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Sup mother focko my names Amber!?!I have an awesome boyfriend named Steve. I like to party and hang out with friends. Music is my life... always have to be listening to it. I definitely love giving advice!
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Okay so im 16 and im kinda seeing this guy and we just started saying "i love you" to each other. He tells me he really means it and im the only one he says it too. But i was looking at some of the comments hes got and a girl commented him "really? i love you more" and i saw the comment he left her and it said "i love you so much" he told me they were just really good friends but they used to date. Now I dont know if he is lying to me and just making up an excuse about being really good friends or if he just said it. but i can't figure out why he would say something like that if he didn't mean it. Does anyone know what i can say to him about it?
He could just be using you...because i had the same situation only the guy i was sort of seeing went out ever weekend and fuck a ton of girls then would come home to me and be like baby your the only one i care about. So if hes anything like the guy i WAS dealing with dont bother with him find a new and better guy. Since then i did and now im happy with a boyfriend who treats me right.
im 15. i still love my ex, travis. but he treated me like crap. so ive been trying to get over him and i met this guy named dillion. he is really nice, cute, and would never treat a girl bad. and i was considering goin out with him. and then my ex starting talking to me and he was saying he thinks we will probably go out again. i was so happy but i dont want to get hurt AGAIN but i cant help it no matter how many amazing guys i meet he is always the one i want. dillion is goin to be upset. and i will feel really bad because he was so great to me. what should i do
Go for dillion because as they say once a cheater always a cheater it pretty much the same only replacing cheater with asshole for instance. But maybe he thinks he can always get you back and your proving him right so thats why hes an asshole.
ok well heres the thing ive been going out with my boyfriend scence last tuesday. and i feel kinda distant from him i guess. also im kinda worried because i heard this rumar recently that with every girlfriend he's had, he's had sex with. and im not that type of girl, i think he might know that..but still i dont want him to be takin it too slow. i mean we dont hold hands we havent kissed yet. we've only hugged. i just want him to know its ok to kiss me.. what shoyuldi do to give him the hint??
Well personally if your going out with him id just start making out with him and when he gets to the point you dont want to get to just tell him to stop but everyone would say to "talk" to him but i prefer to take action vs. talk and so do the guys.
16/f.
So theres this girl..I've been friends with her for so long, a couple of years. Well last year, at the end, I sort of had a little crush on her. I never really thought anything of it. Well over the summer, I had a little thing with a lesbian, not a full on relationship, but just a thing. So i discovered that I'm bisexual. Anyway, back to my friend. I like her, a lot. I always think about her, and things I wanna do with her. I invited her to my house to spend the night, but that ended up not working out because of my parents being tierd. Anyway. She knows I'm bi, and that I have a crush on her, I told her. But she won't admitt she's bi or lesbian to me becuase she thinks I'm gonna tell my best friend. I mean I love my friend so much, I wouldn't tell my bestie anything. She just doesnt trust me. It sucks. So I'm not sure what to do, I drop hints so much, and I'm all over her every chance I get (haha) but nothings really progressing. What should I do? Should I ask her out? And what about people at school? Like my friends...I'm not sure how they'll react about me going out with a girl. I've never had girlfriend girlfriend relationship with anyone. I just want her so badly..and I don't want her to be a booty call at all..I want an actual relationship with her. I wanna make her happy, and smile and everything. I hate seeing her sad. I just want her happy with EVERYTHING.
Well maybe she's not sure what sexual orientation she is yet. Maybe the hole thing with you and her made he question her being straight or w/e she was before. Tell her how you feel and explain to her how much you care about her. Lifes to short just let shit like that pass so talk to her dont back down if you really care for her that much.
Hi...I liked this guy for 3 years now.And everyday at school i see him in the hallway and he sees me 2.Iwant to know 2 things.
1.How do i get him to notice me without him knowing?
2.How do i know if he likes me?
Thanx 4 your help!
Just try to look your best everday and go up to him and start talking to him...lifes to short for all you know he could be wanting to talk to you. I had the same thing and i never said anything come to find out now 5 years later that the hole time we actually both liked eachother but now it'll never happen cuz we grew apart
There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???
signed,
LeeAnna Sears, 13, Girl
Age aint nothing but a number. I'm with a guy who 17 and im 14. The hole him being a man whore thing ya my guy is exactly like that too it doesnt bother me. If it doesnt bother you then definitely go for it.
Well ok, so me and my bf are almost to our 3rd month anniversary right. He was in a different country for a month. But when he came back. We realized how much we have changed the past almost 2 months. I love him very much but we just changed a lot. He is one of those guys that get very jealous easily. When I'm with my guy friends he's always soo jealous. I told him he had nothing to worry about. I Love him not anyone else. Then right now we've been really into a lot of arguments and its really hard to be with him right now. He has a lot in his life and I do also. Its just really frustrating. My friends have told us that we just needed a break, but I don't think that will resolve anything. I think that way, we'll get farther apart. I don't want that. I don't know what to do right now. Its hard and painful for both of us. Please I know this is very ummm not clear but yeah. I just need some comment about this. Should I keep the relationship or just let him go?
People change over time and if you find that you aren't happy with eachother than move on. It a really hard thing to do though but only you can make the decision if you guys are ment to be together or not. Instead of arguing try talking it out. If you think you can deal with your differences than try to work it out.
Okay so one of my best friends has a neighbor who is my age. I hadn't really noticed him before because he used to be kind of chubby and his older brother overshadows him a lot. But I just saw him again for the second time about two or three months ago and hes gotten really HOT!!! So my friend and her brother, who is also our age and I'm also friends with, keep trying to set us up because they know that I like him. A lot of times we have all (me, my friend, her brother, and the boy I like) been watching a movie in my friends basement. My friend and her brother always find a way for me and the boy I like to sit next to each other and we talk and stuff. I've texted him a couple times and he's always been really friendly and eager to keep the conversation going. One time we were leaving my friends house after watching the movie really late and my mom didn't want me walking home alone, so the boy I like walked me home. Also, when my other friend who knows about the situation asked him what he thought of me, he said that he thought I was really cool and the only normal one of my friend's friends. But also hes really uncomfortable in big groups. The other day a really big group of us were playing flashlight tag and he barely talked to me. Also, one time I invited him over to watch a movie and he just assumed that my friend and her brother were going to be there too, when I had just intended for it to be us. I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. What do you think? Apparently he doesnt like fowardness in girls, and even though I'm not personally being forward (I don't think), my friend and her brother are being REALLY obvious, and I don't think its helping. My friend disgarees though. She thinks it's going really well and that its a good technique. I really don't know what to do. All I know is that I really like him and I want to know if he likes me! I'm starting to get really annoyed with him and the whole situation....helppp!!! Oh yea 15/F
Maybe he's a shy kind of guy. I think just you and him need to talk and get to know eachother alot more better. And if you find that you really like this guy you should be straight with him and tell him that you really like him. Maybe when he's not around any other people he will open up to you and tell you why he's like that around big groups of people. I would be kind of quiet around a big group of people i didn't know. But if he's just ignoring you then i don't think thats a good sign.