I am 6'8 240lbs. I have blonde hair. What else,,,, I work in concrete. I love sports, fitness, poetry and woodwork. You can ask me anything. I have gone through a lot in my life. what ever your concerns are or problems tell me and i will do my best to help you. I am honest and open minded. I wont take you for a ride but treat you as i would like myself to be treated.
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Location: Canada
Occupation: concrete
Age: 25
MSN: acu-build@hotmail.com
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There's a guy I like, and I'm thinking about telling him how I feel. Well, there's a big dance coming up and I was thinking about telling him then. Maybe while we slow dance or something... but then again, that could make it awkward. Any ideas/tips on what I should say and when I should say it? Thanks! (link)
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You should ask yourself to if he likes you too. If he likes you too it makes the situation easier. But when at the dance, wait till they play a slow moving song. Half way throught he song when you feel your more comfortable, slowly tell him. Tell him he has a beautiful smile. Tell him his eyes are like saphires. in otherwords compliment him. not to much just a little. then if he returns the compliments, you know you can show your feelings a little more. If you tell him out of the blue it might make him uncomfortable and you'll end up alone. Buit if you take it slow, chances are you'll do fine.
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Okay so me and this guy just started going out and I was wondering guys what your girlfriends do that make you want them. Like I want him to want me. Like things that will drive him crazy.. I hope that makes sense. Lol. Thanks thho for any ideas. Girls if you know what im talking about what do you do to get your boyfriends all excited and crazy over you? Thanks. (link)
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Tease him with a smile. Give him winks. When he wants to give you a kiss give him a quickie and pull back and smile. Be flirty. When you look at each other gently lick your lips and slowly. Let your imagination run wild. Hope i helped.
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So im 17 (female) and I just recently had my first kiss. I know seems kind of sad that im just getting it now. But it was just a peck and I thought I was going to pass out I was so nervous.
I was just wondering what good ways to kiss are, you know like different techniques, and where to put the ends, etc. thanks you guys!
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don't you worry about getting your first kiss at 17. Im 25 and i had my first kiss 4 months ago. Yes it is nervous. Especially me as a guy having made the fist move. but you know, two or three kisses and the nerves calm down. There are many teqniques. depending on what you'd like. A french kiss, or just a quick kiss. I'll try help you. when you and your guy are alone and you feel the moment is right, look into eachothers eyes. smile at eachother or wink. it really calms you down. then slowly move your face to his. your heart will begin to beat. but dont worry its normal. we all go through that stage. If he still does not turn or reject, then gently brush your lips against his. Then part. If it went well nature will take over. when your lips meet again hold them against his and gently let your tongue slide across his then put it back. If his tongue returns the favor your well on your way to a passionate kiss that will leave you either breathless or weak at the knees/dizzy , or both. You go girl. You can do it. Need more help. email me at acu-build @hotmail.com . Id love to help you. Other than that I hope i helped and best of luck.
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what do you look for in a girl, physically && personality wise? what turns you on about them or makes you want to take to them more? anything helps. Thanks. ill rate. (link)
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I'll try answer this to the best of my ability. What do I look for in a girl. Physically, Im not to picky. I mean every person is created in their own unique way. Sure if a girl is fat from over eating, thats an obvious turn off. But I mean if it has to do with her metabolism then not provided shes active. I like girls with a pretty face. Im not a guy that right away undressesa girl with my eyes. Small breasts, big breasts, doesnt matter. I like beautiful eyes. not short hair. bottom line, natural beauty. Personality. I like girls with humour, shy but not to shy. communicative. Caring. Understanding. not judgmental. open minded. I hope I helped you a bit.
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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I wrote him a poem in his birthday card called "Your Love". I showed it to my sister and a friend and they both told me it was depressing. It doesn't feel that way to me but I don't want him to think it is so can I get a general vote on this as a first-hand impression. I don't want to make it seem negative or anything...
