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Last night my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. I have had other boyfriends before and the breaking up wasnt so bad. But I wasnt ready for this one. I cried for like 3 hours straight on the phone with my best friend. I finally got to sleep around 2 oclock. I am having such a hard time...I dont know what to do . I really loved him and obviously its too late to get him back now.. so please dont suggest that. What can I do to feel better. It's so horrible.. nothing this bad has ever happened to me. I'm a happy-go-lucky kind of person what will people think when I'm moping around school on monday ???
I cant eat, i cant sleep and later today I have to sit through a broadway play with my mother. I'm going to die...HE was so wonderfull..
OMG HELP!

The play will be good for you. It will help you get your mind off of him. Try doing things that don't remind you of him. spend time with your other friends. Pick up a new hobby.

Hope it all works out

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okay so ive had this boyfriend for 3 1/2 months and i love him to death. he can make me smile like no other & we have the best times together. well we got in this fight tuesday night & he didnt speak to me all day wedenseday. finally i call him DURING my tennis match & am like "you ethier stil want to be with me or not" & hes like "i dont know right now." & im like "make up your mind & if you dont have an answer when i hang up im gonna assume were over and go on with it." & he said "go ahead." so i did. anyways he messaged me on myspace the other night saying he still loves me like he did & cares for me he is just stil so mad at me and cant be with someone who wont listen to him or ignores him & hes having it rough at home right now & its not a good time. okay i didnt listen once & once again i was at my tennis match & couldnt exactly be the best listener right then. anywayss i texted him saturday asking if he wanted to do somethin before i leave for spring break & hes like "sorry i already got plans to go to a party with randi." so randi is suppose to be "just a friend" yet he rather hang wit her then me. & i was really upset so he texted me asking if i wa s okay. & i said "i will be." & he said whats wrong and i put "dont worry about it. it dont matter anymore. i realized im wasting my time." he replied "you know im not expecting you just to sit at home and wait on me you have a life live it." that made me so mad. like i want to be with him so bad & i thought he still wanted to be with me but then now i dont know. what do i do?? like everyone tells me i can do so much better. even though he says "he can get any girl and im lucky he chose me." wth?! 1st off not many ppl want a guy wwith a mohawk! but thats off subject. should i hold on & wait for him or let him go?

sorry so long, thanks for reading.

If you really truly love him you will wait. He sounds like hes trying to make you jealous. Hes being immature about it. Maybe he can't handle a girlfriend. hope it all works out.

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I would really like a date for the Homecoming dance at my high school in october. I know of a guy i would like to go with, but today I found out he likes another girl. So, how can I flirt with him to get him to notice me? I only see him one or two times a day. Also, he is notorious for being the nice guy and asking the girl who needs a date rather than who he really wants to go with. So I would like to somehow make sure that he actually asks me on his own accord, rather than simply because he feels sorry for me. Any suggestions? Thanks so much! :)

Give him your number tell him theres this group thing an invite him out. get to know him then if he doesnt ask you ask

hope it helps

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Okay so like a i've only beens friends with this guy Alan for like about two months. Last week he asked me if i wanted to go to the movies that friday (two days ago) with him. Well i have social anxiety disorder and i take anti depressants/anxiety pills prescribed by my psychiatrist. and when he asked me if i wanted to; i began sweating 5000000 mi per hour. i havent gone to a lotta places this summer and since its almost over; i decided to go. i also brought two of my friends to see if it'd help. ohkay well skipping to the main part of my story; he told me he expected better. he doesnt understand that i hurt myself (cut) after every event or hangout and hoping my anxiety would stop. and i never got to bring myself to killing myself. i do want to but i dont. im just confused. what he said hurt me so much. i dont really have a specific question but.. what do i do now?

Well hes prob. concerned about you. Cutting is very dangerous. If you hit your artery you WILL die in 3 min. I might even be a little scared because its a big issue. I think you need to tell someone because this is very dangerous and about Alan just give him time

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allright well here we goo..
what are some cute/flirty things you can do to get a guys attention that you havent met before? i always see these cute guys..but then i never have the confidence to go up and talk to them because they will be like um hi i dont know you..and thats kinda weird? soo if i could get their attention..some say im pretty but i dont see it so i dont think i could get it by the looks i dont know! and if i am with a guy like i said before what are some cute/sexy things i could do that he would like? thanks..
i will rate 5

Smile guys love a pretty smile. a small wave. WHen they look your way smile and flip your hair

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well im going out with this guy and i really do like him. Well my friends want us to kiss like really bad...dont ask me why but their just weird like that. Well anyways...we've been going out not that long though....only 2 weeks and 2 days to be exact. But we've been friends for a long time. Well i was just wandering if its too early and how to kno if it is and if he wants to yet. Cuz i kno i do..but i dont kno how to see if he does any help?
sincelry,
confused

well if hes a normal teenage boy then iam sure he wants to kiss youtoo. He prob doesnt no how you feel about it and doesnt want to make you feel uncomfortable. When you guys are together talk about it ask how he feels.

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ok I like this guy at school lets call him mark I really like him alot hes more of one of the preps and im not exactly a prep but im not a total geek im just not a crowd person i have friends and everything im normal but he kinda gives signels to me in this one class i have like talking to me alot and also like makes me laugh and smiles at me are they signals or his he nbeing friendly i flirt but i dont know if he is but the last day of school is aproching but i dont know if I have a chance!!! help

Just be bold ask him hat he thinks of you or just ask him to hang out.
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My BF still speaks to his ex-gf. She lives in a different state but they chat on MSN. They were together over a year. I guess I'm a pretty jealous person, but I actually don't believe in being friends with your exes. I'm not friends with any of mine (I don't hate them though) It's causing me a lot of worry and upset because they've broken up and got back together several times and I'm afraid its going to happen again. would it be unreasonable for me to ask him to stop speaking to her? when i asked him how he felt about her, he said they won't get back together because she no longers likes guys... but I dunno. Doesn't sound very convicing to me. What should I do?

thanks

Well for one thing if shes a lesbian now i dont think she has an interest in him like that. I think that you should trust him on this and maybe tell him that it bothers you that him and her talk so much..................

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