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Ok, so here's the deal, I have this REALLY good guy friend, I mean he's like my best friend. Well, he just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and it looks like they aren't gonna get back together like he wants to.Well... I have started kinda liking him. Well, last night, me and two of my other friends went over to his house while one of his other friends was there. Well, he kept flirting withme, and like touching me and stuff,then I was like "Let's play truth or dare" and he goes "I dare myself to have 7 minutes in heaven with -my name-" so, I kinda just laughed.. but, he was serious, and so was everybody else in the room. So, we go in the closet, and they shut us in. Well, I didn't think he liked me, and I didn't think anything would happen. Then, he started touchingme, and like pullin me closer, and we starting kissing (this was my first kiss),then we started making out and he was like touching my butt and everything. Then, we get out of the closet, when our time is up, and a little while later he started talkin to his friend privately, and I found out that he told his friend that he was gonna ask me out. Then, we went back in the closet for a few more minutes.. and that was it. But, I'm so confused, cause this was last night, and he hasn't asked me out, and he has said a few things about his ex-girlfriend. I don't know what to think.. and I feel so crappy cause I really dolike him alot.. and I just wish he would ask me out. Sorry this was so long, but if anybody has any advice it would be greatly appreciated, and I'll rate 5's. Thanks. (link)
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haha holy cow first of all congrats on the first kiss girl. i cant really think of anything that you could do i mean now is just a time to sit and wait and maybe you dont really want to but you just gotta see if he is gonna ask you out. if time goes by and he hasnt ask one of your other friends to talk to him about it
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okay i really need your help..well youre 16 so you probably have had experience with boys.. okay well anywayz i really like this one boy and i dont know if he likes me back i mean he flirts with me but like then at other times he gets all like grumpy and wont even talk to me.. like this one time he was at the gym and he came back and i was like hey and he didnt even say anything.. so what can i do to notice if he likes me or not.. other then if he flirts with me.. Please Help!! i will rate high for good advice.. (link)
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ok so pretty much here is how it is. if he flirts with you he either likes you or he is a manwhore lol. but then you say he gets mad. not to sound weird but this guy sounds more like a guy friend then i boyfriend you dont want someone who might sometimes ignore you. but hey if you really want him just keep on flirting and talkin to him. talk to him when he ignores you and ask him why he does that
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13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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whoa definetely some issues that need to be discussed. i mean you must have talked to her about this and if you havent then by all means please do. wow i mean it sounds like you are a good kid her parents shouldnt have a problem
and if it comes so far maybe you need to tell her parents
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ok i like this boy and i have probably talked to him 6 times in a year. i have liked him for 2 years now and lots of people have told him i liked him but he thought they were lying so he didnt do anything about it. i just talked to him today about his classes and and we had our laughs but other than that how do i become more than just someone he see everyday and only talk to 6 times a year. i just want to be his friend first but i get really nervous and then i dont talk to him. like i said i dont have to be his girlfried just someone he would like to talk to or someone he can trust! please help!
thanks!
i rate high for good answers! (link)
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ok its really not hard especially seeing as you already kno him well enough to talk to him. just keep that up. O and especially try and talk to him on instant messenger people seem to open up more when they cant see the other person
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Alright well Just a fiew minutes ago this guy asked meh out. And a fiew weeks ago I really wanted to go out with him till I did stuff with him ( i sorta reegret it ) and I felt like he used meh. But he was pestering meh and all this stuff. and he was like we can hang out Ill bring you to movies and take you out to eat and all that stuff.. So I finaly just said yes. But I have a feeling he is still using me and I dont want that. I want a real relationship. Im suposed to hang out with him tomorrow but i dont know what to do cause i know he is gona ask me to do stuff and he is gona be like well we are going out now. so he will use that as an excuse. And I dont want to do stuff cause I know it will be because he is using me and doesnt really like me! What do I do. HOw do I know if he really likes me at all or if its ALL just for sexual stuff?
Love maddie
Ps im 14/f (link)
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i agree with the above. i mean tell him you arent ready,and if he says ok ....then THATS GREAT . but otherwise dump the man whore
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ok well im really confused. i like 4 guys
i dont wanna say names (this is gonna sound mean) but im gonna call them numbers haha
boy #1-hes a complete jerk to me. but he says hes just kidding around...he says i mean the world to him...we went out for about a month and he said that he could be with me forever. but then he dumped me...we're still friends and i think i love him but hes been being a jerk to me lately. and i dont like it! and he just laughs at me when i say STOP BEING A JERK! hes like you kno im just kidding...and he doesnt get it that i DONT LIKE IT!
boy #2--i met him a couple weeks ago and we got drunk together. we had fun and flirted and he said he really liked me...i started falling for him slowly. he really wants to hang out with me again...but the past few days, my friends have been screwing things up for us. by saying i dont like him and i dont wanna do ne thing with him and just being really mean!!!...so i havent talked to #2 in a few days and im gettin kinda worried he doesnt like me ne more (out of the 4 boys...i like him the most!) we might go to the movies on friday and im going to his cookout on saturday. im just not sure what to do or say to him if i really do like him
boys #3--hes my best friend. we went out 2 years ago. nuthin big...and then we didnt talk for like 1 and a half years. then he IMed me and we talked and started hanging out. we went 2 the beach together. and he came over my house after...nuthin happened. just hung out..then he came over my house today and he was flirting with me soooo bad! like cuddling...and then we went in my jaccuzzi and he like held me in his arms...it was really sweet. it felt perfect. but its just so weird kuz hes like my best friend! and i dont know if i should tell him or not...i've never thought of him as a b/f...and now its just kinda weird that i sorta like him....
and finally...boys #4--i just kinda have a crush on him...he likes my best friend. but she doesnt like him back....i just wanna kno if i should get to know him better or just stay friends because of all these other stupid boys in my life!! haha
soooo i just wanna know which boy i should talk to more...or what i should talk to them about....or any advice you can give me
plz and thxx!!! (link)
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ok boy #1 haha i have a friend like that and even though he is a jerk to me i love him to death and he always tells me that he cares about me more then anything in the world.
boy #2 i would be thinkin drop him i agree with your friends
boy #3 that is just about i think the sweetest thing i have ever heard. i mean he is your best friend so thats gotta mean somethin i mean yall have to have somethin special together. i would definetely stay close to him
haha srry i didnt respond to #4 because you didnt sound like you had much feeling when you talked about him
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well i have this friend who i really really like..well we've dated before..and everytime i try to open up to him it seems like he pushes me away..i always tell him i want to tell the guy i like that i like him..yet he know that i'm really talking about him..and everytime he always says go for it and tell him how you feel what do you have to lose..i always say well he hates me and he'll always say "who could hate you?"..yet i still think he does..and i want to know if he feels the same way about me as i feel about him..what can i do? i really need help on this one..it's very hard. please help!
i rate high! (link)
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wow. its scary because i kno exactly how you feel. i have a friend and he is my best friend . ive known him for about 2 years. i realized that i really really like him. so the idiot that i am .....i told him. it was horrible. i mean he didnt say anything but he didnt say that he liked me back. i felt so awkward. i couldnt talk to him for 2 weeks. he is my best friend and i would much rather be able to talk to him i can find another guy but not another best friend who completely understands me. so pretty much my advice is.....just because you like someone doesnt mean they are gonna like you back. and its much better to keep it to yourself then ruin a friendship,and give it time he might come around
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Me and my boyfriend went to the movies last week. Just me and him. (link)
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good question did you loose him? should you have lost him? i mean thats great and all that he asked you and you didnt just get "lost in a moment". He has to respect that. i mean would he want you to do that with another guy?
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