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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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why dont u just tell him you made a mistake and you like him? wouldnt it be easier telling him this and knowing whether u have a chance or not than worrying about it all the time? and if he doesnt like you, so what? whats the loss?.... i hope i helped and good luck!
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I met this guy about a few months ago that lives around my way. We started dating about three weeks after I met him. I thought he was someone that could just be someone to chill with time to time. Well all of a sudden he acts as if he's all into me. He have been telling me that he loves me and that he wants me to be his wife and that he don't want to ever let me go. I think he's a cool person to chill with, but I do not feel the same way that he do about me. The bad part is, is that I don't know how to tell him because I do not like to break people's hearts but I don't like to pretend either. I know that I have to tell him soon because Christmas is around the corner and I don't want him to get me nothing crazy. I just don't know how to tell him. (link)
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you should just be straight up with him. tell him hes moving way too fast and you arent ready for any of that yet. im sure he will understand and everything will be better. i hope I helped and good luck!
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I am going to a dance tonight. I really want to ask this boy I like. Should I ask him? What should I say? I don't want to ask him around his friends because they are really insenstive and they are jerks. Any ideas? I need help ASAP. Thanks. I will rate. (link)
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you can take him aside and ask him or give him a call. you have nothing to lose by asking him. Hope I helped and good luck!
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well theres this one dude i know.. and i really really REALLY liked him like 2 years ago and i finally got over him like last year.. see now the whole time i like him he only liked me as a friend..and last year he finally found out that i liked him.. well for some reason when he found out i didnt like him anymore.. not only becauz i just got over him also i liked bein just his friend and my BEST BEST friend in the whole world went out wit him when she TOTALLY knew i was obsessed with him.(he totally liked her, but her not as much him) so the whole thing just made no sense. but now i feel like he likes me and i cant really tell but he'll like come to me at lunch and talk or give me those weird staring smiles or sometimes when he passes he rub my shoulder.. now im startin to find myself like him again. but i dont wanna go wit him.. what should i do? (link)
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i went through the same exact thing. If this guy wants you, he can tell you or deal with it himself. You dont want to be on some kind of waiting list of his. Go on with your life unless he comes to you first, thats my advice. Thats what I did and I found the best guy in the world. Good luck, hope I helped.
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You've probably heard this before, but here goes anyway.
I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now. I am really in love with him (im serious!) but sometimes he can be a jerk. We live like half an hour from each other, and neither of us can drive, so we barely see each other. We used to say "I love you" everytime we talked, like before we hung up the phone, but now, he won't say it to me, unless its to make me feel better, or if he's done something I dont like and hes tryin to get me not mad.
So.. does he still love me? Or do you think hes losing interest in me and we should just break up?
I've tried talkin to him about it... and he tells me its my choice what I want to do. And that just makes it harder on me. Please help me come to a decision! (link)
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maybe you could tell him u jsut need a break before making the decision of breaking up or staying together officially. try to tell him how u feel adn what you think and that u think hes being a jerk. hope i helped. best of luck
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OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high. (link)
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talk to him about this... i would hope you could trust yourself and he could trust you because relationships are nothign without trust. communicate this stuff.... hope i helped a little. best of luck
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hey okay so i have a question. okay so i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. i was a bit drunk, he was a little drunk, and we ended up hooking up- only made out. i said to him at the time, okay so is this going to be a random hook up or are you actually going to call me and he said no im going to call you i really am. so skip some a week later he calls me and says he do you want to hang out. of course i did but i couldnt. so yah. so we have been talking and stuff but im worried he is just looking for a hook up.. and that isnt wat im looking for. we are hanging out next weekend and just watching scary movies and stuff- should i just wait till then to figure it out...? he is just so hard to read i cant tell! (link)
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you could try a few different things. you could talk to him about it and tell him ur not looking for just a hookup, and u could just not hook up with him. try talking to him and not making out with him... see how it works out. i hope i helped. good luck!
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My bf has this friend brit and i am almost positive she likes him and like he asked me would you be mad if i saw a girl in a swimsuit and she was biking and i was to and i went up to talk to her? and i said umm no..? and he said o cuz i saw brit. and another time he went to her house and he is like brit wants us to go over to her house 8 or 9 in the morning but he didnt go so thats good. idk she is just prettier then me and skinnier then me .. thats when we sorta got in a bad situation i told him i thought i didnt meet up to his standards and he said in otherwards you think you arent good enough for me? and i said yeah and he said well if anything your to good for me but that was awhile ago .. so what should i do or even tell him?! we communicate just fine.. we see eachother alot... so im guess im not completely worried about it all but brit.. thats what im worried about..
