im 14, woopdy doo; && i live life with every moment.
i have wonderful friends && a disfunctional family.
im "a mess of insecurities; attention starved with a narcassistic twist"
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Okay, so.. I love this guy. I have known him for about 2 years, and when i first met him i really gave him the wrong impression, and i wasnt very nice. then, i showed him the REAL me, but by then, he had a gf already. his gf and me are friends.. and she knows that i like him (shes okay with that). but she always tells me how she thinks hes annoying and rude and stuff and im thinking.. then can you dump him?! Im not suree if he likes her, or if he likes me. when hes with me he always says.. im givin out a free hug.. anyone wanna hug me? and then he says .. my sunburn hurts.. anyone wanna kiss it? and he always makes eye contact with me..
im not sure if he likes me at all tho.
so i have a few questions..
1) do you think he might like me?
2) how can i tell his gf (my friend) that she should really just break up with him?
3) is it okay to flirt with him.. even though shes going out with him?
( by the way they have been going out for like 9 or 10 months).
thanks!
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well i thunk you should talk to him;
maybe even ask him if he likes you,
if he says he does, then you can tell him you like him && chances are, he'll breakup with his g/f.
dont tell his g/f to breakup with him, of course, she could just get jealous && make this a bigger mess.
you SHOULD flirt with him, but like the person before me said, not infront of the girl. [&& a little tip, dont let people see you flirt that might tell her]
thats really all i have to say;
hope i helped
[hope you get the guy]
muchlovedanni
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how do you make out? (link)
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ok, well...
making out is lik kissing but you're using your tongue, && have your mouth more well..open.
so thats what it is..
but when you do it, you basically get the idea.
yeah...
hope i helped!lol
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wherever i go, i call my boyfriend before i go and tell him or he makes me feel bad
whatever i do, i call my boyfriend and tell him before i do it or he makes me feel bad
when we fight, i am given all the blame
if i want to hang out with friends, i can, but he makes me feel bad
if he is stressed out, i am feeling bad because hes telling me what i try is not enough and i should always put him before me
hes needy, and he knows it!
if im happy spending time away from him and im w/ friends, he feels bad and makes me feel bad
but he says nothings ever his fault, he cant help it if he feels bad
i am the one who has to do EVERYTHING!, because he used to do things for me in the beginning of our relaitonship but now if i dont do it, he makes me feel bad.
im always made to feel bad. (link)
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hi,
trust me, that's how my dad was wen my mom dated him. she tells me stories all the time. i no i hate my dad bc he's so controling and acts like nothing is ever good enough for him.he's trying to control him. dump him now. he might even refuse to let u break up with him, or threaten to kill himself, but that's all fake, he just wants someone weaker then him to control. dump him before u end up lik my mother, 41 with 5 kids and wanting a divorce for more over 8 years.
-dont be scared,please trust me
peace&love
god bless
danni
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Okay so there`s this boy and i really like him. a lot. okay so i hang out with him a lot then one day i told him i like him and he blushed and changed the subject right away. so we were hanging out 2 days ago and he was being really sweet. not that he`s never sweet or anything but he was different. it was me and him. he was being really nice. he insisted on buying me food. when it started pouring on us.. he took of his sweater and gave it to me. everytime i look at jeff i catch him looking at me and he blushes and then he smiles at me. what do you think? do you think he likes me or is he just being nice because he knows i like him? you don`t have to be positive but i just want a few opinions. PLEASE help! i rateee =D
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hey ya gurrrll!!
he, no doubt, likes you!! he's probably like you for a little while, which would explain why he blushed and changed the subject when you told him. if i were you, i would try to talk to him more, and maybe even flirt with him a little. and, dont be shocked if he asks you out!!!
tell me what happens, id love to know!!
good luck!!
&
god bless!!
danni
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ok so there is this guy in my summerschool class and we have been talkin to each other latley and im finding myself having feelings for him and i think he feels the same but now its like he is to scared to talk to me so what should i do???i will rate (link)
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hey,
ok, well, first of all, he wont be scared to talk to you, he's just nervous. you will have to talk to him first, even though its what the guy's supposed to do.
if you like him, go for it!
im only here to help
~*~*~danni~*~*~
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i've liked this boy since i was five, and now i am 15. but the problem is that the boy duznt even noe im alive. im right under his nose but he haznt even realized. i dont noe wat do anymore. i cry every night b/c ive tried everything i could think of. its kinda like he's that guy that all the grlz like but he duznt understand that im not like those other grlz. i am actually the one that really cares. ive been in a corner since i was five watching him and now, i dont know what to do. i heard about this website and ive heard good things so if you can help me out, please, i would appriciate it! should i tell him that i like him? or would that sound desperate? i dont wanna be like those other grlz. i wanna hug him b/c i care, not just b/c he's popular. please help me. love, tiana
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awwww...
