were happy i forgot all about joey then we broke up and he is with my bestfriend..I try to have a boyfriend to forget about Joey and CJ but it dont work..I cant find a guy 4 me...Whats wrong with me?? Please help!!!!!!! (link)
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Nothing is wrong with you, they just weren't the right ones 4 u. there r lots of other guys!!! everything happens for a reason!!! a pint of ice cream helps 2!!!
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I like this boy called Daniel, but I don’t know what to do! Today in PE my friends were saying, "Let’s call Lauren's (my) crush Daz, as a code name. As in Daniel" (they have these sad code names for the boys they fancy, like carrot and cabbage). I didn't tell them that I fancied him, but they must know, and plus in art, one of them asked if I fancied Dan. I shook my head but I was smiling a bit so I guess they knew =( I'm really scared they'll tell him! he said he liked my drawing in art, and that it was better than his, and he kept touching my foot with his foot under the desk too. and my friend was making fun of me, and he stuck up for me, then he said "I'm only defending Lauren" when my mate asked why. that was a few days ago, and now he's just ignoring me (I think he was looking at me, but I was scared I would start blushing if I looked at him, so I guess I'm ignoring him too) I'm real shy + ugly lol so I don’t know what to do! I'd love to go out with him but I'm scared my friends would laugh because they always fancy popular, 'hard' boys who get into fights. Dan is really sweet and mature. and plus he probably doesn’t even like me =/ any easy tips on flirting for SHY people? 'Cos I’m not good at flirting lol =\ please help? Thanks =) (link)
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I think you should try and make the first move. Maybe he's also too shy and he likes you too!!
P.S. NEVER say you are ugly!!!!
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