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IM HERE TO ANSWER AND ASK QUESTIONS. I THINK SOMETIMES IT TAKES AN OUTSIDE OPINION TO FIND THE ANSWER THAT U ARE LOOKING FOR! I AM VERY EXPERIENCED IN MANY AREAS OF LIFE SO HIT ME UP FOR ADVICE ANYTIME!!!
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i am honestly the most jealous girl in the world-
my boyfriends amazing so i dont even know why im like this at all but does anyone know ANYTHING! that could possibly help me to not feel this way..its ruining my life..
I had problems with Jealousy in the past. It felt like an overwhelming fear that my partner was looking or wanted someone else. It is very hard to just stop being jealous. But, just keep telling yourself that he loves you and ask him if he will help you with these moments of jealousy by re-assuring you that you are the only girl for him. Im not a professional, but i have lived it. That helped me. And i had very low self-esteem at the time as well. Now i feel better about myself because i have realized that beauty IS in the eye of the beholder. And there is no one more attractive then you in the eyes of your true love.
So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months.
Sounds to me like he really enjoys being with you. There really isnt anything wrong with that. Just tell him the truth. If he gets angry then there is something wrong and you should consider taking a break.
Um. Well. I'm a 15 year old girl and I just started high school. And I met this fabulous guy in my english class. He's really great. He's adorable, funny, shares my political views, and nearly perfect. Nearly. He has a girlfriend. She doesn't go to our school, so I don't really know her or anything. It's really frustrating because I'm really ecstatic that I found a guy who's not a complete idiot. And I feel guilty because he belongs to another girl, and I feel that I shouldn't even look at him or else I'm somehow intruding. I am NOT looking to break them up. No matter how much it hurts, I would never sink that low. I really think I should get over him. But...I can't. Everytime I make a vow to get over him, I see him and I'm instantly enamoured again. ...He has the most beautiful smile. The heartmelting kind. None of my friends think he's cute because he's a little on the chubby side. He's not totally fat, mind you. NOT THAT THERE'S ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT. He's just a bit chubbier than the skinny emo guys that go to our school, ya know what I mean? And he has low self-esteem, which is weird because he is just so wonderful...But I really feel as if I have no chance. I don't know what his relationship is like with his girlfriend. For all I know, they could be happy and in love or they could be on the brink of a break-up. What should I do? Wait for them to break up? Move on, no matter how hard it will be?
I know this is horrible, but I'm secretly hoping for them to break up by the end of this month. You know, so I could make my moves on him in time for homecoming. I'm a horrible person, I know. But I need your advice. My friends don't understand. Thanks a bunch!
You never know, perhaps he has the same feelings and thinks the same about you(that he will never have a chance)! You should really look into this more......
This is strictly for the women on advicenators to answer. i am a male (21 years old) and I know it is typical of a guy to ask the question i have (in the title), and even more typical to be worried about it. i am not huge, nor am i claiming to be asking for a friend. i am average, maybe more, but i am thick. to make up for the lack of size, i give amazing oral until whomever i'm with reaches orgasm. my question is this; would a girl prefer a guy who is average but can really 'eat', or a guy who is well above average and only 'eats' about average? ( for those women who don't know, average length for a man is from 6-7" )
In my opinion, you sound like the perfect size. Think of this...there are large penis' and small ones and everything in between. The same goes for vaginas. There are tight ones, loose ones and in between. It all depends on the size of the vagina...if u think about it. If a girl is loose, of course she would like a larger penis. If a girl is tight, then she would get pleasure from a small penis. Technique is definitely key in pleasuring your partner. And, since you are exceptionally well at oral, you are like a dream guy for many girls. :)
I have ben hurt many times by guys. Too many times! I always seem to fall for the wrong type, and I really mean the WRONG type! They all seem great at first but then the truth comes out. My ex-boyfriends have either been phycos, nymphos, mythomaniacs, cheaters or just plain assholes!! I have lost count on how many night I have fallen asleep crying! I thought I had given up on boyfriends and then my present boyfriend came along and seems really nice and all. Sure, he cheated on me once in the begining of out relationship but that's normal for me now, I guess that's just a thing that guys do so I have him a second chance.
So now we are together and I can't seem to be happy when I'm with him!! I'm just waiting for when he is going to hurt me and how he's going to do it!
When ever I try to picture our relationship in the furutre I see me crying over him because he hurt me really bad somehow....
