hey im 14/f and live in missou my friends all ask me for advice and most of the time it really does help them so i think if you ask me questions i can really help you too and im not one of those mean ppl that anwsers qestions im nice because i rock and i said so lol jk but i have red/ ornge hair w/e u want to say and i have blue eyes and im 5'5" i hope i help and ask me ne thing because i dont care what it is because im sure i can find somthing to tell u again because i rock lol
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Ok, so this chick is talking to me.. and we have been talking for a while and I told her that I loved her, so yeah, every thing was cool then she started giving off signs that she feels the same way, we start talking about Sex, and family and stuff like that, then when I finally decide we are really close, I tell her how i really feel, she said its sweet but shes just not ready for a relationship.. then yeah, shes been telling me I'm a great guy and I'm sweet and stuff, but should she really be doing this kind of stuff.. or is she just being a tease.. playing with my emotions?
BTW I'm 17 and have never had someone tell me they Love me :( and she knows this...
what should I do about this.. I really need help! :( (link)
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listen if she loved you she would have said it back and remember even if you have never had anyone say that they will you will find some one who will and you will feel the same way so keep looking and i hope i helped please rate
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Ok one of my best friends best friend went out with this guy for about 3 months and they broke up about 2 weeks ago. While they were going out I started to like him a little more, and now since they have broken up I like him ALOT. But the problem is I havent ever really talked to him before. He is in 1 of my classes, how do I get him to notice me? Then just a couple of days ago I just found out my best friend likes him and she is the "it" girl of the school like all of the guys like her and everything. And she knows that I like him. Knowing her she is probably ganna ask him out sometime and he is probably going to say yes. what do I do about that too...anyways He is tall cury hair fast runner and hott ( kinda like an abercrombie or some type of modle) lol and I am short blonde blue eyes and ya. Well I would really like some help! thx a bunch!! I rate high*
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listen if your friend knows that you like him and she might ask him out any ways then mabey shes not such a good friend i mean if i knew my friend liked some one i wouldnt ask them out untill they said that they wouldnt care and if she is goingto be that way i say find a new friend but if you think thats not the case i understand you just need to be yourself around him and start up a convo and you have the same class so you already have a conersation starter i hope i helped please rate me
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my name's gabby im 14
i was dating this guy named brett for 7 days he's 14 also
everything was going great... then it got rocky... we broke up and he said there is a slight possiblity we could hook back up but it wouldn't be now...
here it goes....
I was dating this guy! his 14 and im 14 and we've known each other since we were 5 ( but have never been really close friends) he was perfect for me!! i thought everything was going good! we both agreed that we would talk about everything.. we set bouyndries... he even told me he would never break up with me!! we started talking during class (text messeging) and we were trying to plot a time when it would be great to start telling each other we loved each other ... we agreed that when ever one of us felt that we loved each other we would tell the other one but not expect it said in return! after 5 days of going out i asked him how long he thought we would go out and he said at the minimum a year and i was liek whoa thats a long time but if we really liek each other it could happen right?? well the next day he texted me and said that we needed to talk that night
and i asked him what it was about and he said we'll talk about it later and so i asked him if he was gunna break up with me and he said no and so i was still a lil worried about it and then that after noon after school he told me he would call me back .. and he never did... that night he told my friend to tell me that i needed to move on... so i texted him and said that i loved him and that i would never cheat on him ( since someone told him i was back with my x) and that i would never do anythign to hurt him and that i would give anythign if me and him would hook back up... like 20 minutes ago i texted him and told him that i still cared about him and that if he ever needed anythign that i was would be there...
all i really want is for me and him to go back out... he means everything to me! all i want is a way to tell him that i love him and he means the world to me and i would give anythign to be back with him but i don't want to sound clingy or desperate...
should i call him and find out exactly why he ended that relationship? should i wait for hiim? should i move on?? was i wrong in telling him i love him? is it worth hooking back up?
my friend suggested that i take a break for guys for about a month and forget about brett... but i don't think i can i need him in my life as my boyfriend!!
i know no one will ever understand how great he makes me feel... and i know no one could understand why i criied for 5 hours...