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hey....i think you should tell him it bothers you and whats going on in your head. men definately arent psychic. tell him how u feel and see how he takes it and if he does things differently.;)
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Does anyone know any good poems or quotes to write in a note/letter to a boyfriend cause i need some ideas (link)
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well ur in luck cuz i am a poem and quote freak! haha well heres some i have:
The Magic Of Love
Love is like magic
And it always will be.
For love still remains
Life's sweet mystery!!
Love works in ways
That are wondrous and strange
And there's nothing in life
That love cannot change!!
Love can transform
The most commonplace
Into beauty and splendor
And sweetness and grace.
Love is unselfish,
Understanding and kind,
For it sees with it's heart
And not with it's mind!!
Love is the answer
That everyone seeks....
Love is the language,
That every heart speaks.
Love can't be bought,
It is priceless and free,
Love, like pure magic,
Is life's sweet mystery!!
- Helen Steiner Rice -
The Meaning
To love is to share life together
to build special plans just for two
To work side by side
and then smile with pride
As one by one, dreams all come true.
To love is to help and encourage
with smiles and sincere words of praise
To take time to share
to listen and care
In tender, affectionate ways.
To love is to have someone special
one who you can always depend
To be there through the years
sharing laughter and tears
As a partner, a lover, a friend.
To love is to make special memories
of moments you love to recall
Of all the good things
that sharing life brings
Love is the greatest of all.
I've learned the full meaning
of sharing and caring
and having my dreams all come true;
I've learned the full meaning
of being in love
by being and loving with you.
- Kellie Spehn -
For You Are The One
For you I would climb
The highest mountain peak
Swim the deepest ocean
Your love I do seek.
For you I would cross
The rivers most wide
Walk the hottest desert sand
To have you by my side.
For you are the one
Who makes me whole
You've captured my heart
And touched my soul.
For you are the one
That stepped out of my dreams
Gave me new hope
Showed me what love means.
For you alone
Are my reason to live
For the compassion you show
And the care that you give.
You came into my life
And made me complete
Each time I see you
My heart skips a beat.
For you define beauty
In both body and mind
Your soft, gentle face
More beauty I'll ne'er find.
For you are the one
God sent from above
The angel I needed
For whom I do love
- Chris Messick -
Perfection in my Eyes
All I ever wanted was to be part of your heart,
And for us to be together, to never be apart.
No one else in the world can even compare,
You're perfect and so is this love that we share.
We have so much more than I ever thought we would,
I love you more than I ever thought I could.
I promise to give you all I have to give,
I'll do anything for you as long as I live.
In your eyes I see our present, our future and past,
By the way you look at me I know we will last.
I hope that one day you'll come to realize,
How perfect you are when seen through my eyes.
- Ashley Borden -
Will you ever?
I don't think you will
ever fully understand
how you've touched my life
and made me who I am.
I don't think you could ever know
just how truly special you are
that even on the darkest nights
you are my brightest star.
I don't think you will ever fully comprehend
how you've made my dreams come true
or how you've opened my heart
to love and the wonders it can do.
You've allowed me to experience
something very hard to find
unconditional love that exists
in my body, soul, and mind.
I don't think you could ever feel
all the love I have to give
and I'm sure you'll never realize
you've been my will to live.
You are an amazing person
and without you I don't know where id be.
Having you in my life
completes and fulfills every part of me.
- Erica -
A Love For All Time
Breathless kisses
Burning touches
Soft-spoken words of love
Urgently spoken words of passion.
A man and a woman
One complete love
Since time began
Predestined to be as one.
We've been together before
In other lifetimes
We've fought dragons
And have been torn from each others arms
Yet our love prevailed.
We've walked on this earth many times together
Perhaps for a moment
Perhaps for years
But our heart is one heart
And we were meant to be.
So when our time on earth
Once again comes to a close
Have no worries my dear
For we will find each other again
And again
And again.
For our love is ageless
Eternal
A love for all time.
- Dawn Choike -
Sometimes at night, when I look to the sky,
I start thinking of you and then ask myself, why?
