I'm 17, I never even had a crush since i was born. I am completely normal. It is just I have never felt anything towards opposite sex or same sex. I can tell that a girl is pretty but no, I never had a chance to like anyone. I never even fall inlove. seriously I never even had crush. What should I do? what am I? am I normal or what? I'm worried I want to have gf.
Read up on asexuality and aromanticism! There's nothing wrong with you at all, and you're perfectly healthy and normal.
Just as some people feel attraction to different genders, some people don't feel attraction at all.
There's a pretty big community online of people who identify as asexual and aromantic, so there are plenty of resources for you.
You're also only 17, so even if you do find yourself attracted to someone later in life, that's just you growing as a person and finding out what you like and don't like.
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I am a 21 yr old girl, Me and my boyfriend been together for a year and 4months, but he doesn't have job or even have a education, he wants me to drop everything and move there but I just started my two jobs, I don't know what to do! Should I? Or am I giving to much? Help me what should I do?
Apply for jobs in his area, and discuss it. This is a really big change in both of your lives, and passion is one thing but being able to pay for rent is another.
I'm assuming this is a long distance relationship, and those are really really hard emotionally. However, communication is the most important thing in a healthy relationship, and you two need to discuss ALL of your worries and fears about possibly living together. Talk about where you're going to live (together or separate?), what your daily schedule is like, how you're going to support yourself financially, and if he wants to get married soon.
He should not expect you to drop your jobs just so he can see you. This isn't a romance movie, and you're allowed to say no.
Follow your heart and all of that, but also realize that this is a really big financial and personal decision.
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okay i'm currently 16 I turn 17 in july
I really love my bf and he telling alot of people thagt he believes
i'm the perfect girl he is too 16 almost 17.he tells me that he is ready to settle down and that he wants to get married and have a kid.I really love him alot and yes he does smoke weed and cigarette and yes my parents know he does.he is a really good guy but something is holding me back he is a bit controlling like he gets mad if I talk about other guys and if I go a full two days J seeing him he threatens to take his own life and then he says that we need to runaway and get married idk I love him and always will it's just thode two things that's hurting me
The most important thing you need to ask yourself is if you could seriously see yourself living with him every single day for the rest of your life.
I'm assuming that you both live in your parents' houses. If you lived together, you wouldn't have a home to run back to when you two get in a fight. That would be your home. All the things that put you off about him now like smoking and threatening to take his life will still be there, but you'll also find many other things that you don't life about him. That sounds cynical, but that's how all marriages are. It's not just about cuddling and having sex every night and having babies; it's about finding someone who can help you and support you as you make your way through life.
I don't know if that's how you feel about him, and I have no right to judge your relationship. I do think it's a good idea to wait a few more years before you seriously talk about marriage. It's a really important time in your life where you're just figuring everything out, and maybe one of you will decide they want to go out of state for college or something else that would separate you two.
I'm not really sure what your question is, but if you want to talk about this with me, my email is always open :)
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ok im 15 im a male and I love my girlfriend with all my heart and weve both bin talkin about how much we love each other and we both are dying 2 have our first kiss. how do i know wen the mood is rite and will she give me hints? if she does hint 2 me wat will they be?
Awh! That's so cute! >u<
I don't know your girlfriend, but most girls like when their boyfriend is playful and cute, so I'll work off of that.
Girls can be just as nervous about their first kiss! And, if it were me, I would like to be surprised by a first kiss. But, I think that you should kiss her on the cheek a few times, to let her know that you want to kiss her, but that you're also giving her space. Like: you're coming home from a date, and she's looking the other way. Lightly kiss her cheek, and retreat.
About the mood part: Moods are really tricky.
If she's mad: Kissing is a big no-no.
If she's sad: Cuddle, let her explain what happened (if she wants, don't push it out of her), and lightly kiss her forehead.
If she's happy: I'm not sure why you would want to kiss her! She's happy, after all!
Usually, a girl will look at your lips, or look expectantly at your eyes if they want to be kissed. Pay close attention to her body language: if she has her arms crossed or her lips pressed tightly together, she's keeping to herself. But, if her body language is more open, she's willing to share.
O.K., sorry for the long answer! Basically, the first kiss is, in my opinion, something to work up to! But I recommend that you ask other girls to help your research! No two girls are exactly the same!
Hope I helped! ^_^
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I started talking to this boy on AIM one day(about 2 years ago). he is a year older then me (im 13). he had a girlfriend when we started talking but i think i got in the way and they eventually broke up. he lived in a different state then me, but he is my best friend. I love him. I really do. Sometimes you love a person for their looks or how they kiss you. but ive never met him, so i know its honest to god love.a few months ago we stopped talking for about a month in a half, and now we are back to the way it was before. we call each other like 3 times a day and stuff. but over christmas and winter break (now) we have barely said a word to each other. he has no more texts this month and he wont really answer my calls. but everytime he does answer them he tells me he is with a friend or he is busy or something. This boy is really my life, i would call him every mornning be4 we went to school and when i got home from school. and we would be on the phone for hours. we even had phone sex. But now that he wont talk to me, i dont know what to do. my days are going by slow. And i miss him.About a month ago he told me he didnt know why we stopped talking, and that he would never want that to happen again. so why is he being such a jerk now and leaving me hanging alll the time? I cry over him almost everyday =[
THanks! Please help
I partially agree with the previous answer. You don't really know who he is, or if he was just talking to you for perverted reasons.
Anyways, you'll get over him. It sounds like he's ignoring you, which isn't very nice, but none-the-less, he's moving on. I advise you do the same. You'd be better off finding some guy at school (assuming you're not home-schooled), that you think is cute, nice, etc. instead of chasing after some guy you don't know.
I hope you make a good decision!
=3
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this friday im supposed to go see a movie with a friend that i like and she likes me but wants to get to knwo me better and hang out more. well she told her little cousin she would take her and her crush to go see a movie and she invited me to come along. im 15/m by the way. well on myspace she had posted a bulletin called kiss or pass and you had to message the person postign saying if you would kiss them or pass and i said kiss and she responded to the one i posted saying she would kiss me. im thinking about waiting till after the movie is over and when im saying bye hug her then kiss her, should i? give me your opinion and any advice that you think is appropriate.
Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
Most girls are too shy to start the kissing!
That's an awesome plan! I wish I guy would do that to me! lol!
Go for it! ^-^
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um i screwed a boy 2 weeks ago.. and he pulled out.. but im scared i maybe preg. what is the chance i am.. if i am i dont no what to do.. because if i tell him he will deny it..
wait until your period, if it doesn't come, tell your mom, or a female adult you trust.
they'll know what to do.
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