Hey everyone, u can call me KOOLAID.... ima junior at my current school. I love to help people with problems about anything;evn if i cant relate 100% i still would like to give my 2 cent.I tell it like it is b/cuz y should i hold bac if that wont help a person face the truth and let them kno wut they can handle emotional. But EVERYONE feel free to come to me with ANY problem that u have...
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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 16
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Member Since: October 10, 2007
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im writing my bf a poem about how much i love him and i will miss him when i move and that i wont forget him but i CANT figure out how to start it!! there is so much i want to say but i cant get it to go nicely when i try and write it out please help me!! (link)
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well i wite poems myself.. but eitha u can use this one i wrote or try to get an idea of it..
Last night i slept dreaming
A vision came to me
It was you and I my love
A wondrous sight to see
And in the dream i had my love
I reached and touched your face
I clasped your hand in mine
And felt your woman embrace
I pressed my lips to yours my love
To taste you lips so sweet
You held me for a minute
In this minute that did fleet
I awakened from my dream
With a thought of you that stayed
With me throughout the day
And never did fade
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my ex and i have been going on and off. and today he said he loves me. [[we're not going out, we havent been for about 3 weeks]] i think he means it. but i dont know. we were supossed to hang out at the movies wiht my other friend today. and it's always been both of our dreams to makeout with someone in a movie theater. [[ mind you that he brought up the conversation]] i kinda thought he liked me before he told me. but i dont knwo. he says he loves me. and i want to believe him because i think i like him. i wanna make out with him. but 1. i dont know how. i havent kissed anyone in a while. 2. i dont know if he really likes me or not. how can i figure out if he likes me or not before i kiss him. and if i do kiss him. how will i konw if im doing it right? (link)
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Step up to the plate n just ask him does he like you..If you dont ask then you will never know.Just come out and ask him b4 you go anywhere that way you can change your mind about going and its less embarrasing.Now about kissing..dont force it just flow with the connnection between you and him. To me there is no right or wrong way to kiss;everybody has there own flow to it and aprroach. Dont be sloppy with kissing him though and forceful. Just be romantic.. hope i was help.. 16 f tx
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Last night my boyfriend drove me home, before I left we started making out and then he stopped and said he thought we needed to be more open about "this" and so I asked him what he meant and he just said nevermind. I can't help but wonder what he was talking about. Anyone have any ideas? (link)
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my idea is that he was talking about how you feel with having sex with him if u havent already..
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my boyfriend's birthday is the 30th.
i have literally no money, so as my present for him, he's going to come over to my house and hang out for a while.
i plan on watching a movie of some sort, but since he's picking it out, i don't know what type it will be.
and i know the type it is will set a mood too.
but the point to all of this is, i want to kiss him (we haven't kissed before.)
i'm more nervous than i should be, and i don't really know how to go about it.
i'm kind of shy (getting a lot better though :] ) and he's a little shy too.
any advice helps at all, thanks.
(: (link)
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ok well for starters; sit up under him(like cuddling) and while talking or watching the movie ..if there is a pasue simply go for a kiss.But dont,do it fast just make it slow and romanic since it will be yall first time.Or tell him happy birthday and smile a littl; while looking at him then slowly move your lips towards his like you see them do in the movies and kiss him.. Hope i helped!!!
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I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 3 years.
He's always getting text messages from girls. Girls that I've never heard of, that don't live in our town, let alone our state. He watches porn when I go to bed (which I don't really care about, he is male.) He's just really secretive about things. Like when he's on his computer, he won't do anything when I'm around.. but as soon as I go to another room he's typing away. And I'll come back in and he'll close everything he's doing. I always ask him if he loves me and means it, and he always says yes. I just sometimes feel like he isn't being honest or faithful to me. I worry a lot. I feel like maybe this relationship has been a waste of time.
I don't know what to do. Like I want to talk to him about the girls and the text messaging and all, I just don't know how to bring it up to him at all. (link)
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16/f/tx
Well i think you should get down to the bottom of it .That doesnt sound like a healthy realationship to me at all.Question him about his odd doings and if he gets mad that you are askings then he's doing something behind your back.Ask to look through those text messages that he gets from those girls.
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16/f
Hi. I only like guys who don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and are nice, smart, and a virgin... but it seems like there are no guys out there at all who fit my description. So I'm just wondering, are there any many guys who are like that? Or are my standards too high? (link)
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noo im just the same way but i would like my b/f to have sexual expreience ,but it could be that your looking in all the wrong places. Or that opne guy that u always dont notice seems the be the one you need.
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okay so
i've been seeing this guy Jacob for about 5 months now .
he lives with his best friend robert.robert and his ex Lucy broke up 2 weeks ago
well Robert is a very jealous person.
