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hay ya'll

Well, im an only child, but I have lots of cousins ( 40 of em ) and I am a freshmen in high school, OH BOY! ( sarcasim, the international langue of the world ) I am a devoted christen and I am in chorus and FCA and I love to read.

Love Everybody,

*~Alexia~*

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What exactly am I supposed to do? My girlfriend would like one... But I'm not experienced in kissing so. Generally you just suck the skin? I don't know... I've looked at websites and they give me the same information that doesn't help me. Someone suggested light kisses at first then sucking... would that work?

I would say you would do it gently and then really go at it. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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so yeah when ..i make out with my boyfriend...i'm not realy experienced .. i just want to have some ideas given to me..on -where my hands should go?- like..around his neck? or touching his hair?

i don't know..

i feel kinda weird just having my hands to myself.

I would suggest these things:

around his waist
around his neck
touching his hair
on his butt
on his legs
on his chest

What I'm trying to say is, anywhere where you feel comterable toching. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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ok so im going out with this kid and and i have braces and so does he if like we make out or kiss will we get stuck together im jyss nervous lol ill rate 5's for none fagg answers

That's total crap made up by doctors who don't want to treat you for hickeys and stuff like that. I would kiss him and stuff, and if I'm wrong about this, then at least you too will be kissing for the longest time ever. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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How can you tell if its true love? I am having feelings for this one guy, they are more than my usual feelings for guys. I just want to know how it feels and what the "symptoms" are.

Thank you.

5's I guess

Here are some symptoms I've always heard of for true love:

Your heart beats fast when he comes near you
You think about him a lot
You would do anything for him
He knows where you stand on opinions like sex and stuff
You know where he stands on those same opinions

Hope this has helped.

*~Alexia~*

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my boyfriend is mad at me cause i dont get jealous when he talks to other
girls but i am not a jealous person he says that if i dont get jealous
that i dont really love him i was wondering if this is true????.

No, not at all. He's just probably just mad because he thinks that you don't love him and that you love some one else. I would get him alone and explain to him that you are not a jealous person, but if he still refuses to accept it, then dump him, cause he obviously can't trust you. Hope this helped, and you don't have to dump him like I said, just do what yoyu think is right.

*~Alexia~*

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hi i'm 15,male,ohio and there is this girl that i like but shes really popular and i'm not i'm hated by everyone popular and i'm not sure if she hates me and i'd really like to get to know her shes gave me her number but never sits by me on the bus and jus says hi.

Maybe she's ashamed to be seen with someone her friends hate ( no offense, im not exactly LIKED eitehr ), or maybe i'm watching too much Oprah? But I would call her, set the fact straight and if she likes you, get to know each other. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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ok, well me and some of my friends are bi. i just found out that one of my friends who i like likes me too. but we dont want anyone to know about us being bi. so we sorta wanna go out but if we were to go out we agreed we wouldnt tell anyone. so we also agreed that we wouldnt be jealous if the other person went out with a guy or got with another girl or something. so my question is should we go out and just keep quiet or shoudl we just stay being friends with benefits?

I think that if you like each other, you should go out together. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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well my exboyfriend keeps prank calling me and i know its him ...and i keep telling him to stop but he wont ...what should i do????

Prank call him, and then if he still doesn't stop, call the police on him. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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two months or so ago, my bf broke up with me :( ever since i have been to scared to ask anyone out because i figure they're going to say no..

Can Someone help??¿¿

I'm sorry to say, but there's always gonna be someone who will say no to you. but there's more that will say yes. What I would try is to just go for it. Run a convo starter through your before you talk to a guy you want to ask out, like:

nice weather we're having
cool shoes
nice game u played today
etc.

and then build up from there. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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well first i am 14/f, and anyone makes fun of my question in anyway, i will report you and get you banned. and well people who are willing to help, please help i need help ASAP. my problem is this. i am crushing on a gay guy. i just met him and he first denied that he was, but today he told me and my friend that he is gay. but he is fits so perfect for my dream prince. he likes stuff i like, and such. not to mention he is sooo hot.

so please, is there anyway i can turn him straight? i know it will be really hard and i can't help it because its like hormon, but i have heard of few stories that it can happen. but i dont know how, and please dont say give up, because i know most of you will try to do that but i already know that , but i have to try at least!! so please please help me.

i rate 5 if it helps even a little.

I would tell him that you like him. I know this does not help, but I don't think he will turn straight. I would tell him the truth, and maybe he will try to feel the same way that you do. I'm sorry that I can not help more. I hope this has helped in any way, and I want you to know that my door is always open for any other questions you may have.

*~Alexia~*

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The classic question.. No one will ever know the real answer but hey its always worth a try.
Im a blonde haired blue eyes 5'6 skinny girl. Everyone tells me im very pretty, im smart, and fun to be around. The problem, guys never ask me out?! I dont know why though? Ive had boyfriends in the past, and MANY guy friends but not alot of boyfriends. Whats the deal?! lol

How bout you do a Sadie Hawkins, ask the GUYS out. If you want to date a guy badly enough, ask them out! Go for it girl! Hope this helped.

P.S. - Don't seem so available, act like your taken.

*~Alexia~*

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about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?

Any age where you feel comterable french kissing. Trust me, I havn't french kissed, im 14, and my friend hasn't either, she's 22. So, when you feel comterable enough with ur g/f or b/f to not just kiss anymore, then you are ready. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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okay my friend got fingured by her boyfriend. shes just about 2 weeks late for her period, and she keeps asking me if that could have affected her period track. she keeps thinking shes pregant, but i know that cant be the case. can someone finguring you cause you to skip a period? or any thing? please post and fast with advice!!

I don't think you can, but it depends on her age ( if she just started having periods a couple of weeks ago cause then it would just be a late period. ) It may be an STD or something. Tell her to go to a gynacologyst to ask whats wrong. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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hey, i'm a fourteen year old and i've never kissed a girl in my life, idk how, and i'm too shy to do it, a lot of people think i'm good looking and i've had a lot of gf's, i've just been too shy to do it, and i don't know how, so, yeah, any tips?

When u meet the girl of your dreams, and you are about to kiss, you just put lip to lip, you'll know it when you get there. Your probally a late bloomer. Hang in there.

*~Alexia~*

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