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sooo the other day i was hanging out with this guy and he wanted to feel me up but i pushed him away cuz i was wearing a sports bra because i dont have any normal ones... i'm hanging out with him again tommorow but what should i do?like won't it be weird to have a sports bra on? (link)
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no it might be fun but make sure if ur gonna do something more make sure u have a condom
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so theres this boy, and he means the world to me. hes my best friend.
he has a girlfriend, but says hes in love with me. and he doesnt know what to do. im sitting here wondering if i should stay here wating for him to break up with his girlfriend. or move on.
except when i get a new crush my best friend gets mad and jealous and makes me feel bad.
what do i do? help. (link)
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tell him he has options to be with you or not thats what id do b/c you cant wait forever
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Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her? What would you like for me to do from a girl's perspective? Thanks (link)
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first what you should do is get up your courage and talk to her i wish some guys would talk to me but thats besides the poit but if you cant talk to her leave a note on her desk and put your number in the note and leave it on her desk she if she calls you then talk to her be yourself on the phone and meet for lunch or something good luck
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14/F..........im sorry this is SOO long
okay, so my friend amy has been going out with guy brian 1 for about 4 or 5 months, but she still has feelings for her ex peter, but shes says she doesn't....but she does.....u'll understand after u read this.....
okay, so Amy (my friend)and i were supposed to go over to peter's house (the ex) to clean his room together. I ended up being sick, so she just went over there herself to help him. Apparently, they both have feelings for eachother becuase they started making out. Then he started to take off her shirt, but she stopped because the phone rang...it was me, calling about homework....and when we hung up, peter asked her for a blowjob, she said no..thankgod..and left after another makout session.
the next week, she went over to his house again to finish up cleaning his room, but instead, he started making out with her again. he started to take her shirt off, and she let him. then he started to take her bra off, but she stopped him, and he asked for a blowjob again, but she said no and left shortly after.
then last week, she went over to his house again to work on homework, and they ended up making out, he took off her shirt, and ended up taking off her bra, and he started to take off his boxers, but she said no, that she would do it through his underwear..that is was sexier. then he fingered her, and asked if he could, go all the way, and she said no, they made out a little more, and then she left.
This is all NOT GOOD. for starters, she's 15 and hes 14..both freshman in highschool.She has a boyfriend, brian, and she won't tell him about this. I keep telling her to tell him so he doesn't find out from peter when they get in a fight (yea, they fight a lot) aka, he could use this as blackmail. I told her to stop after the fist time,a and she said she would, she promised, and then she did it again and again....i don't know what to tell her to make her stop doing this and to tell brian, because he's so genuine to her, and i'd feel so bad for him if he ever found out from anybody esle but amy. So, i guess what i'm asking is....what would you tell her to make her stop doing htis, and to tell her bf............thanks!!
SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!!! (link)
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ITMAY HURT HER BUT TO HELP him tell her b/f in the end he might be your new best friend b/c your hurting him by not telling him
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I'm 14/F. I don't want a boyfriend or anything, but I want a better communication with my crush. He's 15/M and goes to my school. He's only about 5 months older but he's in 9th grade while I'm in 8th. Next year, I will be in High School (My school has Jr and Senior high under 1 roof) and it's possible I will see him more.
He's more like a nerd type but I don't see that in him. He's funny and smart. What are possible things I could do to talk to him without sounding like a stalker (He once said to my friend I was a stalker...but I only looked for him in halls if I was passing him and called him a few times). I have the same lunch with him but there are only 2 months of school left until next year! I at least want to try. SRY THIS WAS LONG! (link)
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be your self and dont worry about it eat lunch with him talk to him be friends with him ask him to come over and hang out
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is it wrong to kiss a friend if they know it means nothing and that its just for fun? like hooking up at a party. i know alot of people do it but is it considered slutty or just a teenager-like thing to do? (link)
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no ive done it and its ACTUALLY really fun yea its fine
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theres this girl..he has a girl bout we are toghter all the time...maybe more than his girl...we have engaged in a sexual relationships...and theres alot of fellings going on.....but at the end of the day he's got a girl? he always complains of things she's not doing....and im the opposite...i do everything...but at the end of the day i love him..and he told me he loves me but the emotions arent there like mines....i think im being too much of a bestfriend to him? what should i do? (link)
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you 2 should get together if you cant then be best friends
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im 13/f and i really really like this boy in my football team ive liked him for a very long time im so shy ive talked 2 him but i told him i liked him be 4 but he didnt say anything but i love him so much i cant give up on him now i dont know what 2 do :( (link)
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hun u dont love him u lust him but its ok but is you cant talk to him the write him a note or e-mail him and see where that takes you
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me and boyfriend really love each other. but i have a hard time letting him hang out with his boys. it really doesn't bother me as bad as i make it out to be, but i don't have that many friends to hang out with. all my friends either have kids or stuck up there boyfriends ass, so if i'm not with him i have no one else to chill with. i'm not the type of girl that diches her friends for her boyfriend, so i know it ain't me why i don't have friends.
