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I cant stop
I love him
He hates me now..
We used to talk alllll the time
now he doesnt
and i cant talk to him
I would do anything to talk to him again
He hates me and my friend
and he stares at us... its weird
I think its becuase we had a bit of a sexual past
i can not get over him, as many times as ive tried.
I need some sort of help
thnx!
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I'm sorry you are in so much pain. It might take a while for him to forgive you, but it sounds like you have forgiven him for whatever it was. If you can, just let him know how you feel (in private, don't want everyone to have something else to talk about) and it might turn out, and it might not. When someone has had sex with someone else, it's very hard to let go. Just know that there are lots of people out there who care about what you are going through and how you feel. Talk to a trusted adult or a close friend about your feelings. I hope you can feel better soon.
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i am sorry that you are going through this. i know that it is hard on you. i would have to know what went on with you two before telling you what is going on here. but as far as i can tell, you love him.. there are hard feelings from him.. and he doesnt love you... maybe because you messed up in the past? i dont know... he might be mad and holding a grudge from things in the past. he needs to get over them, but you have to realize that it is really hard to do that. it takes a lot of time.
i myself know that it takes a LOOONNG time to get over someone... it took me like a year to get completely over my ex. even if i dated other guys, i always went back to him. he was my first love... i dont know if your guy is your first love.. but those are the hardest i think.
maybe he doesnt like your friend and feels uncomfortable around him or her. bottom line.. you need to give him time (as much as it might hurt you).. he needs it. and you need it too... to get over him. then when you two are sure you're good.. i would say talk and make sure there are no hard feelings and stuff.
good luck and im here to talk if you need more info or just someone to talk to!! =]
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It depends on WHY this guy hates you.
Is it because you cheated on him? Or dumped him? If it was something similar to those two, then he has every right to be mad at you. This guy probably liked you a lot, but you threw him away or left for another guy. All I could tell you is to say sorry.
Tell him how much your life has changed ever since he slipped out of it. Explain to this guy that you miss him so much. You're hurting. Be dramatic with it, but don't get carried away!
If it was a small, dumb reason that he hates you, like you accidentally ruined his favorite jeans or something, tell this guy that you're really sorry but you don't think it's worth all this crap. Tell this guy that you'd like to hang out again. Tell him you don't have to go out again, but let's at least be friends. You can work your way up to being his girl again from there.
Hope I helped
-Jenny C
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