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ok well i know its possible to be in an unhealthy relationship because the couple is like obsessed with each other but i dont think my bf and i are like that. we are best friends though and extremely comfortable with each other. we have a serious relationship that is beyond what our ages are. im 14/f and my bf is almost 16/m. we are in love and im moving soon so we are trying to make the most of our time. my mentor thinks it is a bit worrying how comfortable we are and how serious our relationship is at such a young age. and also what will i do when i move? how will i live without him? i already only see him once a week! please help...i will rate :] (link)
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Thats tough, it deppends how far your moving away. My bf and i go to a different school and we have web cams to keep in touch. I know its not the same thing as seeing each other in person, but its better then not seeing him at all right?
You guys should arrange to meet somewhere once every two weeks or something.
Hope i helped :)
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im going out with this guy jared
and hes in seventh grade and im in ninth
hes really supposed to be in eighth though.
anyway people at my old middle school are talking bad about me and seem to think im 'desperate' cuz hes not the first 7th grader ive gone out with.
But im not desperate! i actually really liked these guys and how dare them judge me. Jared and i love eachother and nobody can stop it.
we say it over the fone, IM, text, on dates.
But my 7th grade frends think its gross, cuz nobody liked him last year.
I certainly dont think its gross because hes really sweet.
I dont know why my 7th grade freinds are talking bad about us behind out backs, especially me. Im fourteen and hes thirteen. Only one year!
Why do these poeple care so much about my life anyway??!
Dont say its becuase theyre my friends because my friends wouldnt talk behind my back like that.
They USED TO be my friends.
what would you do if you were me?
By the way its not like i have no life.
ive had other bfs, who are older then me!
haha (link)
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whoah
i had the same problem
haha
who cares you guys are in love!
your other frends understand in your HS right?
i think its sweeet
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I'm in the 7th grade there this 8th grader i really like and he alway talk to me so i wanted too know should i tell him i like him or wait please and thanks (link)
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Okay, i think you should tell him how you feel. If you have a screen name, sometimes its better to talk to people online. text messages, whatever. If not, then you have to be strong, and brave and tell him you like him in school or something. because, i know from experience that if you wait, things become . . . . bad.
Just trust me on this and im sure youll do fine!
(:
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14/f
i went out with this boy for two months. lets call him richard? alright, well he was my first real actual boyfriend. and i was his first real actual girlfriend. i was his first girlfriend like ever. usualy i cant keep a bf for more than 2 weeks because i get really annoyed of them. so i found richard and he always said he loved me and that he wanted to last through highscool even though we are going to two different highschools. but he said he liked me that much.
PROBLEM:
at two months he broke up with me for my best friend. it really hurt. at first everyone kept saying he still liked me he just didnt want to go out(but he liked my best friend too). so i still like him to this day (about a month later) and i hadnt heard of him liking me. so as much as i still liked him i knew there was no chance. i mean we still talk all the time and we are good friends. but we arent dating like that..but today my best friend told me that her boyfriend (richards best friend) said that richard would go out with me if i still wanted to. and richard asked me to hang out this weekend..
what should i do? im so in love with this boy..(despite my age) and if i go back to him, i would think he would just know i would always be there..no matter what he did to me..like i was always a last resort? but i dont know if he actualy feels that way..because i guess he really likes me still?
if you were in my position what would you do? and this weekend..what would you say to him and just any advice you have on this situation ill take.
thanks soo much and i apologize for it being so long :\
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If i were you i would go out with him, have fun, but dont show any emotions toward a relationship. Be flirty be loose, but at the end of your "date" look him in the eyes and ask him if he likes you as much as you like him. Because it will only hurt you more if you guys go out again and he breaks up with you right away. If your best friend did that to you she should have talked with you about it first!
thats exactly what my bff and i would have done
so talk to her first, have a girls night out or whatever and bring it up. Good luck!!!!
xoxo
hope i helped
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i have a lot of guy friends and think they all rock. four of them happen to like me, but im a senior and moving to texas to go to college so there is no point in dating you know. but what if i dont find a hot guy in texas. how do i get to meet people and be well liked. (link)
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well, do u like any one of the guys back?
Dont date just for the sake of dating
if you really like someone, then long distance (although it way be hard) can be pulled off.
How do you make new guy friends?
Be yourself and at how you did around other guys at you old school.
Eventually, some guy will realize he needs you in his life. I learned the hard way.
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i like this guy...and im pretty sure he likes me (keyword: PRETTY sure..so not 100%) i dont know how to ask him if he likes me because its just really akward, i cant ask his friends because 1)i hardly know them, 2)they are like 99% always with him, 3) his friends would be like WTF!! and i cant get my friends to talk to him because i am sooo sure he would say no..even it it is a yes. i cant ask him myself..because that would be really akward since we get along good as friends right now, so how do i figure out?? like ,is there any signs? or something? ANY advice would be so much appreciated!