well, tell him, of course. we both now that as hard as it maybe, its the only way. and he wont no until u tell hime. try to get noticed, like wear flirty shirts. make it so he wants to find out about you. it WILL work!!
good luck
peace
luv
god bless
~danni
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Well i met this really great guy, i really liked him, we hung out for a while at a dance, we danced all night. I fell for him, i thought he liked me to. Later that week i found out he asked my friend out to the movies. There not officially going out but soon they will be (knowing her) I'v called this guy and we've talked, but nothings happening. Do i just leave him alone? Or do i get in the game and try to date this guy. I dont know what im doing:( i need help, and FAST!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
-Heartbroken (link)
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hey!
well. if you really like him, i say, go for it! it wont hurt. find out if he likes you. ask him yourself. if he says 'no'(which i doubt) then say, 'good, b/c i dont lik you either, its been bugging me since the dance!!'--it'll work, and if it doesnt then there's something messed up there! hahah.
well hav fun and good luck!
hope&love
danni
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my girlfriend is on this game literally 24/7 LITTERALLY she`ll stay up all night playing that game.. or she`ll go to bed at like fuckin 2 3 in the moring.. get up at what 11 12.. then play it.. then stop at 6 for a hour then start playing it till like 2 3 in the moring... sometimes she`ll stay up all night till like 8 9 then go to sleep till 2 then get up and play it again. im really worried bout her. (were bi im a girl too) and i dunno how to explain what shes doing.. i mean i dont even talk to her anymore.. and when i do its alway a "kk" every 10 mins or somehting. its really bugging me... i dont wanan sound all mean and tell her not to play it and talk to me. errr *hits head* i dunno what the fucking im writing this for... (link)
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hhheeeyyy
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tell her that you think she should cut down on the games and that you want to be able to hav a conversation with her. just tell her how u feel, she'll understand ;D
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love
peace
hope
DaNnI
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Okay..im a redhead..and alot of times wen i go out and meet guys n stuff theyre interested in me..but theyre more interested in the blondes or brunettes. Im not your usual redhead..i have tan skin and my hair isnt as frizzy and i dont have that many freckles. Do guys not like redheads? (link)
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guys lov redheads, and blondes, and brunettes. but remember, beauty is only skin deep....but you should feel lucky...i've ALWAYS wanted red hair!!!lol
peace
love
god bless
~danni
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well, i've known this guy for about 2-3 years, and he's one of the sweetest guys i've ever known. i can talk to him about anything, and everything. and if i asked or wanted the world, he would give it to me. he means a lot to me, and i dont want to lose him. im not sure if he likes me, or is just being a good friend. he calls me hun, sweetheart, and his little princess. i know what you're probably thinking, whats the problem, why not just ask him out or something. well heres the problem... i'm sixteen (almost seventeen), and hes, twenty-three. is this right? i dont think my parents would have a problem with it, because they really like him. but im afraid my other friends/relatives will,because of such the difference in age. i really like him, and he's basically what i've been looking for. and i think im in love with him. can you please help me out? (link)
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hhhhheeeeeeyyyyy
well...if you really love him, then it shouldnt matter wat other people think...one of my friends is going out with a 17(almost 18)yr old, and i personaly dont care b/c he's one of the nicest guys ive ever met...its kinda lik the huntchback of notredame....except age instead of beauty...if you feel its the right thing to do, then go 4 it
hope
love
god bless
~danni
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I go out alot and when I do I tend to hook up with guy friends or friends of friends, casually. I've realized that I have never not felt bad or guilty at some point about any of my hook ups.
I may not feel bad about all of them now but I've definetly felt bad at somepoint. I even feel bad about hook ups I've had with boyfriends.
I don't know what to do about this.I don't feel slutty, because I know I'm not, but I do feel badly.
Should I stop hooking up with people? Try as I might that's never too easy for me. What do I do? (link)
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well...
...there's nothing wrong with hooking up. but u could cut down...lik ask urself if ur gonna want to go out with this guy again later...u shouldnt feel guilty about anything lik that, its life.
~danni
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so these 3 guys like me and all want to marry me. i haven't known any of them for a REALLY long time..but i know them enough to know all their little secrets and stuff...and i know which one i want to marry...but how do i tell the other ones without hurting them?... (link)
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hey
are u serious? lik they've purposed and everything???.....