Your love is wine
Moist in my mouth
It tastes too sweet to be
Something I could drink ordinarily
Your love is rum
Burning my throat
A warm feeling on a cold night
But only for a while
Your love is vodka
Turning my stomach
Dizzy spells leading to insanity
And a carefree state of mind
Your love is poison
Holding my breath
Ending my heartbeat
You make me blind (link)
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Yes it is depressing. "especially these verses
Your love is vodka
Turning my stomach
Dizzy spells leading to insanity
And a carefree state of mind
Your love is poison
Holding my breath
Ending my heartbeat
You make me blind
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I have here a poem for you. I hope you will like this one.
I Love You
With my every breath,
With all I have left,
From the deepest depths,
Of my heart, I love you.
With all of my strength,
With ten miles' length,
Every thought I think,
I think that I love you.
For the length of forever,
As long as we're together,
Through good and bad weather,
For always, I love you.
Until the very end of days,
Until God takes my breath away,
Until death separates our ways,
Until then, I love you.
When no one is there,
When you think no one cares,
When love seems too rare,
Remember, I love you.
When everything's gone,
When all has withdrawn,
When hopelessness dawns,
Don't forget, I love you.
When you fall down,
When your dreams come unwound,
When hope can't be found,
Be happy, I love you.
When you make mistakes,
When you're filled with hate,
When you're old and gray,
Even then, I'll love you.
Hope I helped you
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if a guy older than you who you like is pressuring you to have sex or oral sex and you are not going out and are only friends is he only in it for sex? btw im 13 hes 16 (link)
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sweetie, listen to me. You like this guy. Thats a good thing. But trust you me on this one. He is lusting after your body to satisfy his sexual needs. You are only thirteen. Please dont cave in. Stand strong. You deserve better than having someone using you to fulfill their sexual desires. Hang out with your girlfriends. Enjoy life but please dont fall into this potential disaster. You take care okay.
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I don’t really have a problem with porn per say, it’s just every guy I’ve known well enough (i.e. have dated seriously or am related too) seems to be addicted to it.
Now my boyfriend has confessed that lately he can’t go a day without watching porn, and sometimes is watching it two or three times a day. He has been late to meet me several times and is having issues handing work in on time. He hasn’t said it, but I think porn is the distraction.
So I want your opinion, how much is too much? (Obviously my boy knows he has a problem and is going to work on it) And what should I say to him? I’m stuck between telling him he ought to give it up and just trying to be supportive with scaling back because I think that’s all he plans on doing. I just figure; if you can’t manage it in moderation, stay the hell away from it.
Beyond all that, I’m getting a little ticked off honestly. I wouldn’t mind once and while when I’m not around, but this is just insulting. I know he’s under a lot of stress right now, but come on. (link)
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You truly are a loving girl for him. I mean my ex and i were engaged, and she came over one saturday night. When I was in the shower, she saw one porn site on my computer. Result, she went beserk. Hysterical. Insane. I never saw her again. I hope you wont do that. Yes porn is horrible. A destruction of the mind. Obviously you two have great trust. I mean he even confessed it to you. So if i were you, sit down with him. Tell him you feel very uncomfortable with him watching porn. Tell him he means everything to you. You tell him, " ..if you really love me, you'll rid yourself of it...." Spend more time together, talk on the phone more, IM eachother. Try get his mind of it. If all else fails, see if you can set him up with a counselor. They are very helpful. I hope I helped.
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It's almost my boyfriend and I's 2 month anniversary... do I get him something or just ignore it? If I should get him something what should it be? (link)
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personally, I would leave that for your six month aniversary or one year. However, my sister got 1 rose the first month. 2 roses the second, three roses the third and so on........ two months is quite short. Unless you two have gone through alot, I wouldn't worry about it. Enjoy eachothers company. You take care.
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idk i just need someone to tell me (sorry its long)
Me: i dont care if you cant help all i care about is that you care
HIM (link)
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Your thirteen. That means, your life is just starting. The first year of your teens. The time to enjoy yourslef and your friends, to learn and explore. Not to get tied up in a relationship especially long distance. Let him go. Dont think about him. Dont message him. Dont call him. Later in life your mr right will come to you when you least expect it and then there will be no doubts in your mind. You have to ask yourself and answer too what it is that you like about him soooo much. What attracts him to you? What dont you like about him? .
