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i'm 13 i'm a male dirty blonde hair hazel eyes 4' 11" i'm good with helping people with proplems and i am good with sports

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Is this weird or not? My ex liked babysitting kids for like hours at his church. He never wanted to spend time with me. Plus he told me he was sexually molested by some guy at his church, which to me makes it even freakier he likes watching these kids.

i would say it is very weird because he is probably molesting them and if not he is keeping his cool the best he can or he might be doing that thing while they are getting bathed by him if he does bathe them

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ok - ive been told a lot that at 15, you dont need a girl friend...but i feel that it will make things soo much more easier! ive asked numerous girls, ive even written poems, but they just dont seem so like me in that way...ive been told just as numerous times that im actually pretty good looking, but that doesnt help when it comes to asking someone out...could you give me advice on how to ask a girl out? im not too nervous about it, i just seem to be attracted to the girls that dont like me! what difference can i make in their lives that will get them to like me in that way, therefore allowing me to get them to approve when i ask them out?
thanks

sorry is was so long. but it should be very informative and helpful!
ok i am a male a age 13 i have read your problem and i understand what you need help on trust me i have plenty of knowladge when it comes to this i will get straght to the point now. Basicaly you want to be as close to your innerself or your normal self as possible, hint 1: don't be a poser, Hint2: don't ever tell a girl you like them just because they are hot or pretty tell them some unique qualities they have and tell them a little about yourself ask them more about them. Be very sure you keep it as a simple starting conversation and then move on to something more interesting or intreging
like this: So how was your "any sport or instument" practice or how was school. then move on to something like this: you know i really like your outfit today and talk a few more minutes then finally after your done flirting go to something like this: i hope you like me because i really like you heres my number then you put it on a sheet of paper and tell her she can call you whenever just to talk about stuff such as: being bored and what you could do , or ask her what her favourite animal is or who her favorite band is make sure you don't sound desparate because that might be why they won't go out with you.

sorry this was so long.

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ok i am 13/f goin on 14 and i like my neighbor 16/m we hang out together all the time my parents love him and his parents love me but we go to a diff school and i dono if he likes me i tried not to think about him but i really like him i tried flirting with him but i just get mixed messages we hang out like everyday and i want to tell him how i feel but our friendship is really important to me please help me i will rate u five no matta what

i am a 13 year old male and i just think i know what you can do if you try asking him out and he says wait a while maybe when you're 14 or 15 but if you havn't ask him out you should tell him i have something very important to talk to you about " name " you tell him you still want to be friends if he says no it's ok and maybe when you get older ask him if he'll consider it and then tell him that you'd want to go out with him trust me it worked for me and a few of the girls i went out with one was two years older and another three years older. just try it you may never know the answer if you don't take the cance!

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Ok i've been stuck on this one thing scense september i like this guy and i've only talked to him twice sence september and friday is the last day i get to see him and i really am trying to work up the courage to talk to him and it sounds easy in my head but it really isn't personaly so if you could tell me what to do that would really be great!

Personally i am a guy if you are not sure what to say or not sure that he likes you like that so i know that guys tend to play a lot of hard to get and also like to keep some secrets to make girls wounder not to mention if you don't or you aren't sure if he likes you think of this...:
1) You maybe a little shy but what about him do you thin that he is maybe a little shy
2) try the best you can to be and act yourself if you can't ask him what he like to do and just respond with what you like to do be truthful because it would be boring to be in a realtionship when you have everything in common. don't you think? so try to tell the truth and be yourself not to forget don't say everything you have in common because then the realtionship would probally get borin.

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