hey every one i am in 9th grade and i am 14 and i love to write and draw paint and things like that i am artistic and loving i love to horse back ride and i love to horse around with my friends i am energetic but serious when i need to be i am always here if you need to talk or ask a question but if you dont want the whole world to see your question i/m me at MyGlisteningTear and that is for aim
E-mail: dolphinbottle78@ohtmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: someone to be there when times are rough and a high school fresh man
Age: 14
AIM: MyGlisteningTear
Member Since: November 10, 2003
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Last Update: February 12, 2004
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whatis love? (link)
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you will no when it comes becuase it is an indescribible feeling
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I like my best friends 3 day ex.... and she is going to tell him to ask me out.... but i don't want him to hate me will he evn care that it's that early? (link)
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ok first of all is it truely ok to your friend to like her ex when they just broke up and second of all she could just be hidding her feelings becuase she wants to make you happy but if shes truely ok with it then go ahead but just to let you now you might wanna give him at least a week
~ love ya much Rae ~
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how can i tell a boy i like him (he is my neighbor)with out anyone finding out like his mom cuz she doesnt liek him having any girlfriends or stuff like that and she doesnt want me ot tel him that i like him cuz she says that we are"good friends right now" (link)
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say your name was anna and his was Dan use names that ryme so be like
"Dan my friend Dianna likes her friend Stan and she wants to tell him she just doesnt no what to say or if it will affect their friendship what would youdo if this happened to you?" and take his advice hehe oh and i said have the names ryme becuase guys are clueless #1 but he also may get the hint good luck
~Rachael~
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there's this guy at school who's girlfriend just broke up with him. my friend said i should ask him out, but he said he might just rest awhile. (link)
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let him rest you shouldnt push someone into a relationship right after they broke up with someone else after 2 weeks or more ask him again good luck
~Rachael~
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omg!!! what do i do if i have fallen in love with two boys at the same time???? this is true love i swear and i need major help (link)
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well get to know both of them then pick the one best for you
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When one flaunts there new relationship all over the internet, I.E Bob is so hot. I've never been so happy. He's absolutely amazing. I'm so lucky. Like, wow. He's so hot. He's so hot. Like, everywhere...is it safe to think that the person doing this is insecure about the relationship, and is just trying to prove to everyone how great it is, when maybe it's not all that wonderful? (link)
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it is possible that the person is insecure and that the relation ship is going to the toilet sorta speak on the other hand they could just be obessed thats how i am with jeremy sumpter
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Ive liked guy and only guys ever scence kindergarden, but now that im in middle school, im kinda afrid that im not only interested in guys...this is really embressing, but i have been lookin at girls breasts and butoxes. Im hardly doing it anymore, but im still a bit worried that i may be intrested in girls not just as a friend. im tryin to convence myself that its just a phase or im just tryin to compare mine to others. Please tell me if i am bi or if its just a phase, im really worried! Thanx,
Allie (a girl) (link)
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i dont know it really depends on your feelings i mean if you are just looking at gurls its ok but if you feel something you might either be bi or a lesbien it doesnt matter anyway i know lots of bi and lesbien and gay athough not one my self they are still awsome
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what would you do if the girl your dating was given a number of another guy and didnt seem to think twice about it.... what if you were told by your friends that she thought he was hot...what would you do...you love this girl so much and a blow like this hurts so bad.... do you call her on it and get it out into the open...do i discard what i was told as jealous behavior...idk what to do....i still love her but im sure someone is able to understand the position im in...please help (link)
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i would confront her about but dont attack her trust me i am a girl and i know ask her to me you somewhere quiet and not alot of people (incase she cuases a scene doubt it though) and then ask her nicly "(name) do you like this guys that gave you his # or are you just friends becuase i care about you alot and i want to stay with you i just need to know" and hopfully she will understand how you feel and calmly explain the situation
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ok i told my mom i was going to tell nick i like him but she said no becuz hshe said he is the type of boy that will run off and never come back but im not really sure about that aslo if i do tell him that i like whats a godo way to tell him? (link)
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ok first of all you have to really know him becuase i told the guy i used to like that i like him and he was my friend and he still went running i soon got over him but just becareful for now i suggest not telling him your mom is most likely right dont forget she is a lot older then you and there fore has more experience i didnt listen to my mom and i lost a friend but ifyou really think he wont leave go for it good luck
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Why can't he see all the signs I try to make whenever he looks at me I try to look back and make eye contact but he always turns away too quickly. . i really love him! I cantt ake my eyes off of him. . and soemtimes I think he gets annoyed because I stare at him so much. . I just melt wheneerI try to go talk to him I cant do it. . im too nervous I dont have anything to say I men we could talka bout his football. . ugh and well I dont think hed like me. . and Im so negative. . Are his looks of anger? or for love? I dont understand if he likes me or not. . I rlly like him and I wish I could have a chance with him. (link)
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INFATUATION - A foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction.