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i think my boyfriend is cheating on me he went out and bought me a whole bunch of things and i think he does'nt want me to suspect anything when it comes to the phone we used to be alot but not alot if u know wat i mean but anyways now when i try to call him is phone is off or he presses end wich makes it go to voice mail and i call his home phone and i can hear him and another young girl in the backround i can tell that the girl is like 15 around his and my age but his room mate always answers and says he's not there. wat do you guys/grls think is he cheating on me or am i just being paranoed (link)
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no your not being paranoid. There is reason for concern. I mean if he wont bother to talk to you then there is something fishy going on. What you can do and this might be sleezy but you want to know right? so, get a friend to drop by his house ever so often, and see who hes with. Then you know for sure. Other than that, talk to him, let him know whats on your mind. If all else fails, say goodbye to him. Harsh? maybe, But you say he might be cheating. This means you dont trust him 100%. Thus the relationship is not solid but based on iffy's. I hope I helped you somewhat.
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I love knowing that my boyfriend is caring and trusting but I can't help but feel like I need to watch him. I know he likes me and doesn't want to be with anyone else, but I can help checking the comments he gets from other girls on Myspace or how he looks at other girls. I know its pretty normal for any girl to do that. When he doesn't message me (when he's online) I get nervous that he thinks I'm insane or something. Yet I know that he probably isn't paying attention to the screen, is busy, etc. I've never been like this with any of my other boyfriends and he makes me nervous/intimidated, (In a good way) because he's exactly the type of guy I've always wanted. I just don't want to lose him but I know inside he likes me a lot. How can I deal with these somewhat jealous feelings I get when he talks with other girls and understand he likes me not them? Sorry if that sounded conceited, I'll rate. (link)
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you know my ex girlfriend was exactly like that. when we were on line and i wasnt responding, she would go bonkers. or if i didnt phone message her back right away when she sent me a message she would go beserk. you have nothing to worry about. truthfully, your reactions are totally normal. It shows you really do love him. dont worry so much if he talks to other girls. ever guy does that. now if he were to have a drink with other girls or hang out with them more,yes than there is reason for concern. Be proud of him. and if you still are doubtful, sit and talk with him and let your thoughts and feelings out. hope i helped.
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this guy i "like" keeps getting me mad, one day he likes me and one day he don't. WHY. he's leaving to vegas for a week and just before he left he says he doesnt like me but two days before he said on the phone he does and the likes this otehr gurl and he doesnt know waht to do, do you think he's doing that cuz he's leaving and yeah... but thats so stupid he does it when he's here too, i dont get it HELP (link)
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You said you "like" him. Does that mean you are unsure. You know, This guy is not worth your time. I mean he's playing. He is not serious at all. I mean, he likes you or he doesn't. There should not be constant maybes. Don't waste your time with him. You'll come across a guy you will adore and he will adore you in return. I promise you. Don't let this guy get in your way. You take care.
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The guy i like worships the devil..i think..he is into wicca and i'm totally the oposite...i love Jesus and God. But is it wrong to have feelings for someone like that? (link)
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Girl, get as far away from him as you can. trust you me. I say this out of care. You are going to get hurt. you will even be dragged into his psycotic lifestyle. You will lose friends. He is not worth you. Please, don't let yourself get hurt. U deserve someone better and more decent. take him off your mind. Give a guy of better morale a chance with you.
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I've been in love with this guy for about a year now since the first time i layed eyes on him. He has a gf and I told him how much I liked him. He said he liked me too but I am too young. I can't seem to get over him and it rly hurts when i see him. But yet, I still want to and I still enjoy spending time with him. However, I need to get over him, should I get over him? Do you think there is any hope in the world for me to become his gf? Please help! 15f. hes 18m
Thanks in Advance,
Drowning in love
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Yes. There is hope. Don't ever let someone tell you different. You deserve it. Its okay he has a gf right now. Don't worry. Don't change. Don't let him see you hurt or affected by him having a gf. You know, if you two are meant for each other, she is going to dump him or he is going to dump her and you two will be together. That is your hope. Thats why, don't give up. And you being to young has nothing to do with it. I mean now your 15 him 18. 2 years later, hes 20 your 17. Now it doesn't seem so big hey. Bottom line, age has no limits when it comes to true love. You take care.,
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i was wondering if anyone knows any poems about love and romantic things i really need like at least three but if you onlt know 1 or 2 it's ok i still wanna hear them plez let me hear your poems (link)
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I promise you my love
I promise you my heart
I promise you my life
I promise we'll never be apart
I promise not to hurt you
I promise to never make you cry
I promise to always trust you
I promise not to lie
I promise you forever
I promise you tonight
I promise you my respect
I promise to do things right
I promise to always be there
I promise until the end
I promise to always love you
I promise to be your best friend
I promise you my love
I promise you my life
I promise this forever
I promise our LOVE is my life
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My heart searches for you
everywhere I go,
hoping to see a trace
of the warmth I found
in your smile.
