You're welcome. I'm glad I helped. I'm also glad you want to tell him how you feel because if you hold back your feelings because you are afraid of getting hurt, you'll wind up getting hurt anyway. Plus, you don't want to be left with any "what if's"... Don't worry about looking stupid- he'll probably think its cute; as for any awkwardness laugh it off with him. Good luck.

Maybe he didnt know how he felt or how to deal with liking you and now he is comfortable with how he feels about you -Or- he was using you as a last resort; he liked you enough if things didnt work out with the girl he was talking to... There are so many possibilities. Tell him you are confused and that he has been sending you mixed signals. Ask him to be honest with you about how he truly feels. I hope I helped.

It is a one time offer?! He just wants to "hit it and quit it." Do you really want to lose your virginity to someone who will take it from you and than want nothing more to do with you? Wait to lose your virginity to someone who you care about, someone who you know cares for you in return, and someone you share a plan for the future with. If you want to kiss him, I don't reject, but keep in mind he will want to go further. Getting involved with him strictly as friends with benefits could really hurt you in the end. You could wind up wanting a relationship and he won't, or you could find out he is doing things with other girls since he is not committed to you and that will not feel good. Plus you are nervous to do something with him. This is your mind and body's way of telling you that you are not ready to do anything with this guy. Please think about this.

Do not change yourself for him. Dress how you normally dress. Act how you normally act. If this guy can't like you for who you are than he isn't worth it. Also, the relationship will be fake because he will not be liking you, but the girl you are pretending to be. Keep flirting with him, as yourself. Ask him if he wants to hang out, just the two of you or with a group of mutual friends. If he doesn't make a move anytime soon, move on. If he can't see you for the unique person you are, he isn't worth having you or your effort to get him.

Tell him you had a wonderful time and you have feelings for him again. Let him know you ended it before because you were really shy but you want to try it again. Popularity shouldn't matter and it didn't matter to him when he wanted to be with you the first time. Don't worry about what others will think. You don't want to live not knowing what could have happened so I say go for it. Good Luck.

He should not be saying that because you are too shy he doesn't want to go further. His only reason or excuse not to do anything like that with you should be if you are not ready to. If he really cares about you, he will wait until you are. So if you are not ready, do not let him pressure you or feel bad about it. It is your body, your choice.

He wants to stop. The effort is there. You two like each other. You are the one he wants by his side and the support that he will most value. Also a positive, he hasn't pressured you into doing anything that you have never done and wouldn't feel comfortable doing. He respects you. Knowing he can better himself and being willing to shows that he is a strong person. This shows if he makes a mistake, he will try to fix it. If he hurts you, he will try his hardest to make it up to you. Helping him stay on his new path won't be easy but if you care for him, be there. Give him a chance. Good luck. I hope I helped and I hope it works out.

You need to talk to both of them. Tell your sister how you feel about him and about the situation about you both liking him. Have the same conversation with your crush. See how they both feel about you two starting a relationship. Find out if he likes your sister as well. You don't want to start the relationship off on the wrong foot. Get everything out on the table. I hope everything works out. If you need anything else I'm here.

If the pictures involve nudity, I feel that is too early in a relationship to engage in that kind of behavior. Besides that point, if you are not comfortable doing something, then don't do it. Your boyfriend should not be pressuring you to do something you do not want to do. He should respect your wishes, your feelings, your morals, you as a person and you as his girlfriend. Don't let him manipulate you into doing it, especially the famous ~if you love me, you will~ line. The truth is, if he loves you he'll wait. If he continues to pressure you, it is time to let him go as hard as it may be for you. You deserve someone who respects you. If I took it wrong and it is a normal picture of you (no nudity or explicit content) then I say why not? He already knows what you look like and appreciates your beauty. He should make you feel confident and beautiful. Him having respect for you still applies here but it is not an issue worth breaking up with him for. You may feel shy, but I don't think that is asking for much or asking for anything wrong. If he can call you his, he should be allowed to have a picture of you. You can have him send you a pick of himself first. I hope I helped. If you need anything else I'm here.