i have told my boyfriend this and he understands it.
but he wants to stay at his boy's house tonight and it bothers me, & when i get outta school i'm suppose to get him and his friend from there, then later on tomorrow night me and my boyfriend are going to the movies and i'm stayin with him, and saturday i have to go back and scoop his boy up so they can chill on saturday, his boy his leaving for Youth Challange.
i really dislike that i'm a selfish person and i don't know what i should do about this crap (link)
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i think you should totally go and go be with ur boys g/f thats about all i can tell u sorry
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**I hit my boyfriend yesterday, i didnt mean to hit him that hard. I slapped him in the face really hard, left a mark, plus it was really loud.
**I did it out of anger and surprise, we've been going out forever, but it really was stupid of me to overreact that way.
**He called me fat- kinda, he used the word "plump" which i hate.
**So, I was really pissed for a while and after school I realized that he was too. Instead of stopping where we usually do to hang out, he sped up kinda walking in front of me and didnt hold my hand. Then he looked back and saw that i was hur and was all sweet and comforting, but somehow I was still mad him.
**On the phone, he said that he was only joking and that I took him too seriously. I said I was sorry today.
**I've been in a really bad abusive realtionship before and its nothing like the way I treat my boyfriend, sometimes he'll say "You're abusive" and it really makes me mad because Im weaker and hardly ever hit him. My ex used to punch, kick, cut, and rape me, so slapping my boyfriend a few times when he's being a jerk doesnt phase me as abuse.
Today: He was working and its my little bros 6th bday. I was really busy when he called on his break to talk to me, he could tell I was busy, it was loud and there was a lot of commotion so he was like "you sound busy." and I told him I was and had to go he said "OK" but sounded kinda mad about it. So iwas like bye, Ilove you, but all I heard was a click. I know he didnt hear me say Bye and I love you or he would have responded. But he didnt say bye or I love you to me like he ALWAYS does.
***So, finally, here's my question: How do I get out of this "abusive" cycle, and is it really abusive? Do you think he's still mad at me, he's the best thing ive ever had and i never want to lose or hurt him. (link)
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i know you have been in a bad relationship before i would talk to him about that first and then try to find another way other than striking him that hes getting you mad and he might think its abusive to him i would talk 2 him about that 2
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I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months-- half of which have been long distance. There's no way we can see each other in the near future but so far we're doing fine. Lately, we haven't had anything to talk about! We know EVERYTHING about each other and even at 10 hours away - we're practically married. I know it sounds like "the end" for most, but we did talk about how we don't want to break up. We're both 16 & in love. Anyone have things we could talk about? Anything at all - random, weird, abstract, deep,shallow - we really don't care, we just want to be able to talk. Any ideas are greatly appreciated! Thanks for your time & thoughts! (link)
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talk about your day and what happened write him notes during class and read them 2 him when u get home
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(Before I start I'm 18 and a freshman in college.) I was in a exclusive relationship about 8 months ago. It ended badly and I ended up getting hurt. My boyfriend of 1 year cheated on me, more than once. Anyways ever since then, I'v only had casual relationships, not sex I just wouldn't exclusively date one guy at a time. I met this one guy in class, after we were assigned in pairs for a project. And I started to like him. A lot. And I knew he liked me too, because he was flirting with me and walking me to classes ect. I was taking a walk outside when it was raining (Don't ask me why I just like the rain)and he came up to me when I was sitting on the bench. He said he saw me and wanted to know what I was doing sitting on a campus bench in a rainstorm. By that time it was raining really hard.(Before I go any farther he asked me out twice by then, but he was a boyfriend kind of guy and didn't do casual anymore, so I turned him down) I said I was just going for a walk, and he sat down beside me. We talked for a while in the pouring rain, and then he leaned over and kissed me. It turned into a pretty heavy make out session and I started thinking 'what the hell am I doing, I can't be his girlfriend I'm not gonna put myself in the position to be hurt again'. Anyways I pushed him away away and when he was about to say something I spoke before him. I said "I'm sorry, but this was a mistake, I can't do exclusive realationships, you know that" (Those were my exact words) Even though I really liked him I didn't want to get hurt again. I stood up ready to walk away when he caught my wrist, he said "You can't or you won't, why can't you give a relationship a fighting chance. I really like you, a lot more than you know and I know you feel the same. You and I both know It wasn't a mistake" and then I said "Thats where your wrong" and I walked off. He called my name but didn't try to stop me again. I'v been avoiding him for the last few days, and he's called my cell phone a million times. I don't know what to do, I really really like him. He's sweet, funny, gorgeous, caring, honest (I could go on but I'll spare you)I know he's not my ex but I'm just scared. Scared of what I feel for him and scared I'll get hurt again. When we were kissing everything felt so right. I felt safe and loved and not lost anymore. He's offering me a real relationship, a healthy realtionship. But should I take the chance? What should I do? Is the ball in my court? (link)
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YES go for it give it a chance be brave u might end up marring him and i said might hes nt your ex and he offered you a relationship so take it well you can before he said you had your chance if u need anything else feel free to contact me
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It seems like many people mix up love with lust or obsession. and it just seems so confusing if you really liked someone for a long time. How do you really know if you're in love? (link)
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U just know its just a feeling u ger when your with them
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hi my name is sunshne and i am 16 and me and my ex boyfriend broke up recently and we where together for about 2 months and i love him with all my heart and i wanna know how to get him back we have an op on him but he aint worried about it and he is mad at me and he wont tell me what should i do (link)
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hun, what is an op and y is he mad at you?