Thanks:) (link)
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Well just be the honest girl you are and tell him you like him! Theres no ther way then straight up, i know its really hard. but guess what?
Im doing it as i speak to you! Just go for it, maybe try to get to know him a little better, talk to him and find his interests if you keep him in suspense hell get the meggage you dont like him anymore and move on.
"Better get a move on or all the good ones will have gone!"
Yes thats a line from harry potter, ron weasley said that =D
Hope i helped and leme know how it goes!
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hi im allie and in 17. ok so this summer i stayed with my cousin for about a month or two. and during that time she hooked me up with her boy friends best friend so hey what could be better. he was really cute, shy at first, but then just amazing. we clicked and it worked. we really liked each other. well at least thats what i thought. well we had a fun time and when it was time for me to leave he told me he would call me or message me or something. ( just to key you in im not one of those nieve girls who falls into puppy love and let guys do whatever and are all clingy and everything) well turns out he never did so when i went back down there liek 3 months later, we hung out and once again we clicked and had a great time. but then i went back a month later and he came over to my cousins house one night and i was all excited to see him. turns out it was an akward night for me. he was flirting with my cousin!! and she of course was just ignoring it and talkin with him like usual but i just kinda stood there. i tried to have a convo with him but he was just interested in talking to her. i was honeslty crushed. i realllly like him. im going back for xmas break and i really wanna see him but idk if he wants to see me. like we'll hang out but i kinda want more than that. i REALLY like him. what do i do? (link)
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Wow, tough sitch. I would just say to talk to him. tell him how you feel about flirting with his best friends girl. Text him if easier. Then talk on the phone. But this is hard he showed that he was really into you at first, then ingored you?? Id say hes showing some mixed signals. So i owuld say hang out with him on christmas break and see what he does. If hes a jerk again, well id say there are more fishies in the sea. But if you guys click again, talk to him and ask him if he feels the connection. Hope i helped
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16/f okay so there is this boy who i am really falling for. and he is one of those boys that you know you shouldnt like and he doesnt hit my usual criteria but for some reason he is wrong in all the right ways. so there are alot of people that are against me and him (arent going out yet, supposedly asking me out tomorrow)...anyways alot of people are against it(younger sister,friends,best friend) cause he doesnt exactly have the best reputation with girls. i guess you could say he was somewhat of a player. But i see him diff. then everyone else. i truly feel that he likes me. and yes i know that i am taking a risk and that i might end up getting hurt but i am willing to take that risk for some odd reason. i know i will regret it if i dont do this and i feel like i need to. but my question is am i a total idiot??? i mean i tried not to falll for him .....I TRIED SOOO HARD. but i couldnt help it. i love the way he holds me and kisses me and truly listens to me. any advice????!!! thanks for reading (link)
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Well, i would trust your heart if you do anthing, trust it, and follow it, if this guy if for real youll definatley feel it, and i guess you do. So I say go for it. Talk to your friends and little sister and tell them exactly what you told us, maybe then they'll understand. If not, you guys stay strong.
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Ok, so theres this guy i like, and im having a holiday party. I am going to get him a gift, but i dont know what to get him. (Im 14/f)and i dont want to pay a million bucks, or look like i did, but i want something special, that kinda shows i like him, but not so obvious its weird. What should i get him? (link)
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omg my friends always ask me the same question! Get him a teddy bear or candies or (my suggestion) make him a mix of some cool songs and ONE lovey dovey song. you dont want him listening to that stuff the WHOLE cd
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Okay so I had this boyfriend, Adam. He cheated on me. I'm really angry at him, but I'm going to forgive him eventually; it's just going to take time. Now there's this really nice guy I just hung out with recently, Ryan, who I kind of like, and I'm not really sure if he likes me. But, one of my best friends likes Ryan, too. Now, I'm not sure what to do. Adam is aware I like Ryan, my friend knows I like Ryan, but Ryan doesn't know I like him. Part of me thinks that I shouldn't even be be trusting Adam; what he did was so stupid and hypocritical and just really hurt. But I don't even know if Ryan likes me, and my other friend really likes him, so maybe this whole thing with Ryan will just mess up my possible second chance with Adam AND my friendship. Would I be a horrible friend if I were to ever date Ryan? (which is totally hypothetical because it just seems like he likes me, I don't actually know) I don't know what to do... advice? (link)
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I would have a talk with adam and ask him what you guys should do: Break up for good and move on. or give your relationship another chance. Then ask your best friend if its okay that you ask ryan out, or tell him you like him or whatever. Then its up to her from then on. But if you feel dating ryan is the right thing to do, like i said before, clear it with your best friend first. Because then if you dont, she'll be crushed (remember your not the only one who likes him) and your friendship staus will go down. If you do those things you wont be a bad friend.