An object of extravagant, short-lived passion.
thats what this is called i dont want to sound negative or whatever but its not love and if you want him to start noticeing you just make sure you get in his line of vision everywhere but dont make it obvious cuase he will see right through that and as for the looks he just might already be noticing you oh and a little tip when you see him in front of you in the hall way and you are both going in different direction step in front of him and step the direction he steps but make it look like and accident then apologise after to make it even more like you didnt do it on purpose if you have anyother question email me at dolphinbottle78@hotmail.com or i/m me on aim : Jeremy4Rachael good luck
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Is it wrong to wait on a person? I mean, if you're not sure that you would even end up with this person. I mean, there are things that make it seem like you would, or that there is a definent possability...Ah. Help. (link)
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well it all depends on how long u have been waiting a couple months ok a year dump him and find some one else but it also helps to no your age like if you were a teen then dump him after like 6months and if your an adult dump him after 10 months something like that but good luck
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*ehem!* (Clears throat)
I am going to take you all the way back in to september, on the secound. . Please buckle your seatbelts and keep all objects and of course yoruself i the time machine, dont want any lose parts left behind in the past. . that would suck . .well anyways 9Presses the button and sets it to Spet 2, 2003 @ 9:15 a.m )
It all started the first day of school. . IF you believe in love at first site, well you better because this is it!
I was waiting in the gym. .lade da. . and I saw this really hott kid. . omg he was soo hott. . I just fell in love instintly, somethign about him made me want him instantly. . not just because he was hott. . because I dont know I think I knew how he was. . but I never met him before. . because i wa snew to the school . . They never called my name. . SO I had to go to the office,a nd obviously my mom left. . so I was crossing my fingers hoping I would be in his class (6th grade) And well I ende dp in hi class!! YAY! well if you think thats the happy ending your wrong. . I got to know him, like how he interacts with other people, hes soo sweet and really funny, hes liek the class clown/rebel he gets in trouble quite a few while im miss. shy/good girl lol. . well I really like funny pople, you know peopel with a good sense of humor. . and guys who r sweet and cool witht heir friends, not sweet like sweet liek umm like ehs not a freaking jerk .. ok. . I cnat believe his best friend tripped me! lol well anyways. . like a month later, they were switching classes around. . and guess what! HE GOT MOVED OUT OF MY CLASS! I was soo sad. . I ahte the dman teachers. . they probly new i liekd him and didnt want me to get tino touble with him .. because thye didnt think he was good enough for me. . well they r wrong! he is perfect and I wont stop likign him untill the day I die! hes the best thign that ever happened to me! I LOVE HIM AND I HOPE HE FINDS OUT BECAUSE I WANT AN EEN EBTETR CHANCE WITH HIM. . well i dont even think he lieks me. . well he does act stupid. . I do when I am arond him lol .. and he looks at me. . I see him Im not blind. . lol Well hes super special and all I want toknow is. .
AM I obsessed over him?
Do you think he is right for me, or do you agree witht he dumbass teachers??
And umm. . What if he does like me. . what should I do.....
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1. you are not in love just to lket you no you are just infatuated not to sound harsh cuase i dont wanna sound harsh
2. your teachers are not trying to torture you they just most likly randomly pick people and move them athough i am sry it had to be your crush
3. you are obessed you go gurl lol just kidding ok being obsessed is not a bad thing but its not a good thing either be careful with your obbsesion cause you dont wannna cross the line into stalking or something
4. if you think he likes you dont act different then he would no something is up and maybe back away
Good luck with him and i hope for the best but remember be your self
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ok here we go:
my boyfriend told me I don't kiss him back
the problem is he's really aggressive with the kissing and I like can't move my lips
well scratch that
I have no idea what I'm doing.he's the first person I've kissed and gahh I'm so insecure now about my kissing. someone help me..
what do I say to him and how can we solve this problem??
