ive been goin out with this lad 4 nearly 3 years on and off n we split up bout 2 months ago and he got a new gf so i found some1 i liked i started havin sex with him n he asked me ut n i said yes but then my x asked finished with his gf n asked me bk out n i said yes so im goin out with both of them i love the 1 that ive been with for nearly 3 years but i think im fallin 4 the other aswell help me plz
I say give the new one a chance. If the other one is only coming back to you because he's done with his latest girlfriend, then you should give the one who you are falling for a chance. Everyone deserves one! thanks- hope I helped. Sahara
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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?
First off let me start by telling you that it doesn't matter if you two were together for four years, if you aren't ready (which you honestly should be by then), then don't do it! You dont' want to regret doing things to only make him happy because if he doesn't understand that you aren't ready, then he should be ditched right then and right there. Six months is an average time for people to start becoming intimate, if they are comfortable with eachother. Give or take a year because I know people that have did stuff before they even started dating and I know people that have been together for a year and haven't did anything excpet kiss. Then, there is that one couple I know of that has been together for about a year and a half and STILL haven't kissed. But, it's cool because they are going at their own rate. Dont' worry about what your friends say or anyone else says. You wait until YOU are ready... Hope I helped! -$@)-(@r@
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Please answer as sooon as you can!!
Welp i have been going out with this kid only about 2 weeks and we usualy hangout every day. Every day he also usually goes "down there" But i just got my period and i dont know what to tell him. I dont wanna just come out and be like.."no dont do it i have my period" but what should i say to him??? thankyouu!
Just tell him. If he gets upset, and your ready, ask him if maybe you can do something to him. He'll understand, and don't be embarassed. It happens to all of us! -Sahara
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i flirt with this girl and she flirts back i lay on the grass with her and hold her hand people think we should go out , i ask her she said duno what do i do 4 her to go out with me
Let her know how you feel and that it's bothering you. Talk to her about it and tell her that you think she should give you a try. Just be yourself, I'm sure your wonderful and if she really likes you and you talk to her about this, then go for it. Ask her again and if she says she doesn't know, ask her why. Thanks- Sahara
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hey me and this boy been messing around on and off for 7 months now and in the last 2 n half months we been more close than ever. i sorta had a clue that he had a girl but really didnt kno and i didnt ask hiim cuz i really didnt care but when we had our spring break we messed around(fingered me) then from there on he would come over and we would kiss alot and play around but then last week we had sex then 2 days later i found out that he did have a girl and they been goin 2gether for over a year but heres the thing he calls me every single day he picks me up we go out to eat i go to his house every weekend we are together but he still has a girl what should i do?? i like him very much lost my virgintiy to him he tells me he likes me alot to and all that kind of stuff.
Hey Grrl! I have the PERFECT answer for your situation. Ask him about it. I recently lost my virginity and I know how much it means to you. Just talk to him about it. Tell him he's going to have to choose. I feel that he likes u. But if he delays his choice for over a week. I'm sorry honey, but you've gotta end it! Thanks-Sahara
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ok.... well i have been going out w/ this boy for about 4 months now and i really love him alott!!!! so i am 14 and goin into high school and yaa. so and latley my boyfriend has wanted to go to 3rd base w/ my (down muh pants) i no he is ready and i trust him but i dont now if im still to young or if i should jus do it or wait mann i am so confused ill rate 5
If you are ready, I dont' think it's too young. That happened to my my eigth grade year, but then again, I didn't know what it meant and I wasn't ready, but I didn't know what to do. So, I'm telling you now, if he wants to- and you aren't ready, then dont' worry about what HE wants- worry about what YOU want. Just tell him that you dont' think your ready for it yet. If he loves you then he'll understand, and if not, you'll know what he really wanted. But, I'm sure he'll understand. If you are ready though, I say GO GO GO! Just know what your limits are before you know what he wants. Hope I helped! -Sahara
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what is the best way for love to happen? i've heard that love for sight is just lust. i think love is build on friendship, is this true?
This is somewhat true. Love is a deeper friendship. You have to trust and be there for your love as do friendships. Everything that comes with the duty of being in a frienship also comes with being in a relationship! You have to be able to tell them everything. But, love is deeper and more felt. Hope I helped.... sahara
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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
16 f
I don't think that you should leave him, honestly. Hitting is no excuse for love. If he hurt you like that, regardless if it's the first time or the twentieth time, he shouldn't have done it. Just get out, and stay out. Find somebody who will treat you SO much better. Thanks, Hope I helped, email me if you need me... sahara_boyce@yahoo.com
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My bf and I are 8 weeks into our relationship, things are good I guess except... I kinda feel like something's wrong.. Even though it shouldn't be :( I guess the best way to put this is, ever since we started going out nothings changed! We're still like friends...just who now make out and spend weekends together. And it's abit uncomfortable for me.. for some reason... don't get me wrong I like my guy alot but it feels strange because I still see him as one of my friends I guess... like the first time he started kissing me I pulled away because it felt weird and he mistook it that I wasn't comfortable with kissing lol... he told me he'd lay off until I was more ready! He doesn't know how I feel, I guess I'm afraid to say it.. it sounds like the start of a breakup afterall! And well.. I'm not exactly feeling a spark for him either, I find his personality cute, even adorable! but he isn't exactly attractive looking to me, I know that's mean to say.. but I just don't feel any spark there.. this kinda bothers me I guess.. but I still like him! I am messed up? What do you think I should do? I'm going to try and talk to him about it when I see him but what sort of things should I say? I really dont wanna hurt his feelings with what I say, do you think this will end in a break up?? :(
Please help! i'm 16
Okay... First of all let me assure you that this is PERFECTLY normal. Actually, I had the same problem, I liked my best friend and then when we dated, it just wasn't what I thought. My realization was that I just knew that he was like close to me and we could talk about everything together, so I figured that maybe something besides friendship was there, but there wasn't anything. When I went to break it off with him, he understood completely. I just told him that I wasn't feeling him as much as I thought I would and that maybe I just thought something should be there because we were so close but nothing was there. Tell him that you dont' want to ruin your friendship by forcing a relationship out of it. I hope that I helped you... Sahara
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