You are ever on my mind,
the tide that dashes
upon the shore,
keeping my heart awake
and my dreams alive.
And I could never still
these thoughts of you,
because you turn
the gray sky blue
when winter calls.
And when the night
falls heavy,
you make the stars
shine twice as bright,
lighting up
my world with hope,
and making me yearn for
the dawn that will bring us
one day closer
to being together
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For every tear that falls
I will be there for you
For every inch of pain that you feel I will feel it to
I will be there for you through thick and thin
I will be your rock when you need me to be
I will always be there for you
For every heart ache you feel
I feel it to
For every ounce of misery you feel
I feel it to
What ever you do that makes you hurt
I will feel it
Love isn't something that you or I can run from
It's a feeling like no other
When you cry
I will cry with you
Through thick and thin I will always be there for you
When you feel like you have nothing left to live for
Remember me
I will always be there for you
For every time you smile
I will smile with you
For every tear that you cry out of joy
I will cry with you
I will always be there for you
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i like this guy and im just starting to get to know him. but when we talk i dont really have anything to talk about. any suggestions on how to get the conversation going? (link)
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What kind of career are you interested in?
What kind of movies do you like? What is the worst movie you ever saw? Who is your favorite actor/actress? What do you like about them?
What is your favorite TV show? What is your least favorite?
What kind of music do you enjoy? Who is your favorite performer/group/band? Who do you think is the hottest this year? Do you think they will still be next year? Who do you think is the most over-hyped
If you could hang out with any celebrity for a whole day, which famous person would you choose?
If you knew you would be stranded on a desert island for a year, what three things would you bring with you?
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What are some things a girl could do for a guy to give their relationship a push? (link)
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Is he slacking or both of you. Write little love notes and leave them in his car, bedroom, bathroom whereever. Write him love letters sign your secret admirer. Have more heart to heart conversations. Make out. Spend more time together
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I like a guy at work. His friend also works with us (they've known each other for a while but didn't seem to be too close)and he quit today. I'm afraid that the guy I like will quit too. What are the chances that he quits? (link)
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That question his hard to answer. Does he like his job. Is he happy at work. Does he depend on this job. Is he crazy about you. Chances? you talk to him. ask him if he'd ever quit. take care
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Theres this guy i slept with a couple of weeks ago. He was quite good and Id like to have more sex and NOTHING ELSE him. But I cant get him to come to me, whenever he texts me Im in bed and whenever I text him drunk or whatever, he never replies. What can I send him to make him wanna come over whenever I want him to? Im a 20 year old girl.
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This may be harsh but your best bet, don't contact him. He knows that you are ready for him every time you contact him. He is in no hurry. He needs not to worry. When hes ready he knows he has you. Now, if you dont message him, he will worry and begin to miss you and whammo, hes yours.
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okay this might be long but if it is sorry .. this one boy lets call him "guy a" has liked me on an off and at my party we did stuff and im not sure if he likes me any more hes always surronded by girls cus hes the hottest guy in school well another guy "guy b" likes me and he has a girlfriend well weve messed around alot and i really like guy a but i dont know how to talk to him and what should i do about guy b? (link)
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well, "guy a" is an iffy. You say he likes you on and off. uh uh. Nope. To me thats testing you and playing. In other words, your his back up. Dont bother with him. "guy b" uh uh. Nope. he has a girlfriend. Pls dont mess with him. You deserve better. Enjoy your girlfriends. When the right guy comes around for you you wont have to worry anymore. You take care.
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