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Ok, so i went camping with my boyfriend this weekend and we had an amazing time. When we got back, i had made plans with my friends to hang out with them on monday night. Well he got home from a really bad day of work and called me and i only had like 3 minutes to talk to him so i asked him how his day was and shared mine, then i told him i had to go. He acted kind of mad and i was just like whatever, we've hung out every day this summer and all weekend. So i went and hung out with my friends and when i got home he was really mad at me and told me that i blew him off. He said that he really needed me when he got home from work and that i shoudl ahve made time to talk to him because he was having a miserable day. The thing was i didn't realize he needed me so bad. We are all made up now and stuff cause we talked about it and got over it. Am i at fault here?
16/f with 19/m b/f of 9 1/2 months
no, you are not at fault. you already had plans and if it woukd have been his friend, he more than likely would have done the same thing. love will get you through it. hope i helped.
xx♥ cali rae`. please rate.
Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13?
personally, i dont think love has an age limit or restriction. just wait for him and hopefully things will be great!
xx♥ cali rae
my friend likes this guy and they both act like there going out. But they both wont admit that they like eachother. how can i find out if they like eachother or not?
it isnt your business.. not being rude, but i mean if she likes him and he likes her enough, theyll talk to eachother on their own.
xx♥ cali rae
ok so i like this one guy but im not sure if he likes me...he likes another girl but all my friends say "he likes you" and stuff like that..but...i dont think he does..how do i know if he likes me? cuz im shy about that stuff?
have someone ask him for you, or write him a note. i`m pretty shy about those things too, but i seem to write notes or call to find out that kind of info. hope i helped and good luck! if you need anymore help, inbox me!
xx♥cali rae
How do you know when a guy likes you? thanks
depends on how shy you are.. either get someone to casually ask him or write him a note or if you`re real straightforward, ask him yourself.
xx♥ cali rae
hey. i'm a 12yr old grl and my best friend and i like the same guy. we both asked the guy if he liked the other friend and he said yes both times. if she asks him out, and he says yes i'll be heartbroken. but i'm afraid to ask him out for me cuz he broke my heart b4. what should i do?
talk it out with your friend. if the guy says he likes the both of you, i dont think he is worth it anyway. if he has broken your heart before, why bother? plus, you wouldnt want to ruin a friendship.
♥ cali rae
Okay, well there is this girl in my grade, and she wont stop flirting with me! what's even worse is that she sometimes does it it front of my girlfriend, and that really pisses her and me off!! I'm not interested in the girl at all, and by now she should know it! What should I do to stop this?
A man in much need of help.
well, just tell the girl how you feel. tell her that you have a girlfriend and that you are not interested in her. if you are worried about hurting her feelings, dont do this in front of anyone. maybe just IM her on AIM or something and talk to her about it without being harsh. as for your girlfriend situation, make sure your girlfriend knows you are not interested in the girl. hope i helped. and quit cussing!
♥ cali rae
ok heyz, this boy in my class likes me and its totally obvious. but the thing is he went out with my best friend and if he aske me out then what should i do should i say yes or no.because this other guy likes me and hes already sorta asked me out so i dont know what to do about that. its not really a date what should i do... help me soon!?!?!
through that whole story, you never even said if you like the guy or not.
♥ cali rae
When my boyfriend and I talk on the phone, he always switches over to another call. Well with his phone I am able to hear the voices, and it's ALWAYS another girl's voice.. could he be cheating on me? How do I bring this up with him...
when he comes back, ask him who it was and if he lies and says one of his guy friends' names, thats when you have a problem.
♥ cali rae
ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused
you should still go out with him, age is just a number! good luck!
♥ cali rae
im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...
that is completely normal
♥ cali rae
Okay, i like this boi named Adrian, but i dont kno if he likes me. Can u give me any advice on how to get his attention or to get him to go wit me. Thanx and i rate.
do as reese witherspoon does.
bend.. and snap. haha
♥ cali rae
okey, i didn't know what category to put this in so i just chose love life. Anyway I was wondering about all the sweet nicknames.. I mean everytime a guy calls me babe or darling i die inside..seriously just a name can make me fall. But what can we call guys? Is there anything we can say to make them shiver? can we call them babe? Is there any laid back names? (like you know if we're just talking on msn and he says : hey, babe - what's up? Can we say something like that, even if we're not dating? cuz guys can use babe howvever..do we have anything like that? Something that will make them all nervous and stuff or just happy. And nothing that will make them embarresed, like darling is probably too feminin for them..Thanx!//marlena
of course! i say that to people all the time. "hey babe, whats up?" i say it to guys and girls. there isnt anything wrong with it, but dont overuse it because the person may get mixed signals. hope i helped!
♥ cali rae
So.. ilike this guy but my friend also likes him. I don't think he likes her like that, i know this is going to sound concetied, but i think he likes me. if he does and i go out with she'll be mad, but i really like this guy. Me and hers friendship is sort of rocky and she has stolen my crush before and revenge is sweet...what should I do?
it doesnt matter if revenge is sweet, if you do it only to get back at her, you will regret it in the long run. but, put yourself in her shoes. if he did like her and asked her out, what would she do? if you truly think she would go out with him, go for it. if you think she would rather not put your friendshipon the line, dont do it either. hope i helped.
♥ cali rae
what happens when ur best friend likes you and u like them but going out might ruin the friendship??
if you really and truly like eachother, then your bf/gf relationship might last a while. if you decide to go out and then think it is better being friends, then you both might feel uncomfortable for a while, but eventually you will be friends again. hopei helped.
♥ cali rae
Okay, well I am currently dating a girl. We have been dating for about 4 months. And now it seems like we arent really for each other.. I love her so much.. but if I really did I wouldnt be thinking this.. dont you agree? Plus, there is this other girl in my school, and I know she likes me a lot, and I have always liked her!
I know it sounds bad, but I don't know what to do.. I really don't want to break my girlfriends heart.... what's even worse is the other girl that likes me is one of my girlfriend's best friends!!
Please help!
i got this question the other day, but i accidentally deleted it, so here we go: first, a question..do i know you? ok so now for the advice. if you have always liked this other girl, i guess you should make the decision of who you like more. make sure that you are not going to break up with this girl, and then decide that you want her back, because that always backfires. chances are, if you go out with this girl, then you wont be friends with the other for a while, being that they are friends. sorry, i dont really feel like i helped, but good luck.. :-\
♥ cali rae
How do you know when you love someone?
you just do..
♥ cali rae
haha cali that person is creppy...why would some1 just put that in here....like your gonna give them advice!!
Love.
George(AKA Shawn)
a lot of the people put things in here that are way creepy! anyway, i will talk to you later george. i loove you.
love,
Mary (aka cali)
will you go out with me
i have liked u for a long time but jus didnt say n e thing .... i love you
love 4ever,
jordan lee
hahaha amy i just asked you and you confessed. haha i knew jordan wouldnt do that haha nice try im not stupid
Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!
I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did I do to change his mind that quick. I cant talk to him about this and I wont so please dont tell me to! Help! Im so confused and hurt.
if you loved your boyfriend like you say you do, you wouldnt be confused over someone else.