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okay, i'm really bad with guys. i don't know why but whenever i talk to them i sound all nervous and stuff. but thats beside the point. does anyone have any good flirting advice? or can any guy tell me what kind of hints to you that a girl likes you. also, guys, what do you like to talk about with girls so i can have a good convo with the guy i like (link)
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mmm ok talk 2 him make him smile coplent him tell him things you like about him play with his hir if hes in your class sit on his desk text him talk 2 him be urself and you can almost talk 2 him about aything
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okay to make long story short, I should start off by saying im 16/f
well I am not allow to date or have bf or anything like that but ive been seeing this guy for over month and half... its going pretty awesome. anyways what i was wondering is, how I say I love you? in a such cute/romantic/unique way?
I was thinking of giving him this picture I drew... its a single rose (the one i sketched from the roses he gave me on valentines day) and it has a poem saying
Roses are red
Violets are blue
and i wanted to tell you that
I love you too
but I'd like to know some other ways just in case that doesnt work out or I dont find that (because I had to hide it from my 'rents and I hid it too well and cant find it :( so any ideas???) (link)
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i love that idea it soooo romatic
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I know i shouldnt hook up with him. If this was the first time he has brought this up i would be scared, but it isnt. When he was single he wanted to hook up with me still, but i was just getting over him so i said no. Then he kept writing me and i started to fall for him again. I liked him for three years, after i pointed out how hott he was the other girls jumped for him. He knows i like him but he has been showing feelings for me in the past 4 weeks. I want to go for it, but i dont want to hook up in school. What do i say to him to convince him to do it outside of school????
---Troubled Heart
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hun what i would tell you to do is talk to him that should help
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So...My boyfriend is coming to my place 4 the first time today (I've been to his hgouse a few times and to the mall and stuff ).I cleaned my room so my mom will let us down here,she said we could have the living room for a movie or my room if I cleaned so I can do whatever...Heres my question : What are some fun things I can do that I can get out of REALLY quick if my mom comes in ??? I'm not aloud to make out but I do and ya so ??? AND ANY TIPS FOR THIS ??? (link)
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ok first thing ill tell you is DONT HAVE SEX because if you get caught doing that your screwed majorly, when you watch a movie cuddle up next 2 him underneath a blanket, if you want to do anyting like sexual ie handjobs, have him finger you or something like that make sure your under the blanket in case your mom walks in.. anymore questions feel free to contact me
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ok so me and my boyfriend are madly in love, we've been together for over a year and we are planning on getting married. but theres a problem. im a VERY dominant person and so is he. we fight alot b.c im very opinionated and dont think before i talk. its not that hes controlling its that he refuses to let me be the dominant one. he would NEVER hit me unlease i told him to, the only place hes ever hit me was on the arm and i told him too. hes very protective over me and loves me more then anyone ever has. i wanna spend the rest of my life with this man but my attitude is becoming a problem. i have a HUGE attitude plus my need to be in control makes our relationship very shaky. i dont wanna break up with him but i need to find a way to calm down my attitude and control my stress!!!! (link)
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when you get really frustrated with him just tell him u need a break and leave for a miniute too cool down and then go talk to him
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I'm 16/f and my friend is 16/m. He hangs out with me everynight, and I see him every morning before school. Do you think I should just not answer his calls and kind of avoid him for a couple days? I'm not mad or anything, I just want to see how many times he'll call & what not. Is this a bad idea? I just want to see if he'll think about me more, once he realizes he hasn't seen/talked to me in awhile. (link)
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yea ive done its not the best idea he'll think something wrong and it will probaly end in a fight not a good idea
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