HOW DO I ASK HIM BACK OUT?
please help me!! as soon as you can
thank you!!
x3 always,
Wanting him back
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listen hun it was a week im srry if this sounds harsh im not mean i swear i think i twas just a lil bit early to tell him you love him or know for sure if you loved him at all guys tend to tell you lies to get on your good side and have you whipped so you will do what they want you too i say move on i understand that you care formhim but i also relized his type he said he would never break up with you and that was a lie i know how this works its happened to me once before and i found out that after a few months he didnt even like me any more so move on i swear you will get over him i promisei hope i helped
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my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?
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hey hun its ok if you feel that you are ready and are old enough then its ok if you dont want to tell then whole world then thats ok too just tell him how you feel about it again im sure he will under stand thjat telling the whole world wont make you happy and since he loves you he will probably resect that and respect you i hope i helped please rate
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Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do?? (link)
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just wit it out hun ok he might be going through some bad times or he might just truley not knows how he feels about you 2 because he might be getting over you but if he does just remember it was never ment to be and there are lots of other guys out there that you can choses frome but there is going to be one out there that feels excactly the same way you do about them mabey stronger and when you find heim you will know he is the one for you but intill then keep looking and have fun while your doing it i hope i helped please rate
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Hey! ok there is this boy that i really really like. his name is Tom. we have chorus together. Half my friends tell me he likes me and then other people say he doesn't. I saw him and my friend Mike walking outside in our courtyard going to their next class. Which was Chorus for Tom. Then i came out and Mike was like go out with her Tom just go up to her and ask her out its not that hard and Tom started to blush and was laughing and smiling. Then in chorus all my friends needed help on this worksheet. I helped my friend Nick, then my friend Emliy and then i was helping my friend Julia and i was looking at her paper and i looked up out of the corner of my eye and i saw him staring at me. i have caught him staring at me several times. We always look at each other and when the other one looks we turn away. Then about 2 or 3 people say he doesn't like me. Then sometimes i also get the feeling he doesn't like me. I dont know what to think. What should i do? (link)
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hey hun it sound like he really likes you and if you like him you should defently go for it because if you stall he might not like you any more or might get taken so i say go out with himn and have a great time i hope i helped please rate
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There's this boy that I've liked for over a year now. We stopped talking around May `04 because I lied to him. It was a long distance relationship btw. I lied to him about everything, besides my name age n stuff! I really loved him allot. He stopped talking to me, and hasn't been online which means he got his s/n changed. I have his cell number but it's always off, and I have his house number, I want to call him.. But I'm afraid I have no idea what to say, Cuz we haven't talked for a real long time cuz of what I did. What should I do? (link)
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well hes hurt that ou lied to him and hes also mad i cant do much for you unless you call his house number then i would tell you to say that you are compleatly sorry that you lied to him and that if you told him the truth you were going to be afriad that he wouldnt like you and that you love him and your sorry and you always will be cuz you never meant to hurt him and hun next time dont lie because that ruins a lot of good relationships i should know
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i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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simple tell him that there are no words to express your love for him that way your telling him the complete truth and you cant get blamed for lying hope i helped please rate me
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I really like this girl at school, and shes going out with my best friend. They were going to break up but they never did. And in they are crazy in love with each other. I dont think they really are in love tho because my best friend had gone out with someone else and he said he loved her but than they broke up and he was fine. Im 12 and im a boy. (link)
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you may like this girl but its not worth losing a friendship over so i say wait till they break up and if he seems ok and acts normal make sure he doesnt like her any more then ask him if it would be ok if you asked her out but before you ask her out be sure that she likes you too or that she gives a little indication that she does cuz u will feel rejected if she says no hope i helped you please rate me thanks
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how do youget over a guy? i've liked this guy forever and everytime i try to think about things that are weird abotu him or smthn i just end up being like aww thats so cute what can i do (link)
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hey what you can do is just think about other guys and have a girls day out and i kno i say that alot about alot of different subjects but it truley does work i hoped i helped please rate
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There is this boy at skool who is really hot, and he has a twin brother, and his brother is going out w/ my friend. I think that he is going out w/ my other friend, but I don't know. I also think that he may like me. He is always smiling at me and when he walks by me he slows down and at luch he is always looking at me, and i know that I don't have food on my face. Do you think he likes me? What happens if he does will my friend be mad at me? I'll rate high. (link)
