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Nice guy but I don't know!


Question Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 9:22 pm

Ok there is this guy who thinks I am pretty and nice. He has never talked to me but he wants to get to know me. My friend is friends with him and she gave him my number. He seems nice but he won't talk to me in person. He isn't that attractive. And I don't hang out with his friends so I wouldn't want to hang out with him and his friends and he doesn't really talk to all of mine. I don't think my parents would approve of him either. But just because the color of his skin. He is like indian. but i don't know what to do. What if I really am not in to him? I don't want to be bitchy about it. I really don't know what to do he isn't my type really.

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for3v3r_his answered Friday February 15 2008, 7:27 pm:
He is too shy to talk to you so try talking to him. Someone who thinks you are special is worth getting to know. Looks aren't everything. Its something you are given- the inside is what you make. If you don't like him once you get to know him better, do not lead him on. Make sure you let him know you only see him as friends. If you do wind up liking him, that means you looked past his race. Don't let anyone tell you its not okay to like someone because of their heritage. People will disapprove and talk; they always will. Sit down with your parents and tell them what you like about him, the things they will appreciate. Then bring up his race. Tell them before they knew, he seemed like a guy they approved. Let them know you think its wrong and it hurts for them to judge him based on his race. Give him a chance. You might find him to be a really great guy.

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randomconfusionx answered Friday February 15 2008, 6:18 pm:
um. be friends. and tell your parents to get the fuck over it. they need to stop being so god damn prejiduce. mmkay
yeah. i mean, give this guy a shot. you might start liking him.

xoxo.
<33 destinyy

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sugarplum07 answered Friday February 15 2008, 7:33 am:
All you have to do is be honest. The guy hasn't even talked to you in person yet yet, who's to say he will? He's obviously really shy. I wouldn't worry about this guy coming on to you. The least you could do is be friends with him.

No one said you had to date him, but why not make a new friend out of the situation?

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