You need advice???ASK ME!!!!I am Emily and i love helping others...I want to see happy people around me and people who smile!That's why i try to help you!It is said that i give good advice,what do you think????
Now, i would like to tell you something!Live!Every moment in our life is important, so have fun!And something about me..I love Erreway!!!!
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months. This is my first boyfriend and I love him a lot. But I am worried that he is losing feelings for me because before he would always say how he'd want to marry me someday and now it's like "things might change" and stuff like that. I don't know what to do and it drives me insane. If I ask him if he loses feelings for me he'll deny it but one of my friends asked him before and he said that he did before. What is that supposed to mean? (link)
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Well 5 months with one boy, 5 months with a girl...Boredom comes and feelings change..This is normal...Apparently your boyfriend still loves you but started feeling this routine etc...You should start behaving like the first days when you were together...Do different things and make him jealous but not too much just a little bit...Make him understand that you don't think that he is something sure or that you will always have him and start "fighting" for him and this thing you2have...Beause he is not permanent neither you, things change people change and maybe you will break up if you will not do something NOW.....Good luck with your boyfriend....Hope i helped...
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Okay I'm 15/m and I recently meet a guy 18/m. We're both gay. I wanna ask him out but I'm not sure if he's to old for me. He also thinks that sex isnt a big deal so I'm afriad if we get together he might fuck people behind my back. He doesn't think sex is somethign couples should worry about, so I think thats the kind of thing he'll do. Help?! (link)
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It depends on you....Do you like him????Then ok be with him!!!!But you know what???If you have a problem with his opinion about sex and his behaviour don't be with him....Or you can tell him before being with him your opinion...Hope i helped!
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well theses it how it goes me and my boyfrined we all good but the problem is that hes always changeing all the time he says he fanna do something and then he doent tell the truth so if yah wnna know more just right to me bak plzzzz i really need yah to talk to me (link)
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The best thing is to explain him the way you feel!!!Try!!!!
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There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???
signed,
LeeAnna Sears, 13, Girl (link)
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I am i6 and yesterday i told my ex boyfriend who is 25 to break up...25...Not 19...He is not that older, is he????No!!!!Come on...Give him a chance!!!!!And if you are not ready having sex etc you will not have sex!This is an order!!!!!!!!:DIf he wants it that much that he can't wait tell him that you don't want to be with him.......Don't get stressed, be yourself and have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D;)
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a guy said he liked me so i asked him out about 2 weeks ago and he said no. but whatever, i don't care. it's just that every night after this i've been having these dreams where i meet a really amazing guy (usually at the beach at night) and i feel love even though it's just a dream. i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfriend in my life. i get a lot of pretty complements so im not ugly. it's just weird. i don't get it. does anyone know why i'm having these dreams? and are they trying to tell me something? if so what? thanks. (link)
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It helps if you read my other question first. it'll clarify a lot for you! oh, and i'm really sorry in advance- i ask a lot of questions, and some are a little stupid. :-\
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OK. Well, i finaly built up the courage to tell him i liked him. and his response was : "I'm not very good with relationships. but i wouldn't mind staying friends, maybe we could try in the future." alright. here's the thing. i've known him to be very honest. but what if he didn't mean it? are things going to be really awkward between us from now on? was this a bad thing for me to do? and another thing- what if he finally ends up liking me, but i stop liking him? will that make things even more awkward? and what do i do if it happens?
ok, that's it i guess. sorry for allllll the questions. i'm just weird like that.
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Hey, relax!!!!!It depends on you...If you want to be a friend with him, or like before you can be...Why?Because he shouldn't have problem with it, you should...But you don't so that's ok...It wasn't bad telling him what you feel.Congratulations about that...This means that you are a real self confident and souper gir, with courage...Expressing your feelings and your thoughts is important...And good...If you stop liking him you will not be with him...That is the most normal thing not to be with him if you ll stop liking him...You like him today,yeah?Tomorrow maybe not and this is ok...I don't know if this will be awkward if you will tell him that you don't like him because it depents on him not on you..
