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So I recently met a boy. hes amazing. Im only 13, but Im having feelings for this guy that ive never had before. hes older and makes me feel like im PERFECT. I honestly couldn't be without him. How do you know if your IN LOVE or not? Im so confused these feelings are overwhelming.
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how do you know if youre in love or not? youll know because there will be no question about it. so for now id say you are not in love..youre just meeting someone that is really amazing probably for the first time and its normal to have the feelings your having. I wouldnt get into things too fast though take it slow because the more you put into a relationship the more youll be hurt if something goes wrong. Have fun with him do things with friends and just live your life to the fullest right now. You'll KNOW when youre in love.
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Sweetie, youre most likely NOT in love..youre just excited you met someone so "great." Please be careful though..a lot of times older guys try to take advantage of younger girls because younger girls tend to fall a lot faster than older girls. Try hanging out with him and your friends and see how he acts around other people, it might surprise you.
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Well, it depends a lot upon how old he is. But, for starters, you're not in love. I'm not saying it's impossible for a 13-year old to fall in love, I mean Juliet was only 12, but with the society we have today, you're definitely not in love. Sorry for that little tirade. From experience, it is not wise to date someone older than you, especially at 13. You're body is growing and you're hormones are blaring and you just get into things too fast. You need to be with someone you're age. That's just a suggestion. I know that what I am saying won't affect you too much, but be aware that the differences in age are much much BIGGER than you would guess.
-Andrew(the best)
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