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Hello I've got a story. Well, I was with this guy for 4 months, then we had to break up because of his parents,(they didn't like the fact that i was 13, 14 now, but he was 17) and so..we broke up. A month after, we got back together, he told me "I don't care what my parents say." so it was a month there, then broke up because of this girl. She didn't know we was going out, and she randomly brought up that he was all over this girl. So finally, I told her we was going out, and my boyfriend didn't want me to..so see I'm confused, he said "she starts stuff." and now I see that she does, but I know he would NEVER cheat on me, he even told it to my face, but when we when out the 2nd time, he never had time to call me, cause he was so busy with school, work, football, ect.
So what do I do? I want him back, but I don't know if I should ask him or not..I asked him the first time, but we kinda both agreed. But the girl that knows we broke up..wants me to go with this one guy, but I'm still in love with my ex..it's so hard to talk tohim now, and he just says "ttyl, bye" and not I love you.
But this new guy, we talk everyday on the phone for hours, and makes me smile, laugh. The sad thing is, me and my ex never had anything to talk about..even tho it was 4 months, we just had nothing. But now I'm not so shy and I have things talk about. I mean, we talked, but just not like me and this new guy talk, but now it'll be different.
So what do I do? Go with this new guy? P.s., he likes me! So yeah.. Think I should give him a chance?
Sorry this was long, I'm just so confused. (link)
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No offense, but your ex seems like a real jerk! Hes ignoring you, face it! Definatley give this new guy a chance, he sounds sweet. =)
Hope it works
Leme know how it goes!!
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I really like this kid. for a few months now. Lets name him Dylan. I've talked to him maybe once or twice. Not even a full sentence, though. People said he liked me and all, but since i dont have anymore classes with him, i dont think he likes me anymore. I always see Dylan in the halls, and I really REALLY want to talk to him, and i always say i will, but i chicken out. I dont really know what to talk about. Dylan plays football. and Likes Georgia. Thats all i know. And I want to become his friend and hopefully after a while his girlfriend. What do i talk to him about? How do i start a conversation. Dylan is really shy. and its so cute. But, i wish he would just talk to me sometimes. How do i become his friend? Talk to him? Normaly? like any other guy?
And his best friend is like one of my best guy friends. Lets call him Kevin. I always talk to Kevin about Dylan. Kevin is so clueless sometimes and when he's around Dylan he ignores me. So, i'd always get mad at him for ignoring me. But by the end of the period, Kevins made up for it. I also think I like Kevin. asdfghjkl;;:! I can talk to Kevin so easily, but I would just love to talk to Dylan too. And if I do start to like Kevin instead of Dylan, how should i tell him? Or should I not tell him? (link)
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wow wow wow, one guy at a time!
You can't like two guys at the same tme because that will just get them confused, lol. You don't want that!! I would say to try to hang out with evin alot when hes hanging out with dylan, this way youll be more comforatble and actually TALK!!
It maybe easier also, to just like approach dylan at his locker, this way hell be doing something (emptying his books or something) and not being alone, and you can actually make him feel like your a friend. Thats the first step, by the way, Friendship. Always, you dont want to be with a guy you barley know, so be friends with him first. If it works out, great! IF now, well im sure thers many other guys for you (Kevin ;) )
Hope I helped!!!
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Hey im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 turning 18 ( We've been going out for 8 months almost 9) , and i really dont know what to get him for his birthday. Anyone have any idea.. please dont say "get him something he likes" because it really doesnt help me =[ im soo stuck. I want to get him something that a guy dreams of getting from his girlfriend.. ya know .. ( GUYS opinions appreciated ) also anyone whose in a relationship or past that gave an awesome birthday present, please shareee =]...
Thanks :) (link)
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Get him guitar hero 3. Guys love that stuff. Unless he already has that, then make him a mix and get him a movie or season of a tv show he likes. Hope i helped!
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i like this guy and i think he likes me back, but we only talk online. we go to different schools (freshmen)
how can i ask him to get together without sounding to anxious? or how can i get him to call?
please be as detailed as possible!!! (link)
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Well, just be upfront with him and tell him how you feel! Then the time you guys will spend together will eventually come, with time. It takes time for a relationship to grow. (you may have heard that from the suite life of zack and cody, lol) My point is that you have to make your move! Dont wait for him to do it, becauase most guys are real shy at our age (Im a freshmen too) Except for a few, theyre just immature, lol. Let me know how that goes for you!
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I like this guy and he likes me back but we never talk to eachother. We known eachother since we were 8 yrs old and every time we would sit next to eachother we would talk but every time we got seperated or we had our seats changed we would act really shy to eachother. I really like him but I dont know how to approach him. What should I do? (link)
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I think you should tell him! If he acts weird and shy in front of you thats a good sign! Just be up front will him and say sweetly "Hey...i kinda like you....alot"
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