You should be yourself and continue be self confident and able to express your feelings without being afraid...
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my boyfriend acts like a jerk when hes with his friends.. he was just over with his friend today and he didnt even give me a hug ! he was being a total fruitcake .. then my friend screamed for them to come back when they rode their bikes away for him to give me a hug, and he didnt ! i dont know what i should do.. help. (link)
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Boys do this but he is overdoing it...He is not right.What you should do is to tell him what you think and then if he will not change break up with him.You cannot be with someone if you don't feel well.You will definitely find an other one who will make you feel happy and he will pay attention at you, or at least he will act like your boyfriend...I mean, ok he is your boyfriend but if he does not act like your boyfriend then it is like he is not...Right?????Good luck!
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My ex boyfriend goes out with this girl i'm cool with. i guess she started sayin shit to me and i got mad then he told me i started it and said i said all this stuff i didn't say and i heard that his girlfreind said "we never went out cz i dunt go out with fuking ugly people." I told him she said that and he didnt belive me. he kept sayin that im trying to break them up when i aint. i dnt care that they go out. It dunt bother me Anymore. What should i do. doe she hate me that much or wat. im so confused.
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Firstly be patient.Don't tell her anything because it will finally be bad for you..Then, do what people do in movies...Take a cassette with you and a little recorder and talk with her.You will be recording your conversation.She will not know this...Then you will go to your ex not when they will be together, and tell him to listen to the cassette...
But you will mention the things he has to know...For example tell her"Why did you lied?You know i didn't tell this about boys and that i never started it?"She will not even imagine what is going on.Tell whatever you want.And he will listen to it...The truth and he will understand that you say the truth1Good luck!Hope i helped1
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alright. my boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. & I still like him / havn't gotten over him yet. we only went out for 3 months. I really want him back and give it another try. He says he likes me but he also likes another girl. This girl that he likes calls him alot and shows him she cares about him, while I don't do anything bc I feel like I have no chance whatsoever. He told me that I should try ( call him and stuff) but I don't know if I should just move on or try to win him over. What would you do? (link)
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Excuse me, you told him that you like him and he told you to try harder?GOD!I can't believe you like a guy like him.Who the h... does he think he is???He thinks that he is everything???You told him that you like him you haven't been egoist and took the risk without caring about rejection and the only thing he told was that??He is egoist can't you see it????Forget him..He doesn't even deserve a try..Let him be with the other one. You will not do whatever he wants because he is not sure...Come on!Get over him...
And he shouldn't tell him how you can "win" him...This shows me that he believes that he is the number one boy...Who is he?Brad Pitt????
Anyway, i told you what i think.I am really sorry if you wanted to hear sth else but this is what i believe...Kisses and good luck with this one...
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ok why dont i get a boyfriend ? im a big flirt.. im really nice to boys and im pretti.. i want one so bad because im always getting these feelings when around guys.. but i dont know i think im just scared or guys just think of me as another .. guy .. (link)
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You are so self confident that boys are afraid of asking you ou..Yeah, i think that this is what is going on...Boys are like that..They see you pretty self confident and popular and think:will she want me?I don't risk it asking her out she can have anyone she wants why me????
OR they don't want a gf that flirts with a lot of boys because they will be jealous etc..
If you want a bf stop flirting with all boys and flirt only with the one you like...
Hope i helped.....
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i went camping and met this guy. he asked me to dance and well i had a boyfriend at the time but i dont know what happened to me i dance with him. and after we went to this play ground were no one could see and sat on a slide and talked about each other. well we kinda madeout like every time we were alone and im going back there this summa i dont know if he will still like me but i have a bf again and i like him. i know i will end up making out with the other kid what should i do? (link)
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Well these things happen juring summer vacation...New boys or old ones that come again and finally you get crazy...I think that this is sth normal...But don't cheat again...Just tell your bf that you don't want to have a bf juring summer...Tell him that you want to be alone and that if he wants it you will be again together when september comes...So you can do whatever you want...Super!!!!Have fun and make this summer unforgetable!!!!!!!!