Jacob promised robert he wouldnt do anything with lucy. but robert made sure all of his friends didnt do anything with lucy. well jacob and i were kinda official but now we're just like not as serious.
well i know jacobs password for myspace but he thinks i forgot it...anyway, i see a message from lucy saying "i hate how we have to hide our friendship"
he replies
"yah i know it sucks but wait til i move out"
so last week jacob calls me and says, "if anyone calls just say im with you." and i said "okay but why"
he then said, "i'm going to hang out with a few friends and lucy is in the group and i told robert i wouldnt talk to her "
so i was like "okay whatever"
then he texts me the next day @ 6AM saying "goodnight baby.if anyone ask i was with you til 6AM"
so he hasnt called since tuesday so i call him blocked and just see if hes alive
so from tuesday -thursday i call blocked and later on thursday at about 11pm i was with my cousin and he calls and says "i know its you thats calling, give up."
so i denied it and my cousin took the blame.
so friday i was with this my friends cuz they were making fun of jacob and how he got in an accident so i sent jacob a text saying "i'm with my friends right now and the story they're telling me about your last accident is pretty funny"
so like 2 minutes later he calls and bitches at me saying
"how is it funny that i got in an accident"
i told him
"i'm not saying its funny, i'm saying the story i'm listening to is funny, cuz its so different from the one you told me"
well saturday i go on his myspace and read a message to lucy saying
"heyy cutie im at my parents and im just misssin you thinkin that you should be in my arms its like 446 i called you and a older guy answered sayin i had the wrong number i think it was your dad well anyways ill c you on sunday (link)
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ok i think you should tell robert because (THINK)jacob is cheating on you and why would you care about somebody that would do that to you.. you 2 havent been going out long enough to be alll in love so i think you should tell robert becuase jacob is putting you through stress.Forget what jacob will do; think about yourself and your feelings.Stop being his excuse
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Okay...im going to try to have this make as much sense as possible so there is this guy lets call him kyle =) well today kyle asked me out and he's really cool and sweet and stuff but im not sure if i could ever see him as a b/f...and i dont wanna hurt his feelings either and there is another guy let's call him matt =) well he's a year older than me and goes to a different school but i see him all the time at the park and we hang out and have a good time and he's like always hugging ma and sometimes we'll play tackle football and he'll run towards me making it look like he's gonna tackle me and he'll put his arms around me and his firnds will be like dude tackle her and let go already and he'll be like i dont want to and im going to see him tommorow at a game at his school so yeah but one more problem...there's a 3rd guy let's call him christian my ex-b/f...he broke up with me about a month ago but when he did he still loved me and really cared about me it's just a lot of "stuff" was going on and he didn't wanna drag me into it and he promised me he wouldn't get another g/f but when i was his g/f he wasn't a very good b/f and i'd alaways end up walking to class after brak or lunch crying so idk wut to do? should i wait for christian the guy i still kinda love? matt the sweet funny guys who's always hugging me? or kyle the guy who just asked me out and is really nice and seems to really like me thanx alot and i would appriciate if you would explain who i should pick and why it would help alot thanx!!!! love yvette
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ok yvette teh big question is . do you still love
christian with passion liek to the point you would go back to him no matter what... if so then pick him.. As for kyle, what do you like about him besides his charm and kindness and if you cant see yourself with him then just be friends,becuase a realtionship does not work all upon the nice cahrming type if you cant see your self with him. and Matt.... if you really like himand he has more to him than just being funny than give it a go
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Hello everyone I need some serious help! My boyfriend said for me to surprise him with his Christmas present but I really don't know what to get him. Can someone give me some hints? It's our first Christmas together and I really want to make it special and memorable. Thanks (link)
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just think of what he likes and some of his hobbies,colors and put it all together and find something for his personality.. (Chain,watch shirt,shoes,cologne,earring if he wears em)
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A guy I really like lives in a different province but im absolutely in love with him.
Should I try a long distance relationship or should I wait until he moves down here?
thanks
megan (link)
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it depends wen is he movin near you and you should go out wit him;so it then you be very anxious to see him and that will make you want to stay with im evn more. Trust me ... my boyfriend lives in a nother state and weve been together for 2 years and i now that hes a senior i cant wait till he graduates so he can move down here after he finishes skool so i say go with him.. you never kno he might be your soulmate.. 16/f *classified_cutie*
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17/f. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 2 months or more. We have both been a little down lately and had a talk the other night about how we are both concerened that 90% of our relationship is based on sex. For example; we have had sex on a number of occasions up to ten times in one day, we have sex pretty much anywhere, in public, or in private, you name it. It's really great and all but he says we need to stop having sex all the time because it may wreck what we have and he really wants to experience our relationship on a deeper level. So I asked what he suggested we should do. And he said maybe we need to start doing more things together as a couple. So yesterday we decided to rent out a couple of movies and have some chips and candy etc. and have a good time. Anyway it went pretty well but we still had sex two or three times throughtout the day.
Can someone please help or suggest some ideas or what we should do or what we could do instead as a couple.
Thankyou. (link)
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First just try not getting into anything really sexual like sex movies .. you should go out with friends,shopping together or wuteva.Dont spend to much time together if yall have sex that much; then you both need to lack sum togethness time.Spend sum time on the fone and go walking outside once in a while.try to keep yourselves occupied with positive things that dont deal with sex
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I met this guy who is exactly like me, we've been going out for about 2 weeks, and every day he tells met that he loves me.
He is always complimenting me, and we are ALWAYS together.
Do you think we'll last long as a couple? Or would same interests drive us away from each other?
Btw, he isn't a player type, not über outgoing or anything like that. He is the nicest guy i've met in my life :) (link)
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well first wut is his brith sign b/cuz 2 compatibale signs go along way.Just dont fall for him two quick becuase he could b doing that now and end up changing on you later.. get back to me about his sign and i could tell you a lot about how he is..._koolaid_
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