I have seriously no romance in me anymore! My previous boyfriends have crushed that! They have made me into a depressing person. I used to me known as the "really happy and fun girl" but that was a looooong time ago!
I try, I really try to be happy with my present boyfriend, he is nice and all but I can't seem to get there. What is wrong with me?!?!
They have crushed my spitit, my soul and a few times my will to live :'(
please help!!
I agree......if he cheated on you once, he will do it again. You definitely deserve better than this. Forget about all of the past relationships....take time to yourself. Get rid of him! You seem like a very loyal, sweet person...there is a guy out there that deserves you. Not this guy.
ok soo me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and he thinks im to jealuos
-i hate this girl he use to like
-i hate that he whatches porn
-talks to other girls thats are sooo stuck up and snoby and thinks there hot errr!!
-talks about girls but jokingly he says!!
-stares at girls and then when i ask him what are you looking at hes all like umm i just thought i knew her!!
this stufff tottally drives me crazy i hate it do you think im to jealous and what should i do about it and do guys not like it when girls act jealous!!
Ya im the same way. There is no way im going to put up with my man thinking about, staring at, or flirting with another girl in a sexual way. I dont do it to him so i expect the same in return. I think there are all types of people in this world and there is nothing wrong with the way that you are. If we were all the same, it would be boring. You just have to find someone that has the same outlook as you do. It's funny, most guys that are like this hate it when their girlfriend looks at guys, flirts, etc. Good luck! :)
i broke up with my boyfriend of like more than a year and he got really upset. i told him that it wasnt his fault i just didnt think we had the chemistry. so was it wrong to break up with him weither he still loved you so so much? ill rate plz answer ♥
You were definitely right in ending the relationship when you did. I was 15 when i met my ex-husband. I am now 26 and just divorced him last year. I waited all that time because i was young and didnt even realize that what i had with him wasnt love. Be happy knowing that you made the proper decision before it went any further. You are the key to your own happiness. :)
me and my boyfriend fight quite alot, we have been going out for 5 and a half months now. And he always is saying our relationship is crapy. i dont want our relationship to be crappy. Mostly we fight because im a jealous person an dhe has alot of girls that are friends. Any advice on how to not care so much about all these girl friends of his. And any advice on how to stop fighting. And any advice on how to spice up our relationship alittle? Sorry its alot my i apreciate anything =) thanx muchly
First of all, if u are a jealous person, it isnt going to just shut off overnight. It is going to take time. Maybe something happened when you were younger that prevents you from fully trusting or maybe you are self-conscious and you have low self-esteem. I dont know you so it is hard to say. But either way, if you cant find some sort of middle ground...ultimately, eventually your relationship will face its demise. If your bf is the flirty type, and you are the jealous type...this is like mixing oil and water. I would take a step back and take a look at who he is as a person and who you are. Can you see yourself fully trusting him ever? If not, i would move on. There are many types of people in this world and there is nothing wrong with you the way that you are. If he loves you, he will work with you on this. I think he needs to consider how you feel and him saying that your relationship is crappy isnt going to make you trust him any more than you do. If you can, sit him down and explain why you feel the way that you do. Then when all of the serious conversation is over tickle him to death. :)
okay so me & my best girl friend always hang out with this kid cory. well one night we were with cory & we seen his cousin steve. well me & steve hit it off and while me & him were alone we were going to mess around alittle but were interepted so another night me & her go and hang out with them two again & i chickened out to doing anything. steve messes around with a lot of girls. my one friend carlee said to him one night what if me & sarah (well me) come over? and he said that he would be with me because carlee was hot but with me there might actually be something between us. and she asked him if he liked me and he said yeah. but we never went over. so a couple nights ago i went to his house & we messed around. that was on tuesday. I havent talked to him since but he has talked to my best friend & corey & told them about this. well i was talking to corey he told me that steve told him what happened & that "i blew him, now hes going to go out with this other girl" steve is in 10th grade. im in 9th. the other girl is in 9th but they never talk. so i dont know if i should believe corey or what because corey lies alot. so should i believe him or should i still have hope that steve likes me? and what should i say to steve because i am pretty mad that he told people. please helpp.
First of all you need to think about using protection sweetie...if u didnt already use it. Just come right out and ask Steve if he is interested in a relationship. Its much easier to get it out in the open. But, my guess is, if he has been with a lot of girls...maybe he used the line that "there might actually be something between us", as a tactic to use u. This is just how i see it hun.