AND you will end up making out with the other kid,yeah!!!!!This will not be bad!!!!!!
If you don't want to lose your bf just make it sure that he will not hear anything about the other guy...I told you my opinion...you decide!!!
Remember:HAVE FUN
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well heres the thing, i kinda like this boy and hes one of my bestfriends.. were really close and everything but i dont know what i should do.. because my bestfriend in the wholee entire world used to go out with him.. and im afraid she;ll get mad at me but im not very shure if i want to go out with this boy but i do its confusing ... helppp (link)
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Well, i think that you should wait because you need some time to organise your thoughts etc. Because you want him and you don't want him at the same time.You should understand what is really going on to you.Something like that has happened to me too and i just continued like before without thinking about it..Do the same...Finally you will understand what is going on to you...Just relax and continue being friend with both of them..
Now, i think that you should talk about it with your friend.Before doing sth with the guy talk with your friend..Tell her how you feel..If she is a good friend she will understand you..He is her ex right?He is not now her bf.That's why you can do whatever you want with him...
If she will get mad etc i think that this will be a little bit reasonable but try to explain her.If she is a real friend she will understand you..
Don't do sth with him before being sure...There is the danger to lose a friend.In my opinion, a friend is more important than a bf because she will be there for you in your whole life...On the contray, a boyfriend will be there only some months...
Hope i helped...Good luck!
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Just few weeks ago I suddenly remembered something important! About three years ago, my best friend since childhood, George, confessed his love to me and I promised him that someday I would tell him how I feel about him. Sadly, I forgot my promise. It's been three years, and he still remembers it!! How could I forget it myself I don't know... But one thing I know that I still like him until now. But since we are not going at the same school again, I have to wait until summer to meet him. What should I do when I meet him?? I feel so ashamed of myself that he still remembers my promise and I forgot it, and I was the one promising it!! >.< Help me!
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Well, i think that you should tell him how you feel.Tell him that you like him.Not now later when you will see him..Summer vacatiion i mean...Well, if you want to surprise him do this without doing nothing else now.If you don't want this start calling him or sending him mails...Then the next time you will see him smile at him be yourself and when he will ask you "how do you feel about me" then tell him the truth!You deserve being with the one you really like...Right?But if he will ask you earlier tell him the truth earlier...Don't program your behaviour.Be you and react spontaneously..Hope i helped!!!!!!!!
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Well, thing is ALL my friends have such great bfs and I just get so jealous and mad because I would love to know that someone really really cares for me. Im sick of spening my friday nights alone. I just dont understand. I try a lot to make my hair look so nice for school and I dont wear pounds of make up (just liner, mascara, and gloss. sometimes shadow)and i think im just going to say screw it all and just not even try anymore. im like 15 and i have never been asked out in my life which then makes it obviously that i never had my first kiss, date, and bf. sometimes my friends ask about my "exs" and i lie and say, "yea i only had one bf didnt last too long." and then change the subject. Im a friendly person and im no slut and im not over-weight(no offense)im actually quite skinny. but yea i just dont understand. and im getting really depressed about it.
thanks for helping.
EM (link)
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Well,i understand that you feel like that because you would like to have a bf.But you shouldn't have a bf just to have one.This is wrong..You will end up hearting you and your feelings and you will regret it..Really...So think about it!Do you like someone???If yes then start talking to him and stuff like that.Become more sociable and behave to them(boys) in the way you behave to girls.Start going out more often and don't think "i have to find a bf" because you will not find one.I think that you should keep caring about your outward appearance and you should be much more self confident.Believe in you and love yourself...If you cannot do this how do expect others do it???? Smile and get known better with boys.Boys of your class or your cousins..Generally see how boys behave..I think that this should be the first step..Secondly see who you like (from the boys of your class or other friends i mean).The one you like..Flirt with him smile etc.!!!This is important..You will understand after all these that boys are like us(girls) they are not strangers and they want a gf who is herself, i mean true, authentic!!! Don't become like the ex of the one you like because this will be a huge mistake...If he would like this type of girl he would prefer her because she will be the "original" one.Got me???Hope i helped!!!Kisses and good luck!