First of all, that was a nasty trick your friends sucked you into. No one should ever tell you who you should or should not like, and you should never pretend to like someone. Maybe as a second part to this so-called joke, your friends told him you were ~assigned to like him~ and he is trying to get back at you by playing with your emotions. -Or- He could not like you and feels comfortable flirting with you, hence leading you on without realizing it. There are so many things that could be going on here. Maybe he really does like you and his friends make fun of him for it so he won't pursue his feelings further. -Or- He won't admit liking you because he has been hurt before, and he is afraid that you will hurt him too. Has he ever had a girlfriend? Could it be that he doesn't know how to act on his feelings or that he is too shy? I can list more possibilities but you won't be able to find out which one is true unless you confront him. Tell him last year he gave you the impression that he liked you back but denied it. Tell him you don't understand why he is continuing to lead you on if he is claiming he doesn't have feelings for you in that way. This is hurting you and confusing you. You need him to clear it up. If he claims again that he doesn't like you and if you want to remain friends with him, tell him you would like him to stop flirting with you. If he does like you, consider the games he has playing with your head before you consider dating him. If you want to date him anyway, he needs to be open and honest with you about his feelings. I hope I helped. If you need anything else, I'm here.

I will put myself in your shoes and look at every side of the story. You are more than welcome to inbox me.

If you guys are good friends, you should be able to talk about anything. If he doesn't feel the same, I'm sure he wouldn't want it to ruin your friendship any more than you would want it to. Don't hold back your feelings because you are afraid of getting hurt, you wind up getting hurt anyway. Don't be left with the ~what if's~. Instead of wondering what could have been, find out what could be: Tell Him. I hope everything works out. Good Luck.

That definitely was flirting. Your friend is right. He was doing these things because he likes you. He wants you to like him back. If you do, keep flirting with him and start some small talk to get to know him better. Then tell him you like him. If you don't want to get to know him better before discussing your feelings for each other, tell him you think he likes you and ask him if its true. Either way, if it is what you want, a relationship could result. If you don't like him but want to continue the flirting, do so without leading him on. Be friendly in response to his flirting but not too friendly, otherwise he will think you like him. I hope I helped.

Do not give him another chance. Not only does he not respect you, he doesn't care about you. You deserve better than that. He's got you as a make out buddy. I know it'll hurt but you need to break up with him Now. The longer you stay with him, the more you will hurt and the more attached you will become. If he really cared about you he would call you, spend time with you and not flirt with anyone else. He knows your weakness and he is taking full advantage of it. He says he loves you only to play with your emotions and make you stay with him. Relationships take a lot of work: committment, dedication, time, respect, trust, sacrifice, compromise, love...etc. Where is any of it? He is not committed to you if he is flirting with other girls and especially when he doesn't flirt with you. That is not respecting you and he has given you no reasons to trust him. He is a player and he is possibly cheating on you with one or more girls. Dedication? He is dedicated to calling other girls and spending time with Them. That is not love. You deserve someone who will care about you just as much as you care about them; someone who knows what a relationship takes and who is willing to make it work. You need someone there for you. Your boyfriend will never change or be what you need. You need to must up the courage, knowing you Will Find Better and leave him. He still won't talk to you, he still won't call you. Best of all, he won't be able to use you for your body no more or call you his to keep you from finding someone better. And these so-called friends of yours? Friends don't flirt with their friends boyfriends. They are not worthy of your care or time either. You will go through a lot once you make these changes but it is for the better. Don't let him make you feel like the way he treated you was your fault. You have a big heart. When you care about someone you really care about them. That is not always a bad thing. You need friends and a boyfriend who appreciates who you are and that can give you that in return. Be strong. I wish you the best and if you need anything else, I'm here.

