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Q: I HAVE A HUGE ISSUE. Ok well,this ex boyfriend I dated for 4 months is now dating one of my friends.
They talk very perverted to eachother and one day me and my friend (the one dating him ) went to the movies and she had to go to the bathroom,so she had me hold her phone and i was just looking throught her inbox and outbox not looking for anything specific. But then I saw that my ex's name appear in a text with her saying she wants to get pregnant with his baby and marry him, and run away etc... (she just turned 13,and he's 17). It hurts me really bad that she would do that to me. i thought i had no feelings for him but one day he texted me saying he still loved me. we haven't talked since then cause i know he was playing both of us. ( i dont like him,but shes going to get hurt...shes going to wind up getting pregant and he is going to leave her)
heres some stuff about him
1.has a kid
2. was married.
3.only 17
4. a big player.

heres stuff about my friend
1.just turned 13
2. was pregnant 2wice already.
3. is a slut..

I dont know what to do.
She still don't know that i know they're together.

HELP.
wow.thats is crazy, i would say something to your friend about it,dont hide it from her because it would just hurt you in the end.if she wants to get pregnant, she really needs to reconsidderr it.since she is your really good friendd you should be able to talk to her about that kind of stuff, so i would be straight up with her about it

Q: These is for all you girls :) How would you like to be aproched to,loke if a guy wants to hit on you on the street what would youlike him to say?
hey baby whats up wanna have fun tonight no im kidding i dont know maybe be like hey whats up

Q: i like a boy but i dont know if he likes me? im to scared to ask hem if he likes me what shold i do?
tell you like him and don't be afraid be cofiendent, girl you can do it

Q: Ok,I've been going out with this guy fro 5 months now and he has been really sweet and he is nice to every1 even people who tease him. But lately he has been making some mean jokes about me and the only person who has been there to help me has been my ex-boyfriend! I also found out that my boyfriends ec still likes him but i dont know if he knows.The weird thing is he has always been nice and sweet to me but all of the sudden he changed and now i have the feeling my ex-boyfriend cares more about me then he does.I donno what to do! I'm sooooo confused and frustrated pleaz help!
well i think your ex might care a little bit more if he is helping u more than ur bf but u shold prob. stay with ur boyfriend beacuse he might just be going throgh a stage or something along the lines of that.But if is gets outta hand i would dump ur boyfriend and wait a lillte while b4 going back out with ur ex i would probally become really rreally good friends with ur ex.

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Q: do u think its bad to have a bf 4 years older then u?
yeah kinda i mean if u really like him then no but he might rape u.

Q: What is soo cool about Internet Dating? I mean, what if you dating like a Lesbo that SAYS their a boy but y'know...and what if you're like 11 and the person you're dating is like 43? o_O; Yeah, I just needed to ask what was soo cool about it. -.-;

What I think: If you online date, you're too ugly to get anything in real life. xD
you are tottally right!internet dating is gross! u could be talkin to say ur cousin and u wouldn't even kno!and cybering what the hell fake sex! online or even on the phone is stupid...i agree with u ppl who so called "date" online cant get any in real life either



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Q: This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks
yeah..i think u will get one or maybe a lot by the way those guys at the beach were like and u are skinny.my guess is right when u get to school people will be talkin bout u (good ways)like boys.


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Q: When waz ur first kiss?
12 0r 13 years old with this HOT kid !





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Q: whats up with the number 69? what does it mean?
wine me dine me 69 me okay i kno u get it but i want u to rate me and it means girl gives a dude head while he "eats" her..get it okay but rate me please


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Q: ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social...
sleep like take tyonel pm b4 u go or listen to a cd player on talk to ur friends on like wakie on a celly phone or sumthin..



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Q: Hello I was just wondering what qualities a gurl around 16-17 looks for in a guy. Anyone who can help me i'll rate ya good.
nice body,good face,nice ass, sytle, smell good, humor, good highgene, awesome personaolty.



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Q: I REALLY REALLY like this guy, but he only sees me as just a friend, is there anything i can do that might change his mind??


be like hey babi i really like u i dont kno if u see me in that sorta way if not thats cool but i've liked u a lot but we can just be friends if u want...or u can like change the way u look tottaly like new wardrobe and make up and like make ur hair look really pretty well hope i helped!