Why do I love you? I think and smile,
because I know the list could run on for miles.
The whisper of your voice, the warmth of your touch,so many little things that make me love you so much.The way you support me, and help with my emotions,the way that you care and show such devotion.The way that your kiss, fills me with desire,and how you hold me with the warmth of a blazing fire.The way your eyes shine when you look at me,lost with you forever is where I want to be.The way that I feel when you're by my side,a sense of completion and overflowing pride.
The dreams that I dream, that all involve you,
the possibilities I see and the things we can do.
How you finish the puzzle that lies inside my heart,how that deep in my soul, you are the most important part.I could go on for days, telling of what I feel,but all you really must know is my love for you is real.
- Scott Lockwood -
What I Love About You...
The sparkle in your eye,
The warmth of your skin.
Your breath on my neck,
That quivers within.
The touch of your hand,
The smell of your hair.
The kindness in your smile,
That strength in your stare.
Your kiss on my lips,
Your body near mine.
The stroke of your touch,
That feeling inside.
The sound of your voice,
Compassion in your embrace.
The serenity in your stride,
The power in your face.
The calming of your presence,
The beating of your heart.
The promise of tomorrow,
That we may never part.
The beauty of your kiss,
and that magic in your touch.
It is for all these reasons and more,
Why I love you so much.
- Averil Binetti -
If I know what love is,
It is because of you.
~ by Herman Hesse ~
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself
But if your love and must needs have desires,
Let these be your desires: To melt and be like a running brook That sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of love; And to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart And give thanks for another day of loving; To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy; To return home at eventide with gratitude; And then to sleep with a prayer For the beloved in your heart And a song of praise upon your lips.
~ by Gibran Kahlil Gibran ~
Love is a burning desire,
That makes your heart light on fire,
Love is being with you,
Someone saying I love you too,
Love is your tender kiss,
Something you don't want to miss,
Love is you and me,
And that is all I see.
~ by Anonymous ~
If I go away
What would still remain of me?
The ghost within your eyes?
The whisper in your sighs?
You see...Believe
And I'm always there.
~ by Jon Oliva ~
I sought for Love
But Love ran away from me.
I sought my Soul
But my Soul I couldn't see.
Then I sought You,
And I found all three.
~ by Unknown Author ~
We can only learn to love by loving.
~ by Iris Murdoch ~
Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.
~ by Oliver Wendell Holmes ~
The minute I heard my first love story,
I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along.
~ by Maulana Jalalu'ddin Rumi ~
I hope i helped. if u ever need poems or quotes or songs about nething lemme no cuz i am a freak when it comes to that stuff haha l8er
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yeah well.. i really like this kid an we are sposta play spin the bottle an 7 minz of heven an the problem is i dunno how to make-out/ french an im scurd cuz i dont want him to think imma loser cuz i dunno how to.. can someone help??
14/f/ny-verry confused
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if this kid really likes u then he shouldnt care if ur inexperienced kisser. try going to google.com and searching how to french kiss or somehting. it might help a little. u really learn from experience tho. good luck
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I'M 14 GOING ON15 AND ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAD SEX BUT HE IS TELL PEOPLE WHAT TO DO (link)
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tell ur boyfriend not to tell ne1 and if he continues then he must not care about your feelings and must be a real jerk and i wouldnt want to be with him. you should have waited until u found the right guy to have sex with. talk to someone about it....try to get him to stop telling people.
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alright well i've got this boyfriend and like i like him a lot! And we havnt had sex or anything but he wants to and what not. But my fear is that hes had sex with 5 different people... Thats nothing i'm interested in ya know! I'm still a virgin and like I'm not sure if i want to lose it to my boyfriend. See i'm scared to have sex with him because i'm scared of getting any STD or whatever. But like he claims he doesnt have any, because recently he got out of the hospital because he got into a major accident and he was in there for like 7 months, and they test you for all that and stuff and he says he hasnt had sex since hes been out of the hospital. Should i wait and see if hes the right person or what should i do!?! HELP ME! (link)
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ok, sex is a bigger thing for most girls then guys. dont do it unless youre sure u love this guy and hes worth it. him having sex with 5 other people makes it seem like he would do it with just about anyone. when u lose it u shoould make sure u will never regret it and a good way is to wait for marriage. i wouldnt have sex with him but thats just me. do what u really feel in your heart and that should be that if he cares about u he will wait until your ready and if he doesnt then hes definately not worth losing it to!