You should never go out with someone based on who they have dated before you. You get with someone because you care for eachother. If you like him for real reasons like his personality, his morals, common interests...etc, then it would be ok to want to work on starting a relationship. You didn't mention any of these reasons in your question, but if they apply, there is a lot you can do. If you don't understand a problem in math class, you can ask if he would like to help you and exchange numbers or screennames. If you are doing good in math, do not pretend you aren't. In order to have a successful relationship, any relationship, honesty is key from the beginning. Lunch is another opportunity. Try sitting at his table. You could have a friend come along to help break the ice if that would make you feel more comfortable, or you could invite him to sit at your table. If you think you'll be too shy for that, take little steps. On the lunch line, ask him what he's getting. Comment on the food. In math class ask him to borrow a pencil, piece of paper, or his calculator. Small talk will lead to more. Just make sure you are going for this guy for the right reasons. I hope I helped. If you need anything else I'm here.

Besides being pressured by your friend, you are being pressured by the events of Valentine's Day. You are not ready for committment and you have other priorities right now. Don't ever rush into a relationship. Most relationships that are rushed into do not work. Your feelings for him really have to be there. Relationships take a lot of hard work, effort, sacrifice and time which you want to devote to your schoolwork right now. If you stay friends with him until you are ready, you'll have a much smaller chance of losing him and the both of you getting hurt. It could work out later in the future, when you feel ready. I hope I helped. If you need anything else, I'm here.

You can't help who you like. It seems like the other girls are in the same situation as you. None of you have acted on your feelings. Be the first one. Tell him you like him. Find out if he likes you back. If you guys are close you should be able to talk about anything. If he likes you back you could start a relationship. If he doesn't, I'm sure he wouldn't want to lose your friendship over it. If you don't act now, you are going to remain feeling this way. If you let one of the other girls get to him first, you may never get the courage to tell him and you will always wonder what could have been. Good Luck. If you need anything else, I'm here.

He is too shy to talk to you so try talking to him. Someone who thinks you are special is worth getting to know. Looks aren't everything. Its something you are given- the inside is what you make. If you don't like him once you get to know him better, do not lead him on. Make sure you let him know you only see him as friends. If you do wind up liking him, that means you looked past his race. Don't let anyone tell you its not okay to like someone because of their heritage. People will disapprove and talk; they always will. Sit down with your parents and tell them what you like about him, the things they will appreciate. Then bring up his race. Tell them before they knew, he seemed like a guy they approved. Let them know you think its wrong and it hurts for them to judge him based on his race. Give him a chance. You might find him to be a really great guy.

They want the scent to only be attributed to you but they don't want to be able to smell it on you from across the room. If you're in a relationship, ask him which scents he prefers and which ones he hates. You could also take him with you when you buy perfume.

Besides the fact that he is unloyal, he is mentally unstable. Your relationship is controlling and abusive. You are afraid of what he will do to you or himself, therefore that fear and manipulation on his part has caused you to stay. You know this is unhealthy and you want out. You cant keep blaming yourself for what he has been putting you through. He definitely needs help but more importantly right now is you. You need to tell an adult that you trust. You need their support and their understanding of the possible consequences of you breaking up with him so they can protect you from his harm. Once you do leave him and have someone that is helping you feel safe and keeping him away from you, then if he continues to threaten to hurt himself you can try to get him professional help. I know this is hard hun. I wish you the very best. If you need anything else im here.

My advice is based on my experiences, my morals, my values and what I would do if I were the advice seeker. I always put myself in your shoes and look at all sides of the story. I love updates, so please inbox me to let me know how everything turned out because I worry about you! Some lessons I hope to teach all include: *Always stand up for what you believe in *Never give up *Fight for those who would fight for you *Don't hold back your feelings because you're afraid of getting hurt; you wind up getting hurt anyway *Don't follow your dreams- chase them *Appreciate the things you have *Always put others before yourself *It's always ok to feel, but it's not always ok how you react to those feelings *Learn from yesterday live for today and hope for tomorrow

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