P.S. I am 16 and i have had 3 bfs BUT i prefer now being with my friends because what you will have with boys is for 3 months but what you have now with your friends is sth valuable and sth that will defnitely become stronger and will last...
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I'm 90 percent positive that my friend has feelings for me; but just needed someone elses opinion.
I'll let you be the judge. We were friends for about 2 years and then several months ago he had to move away for a job in another state. Before he moved he gave me his computer so we could stay in touch. I never asked for one or anything he just offered it to me which I thought was a really sweet gesture. We messenger each other whenever he's not at work and he always signs off by saying "chow bella" which means bye beautiful in italian. Just in the last two weeks he has done two really romantic things for me. The first was that he sang happy birthday to me on my voice mail for my birthday in a sweet voice and said he'd be mailing up a gift. The other thing was that when I told him that I caught the bridal bouqeut at my cousins wedding last week he said "hopefully you won't marry anyone from (the town I live in). Since he lives out of town I think he was hinting something. When we have our talks on the internet he flirts with me and says things like I'm funny and a great person to know and talk to. Sometimes we talk for more than a hour. He is pretty shy and likes to beat around the bush and hasnt actually said he loves me- but I think his actions show it.
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Yes!I think he likes you,bella!!!! Well, i think that you should ask him first if he likes one girl or if he is with someone...And then, ask him if he likes you or sth like that..Well, if yes then you should think about having a boyfriend and don't caring about the distance... Hope i helped!!!!
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i am 15/f and i am totally confused about this guy. He is a good friend of mine and i have liked him for a few months now. recently i feel like there might be something, we have always talked a lot and he helps me out and i have leaned my head on his shoulder quite a few times, and he gives me really nice goodbye hugs. the thing is that he is my age and isn't very experienced with girls, so i can imagine that he doesn't know what he is doing, neither do i really. sometimes he is around a lot and sits next to me and other times he doesn't. How would talking and leaning your head on his shoulder look to a guy if you were just friends with a guy? by not sitting next to me, is he seeing if i will move closer to him or what? i am just very confused as to what this guy is feeling, and would like an honest opinion on what he thinks and what i should do.
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I cannot tell you if he likes you or not. But i can tell you what you should do. Be yourself and be spontaneous. Just behave in the way you do now... Not having experience is not bad...I think. And there is no right or wrong...How can you kiss wrong or behave wrong? Let him behave in the way he wants... Let him come to you first... The thing i know for sure is that he is fond of you!You are in a good way!!!!!Keep being you!!!!
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there are these two guys. one of them seems really nice because i just met him but hes not as cute..but he has a pretty good personality. the other one of them i have liked for awhile and hes been nice to me but sometimes he'll get to be very shy if i'm with my friends and won't say a word...
who should i like?!
i don't know what to do... please help. (link)
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You can't think I should like this one! You just can't. These things are not like that. You should continue being yourself.
Behave in the way you want. Be you!This is simple!
And, if the one of them asks you out then say yes!!!!Right??????
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hey thanks for the help, yea i feel pretty crappy. i dont even know, like i really like him, and all the signs and conversations, i really thought he liked me. but now its wierd, today i didnt say 1 word to him, and i dont plan on signing on aim tonight, that way i will definitly not talk to him. i think that im going to aviod him for awhile, and hopefully he'll be hurt!! becuase this is my first kinda heart break. usually, knowing me id stick around, talk to him, act like everythings normal but with him i dont want to be a pushover anymore! i mean i want to talk to him, but im going to try not to because its dumb for me to be strung along, waiting for him to make up his freaking mind! once again thank you soo much, ill update you on how he reacts to this. by the way, hes not bad, i know what he did is stupid but i dont think he meant to be egotistical or mean, hes just confused, which is the worst part, i wish he just didnt like me at all and told me because not liking me is better than not being sure and leading me on. i'll ttyl, and thanks so much, youve been great help and if i need advice on anything im coming to you first!
