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ok theres this boy that i like and that i have liked for a long time and we would flirt and all like we would make bets and stuff hes a flirtnot only to me but others and he told me that he likes me as a friend but his friends and everybody around me tells me different and the thing is that he knows i like him and well sometimes he acts like he likes me more than just a friend and heres whats complicated i feel like im getting closer yet further and he knows my brothers and hes friends not good friends but friends he said that hes not scared of my brothers and he proved so on some occasions like at a party so he does act like he likes me but he never really says it or acts on it and i wonder why why act like more than a friend but not act on it and well another problem is that hes black and my parents and brother its a really really big issue like i would forever be disowened by them and the thing is that im usaually not attracted to black guys but its different with him everytime i think im over him he pops back up its like im so CLOSE BUT YET SO FAR ITS LIKE I CAN REACH OUT AND TOUCH HIM BUT YET HES UNTOUCHABLE PLEASE HELP (link)
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well 1st off.. i think your parents need to look at it this way... if he makes you happy and you make him happy.. there shouldn't be a problem with race. they were brought up that way in their generation, but this day and age it's totally different. color doesn't matter.. feelings do! i would believe him.. his friends could be playing a joke or something. go to him and talk to him personally... he is the one with feelings. plus his friends could be just saying stuff without knowing if it's true or not. sometimes guys say stuff to their friends that isn't really true because they want to be "cool" and stuff. bottom line- you should talk to him!
good luck & im here to talk if needed!
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I met this one of a kind guy and i love him with all my heart( he treats me like any girl in love should). weve been together for 2 months now and it seems that he may not be interested in me anymore and honestly i cant tell him what it is that bothering me because im afraid hell get mad at me if i do. GRRRR is it just like a phaze? .... am i worrying toooo much? im not sure . im so use to getting my heart broken i dont want this to end its too perfect... (link)
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straight off.. you need to talk to him. dont let things sit.. because right now they are sitting there and building up. they could get really bad, so the best thing is to ask him what's up and if he's ok. just dont blame him, or anything like that (that will make him defensive and mad at you if you do). the best advice i can give you is to talk to him, make sure you bring it up nicely and make sure you know your main points or concerns you want to bring up.
good luck =]
im here if you need to talk!
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I'm a 15 yr old sophmore and i like a 13 yrold 7th grader, is this wrong? I skipped a grade so i dont think its that weird but im afraid my "friends" would if they found out. (link)
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it doesnt matter what they think. if they are really your friends, they will understand. two years isn't a big gap anyways =] my boyfriend and i are almost 3 years apart. age shouldn't really matter (unless its like a huge differnece)... the feeling you get with that person is what really matters!
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What makes the perfect kiss? (link)
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how you feel when you are kissing or being kissed. how the person treats you. the setting where the kiss takes place. and mostly... how you feel when you are with that special person =]
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Well I dumped my four month boyfriend
today and I'm fine. But the thing is I
did it through a text message because
he texted me telling me he loved me
and I didn't want to lie to him.
The problem was we never saw each
other so I wouldnt be able to do it
in person, he's ALWAYS busy.
Now I feel guilty because I know doing
it through a text is bad, should I call
him or something or just forget about it? (link)
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i would probably call him back & tell him why you guys need to break up. that is letting him know and see that you are the bigger person... that you have control and can handle the situation without playing games that little kids play (aka not telling the person to their face or on the phone). it's more personal to talk on the phone or in person. you also get to see & hear their reaction towards what you are saying. don't feel guilty, but you should call him and talk about it.
good luck! im here to help if needed!
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Okay, this is what is up. I was in a relationship with a 46 year old man...I am 20. Is that weird? I can not get him out of my head. We were dating, according to him, this summer, but broke up around September. He occassionally calls and asks if he can see me, etc. and I would really like to, but I don't know...How do I get this man I love out of my head, because right now a relationship is not possible?
Thanks for your answers in advance.
