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its katie bout the guy


Question Posted Wednesday April 19 2006, 10:44 pm

ok soo i asked him how he felt, and he said he really doesnt know and that hes sorry. so what do i do now, i mean i knew he wasnt going to say i like you, but i thought maybe hed at least have a real answer. once again im stuck because like i said i really like him so part of me wants to stick around and see if he decides eventually. but then the other part of me wants to be like go to hell, you need to make up your mind, you cant just string me along, me waiting, while you decide (however long thatll take!). soo what do i do, after i asked, we still talked, casual like its been lately, he said he hasnt been feeling himself, alot of stress from school, people (he said not me), and other stuff. help please, noone knows what i should do, and i cant stand the fact that im a good person (not to sound conceited becuase im not, but you know) im nice, im not rude, hes told me that im interesting, funny, nice, he wanted to talk to me last year and this year, and soo much more. and i think its dumb that if he wanted to talk to me so much, you think he would be slightly interested, maybe even a crush? please help, whatever you could think of. im crushed again!

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here4you,emily answered Thursday April 20 2006, 6:42 am:
My God, i am not fine now you told me...I don't feel well because i understand how you feel.I just don't know what to say...All these signs and now...Honey, don't be like that again, feel well...
What i think you should do?Stop being like before.Start avoiding him...Don't talk to him so well.Be cold.You like him but he is not right at all.I started "detesting" him what about you??You are a nice person, what is his problem now?Don't tell him that you like him never again.Show him that you have started destesting him.There is egoism too, isn't there?It's just that you can't wait him right?And if you can that is a huge mistake...Stop being like before.Try to forget him...Try.It will not be easy but you have to believe in you...I believe in you.I don't know you but honey, i know that you can make it...
How you can do this?Well, avoid thinking at him.How?Go out with your friends avoid seeing him avoid talking to him.And when you start thinking at him.Do something like that:Think "what hour is it?"or somehing else...Forget him...
If it is neccessary to talk to him just smile and say "hi" and then go away...Or tell him that you should...
I don't think that you should wait...Don't!I hope you will find another one..An other one who will appreciate that you are special and important.That you are not an object without feelings who can do what others want it to do...

Tell me what you are going to do...Kisses...

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