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Location: Portage Michigan
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Age: 15
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i normally never ask for advice. but i can't get around this one. my girlfriend broke up with about a week ago.(yes im a dude). reason why she did was because she was goin out with me behind her parents back, and they don't really care for me. so she breaks up with me because she felt bad about all that. i understand why she broke up with me. but damn does it hurt. i mean i really loved this girl. and i still do. so my question is, how do i get over her? hell, shes all i think about. i dont know what to do. oh im 16/male (link)
ok so you sound alot like waht happend to my friend.... umm like exactly... lemme guess you went out with her best freind and then they got to be not friends at all.. umm i would say that the way into her heart isnt going out with her old best friend. andd i'm sure that she has a boyfriend now right?
i wouldnt be rude to her online or anythign because that'll make it so much worse. she'll hate you. if she broke up with you because she respects her parents enough then its over forever. what you can do to help take ur mind off of her is to just do more stuff with your life. keep yourself busy. hang out with people that she doesnt. stuff like that.

hope i helped...

message me or something i think i might know you.


hey im a guy 13, and i was wondering whats the most important thing to girls to make a guy hot. is it clothes, looks, popularity, sports, scent etc...... (link)
ok to start off with this one, all girls have different opinions on what they like in a guy. for me, i definately like a boy that's nice. not a "niceboy" but certainly a guy that is going to treat me good. i hate it when a guy is conceited. i absolutely hate it and when he knows he's popular or hot or he knows he's like the big man on campus or whatever. most girls wont actually want to date a guy who's super hot because they end up being jerks. just be yourself and be nice.
good luck!



i really want a boyfriend. what are some ways to attract a guy? you seem like you'd know... so i just thought i'd ask. PLEASE help xoxo (link)
1st off... i know that almost all girls have a boyfreind and you want one too! do you really want one just to have one or do you want one because you like them? you may pick the first one because you really want one but you'll never be truly happy with a guy you dont even like. also, if you want to attract a certain guy, try talking to him. get to know him get to know what kind of things he's interested in. who knows maybe you'll have something in common!
good luck!



Ok. The guy i like likes me too. But the thing is he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend or anything! we were talkin and i asked him why he hadn't and then he's all like "what you wanna go see a movie?" GOD! WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM!?!?! HELP PLEASE! (link)
he probably just wants to take his time or something


ok i really need help!
alright there is this guy...and ive liked him for a LONG time and we went out but he moved so we broke up but we're still really good friends and i talk to him every day and i love him alot still!! well i know i should move on and everything and theres this other boy that im starting to like alot and i wanna like him but i feel really guilty because i told the other guy id always love him and no one else and thats the truth that i will always love him but it seems wrong! can someone please help me ill rate high! (link)
well the same thing happed to me the whole moving thing. i still talk to him even though he lives in chicago and i live in michigan but it gets annoying that he dosnt call i have to call him. but sorry i told my sorry story but wut i did was i just keep contact with him and we might go out again. i think you should just let your feelings go to whoever you like most i mean you can go out with the guy who moved but if i dosnt work out then u can still go out w/ the guy you like!! hoped i helped sorry its so long!! good luck!!


I don't think I react to things the way I should,
I lost my father in 97 and I didn't cry all the much and I loved my father very much, then in 2002 I lost my Brother to A Car Crash, and I just don't think I was as sad as I should have been I know you guys are probally think I am cold hearted and made of stone. I fear the same I mean I feel regular emotions like LOVE and anger, and Joy. But when it comes to sadness I just kinda of go numb is something wrong with me, or am I just worrying too much? (link)
well from my point of view i think you not crying is perfectly fine. i didnt cry when my great grandmother passed away and there is nothing wrong with me. i just think that it comes as a complete shock to you that u just freeze. hope this helped good luck!!


My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that. (link)
well it would be soooo cool if u were the only virgin between you and your friends. you would be unique and you would be more respected. if you are not ready then dont give in. if you are comfterable enough to have sex with a guy then use a condum and just wait till ur ready. hope this helped. good luck!!


i am an engineering student in kerala(india).i am a 19 years old male.how can i attract my classmate.please give advice
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well if you just be yourself that will most likely attract classmates that you may not think is the hottest but who have as much as common as you do. all you could do is be your self and dont pretend. hope this helped good luck!!


there this boy in my school who i have the biggest crush. Sometimes i think he likes me too but i can never truly tell. I want to ask him out but i am sooo scared of being rejected! but i mean i will never know unless i ask...right!! give me advice!! please help! (link)
well go with your feelings and if he dosnt like you just get over it and just dont let it bug you. just be yourself and dont act like you arent someone you think is his type. i hope this helped. good luck!!


ok well I just found out that I was pregnant yesterday. I told my bf and all and he was really really really upset and he kept telling me that he wasnt ready for a baby right now. I am 15 and he is 16 and neither one of us are ready. He told me that his dad would make him drop out of school and get a full time job and all and i dont want that to happen. He was already in trouble with his parents because of his grades and all and went to see him yesterday but we just met in town when he got off of work and he wasnt suppose to. I wouldnt let him leave and when i finally did he was in a hurry and he it his cousins car cause she parked right behind him and didnt know she was there. now his dad took his truck from him and he is in trouble and he has to pay for her car by himself. I dont know what is goin to happen. I dont know what i should do. Should I break up with him so he wont have so much to worry about or what???? Someone plz help (link)
well what i would do is just ask him if he would ever be ready for a baby and talk with him and his father telling him the truth and asking him what would he think is best for his son. if he says that finishing school is best then maybe break up with him. i dont think abortion is a very smart idea and i dont think killing your baby is very smart either. maybe asking your parents if they will support you and asking if they will just partially take care of your baby when it is born so you can still go to school. hope i helped and good luck!!




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