K so i have a boyfriend and we have been going out about 4 weeks and the thing is... he is really commited and i am not. and i think he likes me more than i like him.. what should i do?
let him know before things get any farther. it will hurt him more if its farther in the relationship and his feelings are even stronger than they are now. It will hurt him but not as much if you wait. He needs to be aware of your feelings because you dont want him to put alot into the relationship that you arent ready for. Just let him know and if hes the guy for you he will understand :]
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15/f sometimes once i start to like a guy i think i become to attached to them. like i will want to talk to them all the time and i'll find stupid excuses just to be near them. and i feel like if he talks to another girls then i have to talk to him too. i know this might seem stupid but its true. so what can i do to become less obsessive?
what might be the problem is your confidence in yourself is coming from whether a guy likes you or not. If you do this your confidence will always be let down because guys arent always going to please you. Try to let what gives you confidence in yourself not be what other guys...or just people in general think of you but what you know about yourself. It makes it easier so you dont have to be so dependent on what guys do. If they like you and want to be with you alot then cool..if they dont then theyre not for you. The guy for you will want to always spend time with you and you wont have to beg for attention from him. I hope I helped.
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can u please give me some ideas and topics for me and my boyfriend to talk about we seem to have a communication problem and it is destroying our relationship. we love each other so much though. i am a 26 year old female and my boyfriend is 30
ok this is what i always do when i am trying to get to know a person better..it sounds dumb but its so much fun and you get to know so many things about them. Play 20 questions!...but dont just leave it to twenty questions..ask them anythign random questions..deep quesdtions..flirtatious type questions...its a conversations starter and you learn alot about the person. Thats just to start but once you know those little random facts about each other it can lead into more of a conversation and just make it easier to communicate with each other because you have more to talk about. i know it sounds weird but it helps alot!
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Love is a really big serious word.
It's not like you date a guy for a day and you automatically love him. I've been dating this guy for 5 months .. And I can't decide If I love him because I like him a lot ! A lot, I just dont know beacuse we're pretty young only 14 and It seems weird to use love like that. I think I love him, just when I say that.. it sounds too powerful
Love is a big deal. I believe really strongly that if you love someone you know it without a doubt. 14 even though we feel like we know alot we dont have much of an idea of what love is yet. strongly liking and having feelings for someone, yes. thats just growing up. Liking someone may grow into love but it takes time. One of my friends told me one time that we're still kids and still learning what our heart is used for. Im not calling you a kid but i think that something like love can only coem with time.
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So I recently met a boy. hes amazing. Im only 13, but Im having feelings for this guy that ive never had before. hes older and makes me feel like im PERFECT. I honestly couldn't be without him. How do you know if your IN LOVE or not? Im so confused these feelings are overwhelming.
how do you know if youre in love or not? youll know because there will be no question about it. so for now id say you are not in love..youre just meeting someone that is really amazing probably for the first time and its normal to have the feelings your having. I wouldnt get into things too fast though take it slow because the more you put into a relationship the more youll be hurt if something goes wrong. Have fun with him do things with friends and just live your life to the fullest right now. You'll KNOW when youre in love.
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I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?
I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental?
omg i totally kno what you mean! Love is a big deal. I mean i think to love someone it takes time and its not something to just say to ne one and everyone..its something special. Like marriage or something. I totally agree with you on that one!
Gaby
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There's this guy that I really like, and we're in a couple classes together. The problem is, we never really talked last year. But I'm really shy. How can I get over my shyness and just talk to him, or even say hi? Rate 5's for good answers.
First just start to ask him questions (to get you guys talking) even if its a question you know the answer to. Like how to get somewhere or if you had hmwk last night. eventually itll you both will be more comfortable talking to each other and then you can just tALK. I'm sure u kno what to do from there. Hope it helped!
Gaby
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