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hey well i was wondering what all u alls views were on teens (well 14 yr olds) making out? is it to young, or not? and what about not going all the way like sex but..just a little ways? i just need to know what other peoples views are on this! please please please i'll rate high!! xo thanks

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My ex-boyfriend and i have officially been a 'couple' for four months, although people considered us 'together' for about eight months. Two weeks ago, I had called him to say good morning and he told me he thought we should "take a break". I knew we were having problems, but I thought that we were stronger than that, and it was just so sudden. I was extremely hurt, it was completely unexpected.. only a week before his exact words to me were "if somehow this doesnt work out..im never leaving, ill wait for you to come back. i cant see myself without you. i know that sounds very pathetic and stuff, but i know im never going to be happy without you." How could someone who shared something so special change their mind so fast? My friends told me he'd regret it and come back, that he was just confused since his parents had been having problems. One week after the break up, and after not hearing from him... he called. Told me he had been in rehab (I later learned it was for drug related issues.) I found out that he had been doing serious drugs for a while and had not told me about any of it (he knows I am fully against anything of the sort). He said he was sorry, and that I was the best thing that had ever happened to him, and that it was just a bad decision. He said he wanted to talk to me, and I wanted to see him too. Since that day he called me, we've talked online but only very short conversations. I know he's been drinking with friends (hes 17), and making everything a lot worse for himself. I was/am truly the only friend he has that really genuinly cares about his well-being. I am the only one he can talk to that will listen, and he knows this, and has even told me this himself. But the past few days, he's been acting ... completely different. Saying insulting things, and being completely rude. I know he still has feelings for me, and I know he knows he needs me again... and I still want him too. I have never felt so hurt in my entire life, and I've been through a lot. He won't talk or see me, and i think its because hes scared... I dont know what to say or do anymore. I know i should probably get over everything, and try to move on... but I just do not know what to do. Sorry this is so long, but Im desperate for help.. I've lost a lot in the past couple months, and I need him.

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my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help

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I need ideas 4 my girlfriend for X-mas...any suggestions...plz?

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Heyy!,

Is it wrong for an 13 year old and an 11 year old to go out?..I really need someones opinion!!!

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Well to make this make sense to you guys, I'm going to try to be specific.

I was in Franklin, TN, since Wednesday night for Thanksgiving. I got back early this morning, and was with my friend "Ann" all day. "Ann" told me that "Curt";;(*the guy I like and like(s);(ed)*), like a girl named "Di." So I was fine with it, because I want him to be happy.

Later that day, "Ann" called me and asked me if I was made at "Curt". I replied and said "No...haha, why would I be mad at him?" Then "Ann" said "Mari" (*some girl who likes him too and hates "Di"*) told "Curt" She called me and that I said to her that I was mad at him, and I still liked him.

1]I was in Franklin.
2]This girl has never called me, neither have I.
3]"Ann" told him I didn't like him.

Now I have no idea what to do because I havn't talked to him since Wednesday, and I DO LIKE HIM. But I am not going to get in between of who he likes...but he did say he liked me too. What do I do, what do I say? And "Mari"; what about her.

Please help.

All 5's for thoughts.

:0)

Thanks mucho.

x0.HAD.

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i like this guy.
alot.
and he didnt reply to my messages.
i no he likes me to.
maybe he just didnt have time.
but how do i get him to ask me out??
i like him ALOT.
and i like never see him..
what do i do!!??

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I just broke up with me boyfriend yesturday. but I still like him and I miss him should I ask him back out or just live with what I did

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i know i don't have breasts but when i get near a guy i try to push them out.[it works kinda] but i think now boys are looking for that. im 13. what should i do?

thanks in advance

ash

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can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

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what if your boyfriend does not know your kissing his best friend and me and his friend act wierd around him

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i had a boyfriend for almost 3 years we did everything for eachother i thought he loved me but i guess not...i found out he cheated on me 3 times and he is in the military..he got stationed in germany met a girl and brought her home..wat should i do??

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ok so my boyfriend i went to a boy girl party and we palyed spin the boottle andi got my kirst like REAL kiss by then like an our later he give me the middle finger and told me to shove it cuase i wasnt "cuddling" with him. Then he apoligized and i gave him a chance and he was like kept getting mad at me b/c i wasnt lik making out with him. He was acting all perverted, do i dump his sorry ass. And how shloud I say it?

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this question is for girls who are in cheerleading, good in science, Plays the viola, is outgoing, and has a reputation for being nice.

The reason for so many details is because i have a crush on a girl who is all this and i wanna know what you see in a perfect guy and if someone had a crush on you, would you avoid them or how would you respod when you wer 11 or 12 {thats the age of the girl, not me, Im thirteen so im legal}? Another reason for the detasils is i believe there are steriotypes.

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well on monday this guy told my friend that he liked me. i really really like him to. my face lights up and it just makes my day when he calls. sometimes i wait up all night for him to call, but when he does its totally worth it. anyways, tuesday after school i was talking to my friend paul. I told him that I like ryan. Its kind of a secret, but I think ryan already knows. So on the phone yesterday ryan really wanted to know what the secret was. I said to guess. He guessed that i liked him. Well that is the secret, but I was really stupid and said that it wasn't the secret. I really want to tell him because then mabye he will ask me out. I dont know if I should thought because it might make things akward. Do you think it will? should I tell him?

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ok theres this boy who is my friend and we've been friends for a while and i found out that for a little while he liked me, like a few weeks. Now he doesnt and he likes this girl, alot, and they're going out and she doesnt like him at all. shes only going out with him for a joke. I wanna tell him but I don't because then her friend might start shit with me. Also the more I think about it the more I begin to think I like him. What should I do, tell him in a way without really telling him about this girl or not and have him find out I knew and hate me??????

I'll rate high for good answers!!!

btw im f

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Ok, last sunday I went to the scary haunted house hay ride, cornmaze place. Well, while my 2 freinds and I were there, we met these guys. Me and one guy hit it off real fast and we were all over eachother... not makeing out though (just the hands and arms) so, at the end he asked for my number. I gave it to him. Then he came back and sad can I give you my number and I was like my ohone doesn't work.. it really doesnt! I left it out in the rain and the screen doesn't work I can only call people. So i told him that and i thnk it turned him off... anyways I really like him and have been thnking about him since then. I have asked so many people if they know hinm and finally my freind said yes. SO, she's getting his s/n and number for me. Here's my problem do you think I will look desperate? what should I say to him? i really really like him. Where can we go together? we live like 20 min away from eachother. pleas write back with answers and tips for me!!!

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I'm Karlie, and im 13 in 7th grade. I liked this guy since umm what 4th yes 4th grade. He knows i like him but he says he likes me as a friend. It's weird cuz he shows signs that he likes me (stares and acts hopeless and shy). Like he slow danced with me at the dance and he gave me a hug and he asks for a high five like everyday like thats all he can think of doing cuz he's stuck. Do you think he likes me? Or better yet how do i work on getting him to hang out with me more.

*~* Karlie*~* P.S. HELP

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