Jenn (link)
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if you think about it... alot of people who marry have a huge gap between their ages. my aunt and uncle are 20 years apart... shes 24 and hes 44. i dont think that really matters... yes it is kind of weird to you or atleast it seems to be. but i think that if there's a connection and feeling with that person, it doesn't matter and shouldn't. hope it helped!
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Ok so the deal is that i had this boyfriend that i truly loved and we broke up,and he is a liar and its really not worth going back with him.The point is that i still love him.I have another guy who is really nice and wants to get to know me,even though it has been 5 months since my ex and i broke up i still have feelings for him and im afraid that jumping in another relationship is bad.I feel that i might end up hurting this new guy or maybe im just afraid of getting hurt again but im also afraid of letting a good guy go...Should i take the risk and give this new guy a chance because he is really nice and does make me feel something,or should i just be single for a while more until i dont have any more feelings for my ex? (link)
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well, i'd say move on with that old ex. you just said how rude and mean he was too you.. by lieing. you also said it wasn't worth getting back with him. he may lie again to you, worse than before.
the other guy seems nice.. and he wants to get to know you =] i would stay friends with the new guy.. until you are 100% sure you are over your ex. i have been there too.. same situation.. i had a guy that wanted to go out with me, and i went out with him (to try and get over my ex.. rebound i guess). i pretty much thought that i was doing good with him, he really liked me alot. then i started feeling guilty for being with him, when i had my ex on my mind constantly. i ended it right away because i wasn't ready for the relationship. i thought i was but i was wrong.
my advice is to keep that new guy.. as a friend for now. he seems nice, but i wouldn't go out with him until you are ready and over your ex because you will hurt him and yourself. if he is a good guy he will understand why you don't want to be in a relationship and will wait for you until you are ready =]
good luck! im here if ya need to talk!!
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Well, my boyfriend was over the other night and he had his finger like almost up my......yeah. And he was like rubbing it and feeling it and stuff, but it felt realllyy good. I wanna know if it still counts to be fingered if you still have your pants on and stuff? Cause i did the same thing to him(he had his pants on too) thanks! (link)
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yeah it counts. he is entering it isnt he?
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well i was starting to like guy cause we were talking all the time and then he asked me for a picture of my.. yeah and i said no thne he got all crazy on me and started calling me prude and telling me he would never want to be with someone like me. im like okay i dont rly care anymore what you think then yesterday when i woke up i had a text msg on my phone and was like ilove you and always will. i know hes trying to get action. what do i do. (link)
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he doesn't love you... he just wants sex. alot of guys use those kinda things like 'ooh baby i love you.. and if you really loved me.. you would do this for me'. that is sooo wrong. you did the right thing by not sending him that picture. don't get together with him. he sounds like a jerk that just wants 'some'. you are so much better off without him =]
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I love him
He hates me now..
We used to talk alllll the time
now he doesnt
and i cant talk to him
I would do anything to talk to him again
He hates me and my friend
and he stares at us... its weird
I think its becuase we had a bit of a sexual past
i can not get over him, as many times as ive tried.
I need some sort of help
thnx!
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i am sorry that you are going through this. i know that it is hard on you. i would have to know what went on with you two before telling you what is going on here. but as far as i can tell, you love him.. there are hard feelings from him.. and he doesnt love you... maybe because you messed up in the past? i dont know... he might be mad and holding a grudge from things in the past. he needs to get over them, but you have to realize that it is really hard to do that. it takes a lot of time.
i myself know that it takes a LOOONNG time to get over someone... it took me like a year to get completely over my ex. even if i dated other guys, i always went back to him. he was my first love... i dont know if your guy is your first love.. but those are the hardest i think.
maybe he doesnt like your friend and feels uncomfortable around him or her. bottom line.. you need to give him time (as much as it might hurt you).. he needs it. and you need it too... to get over him. then when you two are sure you're good.. i would say talk and make sure there are no hard feelings and stuff.
good luck and im here to talk if you need more info or just someone to talk to!! =]
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Everytime my boyfriend comes over we just watch movies and makeout. Its getting kind of old, is there anything else we can do? (Not anything sexual I mean) Were both 15 so we can't drive yet either. Thanks. (link)
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hmm, you need to spice it up! maybe go out.. go put put golfing, see a movie, go rock climbing, have dinner, do something fun. and i'd say take a break from the makeout thing... and get to know him.. like have a good conversation.. it will help & it will let you get to know him better & you will enjoy being with him. the conversations & getting to know each other better will spark your interest in each other =]
good luck!! im here to talk!
