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My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a hard time dealing with the fact that she had so many partners in such a short time, the average total partners for a wome of 39 is 7. She has had sex with over 35 total partners. I told her that I need some details about why she had sex with so many guys and the details of what happened. She says it is none of my business, but I now just think about all of these guys fucking my wife every which way. We have not had sex for 4 months now and it is driving me nuts. I just can't get excited about her. I wonder were these guys great at sex, did they have bigs dicks did she do things with them that she will not do with me.
What should I do? Am I wrong to have an open conversation about the details of her sex capades? She also says she does not remember any details, yeah right?
She seems happy to not have sex now. Now that she does not have to work and I earn over $300,000 a year. I ask her how she could fuck all those guys who gave her nothing and not me the guy who has given her everything?
Please help.
Jimbojoe (link)
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She's with you now.
Relax and let it go. You WON! You're the one she married.
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i'm 17, and i like this guy who is 27. usually i like guys who are within my age range.. but i suppose you can't help who you fall for. he's very quiet and seems very lonely.. hes doing law so he spends a lot of time studying and doesn't go out too much. he always jumps at the opportunity to speak to me when we see each other. well, i'm not sure what to do about this. 17 is legal for consent and all where i live (so its not a legality thing) but i guess it does sound kinda bad that hes 10 years older than me. i'm wondering whether i should just try and forget about him or whether i should try for this. i don't really care about age, but he might feel differently, and society always views these kind of things as unacceptable. so just curious what everyone thinks of the age gap, and whether it's worth pursuing or not.....?
thanks. (link)
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My fiancee is 10 years younger than me. Age differences mean less as you get older. I don't think it is a problem really by your age.
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i have had sexuale feelings for guys for a wile now and i dont know how to deal with them can u tell me i should do? (link)
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In this day and age there shouldn't be anything to be ashamed of and admitting it shouldn't be a big deal. Unfortunately, it still is some places. You don't mention your age or where you're from so it's hard to judge what sort of reaction you'll get. Sorry that isn't much help but, just to reassure you, it doesn't mean you're devil spawn or a freak or anything else people might say.
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hi, I'm a 17 year old guy. this girl (a bit older than me) across the street mentioned to my brother that she wants to borrow a game, which i happen to own. well i'm done with the game and think this might be an opportunity for me to get to know her better. would it be too weird and too forward if i went over there, and gave the game to her personally? i barely ever see her around the street, but i quite like her and thought i could strike up a conversation with her. so.. would this be too weird and intrusive to go over to her place and give it to her? shes been waiting for me to finish it for a while. just want to know what the done thing is in this kind of situation.
thanks peeps. (link)
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Go for it.
You don't know her that well so crashing and burning isn't going to be too harsh, whereas success will still be good :)
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After having my virginty taken away without willingness, I just wish I could have it back. That one special thing that I wanted to share with a special person. It feels to me as though no guy will treat me special that they will all treat me like a girl with a body but no soul no self.
Every night every day I sit here every one of my friends everyone around me has a special someone that makes them feel happy.
Im afraid that when and if I find a special someone that I will feel Unsafe and un able to feel special when and if we have sex or even when we are kissing. I feel the same thing with every guy that they just want me for sex and not for ME! What can I do, to make myself feel that they dont want me for just that. Or is that really all they want me for?
How can I tell?
please helppp! =/ (link)
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Losing your virginity is a rite of passage. Bonding with someone you love is far, far more. You'll find that special person, them taking your virginity means far less than it did in the past and there's no need to get so hung up over it. The right person will always love you for you.
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This guy that I've been friends with for a while sent me an email after I wrote him (being on holidays) that I had cut 8 inches off my hair. This is what he wrote to me.
"Wow, so you really cut your hair that short? I can hardly wait to see your new look. Now you can show off you SEXY neck".
When I got back from my holiday and he saw my new hairstyle; he couldnt take his eyes off me. He said I looked really good; and then he walked up to me and started rubbing my big toe ( I was wearing sandals). Then he said I had really nice toes; and that most womans toes were not as cute as mine.
So what do you think? Do you think he likes me as more than a friend or am I reading way too much into this? (link)
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He likes you.
He also may have a foot fetish.
Run!
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Hi, recently an extremely attractive guy moved in next door to me. I didn't see much of him as he is relatively quiet. He speaks to my mum sometimes and they even lend books to each other, but I've never gone pass saying "Hi"
Thing is, I can't stop thinking about him. Like constantly. He's 27 and I'm 17 and I know with that age difference we could never be, at least not right now. I've even started looking through my windows snooping at his house hoping I can catch a glimpse of him. I'm starting to think I'm getting a bit stalkerish but I don't know how to stop myself. I don't even know this guy. Does this seem like a harmless crush, or is it getting too far? Should I get over him? If so, what's the best way to do it?
Thanks advicenators.
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Age isn't necessarily a problem, my fiancee is ten years younger than me and, after some rocky patches in the past, we're fine.
Depending where you are you being 17 might be a problem though, age of consent and people's perception of what is and isn't right being different in different countries.
First step, regardless, is talk to him. He might turn out to be a strange or boring person in which case you'll get weaned off the crush or you might find out he can be more than just a stalking fantasy to you.
He reads? Find out what he reads, that can tell you a lot about someone.
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Okay so, my boyfriend calls me everynight and half the time I dread his calls. DONT GET ME WRONG; I really really like him, but I Hate the phone. Like he's kinda shy so theres always that ackward silence and idk I've never liked talking on the phone. I always feel guilty cause I always make some excuse to hang up to end the ackwardness and since I hate talking on the phone. He doesn't have AIM so we can't talk on that .. soo what do I do? (link)
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I have the same phobia of phones. Just tell him about it, then he knows why you act like that and that'll clear the air.
What about talking over IM or something instead? It has the immediacy of the phone but you can express yourself a little better.
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