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my names jessica. 14/f . people say ur first love is your last. i've been thinking about it. i really do love my first love but i dont know how to tell him this. it's reallly hard. Im kind of friends with his girlfriend. not bestfriends just like "hey, whats up" kind of friends lol. but please help me. i have no idea what to do or say! (link)
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whoever said your first love is your last is a dud thats totally untrue you can always love again
and i think just be up front with him guys sometimes like when a girl tells the their feelings and beingreal with them just try it you'll never know unless you try
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how do you make out? what do you do with your tongue - movements, speed, everything. how can you kiss so that boyz wont think "oh my gosh they are a terrible kisser" ? (link)
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just go with the flow hen he opens his mouth for tongue message his tongue with yours there is really no speed it just depends on how intense the kiss is
and you wont be a terrible kisser
good luck
xoxo gossipbabe
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how do you grind with guys at dances? how do you make out with them at dances while grinding? what do they do, and what should you do? and do you grind AND make out at the same time? thankz (link)
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the best way to grind on someone at a dance is to give him a wallie if you dont know what a wallie is the im going to tell you its exactly what it is called you get him to stand against the wall and you back up on him with your butt and grind... but if you want to kiss while doing so you cant do the wallie just stand in front of him and move your body on his and just kiss and keep grindin its really simple
hope i helped
xoxo gossipbabe
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when ur at the movies with a guy, how do they make a move to make out? how DO u make out at movies? what should i know about and what should i do? (link)
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usually a guy would put his arm around you ... you can just reach for his hand and hold it it works better with a snack you guys both like
xoxo gossipbabe
maybe popcorn
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ok so i broke up w/ my bf recently and i really miss him and now him and my bff is about to dte him but i dont want to tell her wat do i do (link)
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first of all she shouldnt be dating your ex thats in the girl code all over the world she should respect you enough to not go out with him and you shouldnt hve to tell her anything fight for your man (not literaully) though ...what you need to confront your best friend so called.. and say i dont appreciate you even talking to my ex if i were you she wouldnt even have got clos to him you need to put her in check and if she still wants to go with him cut her loose not just because of a boy because if she really was your bff she woulndt even have thought of thinking his ute in that matter
get him back
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Ok, well im 14/f and i havent had my "first kiss" yet and all of my friends have. They always ask me in front of other guys, "have you kissed a boy yet?" and im like, "no." But anyways, i feel weird because all my other friends come in and their like "Omg, i totally made out with this guy and he was such a good kisser!" I know i shouldn't feel like this but i do! Please help. (link)
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i think that sharing a first kiss with someone is special ..its ok to be different from your peers they sound not like such good friends to try to put your business out there .... your first kiss will be remembered because since you,ve waited it'll be soo much better then your friends who seem like they have rushed into kissing
chill out girl it'll happen
promise
xoxo gossipbabe
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hi there,
I am currently doing a survey for my college and would like to ask this question on advicenators
Would you as a girl,confess to guy about your feelings first? or would you prefer for the guy to do it?
and why would you prefer the guy or yourself to say it first?
this is in context of assuming that you both are great friends,mutual friends or strangers,,you can reply based on any situation.thanks again! (link)
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i mean im a very shy girl when it comes to guys and i think if it was a guy that i really really had feelings for i would tell him first i would just tell him how i feel because if i dont he'll never know xoxo gossipbabe
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So... I gave my bf a hickie and his mom found out and she just laughed and thought it was supa' funny.... and she said that she wouldnt tell my mom.... but... i'm still scared..... please please please please HELP ME. p.s. I'm 13..... if that helps any????? (link)
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well i think you shouldnt worry you should worry if the mom was piss then its a problem chill out give him another one see how funny she thinks it is lol but just dont worry about it xoxo gossipbabe
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Ok, So I've been crushing on this boy for about a year now. We got pretty close as friends, and he's very religious and all cause his dads a preacher. But I'm not really that religious, I don't care what religion anyone is, that's their choice. But to the point; I finally asked him out this one Tuesday, he told me that he'd get back to me and such, so I waited. Then he finally tells me no that Friday. The next Tuesday that he's moving away. Later I asked him if he would if he didn't have to move away, and he said probably yes. He keeps acting like he likes me and when I ask for a hug he'll give me one. He's extremely kind and I can't help but want to hang around with him as much as possible; which I do. I don't know what to do, I keep falling more and more in love with him. I think I should tell him, but I'm really not sure at all...and I really really really want to go out with him, so I don't know if I should push that issue...I mean, if I did he might say yes. And he's only moving a hour away from my place, but...I can't drive for about 2 more years. And he's only a month and two days older then me..so he's in the same boat. But I'd get to see him 1 time each year till then at least...I don't know what to do...I really want to be his girlfriend and I don't want to lose him because he's became my entire world..I'm so lost and confused..please help, I'm running out of time...I have 2 more months with him.... ='[
and this Friday we were outside for science class and it was freezing to the point are hands were unable to feel. He kept saying how he couldn't feel his hand so I was like "give your hand to me" and I held it and warmed it up. he then said "that helped a little" then a little while later he started complaining about the cold again so I told him to give his hand to me but this time I held it with the sleeve of my jacket and when he let go he's like "that didn't help that much" which is probably true but I don't know.
