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first love


Question Posted Tuesday May 27 2008, 7:03 pm

my names jessica. 14/f . people say ur first love is your last. i've been thinking about it. i really do love my first love but i dont know how to tell him this. it's reallly hard. Im kind of friends with his girlfriend. not bestfriends just like "hey, whats up" kind of friends lol. but please help me. i have no idea what to do or say!

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cloudy_conscience answered Tuesday May 27 2008, 10:54 pm:
Your first love is not your last love, it is simply what it says, your 'FIRST' love. It is one of the most emotional things you will go through, but most of the time it doesn't last. It's a learning experience for both of you and you always remain close and you always love them, but you learn alot and grow up from it.

It is often hard to tell someone how you feel about them, especially when it pertains to putting yourself out there for everyone to shoot you down and see where you stand and thats hard. If you really aren't that close to him then I suggest trying to get closer to him in order to make sure that you really still love him and that you know him well enough to make that decision. If you feel like you do then go for it and let him know where you stand. It may end up blowing up in your face but at least you know that you fought for what you believed in and tried your best. I hope it works out for you.

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gossipbabe answered Tuesday May 27 2008, 8:10 pm:
whoever said your first love is your last is a dud thats totally untrue you can always love again
and i think just be up front with him guys sometimes like when a girl tells the their feelings and beingreal with them just try it you'll never know unless you try

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xgracee8P answered Tuesday May 27 2008, 7:38 pm:
I wouldn't say your first love is your last and i've never heard anyone say that but I do know that your first love is a really strong love. Since this guy has a girlfriend, i would hold off telling him that you love him. I would just try and get close to him in a friend way so when he and his girlfriend break up, it will be easy for him to see you as the girlfriend type and want to get closer with you in that way. You don't want to become his girlfriend's enemy so don't come on to strong to him, just let him know he has options.

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