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i think he may like you it just takes a matter of time before you can find out for sure you can always ask a mutual friend if he does or that can find out for you and by the friend being mad at you you have to decide which you would rather want a hott guy that you will br broken up sooner or later or a friend that you dont really hang out with that much
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My crush was asking me why he doesn't get any hugs! i said i didn't know and then put on a sad face! so i said u wanna hug and he was like sure! so i gave him a hug! was he just flirtig or was it nothing just a hug?! (link)
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well im not so sure there might have been a little flirting in there but i wold wait to see what else he does ((flirting is what i meant)) but all my guy friends want hug but it doesnt mean a thing its just fun to do so i say wait it out and untill you know for sure dont make your move quite yet
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i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him? (link)
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hey its ok to do this thing behind her back but just remember that if she does find out you will be in big trouble but if you really like him it shouldnt matter my mom had a problem when i was dating a 17 yr old when i was 14 but i also kno that they expect more but i think you should fallow your heart hide somthing from your mother or date some one you really like oh and before you date him behind her back make sure you are really good at keeping secrets i hoped i helped please rate
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Ok ive been tryin so hard to get back with my ex and so far it was working, he called me everyday and i called him everyday. everything was going good, we were getting closer and all. but one day he calls tells me he heard that i said something really bad behind his back and hes so hurt because of what i "said". but i didnt say it! and he wont believe me, but when i hear bad things about him he gets mad at me for believing and later convinces me its not true. so why cant he believe me this one time hes actually heard something thats not true about me? he wont call me, he wont talk to me! what do i do? (link)
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hi im srry but you could always tell him that its not true and dont give up untill he belives you and you should bring up the point about you hearing bad stuff about him and him convincing you not to belive it and its not true and why should it be the other way around with you and do somthing sweet for him to make him feel loved mabey he will forgive you then i hope i helped please rate
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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!
antoinette
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first you need to find out if he was joking or not if he wasnt the you should just break it off with him because no girl deserves to be treated that way by her bf i hope i helped please rate
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OK, see i have this boyfriend we can call him josh. and see for a long time i have been doubting me and him. all my friends are getting sick of me asking them for help so i came to you guys. I sometimes think that i do like him because he says something that completely makes me melt. But then he goes and accuses me of cheating on him and of breaking up with him. Im not sure what to do. Sometimes i want to break up with him and i hate him. but he is everything i love and everythin i hate all at the same time. i know he would never hurt me on purpose and i know that he cares for me but he doesnt call me anymore and we never see each other i have been dating him for 3 months and im confused about this. does this mean he doesnt like me? do i still like him? what do you guys think?
thanx,
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wow you sound just like my friend lets call her bob and her b/f lets call him rufus but its the smae situaltion but i just say that you problably really like him its just that sometimes he might annoy you but if you do break up with him you will regret it but i ono i hope i helped lyl please rate
P.s does your name happen to be c****** and is your b/f name J*****
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Okay this boy in my year iv'e known him since first school and we've always been good friends. Im 13 by the way.I've been out with him a couple of times but nothing serious just a laugh really. I've always had something for him and a couple of weeks ago he asked me out I said no because i didn't think it was right.Then he asked again and i still felt the same. But now i REALLY REALLY like him.He blanked me today and I feel as though i have no more chances?He's not the same with me and he hardly talks to me. Am i right or can someone out there help?? Thanks xxx (link)
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hey dont wrry you can alwasy say i was wrong and im srry will you go out with me im sure he wil understand and if he says no then well it isnt worth it go out and find some one new i hoped i helped please rate
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I really like this guy that i have known sence i wuz 3 i havn't seen him in like 5 yrs. now we go to the same school. i see him every once in a while but never get the chance to talk. What should i do? tlk to him? or what just tell me wut i should do or how i should feel
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all you have to do is talk to him just start up a convo im sure you guys will find somthing to talk about i hope i helped please rate
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my friends and i might be going to the movies and i want to sit next to my crush but i'm scared what should i do? how should i plan this? (link)
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hey dont plan it just go with the flow everything will work out perfectly just sit next to him and plus its a movie so you cant talk to him anyway which means uyou probably have no way to screw it up hope i helped please rate
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theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!! (link)
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it doesnt matter what other people think about him you know the real him if you like him then you should go out with him and if you dont tell him no but u still wanna be friends hope i helped please rate
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