Okay well me and my boyfriend just got together yesterday.But it seems like he doesn't know how to hug or anything like i have to hug him because he gets embaressed or nervous,like i went to go hug him and just put his arm around my waist.But nothing more.And i don't want to take it to fast even tho we are going extremley slow.Like its still in the "awkward stage" but i don't know what to do because i don't think he has ever had a girlfriend before so its wierd.I really want to kiss him but i don't know how without it being awkward?
he's just nervous. Give him some time. i know when you get a boyfriend you are so excited and just want to kiss him! But, i would wait, and let him do it. It will mean more and he will feel like more of a "man" i guess you could say. lol guys are wierd that way
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hey i really need help. i made a big mistake and i cant fix it now.im sorry that this is so long but please i dont know what else to try.
I was with this girl for a little over a year. we were friends for a long time before we started dating.but i made a stupid mistake..i always fought with her and called her some mean things. things she never deserved to be called. and i made our relationship horrible. but i never meant the things with her..i had something else bad going on in my life and it kinda got to me and i fliped at her every chance i got. i didnt mean it. i called her pretty much eveyrthing you can think of and i left her at a dance not long ago and she gave me alot of chances and this time shes sick of it and wants us to be done..i only left her that day because the problem i had stuck me like 2 mintues before i left to go with her and i got mad at everything she was doing there..i just really dont want to lose her over something as stupid as this..she really wants to be with me but shes afraid that im going to be like that again and she cant trust me and she just cant let herself be with me again..she cant talk to/hang out with me because she still has strong feelings for me and shes afraid she'll wanna be back with me and we hung out the other day and she kissed me twice..she said it was for closure and then she did it again and then pretty much made out with me..(idt u make out with someone for closure) but please i just need some advice on how to get her to trust me again and give me another chance (like girls put urself in her shoes and what would u want right now) please im begging at this point..this is the girl i want to be with for the rest of my life and its killig me..i messed up alot and she gave me many chances and now that the problem is out of my life she wont give me another one. how do i get her to trust me..how do i get her to hang out with me and let me show her i changed..i messed up and i really need help please. only answer if you think you can really help.
thanks so much
well, it might help me help you more if i knew what the hard things you were going through were. But, i'll try anyway. You obviously really like this girl. But ask yourself, is it really going to get better just because this issue is out of my life? I'm not trying to judge you, just think about it. Also, put yourself in her shoes. She must be sooo frustrated. She likes you a lot and she keeps getting hurt. Can you blame her for not wanting to do it anymore? Have you talked to her and explained maybe why you treated her so badly? Does she know everything? If not, tell her! It will help her make a decision if she knows exactly where your coming from. I hope this helps. Good Luck!
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I'm 22 and my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now. I love him very much, but it was a love which took me 2 years to finally accept. We have a lot of mutual friends, but there is one who I've always had an attraction to. I'm very successful in my career, and my boyfriend still has no clue what he'd like to pursue in life. Mind you he's 5 years older than me. Our mutual friend is 8 years older than me, and has 2 children which love me, and I them. He too has a career which he is successful in. We both have this attraction for each other, and always have since the day we met. We never pursued anything, I believe because of my age... Now that i'm seeing someone, he seems to be obviously interested. I still feel attracted to him, probably more so than my boyfriend. What should I do? Do I break up with my boyfriend? I wouldn't start seeing/dating the mutual friend right away. It wouldn't seem right. But I feel like i'm lying or cheating on my boyfriend.
Continuing to stay with your current boyfriend just because your scared of hurting ou or him. is not fair to you or him. It does sound like you want to be with this other guy more and he has two kids that adore you and that you adore. You are both attracted to eachother so why has it taken so long for anything to really happen? 8 years is not that bad. My parents are 8 years apart and just had their 25th anniversary in September. I also know a couple who is 12 years apart and have been married for longer than that. I say, listen to your heart, not your head! :o)
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16/f
Okay So Ive been in this relationship for about 5 months, I Love Him so much, and I Know he Loves me too. But Before we started going out I liked him for a litle while and he liked me too, well he smokes weed and he doesnt do it often but he still does it, I really dont care too much that he does it because he doesnt do it around me. Well he was under the impression that I also smoked weed because I kinda wanted to, so one day I looked high but I wasnt, he said are you high? and I said Yes, I thought it would impress him, but I never thought Ide actually end up going out with him. Well about a month later he asked me out, and asked if I still smoked, I said no I quit. So Now he thinks I used to smoke and brings it up alot. Ive told him everything except that I never smoked. I feel major guilt all the time about this. Will I eventually get over this or should I tell him and risk our relationship? I really dont want to lose him!