then today, Easter, he sent me a happy Easter e-mail which he only sent to one other person, his best friend Robert I'm guessing..I don't know the e-mail address.
but yeah, what should I do about this all?
and how could I flirt with him? or convince him to go out with me?
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you know what the most inteligent thing to do because he cant read minds is to really and truly tell him how you feel because hes moving and when hes gone he'll know how you feel about him .... soooo tell him and you have to think about if he tells you know you hav eto get on with your life i mean do live through life wondering what if because youll never get the answer ..... hope i helped xoxoxo gossipbabe
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hi, my best friends brother told me about a month ago that he wanted to do "stuff" with me because he thinks im pretty cute and he knows i want him to because my friend tells him the little comments i make such as i was gonna jump out of his birhtday cake and stuff like that. well i told him no because i was nervous because im a virgin but ive pretty much lived at her house for the past 5 days and now i do want him and i dont know how to approach him cuz he told me after i said no that it was a one time offer. hes 4 years older then me but i dont really care about that (link)
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ok...if you really want him that bad just go up to him and ask him again if the answer is no ...seduce him in a way he'll never say no to you again ... maybe you should jump out of a cake lol ....XOXOXO GOSSIPBABE
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okay, basic middle school drama.
f/13
okay, so i broke up with this guy, because i did something really bad. and he got all pissed. and so, he went to New York or w/e. so i started going out with this guy, let's call him. james. aha. =] and so like, he asked me out. and i said yeah. and so my ex b/f let's call him D.I. came back from New York. and i had broken up with james. and so i told him i would talk to him later. this was during 3rd period. and so when i got on the bus D.I was back and i was like, wow. and so i was talking to the guy. james. and like my original plan was to get back with him, but i didn't i told him i had alot going on. [[which was true]] and so, i was thinking about it. and later that day, i got back with him. [[i asked him out]] and so yeah. and the other night i was thinking about why i didn't get back with him right away, and i think it's maybe it's cuz i still like my ex. D.I. idontknow. i mean, this D.I is one of the first people i said i love you to and meant it. but i never really say it without meaning it, but yeah. i mean, he's the second. and i do like this guy james. but i might like D.I more. i might. im not sure. and that's my question. do you think i still like D.I? and what should i do about it??? (link)
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ok obvisiously YOU still will have feelings for your ex but i cant tell YOU whether or not YOU like him because i dont know u that well but what i can tell YOU is listen to your heart i'm if u still like d.i more maybe its best to go back out with him but if you like james more go with him ...MAKE A PROS AND CONS LIST WHO EVER HAS THE MOST FLAWS THAT YOU DONT LIKE ABOUT THEM MAYBE HE'S NOT THE GUY FOR YOU GOOD LUCK... XOXOX GOSSIPBABE
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hi,
i am dating this guy for about a week know
and me and him are erfect for each other at least that is want EVERYONE saids
but before me and him went out we were the bestest friends ever.....
but now when i am with him a i am so happy
and i like him alot
but
then when he lives or i have to go
i get realy sad and just wish i was his best friend again, and want to break up
but then a hour later i am soo happy to be with him
and i would do anyting for him
idk but i keep getting these mix feelings
and i have know idea to make them stop
can someone plz help me or tell me want to do!?!?!?!