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thx sweety you are so good.I understand you and how you feel.This is reasonable...I know that he didn't want to be egoist but he WAS.Anyway, you should behave like what i told you.Congratulations you can do it!I think that this is difficult...Anyway, tell me about his behaviour after some days!I am really fond of you!Kisses!!!!!
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ok soo i asked him how he felt, and he said he really doesnt know and that hes sorry. so what do i do now, i mean i knew he wasnt going to say i like you, but i thought maybe hed at least have a real answer. once again im stuck because like i said i really like him so part of me wants to stick around and see if he decides eventually. but then the other part of me wants to be like go to hell, you need to make up your mind, you cant just string me along, me waiting, while you decide (however long thatll take!). soo what do i do, after i asked, we still talked, casual like its been lately, he said he hasnt been feeling himself, alot of stress from school, people (he said not me), and other stuff. help please, noone knows what i should do, and i cant stand the fact that im a good person (not to sound conceited becuase im not, but you know) im nice, im not rude, hes told me that im interesting, funny, nice, he wanted to talk to me last year and this year, and soo much more. and i think its dumb that if he wanted to talk to me so much, you think he would be slightly interested, maybe even a crush? please help, whatever you could think of. im crushed again! (link)
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My God, i am not fine now you told me...I don't feel well because i understand how you feel.I just don't know what to say...All these signs and now...Honey, don't be like that again, feel well...
What i think you should do?Stop being like before.Start avoiding him...Don't talk to him so well.Be cold.You like him but he is not right at all.I started "detesting" him what about you??You are a nice person, what is his problem now?Don't tell him that you like him never again.Show him that you have started destesting him.There is egoism too, isn't there?It's just that you can't wait him right?And if you can that is a huge mistake...Stop being like before.Try to forget him...Try.It will not be easy but you have to believe in you...I believe in you.I don't know you but honey, i know that you can make it...
How you can do this?Well, avoid thinking at him.How?Go out with your friends avoid seeing him avoid talking to him.And when you start thinking at him.Do something like that:Think "what hour is it?"or somehing else...Forget him...
If it is neccessary to talk to him just smile and say "hi" and then go away...Or tell him that you should...
I don't think that you should wait...Don't!I hope you will find another one..An other one who will appreciate that you are special and important.That you are not an object without feelings who can do what others want it to do...
Tell me what you are going to do...Kisses...
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ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one? (link)
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I wouldn't tell you "join a club to meet people"...Anyway, these things are not like"i want it now and i will have it now"..I know how you feel but you cannot have a boyfriend just like that!It needs time and if you continue thinking like that "i have to be with someone now" you will not be because when you will meet someone nice etc you will be stressed and you will always think "i have to be like this, i have to behave like that", so, you will not be yourself...And you will lose him.
So don't think about it.But, i will tell you what you can do..
1.Try to go out more often with your friends...There must be a friend without boyfriend.And if there isn't try to have an other new friend...Apart from the ones you have now...
2.Go shopping or watch tv or do things that you like and that will also make you forget..This will be good to start going at a gym.This will help you have a great body.Boys adore it and you have much more self confidence...
3.Smile and become more sociable.You can go out with one friend of you and her boyfriend and one friend of him.Here is a new boy!!!!
4.What else???You can flirt with a boy that you like(outward appearance)...There must be someone!!!!
5.AND MOST IMPORTANT...Don't try to find something perfect.There is no perfect boy, no perfect girl and no perfect friend...This is sure..Just try to have fun and see boys as friends too.Not only as "my next boyfriend".You shouldn't be that strict with your friends because i think that you would do the same thing, wouldn't you???And something else.1 year alone must have helped you meet new friends or have experiences...Right?Now, think about things i told you and decide!!!!
I hope i helped...Emily
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