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Q: Im 13 years old- what do guys my age want?
boooTAY!just playin he is lookin for a girl to be with and that is pretty and nice and active or someone who makes people laugh!



Q: Hey BabesZ!Ok well this isnt really askin 4 advice but,i just wanna kno what ur prospective is on my Relationship cuz ppl think im crazy!Ok make a long ass story short,Last year,july 16,03 i started goin o/w my boyfrined,we lasted 2 mnths nd broke up cuz we never saw eachother,so i never got over him and we liked eachother again,so we started goin out that following Ocober 5th,we lasted again for 2 mnths reason being,he cheated on me w.1 of my ex.best gurls,(they actaulyl Had sex =( ) so that was sad cuz i really had storng feelings 4 him nd i never thought it woudl happen,but we never stopped talking he would ask 4 me back all the time nd tell me that he made the biggest mistake of his life nd he would just go on nd on about how much he cared!so it had been about two mnths that we had broke up,nd i gave him 1 more chance!On janurary 21st i took him back,nd i kno it was dumb all my friends couldnt believe it,but the feelings i had were UNREAL! so we have now been together for about 6 mnths..and its been goin great..the 3rd mnth in i gave him my virginity nd i def kno hes been faithful and shit cuz i live in a small town so i would kno if he wasnt lol,i love him to death but the 5th mnth in i kinda kissed a guy, reason being..he was being an ass so i couldnt take it and it just felt like the right thing to do at the time..:( nd later that night i called my baby nd told him,this was the first time i had ever heard my boy cry :( thats when i new he really loved me,i was in shock hearing what i was hearing.."how could u do this..u dont kno what love is" and i just keept saying baby yea i do i kno i love you, i never knew how much he loved me,i always doubted it,cuz ive never had full turst for him after he cheated,but hearing him cry made me believe nd fall 38493483943 times more in love,so now we are both faced w/hate lol not between eachother but our friends hate us cuz we only hang out w/eachother,but w/e i love him and i kno he loves me,we actualyl wanna get married..i kno its crazy but we do,nd i couldnt be more sure hes the one for me and im sure he feels the same,i just dunno if what we have is healthy,i mean we have been through so many fights bcuz we are both so scared of loosing eachother,but we also fight cuz hes so goddamn jealous of guys and FRIENDS..i cant even go to my girls house cuz he thinks ill do drugs and cheat again..but i guess he has a reason to be scared? i dunno im so confused about shit tho 4 some reason, i dunno what do u think about this? Telllllllllllll meee what ya think hunnie..thanks MuahZzZ!!
okay..thats really confusing but......u guys must truely love each other with all the fights u get in to and shit,like ppl always say best friends always get in fights but always stay true and always go back to each other,u & him but to make ur guys relationship last hang out with ur friends to baecuse by the time u guys are wanting to get married u might be sick of each other. Your guy is just really worried about u because u really hurt him after u gave him his final chance. aruging is actualy good for ur realationship because it shows ur guys indivialaity.i think u 2 were meant for each other

love always erin
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Q: ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do?
dump his sorry ass he shouldn't treat u like that when u can be hookin up with sum summer hottie...if he is really hot and u truely love him try to get a hold of him if not dump him.





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Q: i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy?
omg girl i have the same problem! but i liked this guy for almost 5 years and i even liked him when i was with my boyfriend(year)...this guy kida likes me 2 he went to the dance with me but didnt ask me out :( if u get good advice can u tell me ...im sorry i had no advice


evn tho no advice can u rate me



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Q: I think i might be Bisexual. i am a 15 year old female girl. When i look at some of my female friends, i look at their breasts. i know this is not normal. when i masturbate, i imagine other girls in ym head. usually they are people with whom i am good friends... i know that this is not normal adn very weird, but is ti wrong? right now i like 2 different guys but at the same time i want to fuck my female friends. do u have any advice for me?
okay...that is kinda werid how u image ur female friends while u masturbate.. there are slight chances u might be bi but thats not a bad thing u just like a variety of people.

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im a sophmore at Beecher high..
im blonde not brunette anymore
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