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How do you know if a guy is seriously right for you? Like, how do you know if they're not playing you and they're for real? (link)
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I guess its just how you can be urself around them. You should just get the feeling.....
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There is this guy who I can't stop thinking about and my BFF told me that he like me and was going to ask me out. I didn't believe her until one of his best buds told me the same thing. I was going to ask him myself but I really don't like asking guys out. So my friend told me not to cause he was going to ask me out at the end of the week. Well really I thought it was impossible for he to like me but he started talking to me more. Well the week passed and he didn't ask me out. now it summer break and I won't see him until August 4. I have his Phone# cause he told me to call him in my year book. I've tried but I didn't get an answer. What should I do. P.S. I'm 14 soon to be 15. (link)
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you should NOT obsess over this guy or spend all your time trying to talk to him. if its gonna happen, itll happen. You could try calling him a few times and leave ur number on his answering machine or something. dont be too attached.... dont stop doing things just with hope he will call or u will get a hold of him. go out, meet new people. have an awesome summer!
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I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead? (link)
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well i think you should be cautious....but remember not all guys are like that. Your friend might not being telling the truth but then again he might. Just dont let your guards down but until u know for sure I dont see a reason to stop talking to the guy!
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i really really have a problem with kissing my boyfriend. we've been going out for quite a while now and we've only reached a hug. i really do wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me but we're both so nervous. everyone says it will come naturally but we're both too nervous for it ever to come. (link)
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ok im gonna make this short. If you want it, then u gotta make it happen. KISS HIM! he might like that u took charge ;)
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Hey alicia!! just lemme say that ur so pretty and nathan is so cute and u guys r cute together! but ne ways lemme get to my problem...ok i was going out with this guy named Bryce for 6 months and i really felt like i actually loved him and we did a lot of "firsts" together and alla the sudden like a week or 2 b4 skool got out he dumped me claiming that he "didnt want a gf for the summer" and his friend that i really dislike even did it for him...and then one of my really good friends told me that she heard that he just plain didnt like me any more but i didnt know if it was true.i still really like him even tho i dont show it cuz its been like 4 or 5 weeks and ppl think i should get over it and all and i got a lot of sympathy frum guys and girls cuz they felt bad cuz they knew i liked him a lot but what my question is...how can i get him back next school year? or get him to like me again? cuz we didnt talk at all after our breakup in any of our classes and all and if i cant get back together wit him i atleast wana become good friends with him.or should i just plain give up on him? plz help cuz im really confused!
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Talk to him. Thats the only way you will know anything. If he dumped you for the summer its prolly cuz he wanted to be free to see other girls. And if thats it, then thats a jerk. But i dont see why u want to possibly put yourself through that again. I would move on. If he doesnt want you or your friendship he is missing out on, then youre better off without him in your life.
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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing. (link)
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ok i an relate. The other day i told my boyfriend I dont deserve him and he said not true if nething he didnt deserve me. I dont think its that big of a thing to get all worked up about. I think it just means he thinks youre wonderful and u think the same about him. Why dont u just ask him about it?
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Whut do u do when someone u really lykes tells u he lyks u but then gos behind ur back n tells otha ppl that he doesnt lyk u.. and other ppl r telling u thats hes playing u.. whut do i do?! (link)
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If this guy is that much of a jerk then move on. Find someone who treats you good. If hes gonna be mean about it then u deserve better. Find someone who u can love who will not be a jerk.
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Well ive been hurt a lot of times with guys, and i dont trust very easily. i dont usually stay with a guy very long anymore bekuz of it. i just met this guy, Cody, and i love everythin about him! hes amazing, ugh i duno what to do though. im scared, i feel like i like him to much that i shouldnt be with him or ill get hurt.... but its like should i trust him or no?? if i do and he hurts me again i dont kno what i would do, but i dont know if i should miss out on this love experiance i could have... i dont kno what to do?!? (link)
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Wow yes I have been in the same situation before! Having a broken heart is the risk you take when you fall in love with someone. I was the same way. I was too scared but now I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and I couldnt be happier. The point is, you have to take a risk. You dont wanna look back on this 5 years from now and wish you had done it differently, do you? Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. Keep communicating.
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