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what do we talk about?
i like this guy and im just starting to get to know him. but when we talk i dont really have anything to talk about. any suggestions on how to get the conversation going?
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ask him some personal things like:
. whats your fave pass time
. who your fave sports star
all things to help you get to know him
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When you're with a guy I tend to sit back and let him do the hard conversation work and find out stuff about you- then you can always reverse the questions he asks or get into a natural conversation. Just be prepared- have 3 things that you are passionate about i.e. photography, cheerleading, feeding the homeless... and try to work these into the questions he asks you. The most natural things for you to ask him are what he wants to be and what is he passionate about, or just what does he do after school to get an idea what his life is like. You can also adk about family or deeper issues but those really need to wait until a later time. Also if there is a lull in the conversation, don't rush in to fill it. Chances are you might just say something dumb, whereas by waiting he will be feeling like he should fill the gap and he will be getting nervous like the pressure is on him, so he will think of something good to try and impress you.
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just talk about what feels natural. bring soemething up about your day, and be like "omg, guess what" or whateveer. then just take it from there
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What kind of career are you interested in?
What kind of movies do you like? What is the worst movie you ever saw? Who is your favorite actor/actress? What do you like about them?
What is your favorite TV show? What is your least favorite?
What kind of music do you enjoy? Who is your favorite performer/group/band? Who do you think is the hottest this year? Do you think they will still be next year? Who do you think is the most over-hyped
If you could hang out with any celebrity for a whole day, which famous person would you choose?
If you knew you would be stranded on a desert island for a year, what three things would you bring with you?
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Ask him about his hobbies what does he like to do for fun...favorite restaurants to eat at....what kind of movies does he like to see....ask about his family any siblings.....does he collect anything....does he like school how are his grades....does he play any sports ect...
hope this helps
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