You have to tell him! He might be mad at first, but if you tell him all this then he will probably just laugh. It's funny the things girls do to impress boys. Just make sure he knows you did it because you were trying to impress him. I seriously think he will just find it humorous. If he blows it out of proportion, than the guy is an idiot and your better off without him. The retard shouldn't be smoking weed himself
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I'm 19 and a female.
This guy I like got out of a 2 year relationship about 5 months ago. When I told him that I like him he told me that he isn't looking for a relationship right now and that I'm a very nice girl. His ex treated him badly and used him so I can understand why he doesn't want a relationship now. I backed off after that, but he texts me daily and usaully initiates the conversations. I would love to hang out with him but I haven't said anything because I already did enough by revealing my feelings. I figure if he wants to hang out he would ask me, especially now that he knows how I feel. What should I do? Does it seem like he is interested?
It seems that he already values you as a friend an you already have an "in." He seems interested but probably is not wanting a relationship. It is understandable. Try inviting him to hang out with you and a group of friends. This way, he won't feel nervous to come because it is just you two. It will look more casual and he won't feel like you are trying to push things along
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well there is this boy...as all girl stories start... that im falling hard for, a few days ago at church practice for a play the youth was putting on i saw his phone and i put my cell number in it and he didnt delete it. however a boy in his band, alex, saw in a text that i liked their *lead singer* and he has been following me around since. also everytime i look at him playing songs with his band he is looking at me, i usually look away first and i turn back and he is still looking. one last thing is, he has been really nice to my mom lately(idk if that will help but i think its cute) so my big question for this long story is~~does he like me? all i want is honesty. dont lie and tell me he likes me just to answer!
Boys are hard to read. But, the signs he is giving you show that maybe he is interested. Of course, there is always a possibility he is playing with you head. But, usually if a guy is not interested he would ignore you. Maybe you ask him, or casually bring it up in conversation. Say somehting like "geez man, stop staring, i know i'm good looking but man" Just be funny and sarcastic. If you are too shy then just wait things out. Something will happen if it is supposed to! Meanwhile, just be friends and hang out.
oh, and it is always a good thing when he is nice to your mom!!! major plus right there!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and we are very much in love. We do not attend the same highschool so not seeing him everyday does make it hard, but other than that, we have a very good relationship. He has a myspace and there is this girl that comments all the time saying how he's "An awesome kid" and she wishes they could hang out more. I checked out her myspace and in a few of her pictures, HIS pictures are in there with her. Not just him by himself, but him with her and another one of their friends. He's been spending wayy too much time with her and I don't know what to think. I've been cheated on by every boyfriend I had and I thought this one would be different. I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out?
you have got to talk to him! i have a friend hoo has a boyfriend and about everyone in school knows he is cheating on her but her! i have told her to talk to him but she says she trusts him and she doesnt want to get hurt! it will hurt you more if you wait and find out later.
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I went out with this guy for like 4 days but then I broke up with him because my BEST friend in the whole world had already been going out w/ him for like 3 weeks then he broke up with her and he asked me out at HER halloween party "AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH" she said she didnt care so i said yes .. but i felt like shit because he was like kissing me on my cheek, and holding my hand and everythng right in front of her.. then we went to play blind man bill (ins hide n go seek with a blindfold).. he went to go hide in the closet and wanted me to go in the closet with him and makeout (all this on the 1st night we were going out) and i wanted to but i couldnt risk losing a friend over a guy but i really liked him...Well after about 4 days i could tell it was REALLY bothering my best friend so i broke up with him but the thing is that i never wanted to .. i did it for HER and i still REALLY like him but so does she i think she needs to GET OVER HIM but she wont......... will you please HELP ME!! He still likes me and I still like him but he doesnt kno...:(
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oh my gosh this same thing happened to me. i had a b/f for about 2 months and there was this girl who liked him too but i didnt no. well he eventually broke up with me to go out with her and i was like IN LOVE with him and they are still going out. it hurts sooo bad and i no exactly how your friend is feeling. sometimes i hate her..and sometimes i love her to death! well it has been about 5 months since we broke up and they are still going out. im finally over him! but just like the others said. you can have a friend forever but a boy you could lose in a second. so i say go for the friend and ditch the guy. it sounds to me like he just wants a girl to mess around with. move on together!
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