thanks!
softballbabe2610 (link)
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well softballbabe2610 i think you should be happy because you have the best of both worlds i mean that your boyfriend is your bf and your bff that is a great quality in a relationship thats how you will know that you guys will last a long time and i thik u just miss him alot because your in love admitt it u love your bff/bf its totally okay xoxoxo gossipbabe
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so here is d sitution , i love this girl n she also loves me a lot. earlier she had a boyfriend for a short period of time, n then thery broke up(long story). now i met this guy and he claims to have had sex with her but she is denying it. by the look of it the boy dosnt seem so friendly but still i dont know how to confirm if he is not telling lies. my girlfriend claims that she is virgin. but m stuck........is there any way how exactly i can come to some conclusion???????
p.s. i am 19 and my girlfriend is 18. (link)
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well u have to trust her first thats the best quality in a relationship ....but the boy he is probably lieing becaus ehe likes her and want you to be mad but dont fall for them childish games..... but i think you should believe if she telling the truth or if its a lie it'll come out sonner or later .....WHATS DONE IN THE DARK ...COMES TO THE LIGHT.XOXOXO GOSSIPBAE
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Ok I was thinking about taking me and my boyfriend's relationship to another level we talked about it and he said he don't want to rush me into it and he wants to do it when I do it so like I'm thinking about it but I want to know like how does it feel does it really hurt and if it does what are some things you can do to make it less painful? (link)
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Well if your really ready ...really really eady then maybe you should take it to the next level. i would like to give your bf brownie points because he is willing to wait for you (( for the record that is soooo sweet)) but anways to answer your "will it hurt question " i would have to say from my own experience yes it did ... but all girls are different you have to understand that maybe it wont hurt as much to you as it did to any other girl (ok) and you could just tell him to take it slow it will relax you so u know he wont just shove it in there!! and you could stop between strokes to get your feeling back aint wont be that nervous good luck wear a Condom XOXO GOSSIPBABE
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This boy that Ive liked for 10 months hasnt talked to me in a long time.We used to talk all the time but now he just ignores me.And whenever he sees me he stares at me for a long time.My sister says that he likes me.What do you think and why? (link)
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i think u should just go up to him a see what the promblem is be the biggest person to step up to the problem ((if there is one)) i dont really know if he likes you just because he stares at you maybe he just has something to say to you and dont know how to say it to you mabe he'll pop the question....the question which is WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND and if not suck up wat he has to tell you but get to the bottom of this... XOXOXO GOSSIPBABE
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okay so, there is this kid that I REALLY like. lets call him kevin. well I told only my three best friends about liking him and they are just like awwwww. but like I really don't think he likes me because whenever he is online he NEVER i/ms me and if we are talking he will sometimes just stop anwering me. but then I tell my friends I was like okay he doesn't like me he doesn't i/m me I should just give up and then my friend goes "well you like him a lot and you aren't iming him either cause you think you are being annoiny, maybe he is doing the same thing." and that got me thinking what if that is the case? so then without my permission my best friend claire texts him and goes "awww! do you like heather (me)?" and he was like "no why" and she goes "because you guys would be so cute together" and he was just like "haha" so then I was like okay guys he seriously doesn't like me I should just give up... then my friend comes in and says "well, if kevins best friend asked if you like kevin you would probably say no too because it would be awkward" and that got me thinking again what if that's the case??? so like now I don't know what to do! I really really like him but he's confusing me way too much. I mean like we hung out every single day with a bunch of people when we had a week off from school and he kept talking to me and teasing me and stuff. I just want him to talk to me online too. my friend said that I should ignore him in person and online cause it will make him want to talk to me. is that true? I just really badly need help I am so confused. thank you! (link)
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well heather thats what alot of girls say " that if u ignore them they'll like you more" i really dont think its true because if u keep ignoring him then he'll think your over him even . but we dont want him to think your over him cause wat if he does like you and he sees you've moved on hell move on rite? rite!!! And heather i think you should talk to him in person and ask him if he likes you and if he doesnt his loss and if he does your gain WISH YA LUCK xoxo GOSSIPBABE
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