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Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]] (link)
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hmmm, welll if he's openly telling you that you are making him hard, i think he might be hinting something. it's a good thing if you want to be physical, but a bad thing if you dont want to be. he's pretty much putting himself out there & saying "im horny & ur turning me on" in hopes that you will 1) feel the same or 2) do something about his hornyness (aka please him). but dont do anything unless you are 100% comfortable! good luck & im here to talk if u need to!
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I'm 16 years old, and my boyfriend is significantly older then I am. Let's just say he's old enough to go to bars & drink legally and what not.
He doesn't party a lot, but he smokes weed and it annoys the hell out me. When he goes partying with his friends, he'll always call me & I'll just start FREAKING out on him.
Like when he drinks alcohol it makes me soo mad when he calls because, well I don't know why. Then we'll get into an argument and I'll insult him. I don't know what's wrong with me.
I think it's just jealousy. But, how would I overcome this? (link)
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my ex would do the same... always calling me when he's out partying and when he's drunk. it made me sooo mad, then i'd get sad though because i wasnt there to be with him (like to take care of him)! it's not right to do that... it's like he's teasing you kinda if that makes since. he's telling you he's partying and telling you that you cant come. i would talk to him about it... tell him it upsets you when he calls you like that & when he is out & calls you. that is the best thing... to talk it out. otherwise, it could build up until one of you cant take it anymore. i dont think its jealousy... i think you care for him that much... that you dont want to know when he's doing that stuff because it hurts you. ur best bet is to talk to him. =]
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Okay I like this guy and I think he might like me. Does anyone know what boys give as signs that they like you? (link)
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- he always smiles
- he opens doors for you
- he brins you flowers
- he calls you
- he hangouts out with you
- he acts kinda 'goofy' around you
- he might act shy around you
- he flirts with you
- he picks on you (but laughs when he does it & doesnt really mean wat he says)
- he sits by you at sk0ol
- he writes you notes alot
- he can talk about anything to you
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Hi ok im 14 and well ive never been kissed.. i mean i could have been kissed a couple of times but i kinda said i didnt want to but i wanted to so bad its just i dont know how!! i mean what if u bite the other persons tongue or what if they bite you!? and then what if the other person has braces and u get scratched or sumthing else??? like idk i just keep on getting this ideas in my head and get paranoid!! i dont think ill ever kiss anyone unless its just like a peck.. please HELP!!!!!!!
p.s can u give me tips and how to french kiss??
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hey gurlie, its really simple to kiss someone. all you do is like open ur mouth and both of your tongues "dance" around each other. the whole braces thingy is a myth. i had braces and made out with someone. just relax..it will all seem normal and really easy once u get used to it. oh yeah, and alot of guys like to have their lips bitten and their ears sucked on. if u need more advice just ask me, im here 4 ya! xox0 ~maNda
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awhile ago me and my now exboyfriend got in a really big fight. ends up that, that night he took my "best friend" to a hotel with 3 other guys and just her. they ended up having sex. both of them deny it whenever i ask, but i know for a fact it happened. its been over and done with but i still have so much hate for my friend, and for the guy too. i dont know what to do.. or who i should be more mad at. i know i should let it go bc it happened a while ago.. but i cant help thinking about how much they both screwed me over. (link)
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Well, that happened to me once.....my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend. It seems to me that he just wants to screw around. If that's so, he's really not worth your time. Honestly, you need to just try to let it go. It may take some time, but you can do it! You'll find another guy that is alot better for you and that won't screw you over. Hope that helps ur situation!!
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