*totally confused*
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ok, well, in that case just tell them that u dont want to marry them. we both no they're going to find out anyway.
sorry about that^^^{{(wat i said earlier)}}
good luck
luv to ya!
danni
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hey. ok this is kinda long but please give me advice.. I like this guy a lot but then I saw his pic and he is really ugly ( no efense_ but) he asked me out. and then i said i wasn ready ( but i was being shallow) Now i realise he is really nice to me and sweat and looks dont matter. But then wen i start likeing him ALOT he findsa girl frend I am really hert and sad i was crying wut should i do? please I rate hugh (link)
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hey!
well, first u can tell him your sorry. and say u want to go out with him whenever he's ready.
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well, that kinda seems simple but it will work!
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good luck!
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do girls like it when guys write poetry for them? cuz i wanted to do something different this time and iono if she will liek it, i really try, but its really cheesy. =/ (link)
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i think poetry is so sweet! but don't say "roses are red, violets are blue"...that is cheesy.....if you talk to one of her friends, or have a girl friend, ask her to read it and comment on it...it wont hurt to try!!!
you no i give good advice *wink wink*...lol
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Ok, so I really like this guy and he said he liked me, but he barely talks to me, wich his friend says is just because he's shy, but still annoys me and makes me think it might be a scam (it's happened to me before). But there's this other guy who I used to like who also said he liked me too, and he asked me out but cancelled to go out with someone else that night, wich really hurt. And he said he really liked me, but cancelled due to insecurity and thinking I'm too cool for him (wich is absolutely ridiculous) and now I don't know what to do... try ro make it work with the 1st guy, try to make it work with the second gut, or give up completely? (link)
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hey there!!
first of all, just because he's the guy, doesnt mean you can't be the one that goes up and talks to him. ask him where your relationship is right now. and ,i no your gonna wanna hear what you want to hear, but ask him for the TRUTH.
thats all i can say...
...tootles!!!
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ok, let me introduce myself, nd put sum rules, first nobody answer telling me to stop drinking or anything, because im sick of it. I wont put my name on because its confidential, and here i go. I live in toulouse france and i have a best friend called bobby-joe (we shall say). Bobby is mrs popular, and i've known her for a year now. And bit by bit i have quite simply fallen in love with her, now again nobody tell me how im not 'in love' trust me, i know, i cannot do anything without thinking of this girl. I do not go places unless she is going. i dont go online unless she's there. I dont call anyone but her, i save all my credit for texting her. I fail exams because im looking at her. Its too much, and she doesnt know, she thinks we are friends. We go to parties and things together and we have a fucking amazing time. I love spending time with her, and sometimes just for the night, if we have too much to drink then sumtimes it becomes more than a friendship, and to her it means nothing, but to me it makes my month. She just blames it on alcohol and keeps on thinking we're friends. I am a jealous friend but i think i am a good one. I talk to her about everything and she talks to me about everything. Problem is she has got a lot of people who fancy her and a boyfriend who is a fucking model and 2 years older. I've known her for a year but i feel as if my whole life evolves around her. She can control how i feel for days with a single word. Right now she just had a go at me about the main problem we have with our friendship, im over-possesive. last time i was with her we went to a fair and she got with another guy just because he came up to her and called her sexy, she barely new the guy. i got so angry and she knew it, later i tried to talk to her about it and she told me to fuck off that she was 16 and could make her own decisions. I hate it, i love her so much, i dont have time to explain why, but its about more than her looks, or even her obvious personality. I dont know how to tell her how i feel or how to explain it once i do. I just know that i cant keep being her friend. Eventiually we're gonna fall out of even that because im so obsesed with her and cant let her out of my site. I feel left out if she talks to someone else. Last weekend we spent friday together in a restaurant, then the saturday at a lake with some friends, then went to a party, had a bit to drink, got together and lay on a field for hours looking at stars and talking about things. I know i would be so happy with her. please somebody help me, i need a real answer to a real problem. (link)
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DONT DRINK!....no im jus' playin....ok....does 'bobby-joe' no how you feel about her??...remind her of the times like the fair, and say "im sorry, i dont want you to get hurt" -BUT ONLy SAY IT IF U MEAN IT!-and tell her how you feel. dont say too much at one time, it would be too much for her to take in at one time. and have you ever thought of the possibility that its not the alcohol, that she really might care about you?
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wat are the signs to a girl wanttin u to kiss them i mean i already know some but wat are the others. and what should i do on a first date i've dated plenty of girls jus not literally and i truely like this girl and i really want to get close 2 her (link)
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listen to me man.
on your first date, go to the movies, that way, there's a little less tension between talking.most people think when you go to the movies your gonna make out,but wen you get there, sit near the back, but not in the back, (people will look at u if you sit in the back).then, wen you sit down, pull up the arm rest between you 2, if she looks bewildered, then dont kiss her, but wen you sit down, as soon as the movie starts, put your arm around her. if she starts moving closer, like puts her head on your shoulders, the tilt Her chin up and kiss her on the lips. if u feel she liks it(you should no), then kiss her again.
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