thank you =) (link)
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tell him how you feel and tell him to slow do with the kissing
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Hey I am going out with this guy i like and then i have all these other guys i like and i want them to I really dont wanna break his heart cuz i love him to death But theres these other guys that i have been out with and they Like me and i like them to I love them what am i to do (link)
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well there is a difference between love and like and i would sk yourself how much you really l;ike your boy friend before you leave him high and dry
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Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like. (link)
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personally i agree but i think us girls could ask guys out but it is that seriotype (didnt spell rite hehe) that guys have to ask the girl out that keeps us from doing it even though some of us still do
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I've known this boy since the 4th grade. We are two years apart. We were together for 2 years. He was normal but now he is a total freak and disaster! Recently he's been stalking me, and my friends. Like he'll talk to my friends and tell them lies that I don't like. And he almost punched me and grabbed my arm so hard it had red marks on it. Durring our relationship he called me a slut for going to a dance with one of my good friends which is now my boyfriend. But yet, durring our relationship, on his b-day he played spin the bottle with all of my friends and kissed all of them, and my best friend, and my best friends mom. So, all together he's cheated on me, abused me, and stalked me, lied to me, used me, and ruined my life and my dignity. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Tears =( (link)
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dear tears
i think you need to tell some one bout this becuase this happened to my sister it went so far a that she went to the police and it is happening the same way your is only she didnt go out with him i would tell soem one and fast you never no what he might do asspecialy since he is physicly hurting you my best regards hope everything turns out ok
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First of all I have been dating my girlfrind now for a little over 4 months, she has been divorced for 2 years , I have been divorced for a year now also.
She has 2 kids (boy,4) (girl,11) and I have a (boy13)
Throughout the past four months I have endured doing things with her ex husband and her like skydiving, and going out on Halloween with her and her kids, I really dont approve of the the way her Ex raises her kids ...and he is a alchoholic and doesnt have a job.
They alternate the kids from her house to his every other day and alternating weekends.
Now that the holidays are here it is getting to be a little to wierd for me having him around
She invited him to our Thanksgiving dinner...Then she said she felt sorry for him and asked me if it was OK?
I told her NO...my whole family was going to be there and I would feel uncomfortable with him being there also...now there is another dillema
She wants him to be at her house on Christmas morning to watch the kids open theyr'e presents
I will be there also and so will my son,
I dont feel that he should be there also, correct me if I am wrong but shouldent the kids have Chrismas at they're Fathers house and then theyre Mothers seperately.... I think her youngest child is really confused...I dont think he relizes the mom and dad are divorced....Can anyone give me advice?????
T (link)
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honestly i would tell her how you feel this is a tuffy and tell her that you dont want her ex husband/lover at your family things i mean come one it seams like she cant get over him not to sound rude harsh or upseting to you but tell her dont yell at her or hunt her down and put her ex on your destroy raidar though becuase then she will just spit it all back in your face times 10 i should no becuase i am a female and trust me when you tell her make sure she sits down and tell her calmly and rationaly that you feel uncomfortable with her ex hanging around soooooo much
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hey. well, to get right to it, there's this guy i fell in love with. he's a senior, and i'm a freshman, but i still love him more than life itself. but there are so many problems....he is my 19th cousin...do u think that's bad? then there's his "new" girlfriend. and the fact that he loves his 3rd cousin, which is worse than me. but the real problem is he is a vampire. i'm serious. he sucks his blood and everything! he's even tried to kill me a number of times. but i still fell in love with him somehow. but the day i found out he had a girlfriend, i slit my wrist 23 times. i've been doing it every night for almost a month now because of him. now, i'm not pretty or skinny, so it's not like i have another guy to like instead. do you have any advice? and then...there's my second problem. i'm 14, and there's this really nice, really sweet 22 year old who loves me. and i have no clue what to do. he's a minister, but he has a bad past and reputation. some of my friends are afraid that he'll rape me or something like that. but i like him alot. what should i do? cuz it's kinda illegal.......well, thanks in advance for any help you can offer. Bye (link)
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well first of all DONT SLIT YOUR FRICKEN WRIST OR ANY OTHER PART OF YOUR BODY and second of all get over this senior i no that many people probly told you this and i hate to tell you but it is the truth and 3rd of all stay away from that minister he sounds like a shady character oh and just to let you know its not bad to date your 19th cosin they are so far away from you in blood i mean that it doesnt matter
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Alright, i just got back from hanging out with this guy (sry another guy prob hehe). well he and i like eachother and he kept talking about how he wanted to kiss me. However he never did. I know he isnt shy, because he definetly isnt if you knew him. So what's holding him back? He almost kissed me today, but then sorta changed his mind i guess...what could the problem be? I think he isn't sure if i want him to or not> How can I tell him that yes, I want him to kiss me, without freaking him out?
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you shouldnt have to tell him if he wants to kiss you badly enough and is telling you he does tell him "just shut up and kiss" because it really does work hehe good luck
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i know that but i already did it and all he does is act ok or as i've seen him do before he follows me around and he stares at me and other stuff too (link)
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it would be nice to no what you are talking bout or just say the name of your other entry
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