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i'm tiffanie(:& i'll probably let you down.Make me laugh, choke on your bullshit drama,
and don't throw words like dear and babycakes at me.
It doesn't take much to annoy or anger me.
I'm fourteen, sorry i'm not mature enough for you.
I speak my mind. I won't spare my words for your feelings.
I have enemies and it doesnâ??t bother me.
I judge people more then necessary./
I'm a coffee addict and I swear more then necessary.
& my song always has a meaning, or it's dedicated.
I'm Reppin' The 33O Ohio. â?¥
advice
so im dating this one kid right? and well i met someone new. and i kinda like him. one day we kinda flirted a little. but i still really like the other guy. so what should i do?
it's a simple answer, which one do you like more& go with them. problem solved.
hi, im 14(a freshman) and hes 13 (in 8th grade) ok so me and this one kid have been dating on and off since 6th grade and lately we borke up again and it was a huggeeee mess, and a week or two ago we started talking again and hes like that one boy ill always love unconditionally and he still loves me yet he tells my friends i confuse him and he doesnt understand me so i brought it up to him and he said no, hes fine blahblah. and at youth today when he said byt he said i love you and was being serious. and i was a little confused but didnt think much of it. and i still really like him but i dont know what to do because i asked him if we were like done for good this time and he was like well prob not but idk. i wanna be single. and i was like yeah so do i. and he was just lik ok. but like im still confused. do i wait, or try and move on. and i understand he still loves me and i still love him but why would her say i love you?
I honeslty think that 14& 13 are too young to be "inlove" but if you think you've found it that young then congradulations. :)
I say you should try to move on, but after a while of trying to move on, if you realize that you can't then theres nothing else you can do babe, just wait& he'll come around.
If it's ment to be it'll find it's way.
Hi I'm a female and i'm 15 turning 16. I'm sorry in advance this may be long....what happened was I cheated on my boyfriend.when it was happening i was in the moment (i had the issues of boredom, wanting attention, spite, anger,lonely...). i didn't consider it cheating but after the fact, figured out it was...it was OVERLY flirtly like if you woulda saw me you woulda thought i went with the person. and touchy feely. there are two parts to this and i did my bf dirty...i know. First and for most it was recently (last saturday) and during last summer. it was with my ex and my bf's cousin (in-law not blood i know it's all bad). They came on to me, and i feel for temptation (and last saturday if he woulda just came around it wouldn't have happened anyway, but i still do take the blame) But during last summer my bf (now my ex) was sent away to glen mills, for over a year (he just came home last thursday.) Well i decided to ask him a what if question...but when he asked me what i did i said stuff and wouldn't explain. well he got mad and banged on me telling me get at him when i matured...well my brothers called him yesterday (that made everything WORST) and i found out we seriously don't go together. so i know how it feels to be cheated on (even though from what i know of except something he never cheated on me- pretty faithful) but i tried calling him today when i knew he was in and he banged on me and told me it wasn't no talk about it. well i feel as if there's nothin i can do, and i love and i'm sincerly sorry, i swear i am, i believe in second chances and think i should have one. but he won't talk to me and i've been crying for 3 days now and feel terrible...i've already been told not to worry, it's not the end of the world, to wait....but i have a right to worry it is the end of THAT part of my world and waiting hurts.he said he loved and i believe he did and still might...but he's not willing to listen. and i believe if a person really loves someone they'll try. but i hurt him i know. i need advice obviously. i need help noone around me seems to be able to help. so i'm turning to you males/females....please don't judge me and i know it was wrong just try your best to help me. and i'll be sure to let you know how your advice works out. THANK YOU for taking time to read this!!!!
Well honestly, I don't see why your upset, I understand spur of the moment yada yada, but really who's more hurt, him or you? Obviously him, so it's no one's fault but yourself. Maybe you should think about your actions before you do them.
I guess just give him time to settle down, a week or two& then start talking to him that's all you can really do.
17/f & 17/m ..okay so i've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now and we still have stupid fights. is this normal? it seems like we can't go a few weeks without something stupid happening. and we both hate it so much but we don't know how to stop it. any suggestions? what do any of you get fights in about with your bf/gf? and how do you get through it? anything will help thanks!
That's perfectly fine, it's probably the fighting that make's you closer& more in love.
Noah: Well that's what we do, we fight... You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I'm not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you're back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing.
Allie: So what?
Noah: So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.
That's from the notebook& they fought all the time, but loves not supposed to be easy, but it's supposed to be worth it.
well i started to talk to this boy and then a couple months later i realized i like him....... ALOT. but i never knew his age now that i do know it bothers me. hes a seventh grader when im a sophmore. what should i do?
-Alyssia G
Well I have the same deal, but i'm a 8th grader& my boyfriends a junior. We both really like each other so we don't worry about it, so you shouldn't either. :)
So, I have this huge thing for my ex-boyfriend. We broke up about 2 months ago, and I cant seem to get my mind off of him! I flirt with other boys a lot, but when they want to pursue more then just that...I turn them down because I want to be with my ex. But I've filled him in on the fact that I still have feeling for him, but he's pretty shy about his feelings so I'm not sure what to do!? Please help! :)
I'm sixteen & Female, and deffinatly not enjoying being single.
welll, I have the same problem pretty much. you can still flirt with the other guys but try to talk to your ex& ask him if he likes you, if he says yes then you just have to play the waiting game and wait for him to ask you out, if he says no then try to move on, I know it's hard but everything happens for a reason. :)
good luck!
why is it a bad idea to make guys jealous?
j/w .
thanks in advanceee.
well, he might think you're not interested when you are then give up and move on.
I like this guy alot... he is really cute and he takes me out to eat alot. He kissed me goodnight once but i dont think i will date him because i like this guy from my school. Ive also made out with a guy a few times when we werent dating.. am i a slut?!
No you're not, all he did was kiss you goodnight it's not like it was a full on sexcapade. & who the hell cares if you madeout with someone when you weren't dating, seriously. I mean it's not that big of a deal. You aren't going around having sex with them so I don't consider you a slut but other people have different opionons.
So i have this friend named Toren Roubic and he is a sexy beast, i want to bang him but he is just to sexy for me...he told me he did some stuff with you before and i thought i would get some advice from you, he is really hot and has a great body, hair, and eyes.
What do you sugest i do about this amazingly hot guy?
p.s- He is a big hunk of man-candy
hahahhaha.
^^ made my night.
wellll, torrence is pretty amazing& is some man-candy so I would bang him. :) ahahah.
I looooove my best friend.
i was talking to my boyfriend the other day and we usually talk about this stuff because it's something we need to talk about. he has fingered a girl before and they waited about 5 months to do it, the thing is they didnt talk as much as we did before they dated they didnt even talk it just happend. we talked for almost 2 months but i still told him he has to wait 5 for him to finger me..idk if im making him wait to long or if we did it before 5 months it'd be like sluty.?
I feel that five month's is fine, I mean when you feel comfortable with him fingering you then let him, don't do anything you're not comfortable with, if your fine with doing it before then then go ahead.
so, what do you do if you like someone alot, and they like you too but they just want to be friends?
well i'm having the same problem, if you think that they're worth it then wait for them or even maybe try to make them jealous so they want you to be all theirs, but don't go overboard.